Kairav is losing his mind & no one give a damn about him?!

That child has survived living in depressing isolation, open heart surgery, discovering a secret family, parents' divorce, constantly being tossed around like a football.

In the past one year itself he has survived a semester abroad without parents, being forced to accept Krishna, being neglected by parents, mother alleging him of attempt to murder, resultant panic attacks, being kidnapped by therapist, surviving a near death experience, watching his mother fall to her death.

Instead of processing the loss, he became responsible for his father's shaky mental health, took care of his baby sister, was manipulated by grandfather to go to hostel, & bumped into his mother's doppelganger, & had a life threatening emotional breakdown. After all of that, he has been projecting all of his motherly attachment onto his dead mother's doppelganger for months now. AND EVERYONE IS NOT ONLY OKAY WITH IT, THEY ARE ENABLING IT!

Let alone the family helping him process Naira's loss, they swing between burdening him & ignoring his mental health. This child is probably one day away from a full blown nervous breakdown but it's okay because he looks normal on the outside.

What are they burdening? Kartik nd the whole family literally does everything he wants! Fulfills every wish of his, Even he calls up sirat nd talks to her! He is quite ok now. I watched today's episode nd he was the most happiest! Kids do not think so much, they just move on, nd the biggest thing plus point kairav has that he has this big family, siblings, cousins always there to support him ! He has suffered a lot, but now he is ok and normal as well, he shown happy without any problem. Today's episode was good after a long long time.

Originally posted by: Genniee

What are they burdening?

Dude, go watch the episodes before Sirat's entry. Fulfilling his superficial wishes for a few months doesn't make up for the trauma that Naira, Kartik, & even Manish (with the hostel track) put him through.

Also a quick reminder that Kairav was totally fine & ready to move on from Sirat once he realised that she truly isn't his mother (on a secret mission like his dad was for the first 5 years of his life). It was Kartik's obsession with Sirat that he moved her into GV & fuelled Kairav's attachment further.

If it was that easy for kids to move on, it would have been the same with Kartik too.

Hostel track was manish manipulating him, kartik nvr wanted tht, kartik stayed there for a day outside hostel, so that kairav would realise nd take him back, kairav insisted!! Also I'm talking abt the current situation not the prev! after sirat getting married to ranveer he is becoming normal, also I didn't say that he will be okay in just few days, he is getting better. Nd he is happy these days, what wrong do u see in him now??? Also as I said its easy for kids to move on because they dont think as much as adults do, there mind is very free nd they do get over things, also he will take time to be completely fine if everything goes well just like now. He is in a normal state.

Nd no one can make up for the losses he has suffered, it remains there for lifetime. I know kairav has suffered a lot, but also its fiction not real life, chill take it easy.

Nd why will kartik obsess? If it was the case he wouldn't hv got her married to ranveer that too even thinking once!! He just told the truth to her nd got them married nd when she told him to stay away he is doing that also, it was ranveer who bought her to the Gv today. Nd u see kartik now, he is becoming normal if u see today's episode, u can see how casual he was. Nd he is still remembering naira. What more do u want? Even sirat is controlling herself these days, its good that she is trying to be away from kartik nd taking care of ranveer.

Imo ppl need to watch full episodes to fully analyse the characters rather than judging on a few clips here and there.

There’s no reason to bash Kartik yet ppl keep finding faults in him. He’s very sorted with where he stands in regards to Sirat and his feelings for Naira. Sirat is a mere friend, and he’s made it obvious more than once now.
Kairav, on the other hand, is the worst child in itv. He lost his mother but he has a father who’s willing to do everything for him yet he continues going after Sirat. He’s completely over his mother, so ridiculous.

Your Kartik obsession & picking fights on every post that doesn't worship him is weird AF. No one reading that whole rant, at least not me. Chill out LOL 🤪

LOL and IMO you need to rewatch episodes. Kartik has this clarity merely in words, not actions. Putting Sirat in GV right after Kairav was ready to move on from her. Agreeing to marry her for Kairav's sake instead of taking the kid to a therapist to cure his confused, unhealthy projections on a doppelganger. Starting to use the same initial-romance tricks on Sirat as he did on Naira. Admiring her beauty. Getting her ready on her wedding day. Physically putting jewelry on her, when he himself was all sorts of possessive for Naira being in physical proximity with other men.

Kartik is at his core a sweet character, miles better than Naira ever was. But his affections towards Sirat is the one track ruining him for good after the Mihir one. Kartik has always obsessed over one character at a time & ignored all others to do that. First it was his mother, then Naira, then Swarna, back to Naira, Manish, his kids, and eventually landed on Sirat. Kartik-Kairav bonding only got back on our screens once Sirat was married off. Else, Kartik had no care for Kairav's homework or crushes in front on Sirat's coaching and tournaments.

Might be hard for his fans to accept. But as an objective viewer without a crush on Kartik/Mohsin, it's apparent.

He has no affection towards sirat more than a friend, if u really watch the episodes carefully u will know even his actions are just very normal nd casual. He just left sirat on her own when broke her friendship with him, he didnt try to find out what happened. Also he nvr ever admired her beauty, watch Mohsin's interview he said clearly that when kartik sees sirat in the wedding attire he gets glimpses of naira but backs off as he realises. Even during gangaur while he was getting dressed up he remembered naira nd said hayee nd then when he saw sirat he didnt hv the same expressions!! Yes jewelaary thing was overdone, they romanticized their friendship which I hated! But doesnt mean he has feelings for her.

If see closely u will see he doesn't look at sirat lovingly they we he looked at naira, there is a stark difference! Very clearly shown!!! He hasn't admired her or used tricks tht he did on naira, u need to rewatch. The he says hayee nd nd looks at naira, he hasnt done tht for sirat. Also the jewellery putting was physical, but tht was robotic as well,he didn't even look at sirat while doing tht.

Yes, the wedding thing was overboard, but he cleared his stance later!! Also abt the wedding if he took him to a counselor then the story ends there!! Shows ends there!!!

Yes kartik has done many mistakes nd wrong things but right now his character is most sorted and consistent. Even ranveer said bohot sorted hai, dosti nibha rha hai!

Also they didnt show him taking care of kaira, akshu during her wedding or tournaments doesnt mean he didnt care abt him! Its not real life, its fiction treat it as fiction, they will not show everything, also kartik kairav nd family was altogether during her wedding, he was not sitting all alone somewhere. Neutral viewers don't really think or analyse so much, they dont even care.

Nd kairav he himself is obsessed with sirat, kartik whenever he talks with kairav abt his homework, project he brings sirat all over! He doesn't even remember his mother nd doesnt care abt the father who is alive, kartik does everything for him, understands him,supports him, but that kid doesn't care. U can see how not fans but other ppl who are not even fans complain abt the fact that kairav is obsessed with sirat doesnt remember his parents, they criticized the makers that this is not that way u portray a child, who gives more importance to an outsider.

Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

That child has survived living in depressing isolation, open heart surgery, discovering a secret family, parents' divorce, constantly being tossed around like a football.

In the past one year itself he has survived a semester abroad without parents, being forced to accept Krishna, being neglected by parents, mother alleging him of attempt to murder, resultant panic attacks, being kidnapped by therapist, surviving a near death experience, watching his mother fall to her death.

Instead of processing the loss, he became responsible for his father's shaky mental health, took care of his baby sister, was manipulated by grandfather to go to hostel, & bumped into his mother's doppelganger, & had a life threatening emotional breakdown. After all of that, he has been projecting all of his motherly attachment onto his dead mother's doppelganger for months now. AND EVERYONE IS NOT ONLY OKAY WITH IT, THEY ARE ENABLING IT!

Let alone the family helping him process Naira's loss, they swing between burdening him & ignoring his mental health. This child is probably one day away from a full blown nervous breakdown but it's okay because he looks normal on the outside.

@bold.... This is general problem of mass household.... That when a child suffer so much, instead of helping him, understanding him,talking him about his problem, people start blaming him, giving him nickname despite knowing the background suffering of that child.... While in reality parents should be blamed, especially when symptoms are so obvious....

Here.... Kartik naira both are at fault.... First naira messed him up for 5-6 yrs... Now kartik.... They clearly know why is he so attached with sirat, it's because of her face, so much so that he doesn't even listen to his father these days when it comes to sirat....and it's very obvious to the kartik as well as to the family... But instead of noticing and recognising this problem into him , kartik is busy in solving problems of sirat.... And people on SM are giving names to kairav, cursing him ,....while the only person who is to blame is kartik in this case and earlier naira...