PS|EDT 48|Dhoom Machale,Ration Thoosti Hui Kagdi & Chips for Selfence - Page 35

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

She just hit him

He is upset

Hey folks, seeing the discussion on apologies, I am pretty curious. Do people within your family and maybe close relatives actually apologize a lot? I am just curious because I have grown up in a family where no one apologizes and the whole “elders don’t really apologize” was the norm. Even if there were fights between members, we just move on and it is kind of swept under the rug. Somehow, the lack of apology in PS does not seem as mind boggling to me, because I have grown up seeing this not only in my family but even in families around me( as I’m friends, neighbors)

Even with my husband, the sorry does not come naturally- I have to tell him “say sorry” when I am really hurt. In most cases, like Shiva Raavi, there is an understanding that the other party has realized their mistake and we just move forward from there.

Just saying that what they are showing might not be ideal, but is not really outside the realm of possibility. In fact, it might be more common and normalized than you think. 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: nafees5

I can imagine what that feels like.. Usually I am also not a sweet tooth but when I'm PmSing or on my periods the craving go sky high🤣

Zyada tar it's teekha teekha but kabhi meetha meetha b😆

Its so fantastic to be a women sometimes, not 🤣

Hihi last week I needed teekha food, I was adding more and more mirchi, crying because it was too spicy but also because it was so tasty.

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

This reminded of kinshuk's live today where he said that if someone is angry or upset they start playing ykb and hug each other to manaofy🤣🤣🤣🤣.

Ab to real life Mai bhi asar dikhne laga hai.😆

When he said that I was wondering if they tried it on KD and Pallavi(Maami) 🤣

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

Let me know which all abbreviations you guys want to see on Page 1, and I'll add them!

I’ll tag you as and when I remember- can’t think of anything right now 😃

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Hey folks, seeing the discussion on apologies, I am pretty curious. Do people within your family and maybe close relatives actually apologize a lot? I am just curious because I have grown up in a family where no one apologizes and the whole “elders don’t really apologize” was the norm. Even if there were fights between members, we just move on and it is kind of swept under the rug. Somehow, the lack of apology in PS does not seem as mind boggling to me, because I have grown up seeing this not only in my family but even in families around me( as I’m friends, neighbors)

Even with my husband, the sorry does not come naturally- I have to tell him “say sorry” when I am really hurt. In most cases, like Shiva Raavi, there is an understanding that the other party has realized their mistake and we just move forward from there.

Just saying that what they are showing might not be ideal, but is not really outside the realm of possibility. In fact, it might be more common and normalized than you think. 🤷‍♀️

Yeah I get it. In my family I don’t see that. My mom never apologize, now matter how wrong she is. But she also comes from a family where it wasn’t normal to apologize. When I have fight with my sister, sometime we apologize to each other and other times we don’t. We made a mistake, try to learn from it and we move on.

So it doesn’t bother me that much that Shiva didn’t apologize, he tried. But realizing that he made a mistake and try to change means more to me.

Hey guys just a small request, let’s try to refrain from going into this PS vs MHRW comparison. It might be a lovely show and the characters might be great, but there is an entire separate forum for it.

I think we did a good enough job of keeping things real here- we bash any character that does stupid things even if we love them.

This post is not meant to target anyone or hurt anyone’s feelings 🙈 It’s just that in the middle of meaningful discussions, my entire happy mood and energy goes down when reading some of the tangential discussions.

Also, I am not in any way saying that we should not share our views- in fact more varying views the better. I have renewed love for different characters based on the discussions here. ❤️

Originally posted by: SandhiaM

Yeah I get it. In my family I don’t see that. My mom never apologize, now matter how wrong she is. But she also comes from a family where it wasn’t normal to apologize. When I have fight with my sister, sometime we apologize to each other and other times we don’t. We made a mistake, try to learn from it and we move on.

So it doesn’t bother me that much that Shiva didn’t apologize, he tried. But realizing that he made a mistake and try to change means more to me.

Definitely and I am seeing him change- there is not much of a bite to his scoldings. His manhandling has reduced. And I think we should be patient to see how he stands by her in future troubles.

If he just says Sorry for the heck of it, but continues doing the same nonsense (*cough*like Dev*cough*) then it makes sense to be mad at him. Even then it is still a work in progress. It takes years for people to change their ingrained behaviors 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Hey folks, seeing the discussion on apologies, I am pretty curious. Do people within your family and maybe close relatives actually apologize a lot? I am just curious because I have grown up in a family where no one apologizes and the whole “elders don’t really apologize” was the norm. Even if there were fights between members, we just move on and it is kind of swept under the rug. Somehow, the lack of apology in PS does not seem as mind boggling to me, because I have grown up seeing this not only in my family but even in families around me( as I’m friends, neighbors)

Even with my husband, the sorry does not come naturally- I have to tell him “say sorry” when I am really hurt. In most cases, like Shiva Raavi, there is an understanding that the other party has realized their mistake and we just move forward from there.

Just saying that what they are showing might not be ideal, but is not really outside the realm of possibility. In fact, it might be more common and normalized than you think. 🤷‍♀️

This is a very good point! I think the concept of apologizing is becoming more and more common among the GenX. In many families that I have seen, people do not apologize for a lot of mistakes they make, until an apology is explicitly asked for. This may not be the ideal situation, but it is certainly more common than we think it is, or than we want it to be. PS is showing the reality. Sweeping the mistakes of elders under the rug and giving them leeway due to their age is sadly another common thing. It doesn't mean it is right, but it is common and widespread.

For me, more than the actual words of apology, understanding and acknowledging that a mistake has been made, and making efforts to correct it and not do it again is more important. That is what matters to me. Which is why, though I didn't like the fact that Shiva did not specifically apologize, I can understand him. I am satisfied that he realized his mistake, acknowledged it, and will not repeat it again.

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Hey guys just a small request, let’s try to refrain from going into this PS vs MHRW comparison. It might be a lovely show and the characters might be great, but there is an entire separate forum for it.

I think we did a good enough job of keeping things real here- we bash any character that does stupid things even if we love them.

This post is not meant to target anyone or hurt anyone’s feelings 🙈 It’s just that in the middle of meaningful discussions, my entire happy mood and energy goes down when reading some of the tangential discussions.

Also, I am not in any way saying that we should not share our views- in fact more varying views the better. I have renewed love for different characters based on the discussions here. ❤️

I completely agree. This is against the rules of the EDT anyway. Passing references to other shows and characters in the context of PS are fine. But we should not get into deep discussions or make comparisons between the characters there and here for this thread. There is the Chat Club thread for that