Originally posted by: butterturnips
Anokhi - PS meri saansein toh chalegi aapke bina par main jee nahi paungi, main jeena bhul jaungi ❤️
I don't think we ever got such a powerful love confession from Shaurya! She loves him a lot and at the same time, wishes to be career oriented... I see it a normal thing! Dekho, it's easy to judge somebody but had you been at Anokhi's place I'm sure you wouldn't want to compromise on anything. Shaurya is already established, even if he quits his job he'll be earning his royalties throughout his life. But Anokhi comes from a very different background, and we are forgetting her fears! Your career should be the first step to your survival, no matter how much your husband loves you and is ready to do anything for you... You still wouldn't want to live on his money! Anokhi inspires girls like us, why should a woman compromise on her career?
I remember watching a beautiful Pakistani drama titled "Sabaat" where the wife was better in academics or I think equal to her husband, her husband coming from one of the richest family of Pak, couldn't get a job... While the wife gets it, and she got a promotion... She also paid for her husband and the husband liked it. I think we should start normalising this!
And there's also Zindagi Gulzar Hai... Remember Kashaf Murtaza? We never hated her for being more headstrong and career oriented than Anokhi, then why are we doing this with Anokhi?
Harshu, I would like to disagree. I, myself, am very career-oriented and don't usually compromise anything on the way to carry out newer challenges. But I am aware of the fact that I am missing out tiny family moments, lovely time with my fiance. I acknowledge the things they are missing out because of my undaunted nature and also try to compensate for those in other times. They deserve the love and attention they shower.
Like I said, after securing A+, she could've left the exam. These are the moments when one should go half-way through for the other partner. Of course, becoming financially independent is important. Husband's money is never one's own. Getting higher academic, professional positions or salaries than the husband is very normal in my eyes, though society thinks the opposite. However, I didn’t question these facts, if Shaurya was in her place, he would've left that answer, I can vouch for that by his character sketch. He knows how to balance, that's why didn’t argue with BP on muhraat issue, rather opted for shifting the venue. Our Anokhi won't have done that, she would rather incite a war to do the shaadi there exceeding the muhraat making all unhappy. She has lacking in a sense of choosing alternatives. She was so invading and nosy. She didn’t always show proper respect while talking with Shaurya earlier, did not bother about proper decorum of professionalism when he was just her professor and the director. She should learn to handle the situations wisely, definitely with boldness but also with proper mannerism.
Prioritizing family and career should be the motto for both men and women, weighing one down even a bit makes the other one taken for granted. People often fail to do such proper balancing for sure, but at least they need to have the intention so that nobody suffers in the long run.
Edited by pratikshaa100 - 4 years ago