Originally posted by: AnjuRish
No one knows better than me ..I have been thru a dark phase due to this ...it was tough uphill battle
Glad you emerged as a winner.đ¤
Proud of you, wish you all the happiness
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Originally posted by: AnjuRish
No one knows better than me ..I have been thru a dark phase due to this ...it was tough uphill battle
Glad you emerged as a winner.đ¤
Proud of you, wish you all the happiness
Whatever leverage I gave to virat for my own sanity , as I didn't wanna quit so early , it ended after the pakhi-sai- mohit-virat scene. Sai was being character assassinated by pakhi and virat just stood there. Promises ki toh baat hi chodo. He is no less than chavans. Only the degree is different. Even today he is supporting his family and blaming sai for not mingling up. Is he serious? Or he is just so dense ? He can see sai disrespecting his family but not the other way round. He is a lost case for me.
N all this is irrelevant really bec sai chose to be with him and play husband wife with him , without getting a clarity on her status in his life. Even if virat loves her and sai loves him, nothing changes. Sai ko zillat bhari zindagi Jeena hai toh hum kya kare?
Me- On the way to quit very soon đ
When Pakhi questioned Sai Mohit relationship ,Virat was not there.He returned when Sai is about to leave the house packing her bags. You can check if you want. And No one informed him about it later Neither Sai nor Aswini nor Mohit.Whatever leverage I gave to virat for my own sanity , as I didn't wanna quit so early , it ended after the pakhi-sai- mohit-virat scene. Sai was being character assassinated by pakhi and virat just stood there. Promises ki toh baat hi chodo. He is no less than chavans. Only the degree is different. Even today he is supporting his family and blaming sai for not mingling up. Is he serious? Or he is just so dense ? He can see sai disrespecting his family but not the other way round. He is a lost case for me.
N all this is irrelevant really bec sai chose to be with him and play husband wife with him , without getting a clarity on her status in his life. Even if virat loves her and sai loves him, nothing changes. Sai ko zillat bhari zindagi Jeena hai toh hum kya kare?
Me- On the way to quit very soon đ
Originally posted by: ltelidevara
When Pakhi questioned Sai Mohit relationship ,Virat was not there.He returned when Sai is about to leave the house packing her bags. You can check if you want. And No one informed him about it later Neither Sai nor Aswini nor Mohit.
I know..one episode was.pakhi virat sai , and next morning pakhi bad mouthed sai , here virat wasn't present ..but does it really matter ? He is least affected by anything that pakhi or his family does, and keeps blaming sai for being different ..Why didn't ashwini or sai tell him? As if he will become bahubali for sai once he knows. "Pakhi bas. Kaku bas" is all that he is capable of..every single viewer notes ke virat doesn't defend sai and pakhi and cgang get the power to humiliate sai only bec virat doesn't take a stand for her..the lady whose husband doesn't respect her will never get respect from the in laws...
I am pointing out only that part where you said Virat stood there when Pakhi was charecter assassinating Sai. He was not there then.
I know..one episode was.pakhi virat sai , and next morning pakhi bad mouthed sai , here virat wasn't present ..but does it really matter ? He is least affected by anything that pakhi or his family does, and keeps blaming sai for being different ..Why didn't ashwini or sai tell him? As if he will become bahubali for sai once he knows. "Pakhi bas. Kaku bas" is all that he is capable of..every single viewer notes ke virat doesn't defend sai and pakhi and cgang get the power to humiliate sai only bec virat doesn't take a stand for her..the lady whose husband doesn't respect her will never get respect from the in laws...
I know..one episode was.pakhi virat sai , and next morning pakhi bad mouthed sai , here virat wasn't present ..but does it really matter ? He is least affected by anything that pakhi or his family does, and keeps blaming sai for being different ..Why didn't ashwini or sai tell him? As if he will become bahubali for sai once he knows. "Pakhi bas. Kaku bas" is all that he is capable of..every single viewer notes ke virat doesn't defend sai and pakhi and cgang get the power to humiliate sai only bec virat doesn't take a stand for her..the lady whose husband doesn't respect her will never get respect from the in laws...
Bold : r u sure ? Ye cheez sirf husband pe lagoo hoti hai coz Cgang know how much sai respect virat that's why they sometimes get successful into instigating him . Respect is 2 way road not one way give respect take respect .
. Virat definitely not a spokesperson of sai that he will defend her when she will insulting him & raising question on his character no sane person will do that .
Regarding virat giving power to Cgang & pakhi to humiliate sai then why does Cgang & pakhi keep crying virat is zoru ka ghulam , he don't listen us , he only do what sai says , she did kaala jaadu etc crap. Virat sai ko defend karta nhi , pakhi or Cgang rote rehte hai ki virat don't take our side to virat side kiski leta ? & If sai has no support from virat thrn how is sai residing in this house for so long ?
Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul
@bold very true.
We should not forget that this is itv. We can't have high hopes from it when it comes to characterisation. And TBH the cvs don't care about it also. We dont give trp to them. We just come here to crib about it. The trp aunties love such family drama and bahu pratadna. Its a relief that sai is shown as muhfatt not some dukhiyari like gopi bahu. If we keep indulging in this sai vs virat debate then its not going to serve any purpose and we will end up killing the very essence of sairat.
The reason why I lasted in Ghum forum was the unity. We weren't here for Sai or Virat but SaiRat. And even if we were for Sai or Virat, it didn't look that ugly. But lately staying in forum is like a torture. đ
Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion
The reason why I lasted in Ghum forum was the unity. We weren't here for Sai or Virat but SaiRat. And even if we were for Sai or Virat, it didn't look that ugly. But lately staying in forum is like a torture. đ
Bold : True.
Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9
Bold : r u sure ? Ye cheez sirf husband pe lagoo hoti hai coz Cgang know how much sai respect virat that's why they sometimes get successful into instigating him . Respect is 2 way road not one way give respect take respect .
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By this logic , ashwini should also be getting respect from c gang and her husband? Howcome virat loves Sai inspite of her disrespectful nature ?
Not sure of anyone else but if c gang behaves well with ashwini and sai, they will def reciprocate more than what's required. Virat has grown up looking at his parents , how they behave and that's how this concept of respect to the family is ingrained in him , which in itself is toxic. His expectation that Sai will.become ashwini part 2 won't be fulfilled. I was appalled at his definition of respect in the latest episode. He loves her enough to get jealous like that but not take a firm stand against his family to ensure that she is not humiliated on a daily basis ? That's bec he believes Sai is at fault for replying back. Sai is akhad and disrespectful but she is not vile like pakhi and c gang. If they behave well with her and take the first step, she will.walk miles for them. Virat however , will be a husband only in the bedroom. Outside he can be anything as per his mood. Ninads son..pakhis friend...etc etc
I don't know why so much of hue and cry is being made out of Sai being thrown out! Imagine from Virat's perspective - his wife has helped elope the daughter of the family that too a mentally retarded one with god knows who types. Obviously there was bound to be a hungama. What did Sai even think? That she will be welcomed with Aarti taali and all after doing all this khand! Any girl in their right mind wud nt hv returned to that house after doing so much khaand.! I for one wud hv stayed away from.chavans had I done.something like what Sai did!! Its beyond stupidity expect a man not.to.react to a situation like this!! Even in real life there wud hv been drama. But this being itv drama quotient was higher n they made Virat throw Sai out in the middle of the night!
But keep in Mind its itv. In real life no one will behave like Sai or Virat!