Why did Sai give her pendant? - Page 2

Originally posted by: 5431

But they will keep doing tamasha as they realise doing tamasha is breaking her. I get it this is a show, but they should normalise the couple walking out and living independently

I know, I wish all these serials weren't so regressive, even the most progressive ones are very filled with so much regressive propaganda.

I would have personally preferred a 100 episode serial that had a plotline, consistent characterisation and portrayed what it wanted to. Instead we get decent shows ruined for the sake of trp so it can carry on for 20 years with no plot or characterisation.

I don't understand who contributes to trp that happily watches all this headache and nonsense🤦🏽‍♀️

It's 2021 and yet trp crew seem to be living in 2005.

It's weird how the 80's and 90's was far more progressive than what we see on tv now.

Originally posted by: 5431

BK treats her so horribly and yet Sai gave her her gift? This is why she acts like some queen because everyone treats her like that!

Looks like sais going to become those super nice bahus! I can’t stand those shows and might stop watching this too soon

I think, at this point, she's just been broken down completely by the family. There's no-one to support her in that house and she's tired of fighting 24/7.

Honestly, it's sad to watch but she's giving up, it's affecting her health too much and this is a protective measure.

She knows where all this is gonna lead to (another long degrading and abusive episode) and she choose the easier path.

In this instance, it's not about becoming nice, it's a victim and depression matter. When one goes through so much abuse, they generally give up and don't see the point of fighting for themselves on most matters.

It didn't help that Viraat made her situation to be light when she told him about the drama this was going to create. As an officer, even any educated person, he should have gotten warning bells ringing as soon as she asked, what did he buy for the family? She literally said they were gonna create drama over this and he still doesn't understand the severity of the situation.

Viraat's character is the worst written character I've ever seen tbh, they've stripped him of everything including any critical thinking.

i agree! I think atleast three couples should divorce in that family

Originally posted by: Ahlaam5

I think, at this point, she's just been broken down completely by the family. There's no-one to support her in that house and she's tired of fighting 24/7.

Honestly, it's sad to watch but she's giving up, it's affecting her health too much and this is a protective measure.

She knows where all this is gonna lead to (another long degrading and abusive episode) and she choose the easier path.

In this instance, it's not about becoming nice, it's a victim and depression matter. When one goes through so much abuse, they generally give up and don't see the point of fighting for themselves on most matters.

It didn't help that Viraat made her situation to be light when she told him about the drama this was going to create. As an officer, even any educated person, he should have gotten warning bells ringing as soon as she asked, what did he buy for the family? She literally said they were gonna create drama over this and he still doesn't understand the severity of the situation.

Viraat's character is the worst written character I've ever seen tbh, they've stripped him of everything including any critical thinking.

1) She's not materialistic - she was ready to give away her shaadi ka joda and jewelry to Devi Tai. One of the last memories of Aaba, one of the last attributes she has of him. For her the gesture, the emotion matters! Same goes with the pendant, she really appreciated Virat remembering such little details about her, she was flattered that he actually bought it! More than that pendant itself, that mattered for her.

2) She doesn't have an ego (this statement is debatable coz at times she never acknowledged and apologised after hurting Virat) but yesterday she apologised to Pakhi whereas it wasn't even her fault. She has changed, we learn some habits from our close ones and it's something she learnt from Aai and Virat. Compromising at times to maintain the peace. It doesn't make you a weak person, I feel so at least.

3) She's broken from inside, she can't handle it anymore, the mental torture has become too much. She'd rather give it to BK than having to deal again with taunts. I understand her completely.

4) She has started respecting Virat as a husband, she has given him that place, she doesn't realise it herself but she definitely has. It also changes the dynamics with the others. Somewhere she just want to live in peace with her Virat Sir and that means trying to avoid more problems.

I agree with your points. But only compromising and adjusting is what leads to bk and Ninad behaving the way they behave. She’s enabling their behaviour to keep peace. It’s wrong. It’s not her responsibility to keep peace, she’s not the one who brings drama to the house. Like I said before they should live separately, only solution

Originally posted by: KJSairat

1) She's not materialistic - she was ready to give away her shaadi ka joda and jewelry to Devi Tai. One of the last memories of Aaba, one of the last attributes she has of him. For her the gesture, the emotion matters! Same goes with the pendant, she really appreciated Virat remembering such little details about her, she was flattered that he actually bought it! More than that pendant itself, that mattered for her.

2) She doesn't have an ego (this statement is debatable coz at times she never acknowledged and apologised after hurting Virat) but yesterday she apologised to Pakhi whereas it wasn't even her fault. She has changed, we learn some habits from our close ones and it's something she learnt from Aai and Virat. Compromising at times to maintain the peace. It doesn't make you a weak person, I feel so at least.

3) She's broken from inside, she can't handle it anymore, the mental torture has become too much. She'd rather give it to BK than having to deal again with taunts. I understand her completely.

4) She has started respecting Virat as a husband, she has given him that place, she doesn't realise it herself but she definitely has. It also changes the dynamics with the others. Somewhere she just want to live in peace with her Virat Sir and that means trying to avoid more problems.

Originally posted by: 5431

I agree with your points. But only compromising and adjusting is what leads to bk and Ninad behaving the way they behave. She’s enabling their behaviour to keep peace. It’s wrong. It’s not her responsibility to keep peace, she’s not the one who brings drama to the house. Like I said before they should live separately, only solution

True, but she's fed up, she has tried, she tried 6 months! She has realised that it won't make any difference. Yes that's only solution, but Virat won't. Mohit won't. Aai won't. Sai is the only one willing to leave, but Virat stopped her that day. And it's ITV, this won't happen, hum saath saath hai. I feel Veeru has to bring the change, he has that power to shut up BK with one gesture, he really has. He only has to realise that it's not normal and it's toxic. He grew up with it and doesn't see this but I hope they show his growth.

sai gave the pendant to avoid another tamasha👍🏼

i am glad she took such mature move for her own mental peace nothing is above self-respect & mental peace and we all know these🐍will spew another round of venom so its good to avoid it. Totally support it👍🏼that sai chose her mental peace and self-respect❣

if i see this sairat & virat pov yes she should know have gave it since its a mark if disrespect to his feelings💔but after all the tamasha happened i see this in sai of POV thus enough is enough not another round of tamasha after a big headache🤦‍♀️

On 2nd thoughts,sai has a heart of gem she happily gives it to that🐍gang becos in her eyes family respect love and happiness holds more value than her ruby pendant and this is the same girl who told virat that if he doesn't give her money to buy for devyani marriage its ok she will happily gives her own jewelleries that was made by her father. Thats our Sai Joshi❤

These🐍has no value for emotions love and feelings😡

More important question is why will Kaku return it?

If Sai didn't give, they would have all refused to eat, how much torture can girl go thru in a day?

She already got two sessions that day.

She was already expecting it I guess.

I feel he brought a new one for her. Instead of the one she gave away. Maybe 🤔

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

I feel he brought a new one for her. Instead of the one she gave away. Maybe 🤔

Read Siya's update apparently he bought new one for Kaku and asked old one back for Sai and Kaku ne deh v diya chup chaap. Virat did lots of smooth buttering apparently 😆