Episode Spoiler - 24 June 2021 - Page 10

Originally posted by: inlieu

There's a defect as Raghav says.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I have feeling that either there will be a flip or she will be conflicted, which I understand but in the long run she will go back to supporting Pallavi, especially when she realizes her son isn't such a shareef bachcha after all or if she feels Pallavi's happiness actually lies with Raghav not her son.

I think it'll be because of Pallavi's happiness and not Mandaar's lack of shareefness, tbh. She's obviously going to be overwhelmed and conflicted. Her dead son has come back! It's the one miracle every parent who's unfortunate enough to go through that prays for.

But her affection for Pallavi is genuine, and once the dust settles, she'll want Pallavi to pursue what makes her happy, and not give it up for the sake of a what-could-have-been. Pallavi and Mandaar, had they gotten the marriage they had planned for, could very well have been a fairytale couple, but maybe they've just missed their moment now.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Exaclty.. Not only has she understood that Pallavi now has growing feelings for Raghav..she has also seen Raghav change.. so she knows Pallavi has a good reason to feel that way for him..

I really want a scene between Ayi and Amma.. where Ayi says that she admits she was very angry at her decision to get them married and thought that she was selfish.. maybe she was but she is happy that it turned out so good for both of them.. Amma should also let her know how Pallavi helped them reconcile after 10 years of estrangement.. Ayi learning about Raghav's past would further help strengthen their bond which I already love..its so tender and full of respect..

+1 for Ayi and Raghav bonding, there's so much potential! I really wanted to see it and I know Ayi will be fond of him knowing that he is keeping her daughter happy. She was closely observing the sparkle in Pallavi's eyes today and that tells her a lot!

I hope when Mandaar returns Raghav doesn't feel alienated from her and may even go to her to understand Pallavi better.

Again I got.mehndi removal wali aayi feeling today

I wanted you to be happy with Mandaar

Pallavi said you'll always be my aayi

Aayi kr andar ki SaaS bahar aayegi

Society pressure was brought up today Raghav told her she need not give in to societal pressure

Raghav was not all jumping excited yesterday for Vat Savitri pooja because of Amma he knows she'll be excited my some how get Pallavi to keep the fast and she won't be able to refuse

Precap He brings red nav vari

Originally posted by: inlieu

I am beginning to wonder if he realizes she has feelings for him and doesn't want to encourage her because he fears he can't live up to her expectations or doesn't deserve it or whatever.

If he has realized that she has feelings for him, which is very much possible because Pallavi is not cryptic and doesn't shy away from expressing, then where is this ''not encouraging'' approach gonna take him, them and this marriage.. They are now married unless he decides to divorce her in which case he wouldn't have to worry about living upto her expectations, they have to be together.. aise to nahi zindagi kaatni right? and I dunno if she even has any expectations from him.. she does things for him and says things to him, without any expectations..all he has to do is stop feeling unworthy of her.. maybe easier said than done..because Pallavi sets the bar high in achhai wala department.. but if he could rise to the occasion and earn her forgiveness, Im sure he can do the same to win her love..actually he already has.. all he has to do is to love her back.. lose his inhibitions, fear and complexities.

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Exactly my feelings..that close scene also made me feel that though he wanted to question her ..he was not prepared to listen to her. Everything does not have to be verbal. The way she was trying to explain to him...and said that he has done good things also for her...he needed to stop and listen.

And I didn't like how he brushed off that almost hug..she held his shirt because she got startled...somehow this is not the RR I was expecting after everything we have seen. Hope it is intentional and has reasons...because if its just by the way then our girl is going to be crushed. 3 episodes straight of not paying attention to her.I particularly wanted him to apologize for the my family dialogue . Now she is getting happy for any small piece of his attention or gifts. Not a good situation. Maybe he needs broom again. 😔

I had said in another post that Raghav needs to learn listen to her words as well as her silences. He has always been able to read her eyes and if he stilled himself long enough he would have seen her emotions right there. She was completely transparent in that moment. Shivangi did a kickass job in that scene, very impressive.

What I also loved is that while she was startled and leaned into him, she didn't feel awkward until Raghav did. I get the feeling nowadays that he gets lost in the moment and then something makes him withdraw. He's being a caring husband right now from a responsibilities perspective but nothing beyond that.

Good episode.

Aai Pallavi scene was good. Sharda understood Pallavi has feelings for Raghav. I found her jealousy natural and adorable.

Ved was comical. Hope he does something better than fancy dress this time.😆

Sunny is not evil is what I can say from whatever they have shown about him.

Coming to hot topic of Raghav- Pallavi scene I didn't see it as a romantic scene. Also the scene didn't felt like forced. It wasn't perfect from the point of execution but served its purpose. Raghav wanted to look into her eyes and make sure he indeed has a place in her mind and she isn't doing it just to make him or Amma happy.

In my opinion Raghav isn't neglecting Pallavi or taking her for granted.

He still feels guilty and unworthy of her. Had he been successful in reuniting with her family he would be much more confident around her.

Her assurances aren't going to lessen his guilt because he doubts it's her sympathy for him after listening to his past. He was sure she will hate him after listening to his story but that didn't happen. Instead she helped him patch up with his mother. As much he appreciates this, knowing her nature he thinks she is staying with him either out of sympathy or her basic nature of making other people happy ignoring her own feelings.

Raghav and Pallavi's marriage currently is an unequal partnership because Pallavi will always have moral high ground which makes Raghav less confident around her.

This marriage can only work if he gains his confidence back and that can happen only when he realizes he has indeed saved her by marrying her. I am hoping upcoming Mandar track will take care of this.

One last thing Raghav was really busy and not neglecting Pallavi on purpose. 😆I am saying this because I have done it countless times , completely ignored my husband when I am busy.

Originally posted by: inlieu

+1 for Ayi and Raghav bonding, there's so much potential! I really wanted to see it and I know Ayi will be fond of him knowing that he is keeping her daughter happy. She was closely observing the sparkle in Pallavi's eyes today and that tells her a lot!

I hope when Mandaar returns Raghav doesn't feel alienated from her and may even go to her to understand Pallavi better.

@bold red- loved that! And Pallavi's description of Raghav's nature and his habits..log jese pani pite hain wo wese protein shake pita hai, was uber cute. She must be thinking in such a short time, she knows so much about him.. she sounded so smitten by him!

Will see what happens when Mandhar enters.. Raghav and Ayi's bonding is at a very early stage..even if she alienates him, I don't think it's gonna bother Raghav much.. there are very few people in his life who can affect Raghav that way.. Ayi, is not there yet..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

If he has realized that she has feelings for him, which is very much possible because Pallavi is not cryptic and doesn't shy away from expressing, then where is this ''not encouraging'' approach gonna take him, them and this marriage.. They are now married unless he decides to divorce her in which case he wouldn't have to worry about living upto her expectations, they have to be together.. aise to nahi zindagi kaatni right? and I dunno if she even has any expectations from him.. she does things for him and says things to him, without any expectations..all he has to do is stop feeling unworthy of her.. maybe easier said than done..because Pallavi sets the bar high in achhai wala department.. but if he could rise to the occasion and earn her forgiveness, Im sure he can do the same to win her love..actually he already has.. all he has to do is to love her back.. lose his inhibitions, fear and complexities.

Yeh sab karne ke liye he has to pause and introspect and think, and he's too preoccupied to do this yet- break mila hi kahaan hai, to either of them? It's been one storm after the other, each bigger than the last. But I agree, he cannot take on the whole 'not encouraging her' approach. How casually they both drop references to this being life long. Zindagi friendzone mein kaatne ka iraada hai?

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

If he has realized that she has feelings for him, which is very much possible because Pallavi is not cryptic and doesn't shy away from expressing, then where is this ''not encouraging'' approach gonna take him, them and this marriage.. They are now married unless he decides to divorce her in which case he wouldn't have to worry about living upto her expectations, they have to be together.. aise to nahi zindagi kaatni right? and I dunno if she even has any expectations from him.. she does things for him and says things to him, without any expectations..all he has to do is stop feeling unworthy of her.. maybe easier said than done..because Pallavi sets the bar high in achhai wala department.. but if he could rise to the occasion and earn her forgiveness, Im sure he can do the same to win her love..actually he already has.. all he has to do is to love her back.. lose his inhibitions, fear and complexities.

Yes, but this is easier said than done. He has felt unworthy of love in general for so many years that he got used to it. Transitioning from 'nafrat mera zindagi ka qissa ban gaya hai' to being showered with love, at least from Amma and Pallavi, is a big deal for him. He may have reconciled with Amma but I don't think he's recovered from the trauma of losing family members. On top of all this, the woman whose life he unfairly destroyed, who gave him a chance, and is now being not just fair with him but caring, respectful, loving, etc. is such a good woman compared to his 'badness' that he can't seem to handle this. I think this also shows in the way he generally avoids touching her beyond the bare necessities.

We know he needs to stop being afraid but it won't happen that easily I think. His guilt, pain, shame, insecurity, etc. are all twisted into a knot in his heart, and until that is undone the more he tries to pull at it the tighter it will become. I feel that the more she tries to be good to him, the harder it's going to be for him to handle, and the more he will try to protect her from himself. He won't try to win her love at this point, he doesn't think that's an avenue he has the right to explore and when it comes to Pallavi his logic doesn't always side with him.

Also, now that we see him going into don mode again he will not focus on himself that much, at least not until the Keerti matter is resolved. By then, Mandaar might make an entry and then he'll be caught up in a storm which will force him to introspect. I guess that's the way the future tracks are going.