Reason for Shaurya hiding their social marriage plan from Anokhi - Page 5

Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

I don't understand what the show is focused on right now. It seems to be a repetition of the OG where the ML got away with everything and the FL was always at the receiving end. I was wrong to have expected any different. One of the reasons I have been sticking to this show for this long was this forum but nowadays this feels like a strange place where a difference of views is unwelcome.

The episodes are good as one of episodes but if seen in the context of the show and its premise they don't make much sense. All the characters have lost their essence. I seriously need a frustration thread.

I am not keeping hopes on Anokhi ranting about the whole stupid drama to Shaurya specially given this was not the case in Mohor and that she is dying to get married to Shaurya now😆

Forum was the reason I was connected to the show... So I thought of starting detaching from the show by not visiting the forum... And only selectively discussing it with members through PMs. That was step 1...till Anupama (Anuprem and not the show) ruined it for me😭

Step 2 is not watching by Uninstalling hotstar... 😆 and final step is focus on new job... Which is still in honeymoon period.. So hopefully when I get hell lot of work... Show won't ever be concern for me..

Originally posted by: Snusmit

He doesn't mean she fight alone. He just meant he should have told her. So they could think what to do. He is one nonsensical family agreed....

And I think the main thing Shaurya did wrong was involve Shagun in plan. That is where I think he was completely wrong.

You don't need to be told everything.. He could have investigated to what extent she went and what broke her.. Kanchan hai, Gayatri hai... Someone could have guided him... If she let him be.. He did the same thing... I mean just my understanding his plan makes no sense to me..

I still don't feel bad for him involving Shagun... That's fine.. Given he considers her as a friend.. 🤪 it would have been wrong to not involve her if he is using her name..

Edit - haala he is not right with any other thing... He could have continued being a bad person.. But oh well..

Originally posted by: nikki.171

I had been waiting for someone to say this after Monday's episode and was almost beginning to think that maybe I was the only one who was thinking along these lines.

Tbh, I do think what Anokhi did was wrong. When that first precap of Tej's offer was shown, I had said I wouldnt like Anokhi to go this route and I stand my ground. For all her selfless reasons, she does not get to call the shots on this relationship on her own (yes, I remember the sindoor fiasco and am keeping that aside for now). Ideally, she should have spoken about this to Shaurya but.. ITV. Communication skills are zero. This is a trope that while wrong still manages to tug at the audience emotions. Anyway, I actually have no qualms with Shaurya being pissed at Anokhi. He has the right to be mad at her for not 'standing up for their love' which ironically was a concern everyone had for Shaurya initially. Right through until he said he can't be with someone like this. All fair. On a side note, I generally have so far loved how their 'breakup' scenes are approached. Also appreciation where due of the truth not being dragged out and Shaurya's confrontation with the Sabherwals (one thing I will always love about this show)

My problem begins with Shaurya's reasoning on this marriage. His rejection already has her regretting her actions and realizing she was wrong. She is in pain, wants him back, fix this and he can see it. So what exactly is this fake marriage supposed to teach her? There really is no logic here because technically his goals are already achieved. The only thing I can come up with is - Drama. The makers want a typical TV drama to lead up to the social wedding. There really is no way how else this makes sense. Even the dialogues werent convincingly put enough. Double whammy is everyone agreeing to this. Like WHAT? Babli surprised me most.. and Ahir.

From a ShaKhi point of view, I can kind of understand why this works as such. Especially for the general fans. And because I adore watching DebVir and ShaKhi together on screen and am invested in them, I still root for these two and always will. But imo, this could have been a perfect opportunity to balance out the sindoor wedding. He could have admitted what he did there was wrong and this time do about it the right way - propose to her properly, get her consent and do a proper wedding with all the rituals. One way to try and redeem.

Another bummer was the way Mr. Bhalla's track was dealt with so quickly. I was probably even more disappointed about this lost potential. But oh well, that is a completely different thing.

Thank you for making this topic!

@Green - Forum is meant for only those who enjoy every single scene and episode... And I was tired of creating the posts ranting about how Shaurya is wrong when everyone else saw him as an angel.. Such people are tagged as haters on the forum... So I did my part of ranting in PMs with one member and was done.. Plus.. I wanted to get detached to the show...

But yes, had anyone created the post, would have definitely commented on it... So, yes.. Please do make a post on such things which you felt weren't right... Maybe you will find more people thinking on the same line. I guess issue is most of the time such groups wait for each other to make post.

@Blue - again, like most people... But my even bigger issue is that parents don't even want to understand what's happening in their daughter's life? Forget the change in mr. Bhalla... Unlike rest of the fandom, my concern is I thought it takes time to recover and let the feeling sink in that their daughter is being married... Not even bothered to do some background check or check the validity or whatever.... 🤣 specially when daughter has already ran away from marriage... I don't think like normal people, do I? 😆

Rest of comment... Regarding ShaKhi.. Yes they are important part of the show but story is what sells..

In my opinion, Anokhi was wrong, but Shaurya has been wrong so many times but has never even once suffered for his actions whereas Anokhi is made to go through pain... Maybe because she is FL.. That's where I have a problem... Anokhi did stand up for their love but just fell weak when it came to him! She didn't communicate... Even I was mad.. But why are other actions and mistakes of Shaurya being white washed?

I dont think makers tried to make Astha’s character flawless... she just have a better sense of right and wrong...she is a normal human being who made mistakes as she herself admitted by not fighting enough for her son in past and by assuming he was better off without her when he will get other family members... she did not realise her importance in his life and let them both suffer for 25 years. So I can see why she agreed to support Shaurya’s plan, because for her Anokhi made the same mistake of not realising what value she holds in Shaurya’s life and that she can’t be replaced with any other thing in his life...Anokhi’s decision of sacrificing would have brought same misery in both of their life....this is exactly Shaurya also reasoned to make Astha agree...so the mother in her took over and she can be quite week as a mother at times as shown her going missing during riot track after Shaurya’s outburst.

Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

I don't understand what the show is focused on right now. It seems to be a repetition of the OG where the ML got away with everything and the FL was always at the receiving end. I was wrong to have expected any different. One of the reasons I have been sticking to this show for this long was this forum but nowadays this feels like a strange place where a difference of views is unwelcome.

The episodes are good as one of episodes but if seen in the context of the show and its premise they don't make much sense. All the characters have lost their essence. I seriously need a frustration thread.

You may right in that but the problem here is as much a societal problem. In fact the truth about it is diluting the show to this is still not enough to get the trps from the general itv audience. So that kind of reflects what largely constitutes a society. They didn't start out with this. They became this because of trp game. And don't get me wrong I am not dismissing what u are saying. But at the end of day it's either show makes it a month more by revamping little by little or shuts down tomorrow. So that's the call makers are facing. If u compare it to the rest of the shows I guess it's a paradise. I guess. But is that enough progress? Again that's a tricky question.

I agree that there are problem points. Which includes Bhalla track closing fast. Giving an abusive person such a quick redemption?

Secondly about Shaurya being whitewashed. True that. They needed to spend more time on showing the change. Shauryas change should have been slow. It should be a work in progress not that quick. And maybe given the time after Sindhoor thing. Taken it slow. But makers have no time. The way it seems if trps don't rise end is near. And they don't want abrupt end. And I don't know if anyone wants the end to be Anokhi ditching Shaurya. I mean that would be a sad end. So this. ...

Open to criticism.

Hi everyone,

Honestly, thank you for making this post! I am pretty new to this forum even though I have been watching since the beginning but ever since I found out that they were going this route and hiding the wedding from Anokhi I felt like it was unfair but I didn't want to make a post cause I thought nobody would agree.

Reading through the comments on this thread I agree with a lot of what people said. I also watch the show primarily from Anokhi's perspective so I don't like seeing her hurt and humiliated. Yes she was wrong about giving into Tej's blackmail but she is young and not that experienced besides Shaurya has made mistakes too. I can understand wanting some revenge and maybe even messing with her a little but recently I feel like he has been taking it a bit too far and I really want his plan to backfire lol. I want Anokhi is find out and then start to mess with him, maybe by wiping off the sindoor and acting happy about 'his' wedding or by missing the actual wedding functions or something so he starts to panic.

Also really hope I don't offend anyone. I really love this show and the forum is great too I just don't agree with the way this track is going right now but hopefully it gets better.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Shaurya wouldn't hate Anokhi with near wedding.. But chances are Anokhi will be terribly upset with him (atleast that's what I hope for)...

I want anokhi to be terribly upset with shaurya and others.Also their plan should backfire , I have read in one of the topics that anokhi should leave wishing shaurya and Shagun all the best.I would like to see shaurya running behind anokhi , trying to pacify her.

Originally posted by: eveyeva

I want anokhi to be terribly upset with shaurya and others.Also their plan should backfire , I have read in one of the topics that anokhi should leave wishing shaurya and Shagun all the best.I would like to see shaurya running behind anokhi , trying to pacify her.

Apparently as per Mohor, this won't happen! It will be happy affair... And ShaKhi will be happily married 😆

Lastly, @Anupama... Thank you for creating the post!

I am glad that many members did feel the way I did, and it gives me 1% hope that makers could also realize that Shaurya isn't angel in the whole scenario of what's happening here...! And be shown in a negative light...

Ek toh I don’t understand that why does shaurya think ki he needs to make her realise her mistakes? Before thinking that if anyone who has to the realise his mistakes, it’s him first …

She didn’t give up bcs she doesn’t know how to fight for her love…she gave up bcs for his happiness and rishte (not that it is right but it isn’t as wrong as all shaurya Babli ahir and everyone are making it out to be) the girl was so much hurt so much in pain…and everything is so chaotic; everyone has a breaking point.

She forgives all his wrongdoings in a day never for once thought ki I will hurt him how he hurt me and is getting this torture in return to the action that was also done for him?! Make it make sense!

And imagine how she would feel when she would know every person who is close to her knew abt the marriage, was involved in the plan and partake in it so happily while she was hurt? Every single person she is close to is breaking her trust.How would anyone feel…this isn’t some normal surprise…this is her wedding fgs…she is being tortured unnecessarily and I am not liking it at all…

Also if she gets to know the reason behind this hiding the wedding…would that be to guilt trip her again? If this time it isn’t shaurya who takes the guilt trip then that would be so not fair he is the one who needs to realise.

Shaurya on the other hand is the one who needs to realise the severity of his actions and apologise and reprimand himself for it…he is doing wrong ek ke baad ek w/o realising his own wrong actions…

The only thing good that shaurya is doing now is standing up to the sabherwals, liking those scenes…

If anokhi needs to realise then uske pehle it has to be shaurya who needs to realise since he is the one who has done far worse, more number of times yet got away quite easily…atleast much more easily than anokhi