|Allies Flock Together| Indirect Discussion Opn Results 4th Wk of June - Page 23

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Yeah. No need to fight in front of anyone. That just allows others to interfere in your relationship.

Though my husband and I both get pretty loud and yell and once woke my FIL in the middle of the night. But we acted like good little children in the morning and then fought like kids again but in hushed voices later the next night 🤣

This is the downside of living in joint family. I prefer living alone so I can yell as much as I want🤣 I am super loud when angry

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

Once me and hubby had a nasty fight and went without talking for 2 days😭 that was torture...and i was thinking how to make things back to normal again...because im such a reserved person aur mujhe manaana nahi aata and im not that expressive either so I felt really really awkward talking to him

Then the next morning he got up for work and was getting ready, so I also woke up and was thinking kaise baat karoon, kaise manaon usko...then suddenly he came to me and brought me breakfast in bed after that we were back to normal again😆

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

Once me and hubby had a nasty fight and went without talking for 2 days😭 that was torture...and i was thinking how to make things back to normal again...because im such a reserved person aur mujhe manaana nahi aata and im not that expressive either so I felt really really awkward talking to him

Then the next morning he got up for work and was getting ready, so I also woke up and was thinking kaise baat karoon, kaise manaon usko...then suddenly he came to me and brought me breakfast in bed after that we were back to normal again😆

Aww that is so cute, what a sweet way to break the ice

I am kinda similar too, i dont know how to manoing but in end things automatically gets to normal by either one bringing flowers or either making der fav food haha

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Awwwiieee 🤗 Khushi ke aansun hain toh ro le, behen. Dukh ke hain toh we are all here for you ❤️

I get super jazbaati reading such stuff🤣 especially about being alone in old age and all

damn scary😔

Exactly! Family ko kabhi involve nahi karna chahiye. They never forget the issue that happened and begin judging. Husband-wife ki dynamics sirf unhi ko samajh aati hai 🤣

Originally posted by: SoniRSippu21

🤣🤣 smart fighting haan lmao. Also never ask for advice for solving fights with family nahi toh things gonna go down/south

Originally posted by: SoniRSippu21

🤣🤣 we want all to be happy no

Ofcourse

Happiness matters the most.

Whether you are single or married. The foremost thing is happiness. And I believe happiness khud nhi milti. We have to stay happy by ourself. We need to find ways to gain happiness in this stressful world.

Originally posted by: SoniRSippu21

Ya men ka sahi hai yaar, its hard for women to remarry, for many obvious reasons esp in asia

Yes i agree, my mums brother passed away last year and his wife became so alone but now she refuses to remarry because her daughter is a teenager and she says she cant trust any new man with her daughter

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Exactly! Family ko kabhi involve nahi karna chahiye. They never forget the issue that happened and begin judging. Husband-wife ki dynamics sirf unhi ko samajh aati hai 🤣

Exactly only we ourself will understand our equation with each other, no one else will understand haha

Why will you be alone? Pati hoga na tumhara saath mein. My husband and I have a pact ki jayenge toh saath mein ❤️ Notebook ka jo end ka scene hai, bilkul waisa waala minus the amnesia ❤️

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

I get super jazbaati reading such stuff🤣 especially about being alone in old age and all

damn scary😔

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

Yes i agree, my mums brother passed away last year and his wife became so alone but now she refuses to remarry because her daughter is a teenager and she says she cant trust any new man with her daughter

Thats also the thing, we hear a lot in news that after remarry, the step father doesnt treat kids well n what not. And if kids dont get along with the BF then moms have to sacrifice for kids u know