Sai's public revelation - Page 2

Originally posted by: Nja91

We know Virat will get upset/angry, hurt at how Sai brought it up in front of all. But i really hope that instead of only "opposing" or "staying silent", he sees the provocation, gets to know why Sai is addressing the issue. I don't think he will admit that he did have "infatuation/feelings" for pp. He also won't reveal what pp said to him - cornering him repeatedly and saying she cant move on, she doesn't care about Samrat coz he is a stranger etc etc .

But at least if he says publicly that no matter what happened in the past, the truth now is that pp is ONLY my brothers wife and you are mine, and everyone needs to remember that- it'd be good. In KD, mohit says this rather than Virat himself.

I dont have hopes that Virat will say anything. I fully anticipate that he will be a mute spectator with expression of hurt/pain at Sai's "misunderstanding" and at the public revelation. But if they yweak ot atleast a tad bit so we see Virat try and understand Sai's pov/stance it'd be good.

Pp toh will 100% start shedding crocodile tears at her public embarrassment and everyone will only target Sai and accuse her of misunderstanding and bad behavior :(

With soo much of misunderstanding and bad intent, sai should really move out to the hostel and virat should only reach out to her when he grows a spine and admits things.

Originally posted by: Nja91

A lot of people have issues with Sai saying things about her relationship with Virat publicly and think of it as unfair.

But i feel like Sai has no intention from get-go to wash dirty linen in public. She never on purpose goes out to humiliate anyone publicly.

She is as much affected by it when her relationship with Virat is discussed as he is.

Infact especially with respect to this matter of virat pp, you can see Sai's growth n attempt to be mature about everything.

She was extremely hurt but she didn't let her emotions ruin harinis cake cutting.

She didn't want to confront Virat right away, She just went to bed and intended on discussing later. Thats why she had gone to bed with lights out. But she was too full of emotions to not burst. Despite that she was actually very calm n rational in everything she asked Virat-about his vaada to pp n what about Samrat.

But virat didnt clarify. Just called question behuda.

Even when she applied hot compress on his neck he had a chance to clarify. But he didnt use it well.

And then in the zillat arena we see how all Sai wanted to do was leave to college. She didn't want to give anyone a chance so was skipping breakfast but nahi. Pp n bk gang deliberately provoke n needle her. First about money, then pp has audacity to publicly call Sai out for being affected by virat n her talking despite knowing what she was telling Virat. She decided to reveal that Virat was sleeping on sofa. She thinks she is hurting Sai but it deserves to backfire. So if she has started this rubbish, she will pay. Its sad that Virat never sees the provocation and only comes to see Sais reactions. Virat is unfortunately collateral damage in Sai pp fight but thats also because Virat had not used any opportunity to clarify his stance about pp to Sai. Right from ladakh time to now. First he denied it but now Sai has overheard it from horses mouth, so he needs to just tell Sai the truth. Plus Virat's embarrassment at this public revelation is him paying the price for all the leverage he gave pp rather than Sai's fault. He called pp his bff, said that she is mature n samajhdaar- so he can now see her maturity n samajhdaari in how she is handling things and deal with the consequences.

A far more decent way of doing things would have been Sai specifically asking Virat about his relationship with Pakhi. Explained Pakhis feelings in case the idiot didnt understand Pakhis in tensions. And if Virat had again ignored it or not clarified walk out on Virat forever!

Most sensible and mature thing to do!

After washing ur Iinen in public especially your relationship with ur husband, I don't think you can ever stay with him with a clear conscience ever. This is my stance.

I have mixed feelings about this.

I was initially not in favour of washing dirty linen in public. It is a disrespect to the dignity of their marriage. Especially considering that the Chavans are vultures - who will use this opportunity to drive a wedge between SaiRat.

Then I watched the episode. Man, Pakhi can push anyone's buttons. With all the pain and heartbreak Sai was experiencing, she has not planned on revealing all in front of the family. But the audacity with which Pakhi humiliated and questioned her relationship with Virat, was the last straw. I could understand how Sai must have felt. Still, should she have taken this route? I don't know, I'm not sure. I'd still say Virat being collateral damage was not something I'd recommend.

Having said that, in some situations there is no right or wrong. There will be consequences ofcourse, but it cannot be helped. When emotions take control, none can predict how we will react at the spur of the moment. What happens from now on will depend on how Virat will react - as well as on the strength of the bond they have formed.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I have mixed feelings about this.

I was initially not in favour of washing dirty linen in public. It is a disrespect to the dignity of their marriage. Especially considering that the Chavans are vultures - who will use this opportunity to drive a wedge between SaiRat.

Then I watched the episode. Man, Pakhi can push anyone's buttons. With all the pain and heartbreak Sai was experiencing, she has not planned on revealing all in front of the family. But the audacity with which Pakhi humiliated and questioned her relationship with Virat, was the last straw. I could understand how Sai must have felt. Still, should she have taken this route? I don't know, I'm not sure. I'd still say Virat being collateral damage was not something I'd recommend.

Having said that, in some situations there is no right or wrong. There will be consequences ofcourse, but it cannot be helped. When emotions take control, none can predict how we will react at the spur of the moment. What happens from now on will depend on how Virat will react - as well as on the strength of the bond they have formed.

True Sai and Virat having the convo in the room in the morning when Virat says let’s clear our misunderstanding would have been sensible.

Like you I watched the episode today. Sai really did restrain herself from answering back. But it was too instigating after sometime and she gave it back to Pakhi.

I am looking at it from Sai character pov. She is one who gives it back as much as she gets it. That’s her character and she did just that.

This is the consequences of Virat giving too much space for Pakhi. Even now he doesn’t want to clear sai misunderstandings in private. Tell her that he doesn’t have any feelings for Pakhi and she is his past and nothing more. He doesn’t even have to confess.

All I can think is she is 18yrs and grew up in a very different set of household with lot of love and acceptance. And here she is facing so much hatred day in day out.

today’s fight was unnecessary. I just feel bad for Sai had to go through that. It’s an emotional abuse 😢

I really want Sai to leave pagal niwas. Is not Virat well enough? If he can organize parties and plan events, surely he is well enough. Why is she still here? She should really leave - this environment is toxic! Let that devar-bhabhi do whatever kaali kartoot they want to do. Because unless Virat is humiliated by anyone other than Sai, he will not wake up. It could only be Samrat but he is missing. So there is no one else left to metaphorically slap Virat!

Sorry for the ranting, but man that Patralekha makes my blood boil! I think it is a credit (sarcastically) to the creative team that they can generate this much hatred for a fictional character.

Originally posted by: vimeo

A far more decent way of doing things would have been Sai specifically asking Virat about his relationship with Pakhi. Explained Pakhis feelings in case the idiot didnt understand Pakhis in tensions. And if Virat had again ignored it or not clarified walk out on Virat forever!

Most sensible and mature thing to do!

After washing ur Iinen in public especially your relationship with ur husband, I don't think you can ever stay with him with a clear conscience ever. This is my stance.

Its tough to expect Sai to be " decent " when so many people gang up against her. She has repeatedly asked him about pp. I dont think Sai can be more clear about the fact that his relationship /past with pp bothers her. She has over and over asked him since ladakh trip and virat has seen pp's behavior n knows her geelings too. Onus is on him now to clarify. Sai is an impulsive, confrontational person. Thats her personality. She cant do a U turn on it. Its her nature. She is not as mature or calm as Virat usually is. How do we expect a 19 yo who is still grappling with so much to display "maturity" when she is cornered the way she is. She didn't plan to make a public spectacle n tamasha out of virat pp matter but she has been forced to. I am not saying its entirely correct but I am saying that I empathize because of her situation. I think this outburst from Sai was provoked and could have been avoided if Virat had tried harder to just come clean instead of expecting mind reading from Sai. I understand that hes in a tough spot but right now it falls on him to make Sai see that he is way past any commitment or vaada to pp. He is an idiot if he still chooses to "deny" everything!

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

True Sai and Virat having the convo in the room in the morning when Virat says let’s clear our misunderstanding would have been sensible.

Like you I watched the episode today. Sai really did restrain herself from answering back. But it was too instigating after sometime and she gave it back to Pakhi.

I am looking at it from Sai character pov. She is one who gives it back as much as she gets it. That’s her character and she did just that.

This is the consequences of Virat giving too much space for Pakhi. Even now he doesn’t want to clear sai misunderstandings in private. Tell her that he doesn’t have any feelings for Pakhi and she is his past and nothing more. He doesn’t even have to confess.

All I can think is she is 18yrs and grew up in a very different set of household with lot of love and acceptance.

From Sai's POV, it is absolutely justified. And that is what she is too. Pakhi was so obnoxious that it would make anyone's blood boil. Surviving the Chavans and Pakhi is not easy.

Looking from the POV of marriage, it probably isn't a good decision. Virat will rightfully be hurt and angry. But it is what it is.

About the vaada, I hope all this zillat drama serves a purpose - to put an end to that nonsense once and for all. They have really stretched this plot thin and it will became stale soon. I'm running out of reasons why Virat would not clear the vaada to Sai in private.

Exactly! Infact she tried her best to not involve anyone else in their fight, several times. First she brushed it off in front of Aai, then she was concerned that someone may see Veeru sleeping on couch and question them. Even when KBA and co where taunting her, when KBA said 'Sai heard me and Virat talking' Sai didn't say a word, not a word. I was expecting her to say something along the lines of 'to aap ye vi batayi na ke aap dono baat kya kar rahe the'. She tried her best to not involve them, but as she said in the hospital that when you stretch a rubber to much it breaks. Pakhi and Cgang kept on stretching the matter, Sai was already upset, hurt and when you're in such a state it's easy to get instigated. They were really questioning her, and her and Virat's relation and blaming her. So they brought it up in public, and somewhere it's justified for her to clear the allegations that they're making against her. There's a limit to everything. Pakhi can question her in public, but Sai can't? Virat has unfortunately to be dragged into this as it's about Virat and Pakhi.

Even while fighting with Virat the previous night, she was really toned down. Somewhere I think it may have been also because it was the first time that she was extremely hurt/heartbroken and angry at the same time. She was so broken and confused that she didn't have the energy to fight in form.

I'm actually happy Pakhi instigating Sai, as I wrote in other post apne per par khulari marna ise kethe hai.

I'm just anxious about Veeru's reaction 🙄. He'll probably keep mum, but someone had explained his POV extremely well in EDT so I'll take it, but still if everyone thinks that Sai is lying because Virat doens't clarify 😒

I have a very different opinion about it if I think about these. No one enjoys washing dirty linen in public.

Why Pakhi? Virat started this. Why did he lie down on the couch in the living room? Doesn't he know about his family members? Doesn't he know that his family members hate Sai and would talk ill about her if one of them had seen him sleeping there? Pakhi has an eye on his movements as we all know and as Sai had rightly doubted. But the question is, even if Pakhi had not seen, there are chances for someone to have noticed this.

Why did he give them a chance to question or accuse Sai? Why did he not think of it that it is not a good idea?

Did Sai want to do this? NO

Sai noticed that he was not on the bed and went looking for him and asked him to go to the room. She had said that out of care for him and also because she knows about his family well, she told him that too.

She is a girl who wakes up early in the morning even after she is upset with as big as this, a girl who studies late in the night and thinks that when she is living in this house, it is better she does all the household chores and then leave to college so as to avoid taunts or issues by his family members. It was never her intention to let anyone know. If she wanted to, she could have told his mom at the venue when she asked why she looked upset.

She was a sweetheart who didnt want to spoil a little girl's birthday party unlike someone else who made a big issue out of nothing, who started to fight alleging Virat with false claims by bringing up past at a time which was not at all necessary. Sai wanted the girl to have a good day and stayed quiet, attended the party. Even after returning home, she didn't fight because she doesn't know if she has rights to ask him anything or not and instead chose to lie down on the floor, avoided talking to him or fighting with him.

As we all know Pakhi brought this upon herself. She has the audacity to blame Sai, to put down Sai after being a shameless, characterless woman who is behind her own brother in law who has clearly told what he feels and has also said that he loves his wife. When Ashwini spoke about their marriage, this lady couldn't even tolerate hearing it and decided to share about the reality of their marriage. The reality is that the couple would have got it sorted if she had not brought this up. When Sai could take Virat to the room, when she can calm down and speak to him softly out of concern for him, when she had shown her hurt to him like how any other wife would do when he tried to talk to her, wouldn't she have listened to him the next time or after he tries a couple of times in the future to clear the misunderstandings?

Every action has its own consequences

I said one thing during the ousting too, when one didn't think or care about their actions while ousting a girl, they shouldn't complain about what happens next. Kaam hi aisa kiya hai, toh uski anjaam ko bhi saamne karne ki himmat toh rakho. Exactly why Virat too didn't make it a big issue even on the neighbourhood drama day. He did say that it was a personal matter and asked the neighbours not to interfere but he also knew that what he did was wrong. Even after he returned from GC, when his family members asked him about the same, he had said that whatever she did was very little compared to what he did.

Izzat ki itni parvah hai, toh kaam bhi waise hi karna chahiye har kisiko.

Are they strangers or public? Who are they?

Now coming to the point where not many would think of it the same way. Yes, Pakhi pushed the wrong buttons and so Sai is going to ask her questions.

My question is in front of whom is Sai asking these?

The same family who stopped them at the doorstep after they returned home after getting married.

The family whose approval is needed for even a wife to enter the house or a wife to be accepted as a wife and bahu.

These are those who runs and controls their everyday life and decisions.

Those with whose permission a couple can go out or spend time together, a family whose permission is needed or who should be let know of when a husband surprises his wife with even simple street food.

A family who would question and control when an ACP takes a day off for this wife.

A family who will decide on whether he should take his wife along for the trip or not.

A family who would question even if he had decided to take his wife for the trip, who would stop the wife from joining her husband.

If Sai had done it out of anger on Virat or because she was upset with him, I would have thought why can't she express it to Ashwini or raise it with her or complain to her. But it is Pakhi who has triggered all these.

Joint family but also a single entity

Anyway in front of whom is she going to ask the questions? To Sai, they are not public, they are all one single identity whom Virat loves and respects. She didn't even reveal about the kidnapping story to him when he asked her why did she get Devi married only because she didnt want him to get hurt while coming to know about his family's deeds. So she is not speaking in front of strangers, she is talking to the family whom he loves and whom he thinks as one.

To Virat, his mother would be a special one always, but why does he take Kaku's blessings before his mother, it is not just because they follow it that way, because he also wants all of them to live together under one roof, he would anyway respect and love these people.

Wasn't it proved that he even let Omi go with just a warning, wasn't it proved when he let go of what his family did even to Devi?

He just wants hum saath saath hain family and it doesn't matter to him if it is Kaku whom he should forgive or Ashwini whom he should forgive.

He loves his mom, takes liberty on her too, can become a child in front of her but all these people who are in the zillat arena are one unity for Virat, each and every person holds the same value for him, they would love, care and protect all of these people equally.

Doesn't Sai know these? She has always seen it and that is why when Virat has asked her to apologise to Kaku, she had.

She keeps quiet many times because she knows what value do these people have in his life. So in any case, even if she has to share with any one of them about her issues, it is not a big thing and now anyway Pakhi instigated her, Pakhi challenged a wife, Pakhi had rubbed salt on her wounds that she got after she witnessed their talk the previous day.

Virat and Pakhi's friendship

Virat should be bold enough to face these when he was bold enough to lend emotional support to his friend, when he had always encouraged his friend unintentionally, when he had never taken any measures to stop Pakhi from taking it any further or from humiliating Sai and when he was bold enough to carry a pillow to the couch to sleep.

He had been taking things too lightly when he shouldn't have. He could have realised Pakhi's motives very late which itself is quite surprising for a police officer who generally stays alert.

Pakhi had openly expressed as what she needs, he drew a line in his room, in the hospital and then went back to his old friend mode

- who would talk very normally with her,

- who would talk about his friendship with her,

- who would share his hurt and pain with her,

- who would try to ensure that she doesn't get hurt when his sister speaks something,

- who would run behind her to console her and to convince her to attend the party.

Virat's actions also needs to be put to an end and if this is going to help in some way, if this is going to bring in a fear in him, make him watch his actions in future, let it. Sai is not doing it on purpose, but as an audience I would want to see what impact all this have or if Virat would learn anything after this.

Sai might not have realised her feelings but he has. He wants her to stay back with him, wants to be accepted as a real husband, wants to be able to get intimate like how a husband would do, then irrespective of whether Sai realises her feelings for him or not, he should learn to draw clear boundaries with Pakhi, CONTINUE TO MAINTAIN THEM.

HE CANNOT LEND A SHOULDER TO CRY FOR A FRIEND AS A SPECIAL FRIEND IN HIS LIFE, PAKHI AND SUNNY SHOULD BE THE SAME FOR HIM, HE CANNOT THINK THAT HE CAN BE A SOLE EMOTIONAL SUPPORT TO HIS FRIEND, SHOULD INVOLVE OTHERS LIKE HIS MOM OR PAKHI'S FAMILY TO HELP PAKHI AND NOT TAKE IT ON HIS HEAD.

SHE IS A FRIEND NOT A WIFE WHO CAN HAVE RIGHTS ON HIM FOR EMOTIONAL SUPPORT THE WAY HE IS PROVIDING. THERE CANNOT BE ANY EXCLUSIVITY FOR ANOTHER WOMAN IN ANY OTHER MEANS OTHER THAN YOUR OWN WIFE.

Virat better accepts the truth in front of the family.

The friends have to learn how they should behave whether Sai questions in front of the family or not. I doubt if both of them would learn sense even after all these.

Originally posted by: KJSairat

I'm just anxious about Veeru's reaction 🙄. He'll probably keep mum, but someone had explained his POV extremely well in EDT so I'll take it, but still if everyone thinks that Sai is lying because Virat doens't clarify 😒

Any reference? Page number or member name?

Viru is hard to understand in the present circumstances. I don't know what to make of his silence - if it has a reason or simply being used to stretch the plot.