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Being a girl,I always wondered why Pallavi is physically so comfortable around Raghav even more than Raghav.RR even having the essence of a alpha male,never tried to manhandle her which is so common in every ITV show where male pulls the female every now & then,sometimes so harshly that they fall in the bed,having some minutes eyelock,thus finally developing some feelings.Like dude who the hell falls in love just by having eyes locked?


That's called PHYSICAL ATTRACTON which doesn't necessarily mean love everytime.


BUT THE POINT IS RR HAS ALWAYS BEEN STRAYED FROM WALKING ON SUCH TYPICAL ROUTE.



Infact,Pallavi was the one to not to draw lines.Holding hand whenever she feels like,dragging him to side by hand,giving remarks on looks & getting not effected by the proximity ever while she is making the first move.

My question is why?


Girls always stay more hesitant to such closeness.I am normally even more shy & avoid making eye contacts to boys except in important situations.


The reason I could find-Pallavi has never got her hands on boys before.I strongly believe Mandar was someone who gave her family & somehow pallavi held in him considering him a guardian.She wasn't attracted to him.She never confided in him as a friend.She never actually found a friend(Let's not talk about krishna.I am sure she finds her a younger sister with the didi part coming in).

So,Pallavi had that part missing in her life.On top that,she used to lead her according to the responsibility coming on her,not bothering a free life where mistakes can be forgiven & not encountered severely,ousted from house brutally.She finds this normal.That's why she has no grudge against D family & tries to win them back.As her life until meeting Raghav has always like this.She had to face questions on her every actions & maybe rebuked time to time if her answers don't match others expectations

Somewhat like a boarding school.



In Raghav,She found everything(In comparison to her previous life).Unknowingly she grew more close to him,not towards his masculinity or looks.Emotions have layers.She crossed those initial layers with Raghav where she felt right amount of safety around him.Otherwise,which girl on the earth would go to a guy's house in the middle of a night that too haq se?Pallavi finds Raghav a decent man from the perspective of a woman/Girl.

Love,Respect-They may come later.But finding that trust & believe that A boy wouldn't touch you in an appropriate way without your consent even if your sleeping naked in front of him -Is itself a great relief.Pallavi found that long decades ago.

Basing on everything,They first hug didn't have any ounch of awkwardness from Pallavi's side.She was so engrossed in his arms,like a melted icecream.She didn't bother to break the hug on her own rather by a presence of another person & that's obvious.If Farhad wouldn't come,That hug would last longer.

Pallavi has found a companion.She is yet to realize the extremities of her emotions towards this companion❤

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tasnimrayian

Being a girl,I always wondered why Pallavi is physically so comfortable around Raghav even more than Raghav.RR even having the essence of a alpha male,never tried to manhandle her which is so common in every ITV show where male pulls the female every now & then,sometimes so harshly that they fall in the bed,having some minutes eyelock,thus finally developing some feelings.Like dude who the hell falls in love just by having eyes locked?


That's called PHYSICAL ATTRACTON which doesn't necessarily mean love everytime.


BUT THE POINT IS RR HAS ALWAYS BEEN STRAYED FROM WALKING ON SUCH TYPICAL ROUTE.



Infact,Pallavi was the one to not to draw lines.Holding hand whenever she feels like,dragging him to side by hand,giving remarks on looks & getting not effected by the proximity ever while she is making the first move.

My question is why?


Girls always stay more hesitant to such closeness.I am normally even more shy & avoid making eye contacts to boys except in important situations.


The reason I could find-Pallavi has never got her hands on boys before.I strongly believe Mandar was someone who gave her family & somehow pallavi held in him considering him a guardian.She wasn't attracted to him.She never confided in him as a friend.She never actually found a friend(Let's not talk about krishna.I am sure she finds her a younger sister with the didi part coming in).

So,Pallavi had that part missing in her life.On top that,she used to lead her according to the responsibility coming on her,not bothering a free life where mistakes can be forgiven & not encountered severely,ousted from house brutally.She finds this normal.That's why she has no grudge against D family & tries to win them back.As her life until meeting Raghav has always like this.She had to face questions on her every actions & maybe rebuked time to time if her answers don't match others expectations

Somewhat like a boarding school.



In Raghav,She found everything(In comparison to her previous life).Unknowingly she grew more close to him,not towards his masculinity or looks.Emotions have layers.She crossed those initial layers with Raghav where she felt right amount of safety around him.Otherwise,which girl on the earth would go to a guy's house in the middle of a night that too haq se?Pallavi finds Raghav a decent man from the perspective of a woman/Girl.

Love,Respect-They may come later.But finding that trust & believe that A boy wouldn't touch you in an appropriate way without your consent even if your sleeping naked in front of him -Is itself a great relief.Pallavi found that long decades ago.

Basing on everything,They first hug didn't have any ounch of awkwardness from Pallavi's side.She was so engrossed in his arms,like a melted icecream.She didn't bother to break the hug on her own rather by a presence of another person & that's obvious.If Farhad wouldn't come,That hug would last longer.

Pallavi has found a companion.She is yet to realize the extremities of her emotions towards this companion❤

U nailed it..but from RR side its a sort of incomplete..although he initiated it..but dnt know.y

.something is.missing there..either is from.sai's.acting or some thing else i cant feel connected...

The shower scene is giving me goosebumps..

I.want one more.hug

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Posted: 4 years ago
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That's one thing about pallavi. She is so conservative otherwise but when it comes to touching raghav or being close to him doesn't make her feel awkward. Even before marriage she would touch his hand, wipe his face with her pallu, barge into his house or take his handkerchief....... Usually girls are concious when it comes to any physical proximity. I am okay with some close male friends, I mean clicking pictures, hug, placing hand on shoulder but I know them for many years, I am usually concious with new male friends or ofc colleagues.

She was tensed and that hug made her feel comfortable and calm down. Just few days back she hated him but now she knows him enough that she is okay with his embrace. Now she is feeling safe & secure being with him. Though I felt the hug wasn't needed in today's situation. They could have had it later after matter was resolved & Vijays confrontation with pallavi.

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Originally posted by: Doc

U nailed it..but from RR side its a sort of incomplete..although he initiated it..but dnt know.y

.something is.missing there..either is from.sai's.acting or some thing else i cant feel connected...

The shower scene is giving me goosebumps..

I.want one more.hug


I felt timing galat hogaya. They were supposed to go the police station. The hug should have come later. I mean after police station scene. Vijay coming and giving bhashan to pallavi and the pallavi breaking down and Raghav consoling her.

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I felt timing galat hogaya. They were supposed to go the police station. The hug should have come later. I mean after police station scene. Vijay coming and giving bhashan to pallavi and the pallavi breaking down and Raghav consoling her.

Han shayad abhindosri.hug ka scope hai..ye hug to mjhe zabardasti ki lagi..it seems k.raghav ko.rokna tha pallavi.ko hyper hune se

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tasnimrayian

Being a girl,I always wondered why Pallavi is physically so comfortable around Raghav even more than Raghav.RR even having the essence of a alpha male,never tried to manhandle her which is so common in every ITV show where male pulls the female every now & then,sometimes so harshly that they fall in the bed,having some minutes eyelock,thus finally developing some feelings.Like dude who the hell falls in love just by having eyes locked?


That's called PHYSICAL ATTRACTON which doesn't necessarily mean love everytime.


BUT THE POINT IS RR HAS ALWAYS BEEN STRAYED FROM WALKING ON SUCH TYPICAL ROUTE.



Infact,Pallavi was the one to not to draw lines.Holding hand whenever she feels like,dragging him to side by hand,giving remarks on looks & getting not effected by the proximity ever while she is making the first move.

My question is why?


Girls always stay more hesitant to such closeness.I am normally even more shy & avoid making eye contacts to boys except in important situations.


The reason I could find-Pallavi has never got her hands on boys before.I strongly believe Mandar was someone who gave her family & somehow pallavi held in him considering him a guardian.She wasn't attracted to him.She never confided in him as a friend.She never actually found a friend(Let's not talk about krishna.I am sure she finds her a younger sister with the didi part coming in).

So,Pallavi had that part missing in her life.On top that,she used to lead her according to the responsibility coming on her,not bothering a free life where mistakes can be forgiven & not encountered severely,ousted from house brutally.She finds this normal.That's why she has no grudge against D family & tries to win them back.As her life until meeting Raghav has always like this.She had to face questions on her every actions & maybe rebuked time to time if her answers don't match others expectations

Somewhat like a boarding school.



In Raghav,She found everything(In comparison to her previous life).Unknowingly she grew more close to him,not towards his masculinity or looks.Emotions have layers.She crossed those initial layers with Raghav where she felt right amount of safety around him.Otherwise,which girl on the earth would go to a guy's house in the middle of a night that too haq se?Pallavi finds Raghav a decent man from the perspective of a woman/Girl.

Love,Respect-They may come later.But finding that trust & believe that A boy wouldn't touch you in an appropriate way without your consent even if your sleeping naked in front of him -Is itself a great relief.Pallavi found that long decades ago.

Basing on everything,They first hug didn't have any ounch of awkwardness from Pallavi's side.She was so engrossed in his arms,like a melted icecream.She didn't bother to break the hug on her own rather by a presence of another person & that's obvious.If Farhad wouldn't come,That hug would last longer.

Pallavi has found a companion.She is yet to realize the extremities of her emotions towards this companion❤

wonderful👏👏👏thats why amma said eksaath rehne do inko ek raat! Because both will crave it more!! It has warmth, which they never felt with someone else! Aise acche acche post roj ane do!!! All fandom loves such analysis reading! she once said to mansi “insaan ke physical existence ki jaroorat nahi hoti “regarding mandar!!

Now she will understand this slowly!!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Doc

Han shayad abhindosri.hug ka scope hai..ye hug to mjhe zabardasti ki lagi..it seems k.raghav ko.rokna tha pallavi.ko hyper hune se

yeah...pallavi was losing her mind---she was like aayi akeli hogi..i have to help her

Raghav was just trying to stop her from making impulsive decisions

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tasnimrayian

Being a girl,I always wondered why Pallavi is physically so comfortable around Raghav even more than Raghav.RR even having the essence of a alpha male,never tried to manhandle her which is so common in every ITV show where male pulls the female every now & then,sometimes so harshly that they fall in the bed,having some minutes eyelock,thus finally developing some feelings.Like dude who the hell falls in love just by having eyes locked?


That's called PHYSICAL ATTRACTON which doesn't necessarily mean love everytime.


BUT THE POINT IS RR HAS ALWAYS BEEN STRAYED FROM WALKING ON SUCH TYPICAL ROUTE.



Infact,Pallavi was the one to not to draw lines.Holding hand whenever she feels like,dragging him to side by hand,giving remarks on looks & getting not effected by the proximity ever while she is making the first move.

My question is why?


Girls always stay more hesitant to such closeness.I am normally even more shy & avoid making eye contacts to boys except in important situations.


The reason I could find-Pallavi has never got her hands on boys before.I strongly believe Mandar was someone who gave her family & somehow pallavi held in him considering him a guardian.She wasn't attracted to him.She never confided in him as a friend.She never actually found a friend(Let's not talk about krishna.I am sure she finds her a younger sister with the didi part coming in).

So,Pallavi had that part missing in her life.On top that,she used to lead her according to the responsibility coming on her,not bothering a free life where mistakes can be forgiven & not encountered severely,ousted from house brutally.She finds this normal.That's why she has no grudge against D family & tries to win them back.As her life until meeting Raghav has always like this.She had to face questions on her every actions & maybe rebuked time to time if her answers don't match others expectations

Somewhat like a boarding school.



In Raghav,She found everything(In comparison to her previous life).Unknowingly she grew more close to him,not towards his masculinity or looks.Emotions have layers.She crossed those initial layers with Raghav where she felt right amount of safety around him.Otherwise,which girl on the earth would go to a guy's house in the middle of a night that too haq se?Pallavi finds Raghav a decent man from the perspective of a woman/Girl.

Love,Respect-They may come later.But finding that trust & believe that A boy wouldn't touch you in an appropriate way without your consent even if your sleeping naked in front of him -Is itself a great relief.Pallavi found that long decades ago.

Basing on everything,They first hug didn't have any ounch of awkwardness from Pallavi's side.She was so engrossed in his arms,like a melted icecream.She didn't bother to break the hug on her own rather by a presence of another person & that's obvious.If Farhad wouldn't come,That hug would last longer.

Pallavi has found a companion.She is yet to realize the extremities of her emotions towards this companion❤

This was really Rayian

Pallavi found someone where she can be herself--where she is just Pallavi and is not conscious of herself and knows the other person in not judging her--and she found it all in Raghav

Raghav is like a companion and being in around the same age group also benefits the situation

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Great analysis Tasneem 👍🏼

Pallavi def feels safe around him, that's why isn't hesitant.

All credit goes to Raghav, he was always so careful not only with her but around other females too.

He knows how to show respect, care and affection without crossing boundaries...

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Originally posted by: Isamreen

Great analysis Tasneem 👍🏼

Pallavi def feels safe around him, that's why isn't hesitant.

All credit goes to Raghav, he was always so careful not only with her but around other females too.

He knows how to show respect, care and affection without crossing boundaries...

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