Aai Kuthe Kay Karte - Thread 2 - Page 44

Aru ne aajparyanta saglyancha sagla kela. Kay milala? Apmaan, fasavnuk, kashta, krutaghnapana! So obviously whatever she is doing is not working. So if she wants some other results she herself will have to change her behaviour. Be the change you wish to see and all that...

But the biggest fault in writing/ direction here is that aru is not shown wanting this. Tila ticha kahi chukla asa vatach nahi mhanunach tila fakta aplya vaaya gelelya family sathi ek navin aru havi ahe ji tichyasarkhich molkarin asel vruttine. Sanskaar mhanun sasu saasre, navryachi seva keli chalo fine...poranchya taala var asa nachna he kontya sanskaaran madhe basta? Khare sanskaar he aaplya poranna swavalambi banavna nahi ka?

And I agree ya lockdown episodes pasun show agdich faltu zalay. Mi tar baghitlach nahiye kiti divas zale. Ikde vachte fakta ani utube var te 5min che video baghte🥱

Originally posted by: NerdyMukta

Just read the discussion about helping Aai. Here are my 2 cents. Its easier for a working mother to ask and get help from the family members (MIL, FIL, kids and hubby). Typically if you are home maker then you are left on your own. Many stay at home mothers (including my own 😔) think that its their responsibility to take care of home and everybody living there.

Something that bothers me and is a work in progress with my Aai is that anytime I'm away from home attending a conference, my Aai feels that my husband has obliged me by 'running the house' for a few days. But if he's away on a business trip, Aai won't worry about how I manage taking care of home, kids and work.

This is true. My mother is homemaker too. We have to normalise many things for a mother or a wife. It's okay if a lady takes rest for a day..it's okay if she is not able to give tiffin to kids or husband for a day.our culture is such that they make women guilty of not doing things for family. We have to treat such women as human and not superwomen.

My mother has bit of aru in her😆she likes to do all things by her. Most of the time she doesn't even ask for help. at least now we have given some confidence to her that we can do few things nicely..not perfect like her...but still better😆

Fortunately my baba always help my mother. He buys veggies and do the cleaning of it.

If I have to talk about my kaki.. then she is Home maker too.. 😆

My kaki is more strict than my simple aai😆my Kaka is extra helpful than my baba😆kakana masala vatata yeto..ani basic cooking pan changli yete..so pahune yenar astil tar kakina kakanchi barich help hote

I have two cousin brothers. One is in 10th now n other one is in last year of graduation college. One brother put the clothes in washing machine and other one helps in drying the clothes. One does mopping. In the evening when my kaki completes her cooking she sits in hall and kids brings all food in hall to eat together. So basically they have assigned duties 😆

Sometimes women has to be demanding too. It's okay to ask for help from your kids or husband.

My kaki is demanding women not extreme one but bit may be like Kanchan. My mother is bit like aru but like bhetu punha said mulana swatahun aaila madad karnyachi savay hi asayla havi..so tashi savay amhala swatahun lagli ani ata Mazi aai bindhast amahala Kam sangte😆

माझी आई आणि बाबा दोघेही नोकरदार असल्याने, आम्ही लहानपणी पाळणाघरात रहायचो.

त्यामुळे स्वतःची काम स्वतःच करायची ही सवय लहानपणी पासूनच लागलीच आहे आम्हाला.

Grocery shoping ची एक लिस्ट बनवून दिली की बाबा ते सगळं सामान आणायचे, आता तेच काम माझा भाऊ करतो.

बाकी स्वयंपाक किंवा machine लावणे, ताट(पानं) वाढुन घेणे, हे आजही आम्हीच करतो.

Rather मी करते.

आईला आता होत नाही.

म्हणजे कसा आहे ना ,की आमच्याकडे आम्ही अशी काम वाटून घेतली आहेत की एकाने बाहेरची सगळी ने आण करायची आणि दुसऱ्याने घरातलं बघायचं. होत तसं manage.

(आणि हो, हे सगळ आपापल्या नोकऱ्या सभाळून करतो आम्ही).

Mazya ghari mazi aai ani even mazi aaji suddha job karayche. So housewives na kay issue asu shaktat he mala kadhi faar baghayala milala nahi. Mhanun kahi kahi gharatlya mi goshti baghte/ aikte tar mala faar ascharya vatata. 7 chya nantar bed pasarlela amchya ghari chalat nahi, so mi he asla isha la lolat padlela baghte, alarm band karun zopleli baghte tar mala khup dhakka basto😆 (aadhi mi he sagla TV var shows madhe baghayche tar mala vataycha ugach tv ahe mhanun dakhavtat...nantar ata mazya maitrini jevha dupari 1 la uthatat tevha kalta nahi asa hi asta ) tasach paanat je vadhla jail te khaycha, aaji/ aai pratyekasathi vegla kahi karnar nahi. Pahila je vadhla jail te khaychah! No choice there. Aavdat nasel tar punha gheu naka, pan ekda vadhlela sampava. So mi aaj jevha mazya friends na baghte mulanna vichartana ki aaj kay banvu tujhyasathi and all mala faar shocking vatata😆ata mothi zale tari sagla khaychi savay lagliye ti tashich ahe. Amhi pan ghari kaama vaatun gheto. Mazya aajobanna suddha bhaaji waran bhaat karta yaycha. Te dusting karayche, maschine lavayche. Ani maze baba tar expert cook ahet so purushanni swayampak karna yaat mala navin kahi nahi😆

Birthday celebration of birthday boy.. Appa aka Kishor sir ❣

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Shekhar pan gelay tikde? Tyacha hi scene asnar ahe bahutek ata mag...

I grew up in a joint family until the age of 18. And Aai was mothi soon. My kaku worked and was independent woman in true sense. She would go visit her sister after work and gave a damn what Aaji thought. Aaji did not leave her hold over the kitchen until she was in her 90s. So she ruled the house. My Aajoba used to get veggies and Baba did the same in his retirement. Neither my Dada or my cousins (all boys) helped in anything in the kitchen. They did do laundry and packed their own bags as they would trek a lot. I can literally list the number of times my Baba or my Kaka cooked something. But Aaji is to blame for that. Baba made morning tea everyday since his retirement. Thankfully Aaji had the rule that paanaavar he padel te khaaychay. Aaji was progressive about any religious rituals and insisted that none of her DILs continue after her. Taking some lessons from my childhood, I made my kids do their laundry and vacuum/clean their room from about 12-13.

अरे, या लोकांची काय डोकी फिरलीत का?

अत्ता first break मध्ये 7 june चा प्रोमो दाखवला.

ज्यामध्ये रुद्ध आप्पा ना सांगतो की मला अरु बरोबर राहायचं आहे, मला संजना बरोबर लग्न करायचं नाहीये.

आणि कहर म्हणजे हे सगळं दोघिहि ऐकतात, संजना पण आणि अरु पण...

Originally posted by: iluvusakshi

अरे, या लोकांची काय डोकी फिरलीत का?

अत्ता first break मध्ये 7 june चा प्रोमो दाखवला.

ज्यामध्ये रुद्ध आप्पा ना सांगतो की मला अरु बरोबर राहायचं आहे, मला संजना बरोबर लग्न करायचं नाहीये.

आणि कहर म्हणजे हे सगळं दोघिहि ऐकतात, संजना पण आणि अरु पण...

Tyannaa yed laglay or aplyalaa yeda banvat aahet.

Gol gol Rani chalala aahe.😡

Appa aka Kishor sir during Pavitra Rishta days..

Saw these pics on insta

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With Sushant singh Rajput 🥰

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