Pallu love for D gang !! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

The woman is in denial and trying to make everything “like before”. Woman, wake up, apart from aai and nikhil, no one truly loves you there MADAM. I think pallu has forgotten her self respect. She obsesses over people who threw her out and fights with Raghav for them instead of fighting him for her character assassination. Matlab, the dude walks in and says they shared colorful nights but madam feels bad coz her family is broken. If it were a real family, Raghu’s nose would have been broken that very moment he uttered those words.

And she’s conveniently forgotten Kirtis pain. Woman, wake up! .

Madam ko thoda self respect lessons dene ko mangta.

work apne Raghav ko hi karna hoga kuki uski bato ka too kux asar nhi ho rha h uspar

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

its irritating.......my family my family jaap is boring and annoying....

to compensate for all this Raghav is doing all the right things.......m loving him......

i liked mansi's character but the actor is too loud, with her eyes, voice and doesnt know how to speak........no offense pls......

sanki ko replace kiya and aur band baja di character ki......he cant be 1% of original.......

We get it what she feels but every episode crying and being alone not connected to rao’s is so irritating ya

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

I like the new Sanki to be honest. Might be a minority. Not that I hated the old one. But I can connect if he really loves Pallavi as his daughter. The older actor looked very fake in his affection. But yeah for Raghav he gave takkar ka sasurji vibes..

He is better than old one

Old man was worst for trp

Originally posted by: ChulbuliRao

at red...YAAR SERIOUSLY... I NOW HATE MANASI KE BITCHY EXPRESSIONS...she is giving suck cold weird vibes. i don't want any REDEMPTION none at all...the way she slapped nikhil and told him about my papa's money and u freeloader etc etc...ooof yaar kaisy hai ye .🤢.. sulu se bhi jyada chant..👎🏼

i think this papa deshmukh looks very mellowed down.. it will be easy for him to forgive raghav and be positive.. old papa was too overbearing and evil looking... i loved to hate him though🤣

this pallu is so much matji type ..as i once said ...hostel warden ki tarah.. i want my bomb fata kya, main chup gayi waali pallu.. hope that it happens soon..i think showing pallu so stern and lifeless was needed but now since she herself has decided to give raghav a second chance and also we have had a teary redemption track, we need less stress on strict disciplined pallavi

Exactly irritating can’t digest it

We get her pain but this obsession is not tolerated

Originally posted by: Ubiquitos

That is how her character is written. She considers them as her family. And family is family, regardless of how they are, that family was her home, her comfort place until Raghav came in and Sanki's eccentricity played out... She has given back to Mansi and Sulo at times, and even shunned aai at her marriage.. But more than that, she is too broken to confront reality of her life.

Honestly the more I watch the show from her POV, the more I feel angry @writers, I mean she has literally nothing of her own... She is an orphan in so many ways, no money, no family, no work... Don't get me started at do din ki blackmail se kari huyi shaadi to a person who until two days back was an enemy to her. I have always felt that writers were hell bent on created miseries for her, the way they do in ITV shows.. Like one after another... Any normal person would have been depressive by now.... She was chirpy before, used to fight with Raghav.... Now it's all gone.. 😒😭

For me, when she decided to leave, I was like finally you decided to take matter in your own hands, good..👏👏

More than anything, it's poor writing.. 😭

Her dialogues need to be slightly realistic, modern age, to-the-point... and more than dialogues, I believe gestures and emotions suffice..

Oopar se wardrobe aur makeup bhi👎🏼.

We get her pain but why boring us in each episode get over it and fight for rights

Firebrand pallu lost

Just like RR was shown to be utter idiot by trying to marry for Amma, a girl he does not like nor doesn't even know she was married earlier. His blind love for Amma made him so crazy he married Pallavi immediately in a day by blackmail? If we can accept that and gush over RR..then we can accept Pallavis love for her family.

I see lots of people saying that she should only care for Aai and Nikhil since they stood with her at times. But gals..if your dad got angry with you would you consider that he doesn't love you ? Parents who have showered you with love also have a right to get a angry with you . And yes making Pallavi leave home was wrong on his part but Pallavi was his pride. His sons memory. He acted on impulse. We don't start unloving people just because they are angry with us. In fact because Pallavi understands this she was able to give Raghav a second chance.

We see so many honor killings and unjustifiable acts even in so called high society by families on girls. Here , I have always found this middle class family quite forward in treating thier DIL widow like a family member and letting her be involved with the household, instead of sending her back to Maika. Also they let her participate openly in haldi kumkum functions which frankly no one let's widows participate in , in reality. We may have idealistic expectations of society ...but society is not idealistic. This is the society that would easily blame the DIL for son's death and call her manhoos. But compared to all that Sharda and Vijay were much better parents in law. Point is Pallavi was happier with them. She felt like it was her duty to hold that family after Mandars death and Raghav took her role away by force...so her angst is justified and so her love. I

Its very silly to think that we should love only those family members that love us and discard anyone that doesn't love us from our life. Real life does not work like that. If it not working out with some family members we try to make efforts and work it out. Making efforts being the key. Discarding people is very easy...but in that way one will end up discarding everybody because people are going to disappoint you at some point in life.

I totally relate to Pallavi's loyalty to the family she considers hers. Baba has been shown to be angry lately but if you see episodes from beginning he even gives her a token note award that he would have given his son . He is justified in his anger too in a way..who will forgive if thier daughter marries without telling them. Will Raghav forgive if Keerthi she marries without telling him?

It takes a while for embittered relations to be normal again. And making effort is the key..so I am glad RR is making that effort for her since he caused all this.

We all married women have our maika..if our own people do not behave well with us for any reason do we break the relationship? Do we not long for things to back to normal?

In fact more than Deshmukhs I find Amma's character weird. Just because somebody appears broad minded does not mean they are right. She had issues with her son..which she should have made efforts to bridge..she is the mom and elder one there..its her job to understand her son and rectify him..instead she wants to bring a bahu who will " disciple" and "sudharo" her son. That was very dumb in my opinion. Especially when a lot of bitterness in RR is caused due to lack of acceptance from his mother. Then..she knows Pallavi is a widow but does not inform her son about it. What was that!! He also does not do his homework..and both mom and son bring Pallavi into thier home as if she is some cattle. "Sorry" does not take away from the fact that it was due to Amma that Raghav did all this.

I find Deshmukhs to be much more realistic representation of typical middle class...they don't hurt people on the name of being " open minded" . They are what they are. I find the Raos..Amma and Keerthi to be unrealistic and unrelatable frankly.

I think people are so focused on Raghvi that any characters who do not support Raghvi become unrelatable to them. But hero and heroine have families where they came from and thier attachment to those is a part of thier life!

Loving the current track !

She was yateem and d family is the one jis ne sab se pehle pyaar dya.

Baat itni si hai..usne unko hi family jana hai..

I can understand.

Originally posted by: Doc

She was yateem and d family is the one jis ne sab se pehle pyaar dya.

Baat itni si hai..usne unko hi family jana hai..

I can understand.

we get her pain we expect her to act not sob and lecture as if she and her family are mahan

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Just like RR was shown to be utter idiot by trying to marry for Amma, a girl he does not like nor doesn't even know she was married earlier. His blind love for Amma made him so crazy he married Pallavi immediately in a day by blackmail? If we can accept that and gush over RR..then we can accept Pallavis love for her family.

I see lots of people saying that she should only care for Aai and Nikhil since they stood with her at times. But gals..if your dad got angry with you would you consider that he doesn't love you ? Parents who have showered you with love also have a right to get a angry with you . And yes making Pallavi leave home was wrong on his part but Pallavi was his pride. His sons memory. He acted on impulse. We don't start unloving people just because they are angry with us. In fact because Pallavi understands this she was able to give Raghav a second chance.

We see so many honor killings and unjustifiable acts even in so called high society by families on girls. Here , I have always found this middle class family quite forward in treating thier DIL widow like a family member and letting her be involved with the household, instead of sending her back to Maika. Also they let her participate openly in haldi kumkum functions which frankly no one let's widows participate in , in reality. We may have idealistic expectations of society ...but society is not idealistic. This is the society that would easily blame the DIL for son's death and call her manhoos. But compared to all that Sharda and Vijay were much better parents in law. Point is Pallavi was happier with them. She felt like it was her duty to hold that family after Mandars death and Raghav took her role away by force...so her angst is justified and so her love. I

Its very silly to think that we should love only those family members that love us and discard anyone that doesn't love us from our life. Real life does not work like that. If it not working out with some family members we try to make efforts and work it out. Making efforts being the key. Discarding people is very easy...but in that way one will end up discarding everybody because people are going to disappoint you at some point in life.

I totally relate to Pallavi's loyalty to the family she considers hers. Baba has been shown to be angry lately but if you see episodes from beginning he even gives her a token note award that he would have given his son . He is justified in his anger too in a way..who will forgive if thier daughter marries without telling them. Will Raghav forgive if Keerthi she marries without telling him?

It takes a while for embittered relations to be normal again. And making effort is the key..so I am glad RR is making that effort for her since he caused all this.

We all married women have our maika..if our own people do not behave well with us for any reason do we break the relationship? Do we not long for things to back to normal?

In fact more than Deshmukhs I find Amma's character weird. Just because somebody appears broad minded does not mean they are right. She had issues with her son..which she should have made efforts to bridge..she is the mom and elder one there..its her job to understand her son and rectify him..instead she wants to bring a bahu who will " disciple" and "sudharo" her son. That was very dumb in my opinion. Especially when a lot of bitterness in RR is caused due to lack of acceptance from his mother. Then..she knows Pallavi is a widow but does not inform her son about it. What was that!! He also does not do his homework..and both mom and son bring Pallavi into thier home as if she is some cattle. "Sorry" does not take away from the fact that it was due to Amma that Raghav did all this.

I find Deshmukhs to be much more realistic representation of typical middle class...they don't hurt people on the name of being " open minded" . They are what they are. I find the Raos..Amma and Keerthi to be unrealistic and unrelatable frankly.

I think people are so focused on Raghvi that any characters who do not support Raghvi become unrelatable to them. But hero and heroine have families where they came from and thier attachment to those is a part of thier life!

Loving the current track !

some what D family can't be tolerated and pallu loving them is ok but obsessed is boring

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Just like RR was shown to be utter idiot by trying to marry for Amma, a girl he does not like nor doesn't even know she was married earlier. His blind love for Amma made him so crazy he married Pallavi immediately in a day by blackmail? If we can accept that and gush over RR..then we can accept Pallavis love for her family.

I see lots of people saying that she should only care for Aai and Nikhil since they stood with her at times. But gals..if your dad got angry with you would you consider that he doesn't love you ? Parents who have showered you with love also have a right to get a angry with you . And yes making Pallavi leave home was wrong on his part but Pallavi was his pride. His sons memory. He acted on impulse. We don't start unloving people just because they are angry with us. In fact because Pallavi understands this she was able to give Raghav a second chance.

We see so many honor killings and unjustifiable acts even in so called high society by families on girls. Here , I have always found this middle class family quite forward in treating thier DIL widow like a family member and letting her be involved with the household, instead of sending her back to Maika. Also they let her participate openly in haldi kumkum functions which frankly no one let's widows participate in , in reality. We may have idealistic expectations of society ...but society is not idealistic. This is the society that would easily blame the DIL for son's death and call her manhoos. But compared to all that Sharda and Vijay were much better parents in law. Point is Pallavi was happier with them. She felt like it was her duty to hold that family after Mandars death and Raghav took her role away by force...so her angst is justified and so her love. I

Its very silly to think that we should love only those family members that love us and discard anyone that doesn't love us from our life. Real life does not work like that. If it not working out with some family members we try to make efforts and work it out. Making efforts being the key. Discarding people is very easy...but in that way one will end up discarding everybody because people are going to disappoint you at some point in life.

I totally relate to Pallavi's loyalty to the family she considers hers. Baba has been shown to be angry lately but if you see episodes from beginning he even gives her a token note award that he would have given his son . He is justified in his anger too in a way..who will forgive if thier daughter marries without telling them. Will Raghav forgive if Keerthi she marries without telling him?

It takes a while for embittered relations to be normal again. And making effort is the key..so I am glad RR is making that effort for her since he caused all this.

We all married women have our maika..if our own people do not behave well with us for any reason do we break the relationship? Do we not long for things to back to normal?

In fact more than Deshmukhs I find Amma's character weird. Just because somebody appears broad minded does not mean they are right. She had issues with her son..which she should have made efforts to bridge..she is the mom and elder one there..its her job to understand her son and rectify him..instead she wants to bring a bahu who will " disciple" and "sudharo" her son. That was very dumb in my opinion. Especially when a lot of bitterness in RR is caused due to lack of acceptance from his mother. Then..she knows Pallavi is a widow but does not inform her son about it. What was that!! He also does not do his homework..and both mom and son bring Pallavi into thier home as if she is some cattle. "Sorry" does not take away from the fact that it was due to Amma that Raghav did all this.

I find Deshmukhs to be much more realistic representation of typical middle class...they don't hurt people on the name of being " open minded" . They are what they are. I find the Raos..Amma and Keerthi to be unrealistic and unrelatable frankly.

I think people are so focused on Raghvi that any characters who do not support Raghvi become unrelatable to them. But hero and heroine have families where they came from and thier attachment to those is a part of thier life!

Loving the current track !

I absolutely loved what you wrote here. Seriously! A very different perspective and yes I understand her now! It's very easy for us to judge her. Par usski jagah pe rehke dekho toh I don't know woh abhi tak zinda kaise hai?! We never really think from her perspective. Dil se nahi sochte because it's not in our (RaghVi) favour.

I really want to know what Raghav is thinking about her. Is he doing all this because this is what Pallavi wants? Or because he understood her pain?