Yeh meri pehli shadi hai - Page 6

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

Hahaha Raghu saying this and getting chappal joote thrown at him with a night out on couch 🤣

Or

We can have a cool husband moment like when Ayushmann says to Yami in Vicky Donor, 'Le yeh bhi koi shaadi hui suhagraat toh bani hi nahi" 🤣🤣

That would be fun to see shy Pallu ☺️

I actually think she might be the one to approach him first. He'll be too shy with her.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Yup loved how he said "wo meri biwi hai" to his alter ego. This shadi is no more a deal for him..I dont think it ever was..he is not that kinda guy who would have flings or non serious relationships...the lil changes im seeing in him..how he now always knocks before he enters her room..is so much more receptive as opposed to being imposing, is a welcome change...He is even ready to take her hurtful comments about not being the reason for his family being with him..that must've hurt because we know how touchy he is when it comes to his family.. but he took it on the chin..Its time for him to make big amends really.. and so far he has not disappointed..

He took offense when his alter ego called her 'koi aur'.... woh koi aur nahin hai... she's part of his inner circle now, and we know Raghav never lets go of the ones he cares about. Amma and Keerti had maintained a distance from him all those years but nothing stopped him from checking up on them and caring for their wellfare.

Because he's a good man at heart, because his principles don't allow him punishing innocents, and his guilt is accompanied by a genuine need to see her happy. He feels hurt seeing her like this, even if he doesn't know it. I don't think he's had flings either and he takes marriage seriously. I think he started out seeing it as a deal that he'd have to live with for good but the night of the reception the reality hit him that this marriage is real, not a piece of paper he signed. He could have left it be a marriage of convenience, but as we have all been saying, he's going to be the one to work to make things work. For now he's in damage control mode and his guilt and uneasiness at seeing Pallavi's flame nearly extinguished is making him control his urge to do rash things. He's always been a sensitive person, he has it in him to be really caring, just that with his wife he can't let his temper dictate his actions anymore. He's also being extra cautious with everything to do with Pallavi, like he's walking on eggshells. The last thing he wants is to make things worse, so he's taking a lot of care with what he does and says. I know he has a long way to go, but I feel like at one point he might lose patience and give her a hard shake (figurately) to make her come out of this mode she's in.

Yeah, that comment about his Amma must have hurt but even he knows she's right. It will accentuate to him the fact that his relationship with all 3 women in his life barely hangs in a delicate balance and if's not careful it will all come crashing down before he knows it.

I agree with this. He’s shy near her. I also love the fact that he doesn’t physically impose himself on her. I’ve seen ML characters always taking over the FL personal space and pushing and hugging forcefully etc. Raghav keeps his distance which I find very endearing. There was only one time he pulled her to himself.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I actually think she might be the one to approach him first. He'll be too shy with her.

Originally posted by: inlieu

He took offense when his alter ego called her 'koi aur'.... woh koi aur nahin hai... she's part of his inner circle now, and we know Raghav never lets go of the ones he cares about. Amma and Keerti had maintained a distance from him all those years but nothing stopped him from checking up on them and caring for their wellfare.

Because he's a good man at heart, because his principles don't allow him punishing innocents, and his guilt is accompanied by a genuine need to see her happy. He feels hurt seeing her like this, even if he doesn't know it. I don't think he's had flings either and he takes marriage seriously. I think he started out seeing it as a deal that he'd have to live with for good but the night of the reception the reality hit him that this marriage is real, not a piece of paper he signed. He could have left it be a marriage of convenience, but as we have all been saying, he's going to be the one to work to make things work. For now he's in damage control mode and his guilt and uneasiness at seeing Pallavi's flame nearly extinguished is making him control his urge to do rash things. He's always been a sensitive person, he has it in him to be really caring, just that with his wife he can't let his temper dictate his actions anymore. He's also being extra cautious with everything to do with Pallavi, like he's walking on eggshells. The last thing he wants is to make things worse, so he's taking a lot of care with what he does and says. I know he has a long way to go, but I feel like at one point he might lose patience and give her a hard shake (figurately) to make her come out of this mode she's in.

Yeah, that comment about his Amma must have hurt but even he knows she's right. It will accentuate to him the fact that his relationship with all 3 women in his life barely hangs in a delicate balance and if's not careful it will all come crashing down before he knows it.

I think with her its gonna be even more special.. Amma and Keerthi are an extension of his own self..taking care of them is like taking care of himself.. he is bound by blood and so no matter what he will always be there for them..its instinctive and its the most natural thing to do. With Pallavi, there will be moments when he will feel like throwing it all up out of frustration and helplessness of not being able to reach through to her..its not going to be a smooth ride by any stretch of imagination even if/when Pallavi finds it in her to forgive him.. but he will make it work for himself and for them because by then he will have fallen in love with her.. One more thing, as much as we feel irritated with Pallavi for her utmost devotion to that undeserving family of the Deshmukhs, its that very quality of hers, her selfless devotion to that family, that has earned her so much respect from Raghav

Ong slaped unlimited times 🤣

Originally posted by: inlieu

I actually think she might be the one to approach him first. He'll be too shy with her.

Hmmm maybe but I think it would be him making the first move 😆

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

I agree with this. He’s shy near her. I also love the fact that he doesn’t physically impose himself on her. I’ve seen ML characters always taking over the FL personal space and pushing and hugging forcefully etc. Raghav keeps his distance which I find very endearing. There was only one time he pulled her to himself.

Yes, I agree, he respects the space. I also like that she's not coy like most FLs, she's fine with taking things out of his pocket, grabbing his collar, or his hands, etc.

That's why the physical touch will be meaningful when the time comes, if the safety pin scene is anything to go by.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I think with her its gonna be even more special.. Amma and Keerthi are an extension of his own self..taking care of them is like taking care of himself.. he is bound by blood and so no matter what he will always be there for them..its instinctive and its the most natural thing to do. With Pallavi, there will be moments when he will feel like throwing it all up out of frustration and helplessness of not being able to reach through to her..its not going to be a smooth ride by any stretch of imagination even if/when Pallavi finds it in her to forgive him.. but he will make it work for himself and for them because by then he will have fallen in love with her.. One more thing, as much as we feel irritated with Pallavi for her utmost devotion to that undeserving family of the Deshmukhs, its that very quality of hers, her selfless devotion to that family, that has earned her so much respect from Raghav

Yes, I do foresee him going through periods of frustration when his attempts fail and she keeps trying to put up walls. He will have to get creative to disarm her, and we know he's capable of quirky ideas. Bring it on, RR!

Regarding her devotion to the Deshmukhs and him respecting her for it, well we all predicted this would happen, so far it's good. I just didn't think it would be shown so soon after the wedding, but fine. He now has to build a roadmap of where he wants to go with this, as hinted by his alter ego. It won't be a surgical strike like last time, he'll have to adapt and course correct as he gets to know her better.

It will be special indeed because if Amma and Keerti's current behavior is any indication, he will have them physically in his home but there will be this emotional distance between them. Not for a long while, I think. Later on, only Pallavi can fill the void and the way he's fought to keep Amma and Keerti with him, he'll do whatever it takes to make things better between his wife and him. He started off this marriage on the backfoot and he knows he'll have to work extra hard. Reminds me of the situation with Mr. Bajaj of KZK S1, who was always afraid he could lose Prerna/she could walk out any moment because she was forced to marrying him. There was nothing keeping her there or holding her back. Raghav will feel insecure about this with or without Mandaar in the picture. The day she regains her self-confidence and figures out what she wants to do in life, she can just walk out and be independent. She won't need him and this will make him worried. On what basis will he ask her to stay back and build a life with him? After his current guilt trip, he will probably get to a point later on where he will not stop her, even if he knows that Pallavi leaving might mean Amma and Keerti leaving again, and him being thrown back into that loneliness he had tried so hard to overcome.

Sigh... I'm loving this...

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

Hmmm maybe but I think it would be him making the first move 😆

Maybe in terms of expressing his feelings, but in terms of physical intimacy.. no clue, maybe it will only happen in the last episode. LOL!

Exact point.He is very decent incase of this things.Other male leads are always pulling pushing leaving no personal space.i also like Pallavi they are care free and comfortable with body touch.things are changing in serial industry ,mehendi hai rachnewali is an example of that.Raghvi creates magic whenever they are on screen.whenever Raghab hold Pallavi's hand it is so worth to watch.when in barmala scene he gave that mala to Pallavi and takes her hand and wears himself and slowly leave pallavi's hand that was so awesome.They don't have unwanted uneasiness with each others body touch.I really like this couple they are very different.this story is very different.