Sai jalan

When virat can understand sai is jealous of nurse with just one incident then why can't he understand she is jealous of pakhi too. Today when he mentioned jealous the first name sai took was pakhi. She gave many hints infact directly told him how much she is bothered by pakhi presence in their life. Still why virat overlooking such big issue. What will take him to understand sai insecurities which was planted by him with his actions & words.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

When virat can understand sai is jealous of nurse with just one incident then why can't he understand she is jealous of pakhi too. Today when he mentioned jealous the first name sai took was pakhi. She gave many hints infact directly told him how much she is bothered by pakhi presence in their life. Still why virat overlooking such big issue. What will take him to understand sai insecurities which was planted by him with his actions & words.

Virat should to stop serving jelabi to Sai, they need to address this without inference of third party

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

When virat can understand sai is jealous of nurse with just one incident then why can't he understand she is jealous of pakhi too. Today when he mentioned jealous the first name sai took was pakhi. She gave many hints infact directly told him how much she is bothered by pakhi presence in their life. Still why virat overlooking such big issue. What will take him to understand sai insecurities which was planted by him with his actions & words.

As you yourself said,one is his silence.

He is loyal to Sai, but he is not putting this into words.

Two, he wants Sai to understand his silence.

He thinks that he has told that he is Pakhi's friend only, and when he sees like this, he wants Sai to understand everything around this itself. But, some silences are not good, he needs to get that.

Actually yr don't say i love u but can clear about pakhi na few days back i was casually seeing their wedding episodes i was like kitne bhari bhari words use kare yeh

I have always been waiting for him to notice this. I kept asking people who give us updates of the episode if Virat noticed her jealousy in the hospital atleast. They didn’t show it in the episode when the nurse had come but showed it later when they were having tea in the garden, that he had actually noticed it.

So is it that he knows about her insecurities about Pakhi too but disregards thinking that can’t be the case since Sai has said a couple of times to Pakhi that she isn’t interested in Virat and she can happily have him for herself? Like on the day of Amay’s fight or when she left the room saying you guys carry on?

Whatever it is, it is not that hard to understand that she is upset with his and Pakhi’s relationship. It was so clear during Ladakh track, first when she wanted to know if he wanted her to accompany him, when she asked him in the car as what would Pakhi say or or when she grew angry on Pakhi when Pakhi asked Virat for his clothes. Or when she even asked (on the day there were about to travel) Pakhi if me joining you guys is a problem, if you are questioning a couple as what they are going to do in a trip, what kind of a trip did you want to have with my pati. Or when she confronted Virat that same night. What is it that’s not visible? If he expects her to see her feelings, how can he not see these that are so loud and something that gets reiterated time and again?

May be he will notice it now that he has understood that she can get possessive of him, now that he knows she cares for him and that he is an important person in her life? May be he has always been underestimating his position in her life, that even if he got some doubts he used to disregard it thinking Sai mere liye aise kabhi mehsoos nahi kar payegi. He had once assumed and told Pakhi over phone Sai mere liye kabhi wait nahi karti, Sai did look at him surprised/shocked when he said that.

Its strange that virat cannot see how much his relationship with pp affects Sai. She has understood the respect/regard he has for her, she knows their past, she knows that virat is respectful of their current equation as devar bhabhi but she is uncomfortable with how pp behaves. If virat is looking out for pp just as friend or BIL she doesn't mind. She is not petty. She genuinely did not mind ladakh trip to look for Samrat and do his paperwork. She even genuinely was ok with them.going alone. But she only got uncomfortable with how pp was treating that trip as a honeymoon with virat. Asking to pack clothes in one bag, getting SO angry to learn that Sai will be there to interrupt her trip with virat. It showed her intentions clearly. And virat was angry at pp's behavior then but he didnt call her out for her clear illicit intentions. And in hospital also she saw her intentions. Staying there pretending to be virats wife rather than a well wisher.

when pp panicked everyone when Virat came home late from work due to being in hospital with that kid, Sai very maturely said - its nice to know that kisi ko humaari fikr hai rather than use that opportunity to taunt pp. So Sai does acknowledge that theres is always gonna be some soft corner that virat-pp have for each other and now they are family too inna twisted way as BIL-SIL, not just friends.

But Sai has been very direct with asking virat to clarify his feelings for pp but he brushes it away or denies it instead of clarifying in detail. He needs to admit he had an infatuation, explain how there was no real relationship, only the expectation of a life together perhaps which was nipped in the bud far too early. If he is honest, Sai will understand. Its worse when he insults her intelligence by making it seem like shes at fault for suggesting that pp-virat have more than friendly feelings for each other. Shes not imagining things. The suggestion of him-pp acting like more than friends may make him and everyone uncomfortable but its TRUE! :( Its only now that Virat is actually waking up to pp's true colors.

Sai was very correct when she said pp-virat equation is not like mohit-sai. Mohit Sai genuinely have a bond of brother-sister, friendship where they stay in their limits. they do speak up for each other n support each other but theres a distance - a respectful healthy distance. They address each other formally.

But virat calls pp by her pet name that no one else uses.even bk, sonali call her patralekha not pakhi. Virat despite his attempt to maintain distance from pp has until now given her too much leeway to barge into his room n life. and pp has been shamelessly obvious of her interest in virat as a "lover". It is crazy that despite aai n sai pointing it out SO many times and virat himself seeing that pp cannot move on, hates Sai, compares herself to Sai- he doesn't see that Sai will be and IS insecure of his past n his relationship with pp. When he teased her about jalan, her first thought was pp. Because she is jealous of the position that she perceives pp to have in virats life. Sai has not hidden her distaste for pp, and his friendship with pp, but virat doesn't clarify everything to make her understand.

If Sai had a boyfriend before a marriage, would virat not want to know details of what happened... i'm sure he would. Its natural..On mere mention of aniket, virat went in person to go check the guy out. So wont Sai be curious to know about pp- how they met , why they didnt marry each other if they liked each other

People can have a past. That can be accepted..But if you dont even acknowledge it to your partner then the partner will feel insecure.

Just like he thinks Sai needs to be spoken in “Spasht” words, someone needs to spell it out to him as well.

For him, he has maintained a dignified relationship with Pakhi and has given no1 any reason to suspect anything. Despite Pakhi making her intentions very clear to him, he has still does not doubt her behaviour towards Sai as insecurity. So how will a guy like that understand his wife’s jealousy? 🤦‍♀️

If Virat’s action has made her insecure then Sai’s action and words has made him feel like he doesn’t hold any important position in his life . Let me do a recap of all the Sai’s action which has caused this

1. Even before Virat spoke about the Vaada , Sai was the one who asked him to stop the wedding as she is not interested in marrying him .

2. Sai said she won’t marry him even if he is the last man on this earth . He knows she married him out of majboori

3. I have lost the count on how many times Sai has reminded Virat of the deal marriage .

4. It’s always Sai who spoke about leaving after 5 years .

5. This is the first time she is open about her affection for him but even then she is interested in Devkit than taking care of him . It might send a wrong message that she came back to finish her mission not to care for him .

Virat is someone who believes in consent and I am so glad he doesn’t atalk or force himself on her in the name of love . He is trying to gauge her reactions , if he feels she os interested in him then he will definitely clear every about Pakhi . If she is not interested, how does it matter what he feels about his ex .

Lastly , if Virat’s action can make her insecure then why can’t his recent actions make her secure ?

Same question.. The moment he mentioned jalan in today's episode , she mention Pakhi didi se? EVen Mohit has come to understand a lot of things being an audience to Virat-Pakhi-Sai. How come Virat still has not understood her jealousy, considering he clearly understood when it comes to doctor/nurse.. But then going back to episodes just after their marriage, he did taunt her for being jealous of Patralekha..so he understood right.. But now that he knew those feelings were there and holds no value to him now..he wants to evade anything and everything that has to do with PP..

I sometimes wonder if Virat doesn’t say anything in regards to Pakhi and his relationship because from his side it’s well and truly over and it’s irrelevant, so he doesn’t put any thought into it and doesn’t realise that for someone looking in it could be relevant?