That’s why Pakhi doesn’t leave a chance to remind him of his betrayal . She blames him for her state
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That’s why Pakhi doesn’t leave a chance to remind him of his betrayal . She blames him for her state
I raised that point couple of times. It is very common ....In all itv shows..
Just because virat has moved on (?), now all the blame on pp.... I know she behaves like it.... still virat's vaada is cause of all these nonsense he is dealing with...
is not only because Virat has moved on that the blame has come on Pakhi. The reason for which she married Virat was wrong. If she didn't want to move on, she could have chosen to not get married, her Dad had also said that he will support her decision and even asked her not to get married. She had her own reasons for it. Virat was at fault since he didn't fight for his love, he chose his brother's happiness. Just imagine, if he had chosen his love, we would have all said how selfish he was that he had forgotten all the years with his family, his brother and chose a girl whom he had just met, knew for just 2 days.
Sorry to say but Virat had told Pakhi that I hope you will attend the Sangeet, the decision was left to her.
Yes, pp needs treatment for her delusions - still somehow ... virat indirectly wished for.... pp-samrat marrige, otherwise he would disclose to samrat (if not whole family)!
He kept giving clarifications like he owes his life to pp, fueling her delusions after samrat-pp wedding continuously !
At that time, he felt very guilty and felt he owed her because she married his brother.
If he is really out of that attraction mode (???) ..... what is stopping him to call her vahini /aap ??? just like mohit addresses sai !
Whatever Virat is doing for Pakhi is out of goodwill and he has no feelings or attraction towards Pakhi.
I am still trying to figure that out. I used to think that he might have thought that she might feel insulted and that he wasn't respecting their past if he called her like that. I am not sure. Virat wouldn't have spoken whatever he spoke on the night Pakhi and him had a confrontation if Pakhi had not crossed a line. She pushed him to speak a lot of things so that she is brought back to reality and so that she takes his words very seriously.
Otherwise, it always looked as though he was respecting her as his past, was acting empathetic towards her feelings, her loss, considerate to the fact that she honoured his request and married his brother. Guilt wasn't the only reason he spoke to her from GC, when she used to call him, it was out of courtesy, so that she doesn't feel insulted if he ignores her calls or if he stops talking to her. For some in the position of Pakhi, it would look like they are drawing lines, some could also get offended that they don't trust them. So in this case, he didn't want Pakhi to think that he doesn't trust that she has moved on, didn't want Pakhi to think that he doubts her feelings or motives behind her calling him up, he always had trust in her that she is a very matured and an understanding person. I have a doubt if the same is probably the reason why he refrains himself from calling her Wahini.
That means - there is still something left.... what ever it was/is... guilt/attraction/infatuation... It is NOT completely over.... he has to close that chapter before starts afresh with sai.
No, he truly became her friend who he had promised he would become. He does and think all that I have said about her honour as a well wisher, as an ex would do. I think that much respect an exshpuld give and that is exactly what he is doing.
What is stopping him.... to announce loud and clear in front of CN animals.... warn them.... do not send pp for his work.... ever!
Does he know that she is being sent by them? Not all times. Also, he is plain stupid, always caught up with some emotions for his wife when Pakhi comes to their room, be it love or disappointment or insecurity or anger or admiration.
He knew that pp was stopping sai and 'ghar ke bade' appointed pp as his nurse.... overnight!
When you had mentioned about CN animals and work, it looked like you were talking about Pakhi being sent to Virat's room for some or the other task.
He guesses PP sent Sai back but didn't know thar those people stopped her until Sai herself said. He asked Pakhi to leave, what else could he hace done in the hospital? His family members weren't present.
Why is he not talking to pp parents about their daughter being delusional and stepping in his private space always ...even after repeated clarifications / denials !!!!!!!!!!
Again, I think he just doesn't want Pakhi to get humiliated. If you had noticed, after Sai spoke about Pakhi and his relationship in front if everyone on the day Sai was visiting PD, Virat apologised to Pakhi on Sai's behalf. It is like a girl's honour was questioned. His character could have also been questioned if anyone wanted, but he is a person who would think for the other person and not himself. When Sai asked Kaku if she is trying to link Virat and Pakhi due to the reason that they are not even sure if Samrat would return or not, Virat first felt bad that she spoke about Samrat like that, that is a sensitive subject for him and she casually said that his return is not even guaranteed. In the same way, his first thought was how would have Pakhi felt, he knew that she would have felt humiliated. Isn't it natural? If Sai wasn't a good person, if we do not support Sai, and if Pakhi wasn't a bad person, we would have felt bad for Pakhi after what what Sai spoke.
That is exactly what Virat felt. He not just felt bad for Pakhi, he didn't give whatever Sai spoke much of a weightage only because he knows that Sai is a person who is good at heart and that she has just misunderstood everything. If he didn't think that way, he would have made that too a big issue after Sai returned from PDs house. That shows how much understanding he has been towards Sai too.
So, coming back to your question, Virat doesn't want Pakhi to feel insulted. He knows that she would hate herself one day, she herself won't be able to meet her eyes on the mirror when she realises what she has been doing. He just doesn't want to take some harsh decisions now, thinking and hoping that she will change her ways.
I am not saying that this is right, he is just underestimating Pakhi's feelings or obsession for him. As they say, some people will only learn from their mistakes. He might have to pay a heavy price to be ignoring this thinking, that he is letting these activities of Pakhi go.
If virat dose NOT want pp to get insulted/humiliated... that is what he is pushing her to indirectly. He has to block any possibilities ... of those delusions...
If he is not working toward correcting her... not taking help of her parents/doctors... not actions/delusions... he is sending her to more and more humiliations
I understand that. That is why I said that he might only learn through his mistakes after paying a heavy price. His thoughts and approach to deal with this issue is wrong. It is not the right way to handle it or to put an end. He is taking decisions getting too emotional which would not help him in long run.
My original answers in green and now in blue.
But that is still not okay, in the end it is not part of his character..it is just the writers not following through on some of the simpler aspects of real life. We all know tv shows are not representive of real life but it irks me to no bounds when writers decide to stray from reality just to do drama. Like which police officer uses all those resources only to let the culprit go free....as much as you might want to personally the law does not work like that.
It is such a common thing on all these shows that I sometimes wonder about the Indian justice system (am not Indian) and am sure that is not how it works in real life but it does make you wonder. Like all the shows have so many villians that are actual criminals but they never really get punished and they always go back to that tired line of if someone realises their mistake then they should be forgiven...some do not even repent but becuase they are older like Kaku they just brush over it. Some crimes can not just go away just because the person regrets it....so many shows that show molesters, abusers, muderers and just plain mean evil people but in order to keep the story going they somehow just keep getting forgiven so they can continue doing the same things over and over...it gets tidious.
Off topic but I have been meaning to ask why are there so many shows where women are pitched against each for no apparent reason pretty much all the current shows have some women hating each other for no reason...in this casw Parkhi and Sai have a reason...but Karishma and Sonali being that hateful with no actual reason is annoying kind of proves that old saying that women can not exist without bickering and undermining each other for no reason
Originally posted by: cheekukabeej
about Atharva Vividha, I had no problem when they got together. In fact I wanted them to get together, because I understood their love and thought that was the right thing.
It doesn't mean I liked her or Atharva. Atharva, I never cared for much.
But Vividha is among the few fictional characters that I abhor (yes, I did use the word abhor) I also disliked her Sujata Chachi (the hypocrite😆)
I hated Vividha for different reasons. Her insensitivity towards others, especially Ravish put me off. Her hypocrisy put me off and so did the humiliation that Ravish got from her despite doing so much for her. I absolutely abhorred her in one scene when she insulted Ravish saying vardi ke sath sath himmat bhi utar kar fenk di hai kya. That was disgusting.
Virat's inability to speak up for his wife and mother remind me of why I hated Ravish. What a pushover. He could never speak up for himself nor did he stand up for his mother. I hated him when he made his mother keep the woman who cheated her in her home. Also when he let her murderer go Scot free.
About Virat Patralekha, I don't know if people would still be forgiving of Patralekha. I don't want to compare the two shows, but your sentence immediately brought another show to my mind😆in Imlie, Malini is hated for her mere existence and her smallest of actions are magnified to justify the male lead there and they had a relationship of seven years. Do I'm not really sure🤔
A third angle is always hated in a couple whether justified or not 🤷
Naah. I was an Atharva Vividha fan. Didn't really care for Ravish (didn't like the actor either, so that might be it.)😆 It was a morally ambiguous tale and that was fine with me. No one on the show was perfect - also AV had a lot of chemistry according to me😆 Still a fan of Vikram though - I think he's great at romance and at villainous roles. What I liked about the show was that the FL was madly in love with the ML. Her father, the society, time - nothing changed it. And in Hindi tv shows where mangalsutra is the biggest weapon, it seemed like a nice change. Also, never watched the show much after AV got together so don't care about what happened further.
The thing is that I mostly love stories where the first true love survives. I know that it doesn't happen in real life but it's really fun to watch on tv. Give me a gutsy couple who goes against all rules to be together instead of whiny female leads who get married due to family pressure etc and move on like it's nothing and leave the male lead (Tujh sang preet lagayi sajna, Kayamath, Kyunki Saas, and so many more).
The only shows I have not supported the first love is KZK 2 and mainly because Anurag and Prerna didn't have a concrete love story. A lot like PP and Virat (but still stronger than this weird couple, let me be clear.)
As far as Imlie goes - EWW is the only word I have for it. The ONLY victim in that story is poor Malini who had no idea her husband and boyfriend of 7 years was already married. I dated for 8 years before getting married - if my husband came to me with an 18 year old from the jungle and told me that he married her, then married me, then fell in love with the first wife - I would slap him and send him to jail for bigamy. At least Imlie knew that he was freaking getting married again, Malini was simply a pawn. Malini needs to tell both of them to fck off, and move somewhere where 7 fcking years together counts for something. Like I said mangalsutra and sindoor are not the only basis for relationships. That serial gets on my nerves. All my rambling is from promos and I have no idea how that show has any TRP. My mother almost threw a bottle on Imlie's head (aka her TV) the last time she watched the show.🤣
With Pakhi what I meant was more on the lines of KZK or Kayamath or DMG etc. Which could have happened if the CVs hadn't given her a 2D character with only "beizzati" dialogues.
Let's not discuss other shows or this thread might close 🤔
but I have to give my point of view about other shows. Now how do I do it🤣Originally posted by: natkhat_angel
Naah. I was an Atharva Vividha fan. Didn't really care for Ravish (didn't like the actor either, so that might be it.)😆 It was a morally ambiguous tale and that was fine with me. No one on the show was perfect - also AV had a lot of chemistry according to me😆 Still a fan of Vikram though - I think he's great at romance and at villainous roles. What I liked about the show was that the FL was madly in love with the ML. Her father, the society, time - nothing changed it. And in Hindi tv shows where mangalsutra is the biggest weapon, it seemed like a nice change. Also, never watched the show much after AV got together so don't care about what happened further.
The thing is that I mostly love stories where the first true love survives. I know that it doesn't happen in real life but it's really fun to watch on tv. Give me a gutsy couple who goes against all rules to be together instead of whiny female leads who get married due to family pressure etc and move on like it's nothing and leave the male lead (Tujh sang preet lagayi sajna, Kayamath, Kyunki Saas, and so many more).
The only shows I have not supported the first love is KZK 2 and mainly because Anurag and Prerna didn't have a concrete love story. A lot like PP and Virat (but still stronger than this weird couple, let me be clear.)
As far as Imlie goes - EWW is the only word I have for it. The ONLY victim in that story is poor Malini who had no idea her husband and boyfriend of 7 years was already married. I dated for 8 years before getting married - if my husband came to me with an 18 year old from the jungle and told me that he married her, then married me, then fell in love with the first wife - I would slap him and send him to jail for bigamy. At least Imlie knew that he was freaking getting married again, Malini was simply a pawn. Malini needs to tell both of them to fck off, and move somewhere where 7 fcking years together counts for something. Like I said mangalsutra and sindoor are not the only basis for relationships. That serial gets on my nerves. All my rambling is from promos and I have no idea how that show has any TRP. My mother almost threw a bottle on Imlie's head (aka her TV) the last time she watched the show.🤣
With Pakhi what I meant was more on the lines of KZK or Kayamath or DMG etc. Which could have happened if the CVs hadn't given her a 2D character with only "beizzati" dialogues.
Let's not discuss other shows or this thread might close 🤔
Ok this one is last. Then I won't discuss.🤣
About Atharva Vividha, I forgot to add the only thing that I liked about her character was that her love for Atharva was unwavering. Unchanging That's it.
About Vikram. I totally agree. What a terrific actor. In fact, for me he was the best actor in the show. He was brilliant in Ek Deewana Tha
. If I were in India forums back then, I would have filled pages with praises of him but for Atharva, none
His character had nothing to offer for me
he said something and did something totally opposite
For me an actor and character are two separate entities (although the actor embodies the character and the character is lost for me with the actor's replacement)
I don't find that show much different regarding leads. You look for stories where first love survives. I tend to look for those which are different. That show had the same old story where the third lead sacrifices and male lead gets back with the female lead. When Armaan came back in DMG, Siddhant sacrificed. Armaan Ridhima got together. When Arjun came back in pavitra rishta, onir sacrificed. Arjun Purvi got together. In Rab se Sona Ishq, Sahiba goes back to Ranveer and Daljeet first sacrifices, then kind of turns negative. She forgives Ranveer's thousand mistakes and rejects Daljeet for one
Every third lead sacrifices/dies/turns negative in tv shows and the one who wears the tag of male lead gets together with the female lead. So no. I find nothing new. It would be different if the female lead chooses the right one instead of the one who wears the male lead tag
Give me an example of a female lead who actually chooses the third lead instead of going to the one who wears the tag of male lead
So the show was the same like thousands of others now and before on itv.
Everyone wronged her society, her father and everyone else. But she would take the revenge from one who always stood by her
and take care of the person who actually wronged her
so no. No respect for that character.
Ravish was a pushover as I already stated
that man had no spine
but whatever he did for them cannot be denied.
And Shashank needs improvement. No debates there. But I found him good in many scenes 🤷
About Imlie, I 100% agree.
I'm done🤣
About Patralekha. I agree. These beizzati dialogues. Oh my God. CVs need to do something about those dialogues seriously and give her some new dialogues. But they might be her speciality😆
Virat-duty
Sai-deal
Patralekha-beizzati😆
It might take her some time to move on from this beizzati puran like Sai and Virat moved on from their respective rote dialogues😆
Originally posted by: natkhat_angel
Naah. I was an Atharva Vividha fan. Didn't really care for Ravish (didn't like the actor either, so that might be it.)😆 It was a morally ambiguous tale and that was fine with me. No one on the show was perfect - also AV had a lot of chemistry according to me😆 Still a fan of Vikram though - I think he's great at romance and at villainous roles. What I liked about the show was that the FL was madly in love with the ML. Her father, the society, time - nothing changed it. And in Hindi tv shows where mangalsutra is the biggest weapon, it seemed like a nice change. Also, never watched the show much after AV got together so don't care about what happened further.
The thing is that I mostly love stories where the first true love survives. I know that it doesn't happen in real life but it's really fun to watch on tv. Give me a gutsy couple who goes against all rules to be together instead of whiny female leads who get married due to family pressure etc and move on like it's nothing and leave the male lead (Tujh sang preet lagayi sajna, Kayamath, Kyunki Saas, and so many more).
The only shows I have not supported the first love is KZK 2 and mainly because Anurag and Prerna didn't have a concrete love story. A lot like PP and Virat (but still stronger than this weird couple, let me be clear.)
As far as Imlie goes - EWW is the only word I have for it. The ONLY victim in that story is poor Malini who had no idea her husband and boyfriend of 7 years was already married. I dated for 8 years before getting married - if my husband came to me with an 18 year old from the jungle and told me that he married her, then married me, then fell in love with the first wife - I would slap him and send him to jail for bigamy. At least Imlie knew that he was freaking getting married again, Malini was simply a pawn. Malini needs to tell both of them to fck off, and move somewhere where 7 fcking years together counts for something. Like I said mangalsutra and sindoor are not the only basis for relationships. That serial gets on my nerves. All my rambling is from promos and I have no idea how that show has any TRP. My mother almost threw a bottle on Imlie's head (aka her TV) the last time she watched the show.🤣
With Pakhi what I meant was more on the lines of KZK or Kayamath or DMG etc. Which could have happened if the CVs hadn't given her a 2D character with only "beizzati" dialogues.
Let's not discuss other shows or this thread might close 🤔
Am gonna start a saving pot and add a fiver everytime she says beizzati 😆...I will save quite a small sum of money. She really is a cartoon character no depth. Actually it's as if the writers can not deal with so many characters at once. They do not give the characters much scope just repeating the same lines week in week out.
Originally posted by: cheekukabeej
but I have to give my point of view about other shows. Now how do I do it🤣
Ok this one is last. Then I won't discuss.🤣
About Atharva Vividha, I forgot to add the only thing that I liked about her character was that her love for Atharva was unwavering. Unchanging That's it.
About Vikram. I totally agree. What a terrific actor. In fact, for me he was the best actor in the show. He was brilliant in Ek Deewana Tha
. If I were in India forums back then, I would have filled pages with praises of him but for Atharva, none
His character had nothing to offer for me
he said something and did something totally opposite
For me an actor and character are two separate entities (although the actor embodies the character and the character is lost for me with the actor's replacement)
I don't find that show much different regarding leads. You look for stories where first love survives. I tend to look for those which are different. That show had the same old story where the third lead sacrifices and male lead gets back with the female lead. When Armaan came back in DMG, Siddhant sacrificed. Armaan Ridhima got together. When Arjun came back in pavitra rishta, onir sacrificed. Arjun Purvi got together. In Rab se Sona Ishq, Sahiba goes back to Ranveer and Daljeet first sacrifices, then kind of turns negative. She forgives Ranveer's thousand mistakes and rejects Daljeet for one
Every third lead sacrifices/dies/turns negative in tv shows and the one who wears the tag of male lead gets together with the female lead. So no. I find nothing new. It would be different if the female lead chooses the right one instead of the one who wears the male lead tag
Give me an example of a female lead who actually chooses the third lead instead of going to the one who wears the tag of male lead
So the show was the same like thousands of others now and before on itv.
Everyone wronged her society, her father and everyone else. But she would take the revenge from one who always stood by her
and take care of the person who actually wronged her
so no. No respect for that character.
Ravish was a pushover as I already stated
that man had no spine
but whatever he did for them cannot be denied.
And Shashank needs improvement. No debates there. But I found him good in many scenes 🤷
About Imlie, I 100% agree.
I'm done🤣
About Patralekha. I agree. These beizzati dialogues. Oh my God. CVs need to do something about those dialogues seriously and give her some new dialogues. But they might be her speciality😆
Virat-duty
Sai-deal
Patralekha-beizzati😆
It might take her some time to move on from this beizzati puran like Sai and Virat moved on from their respective rote dialogues😆
Let's agree to disagree about Vividha Atharva. 😆 I loved them together - they made sense to me and their love survived a second marriage which I liked. Loved Atharva. The reason I liked Vikram was because of Atharva, not vice versa. Hated Ravish. Still don't know why.He was a nice guy but I couldn't stand him😳 Similarly love KSG as Armaan (my husband has a lot of traits of Armaan which could be a reason 🤔). IRL not a big fan of the guy but Armaan was the perfect lover. Romantic, funny, smart, willing to wait for you. There's this scene between KSG and JW where she says "Armaan ki jaan par toh Riddhima ka haq hai." Made zero sense but still my top 10 moments of romance for some reason 🤣🥺
@ Bold : Which is why I liked the shows you mentioned 🤣I loved Arjun Purvi and Armaan Riddhima. If Riddhima hadn't come back in the end and sang "Tu mera Armaan hai" and they hadn't kissed on the same basketball ground they met on - I would have smacked someone 😆 One of the deciding factors is also the fact that these shows had a younger audience (JNDSD or DMG) or the couple had a younger fan base (Arjun Purvi) who don't care much about marriages and more about their OTP being endgame. (Me too )
Lots of stories like that actually - Tujh Sang Preet Lagayi Sajna (Vrinda and Yug parted and she got married to a SRK lookalike of RNMDJ. Vrinda and Yug had really nice chemistry too - they got married in real life 😆)
Kayamath - The whole title song was based on Neev and Prachi and their love story. Saddiyon ki chaahat turned to dust as the FL sacrificed for her half-sister and married Milind. Suddenly bye bye to Neev and the fact that his life was spoiled because his wife was a psychopath. I HATED Prachi and Milind romance but this is ITV and sindoor above all else. 🥺It ran for years after that.
Lakshya and KT from Kyunki Saas - Mouni became popular due to that role. They were <3 but Ekta ka tha toh they had marry different people.
@Underline : Lots of people do. Not just me and you but even people from the older generation like my mother and aunts. Everyone knows Malini is the victim - if you go in different forums you'll see them saying the same thing. Only the people on the actual forum don't believe it
Now we're done. PM for more discussions 😆
as I stated again and again no problem with Atharva Vividha love. I am not too bound to rituals and stuff to ignore everything else. My reasons to hate her are completely different and I have already stated them. Won't repeat again.Originally posted by: natkhat_angel
Let's agree to disagree about Vividha Atharva. 😆 I loved them together - they made sense to me and their love survived a second marriage which I liked. Loved Atharva. The reason I liked Vikram was because of Atharva, not vice versa. Hated Ravish. Still don't know why.He was a nice guy but I couldn't stand him😳 Similarly love KSG as Armaan (my husband has a lot of traits of Armaan which could be a reason 🤔). IRL not a big fan of the guy but Armaan was the perfect lover. Romantic, funny, smart, willing to wait for you. There's this scene between KSG and JW where she says "Armaan ki jaan par toh Riddhima ka haq hai." Made zero sense but still my top 10 moments of romance for some reason 🤣🥺
@ Bold : Which is why I liked the shows you mentioned 🤣I loved Arjun Purvi and Armaan Riddhima. If Riddhima hadn't come back in the end and sang "Tu mera Armaan hai" and they hadn't kissed on the same basketball ground they met on - I would have smacked someone 😆 One of the deciding factors is also the fact that these shows had a younger audience (JNDSD or DMG) or the couple had a younger fan base (Arjun Purvi) who don't care much about marriages and more about their OTP being endgame. (Me too )
Lots of stories like that actually - Tujh Sang Preet Lagayi Sajna (Vrinda and Yug parted and she got married to a SRK lookalike of RNMDJ. Vrinda and Yug had really nice chemistry too - they got married in real life 😆)
Kayamath - The whole title song was based on Neev and Prachi and their love story. Saddiyon ki chaahat turned to dust as the FL sacrificed for her half-sister and married Milind. Suddenly bye bye to Neev and the fact that his life was spoiled because his wife was a psychopath. I HATED Prachi and Milind romance but this is ITV and sindoor above all else. 🥺It ran for years after that.
Lakshya and KT from Kyunki Saas - Mouni became popular due to that role. They were <3 but Ekta ka tha toh they had marry different people.
@Underline : Lots of people do. Not just me and you but even people from the older generation like my mother and aunts. Everyone knows Malini is the victim - if you go in different forums you'll see them saying the same thing. Only the people on the actual forum don't believe it
Now we're done. PM for more discussions 😆
About Milind Prachi. I wasn't a fan of anyone honestly. But the male lead was Milind. Just like Saat Phere, where the title song was about Saloni and Neel although, but the male lead was Nahar. That's what I was talking about😆
No more discussions from my side. Because we both see things from different perspective. You look for first love completion. I look for something different and/or realistic. It is never going to reach anywhere😆
So yeah let's agree to disagree ❤️❤️
Originally posted by: cheekukabeej
as I stated again and again no problem with Atharva Vividha love. I am not too bound to rituals and stuff to ignore everything else. My reasons to hate her are completely different and I have already stated them. Won't repeat again.
About Milind Prachi. I wasn't a fan of anyone honestly. But the male lead was Milind. Just like Saat Phere, where the title song was about Saloni and Neel although, but the male lead was Nahar. That's what I was talking about😆
No more discussions from my side. Because we both see things from different perspective. You look for first love completion. I look for something different and/or realistic. It is never going to reach anywhere😆
Hahahhahaha. @Bold :I do. In reality marriage is a big deal, especially in our culture, so most of such stories remain incomplete. Kam se kam tv par toh, let me have some of the first love 😆 So it is funny how I HATE the idea of Virat Pakhi.
Also why GHKKPM failed in that aspect. There are lots of people like me who would have at least sympathized with Pakhi if Virat Pakhi had some sort of strong love story. The makers should have given them a better backstory if they wanted Pakhi to have a grey character. Right now she comes off as a black character who is crying over a non existent relationship.
Virat's vaada comes off as one of those promises we make to our parents - Yes, we won't drink or yes, I will eat for sure. Not the kind which a lover makes to his eternal love.
This helped establish SaiRat as the OTP but Pakhi/Aish became the fodder for all the jokes. What I meant was the Aish wanted the kind of validation that Bajaj/Anurag or Atharv/Arjun/Neev/Malini/Yug got for their roles. Which is why she keeps harping about Pakhi's love and care and what not 🤔 But the story has been written in a way that Pakhi has none of those tadapne waala love scenes to even think about.🤣
In Kis Des Mein - I don't know if anyone remembers but Preet gets married to Meher (And they were ADORABLE together😆) and Ashlesha becomes the vamp because of it. She literally destroys the lead couple but people understood her pain before that and how she reached there because she was dumped in a careless manner. And therefore, even though she became the vamp and Meet became endgame, people could relate to her, not condone what she did but at least there was a STORY there.
Pakhi is like a caricature in front of even a secondary character like Ashlesha.😳
I didn't watch the show you are talking about so can't compare 🤷Originally posted by: natkhat_angel
Hahahhahaha. @Bold :I do. In reality marriage is a big deal, especially in our culture, so most of such stories remain incomplete. Kam se kam tv par toh, let me have some of the first love 😆 So it is funny how I HATE the idea of Virat Pakhi.
Also why GHKKPM failed in that aspect. There are lots of people like me who would have at least sympathized with Pakhi if Virat Pakhi had some sort of strong love story. The makers should have given them a better backstory if they wanted Pakhi to have a grey character. Right now she comes off as a black character who is crying over a non existent relationship.
Virat's vaada comes off as one of those promises we make to our parents - Yes, we won't drink or yes, I will eat for sure. Not the kind which a lover makes to his eternal love.
This helped establish SaiRat as the OTP but Pakhi/Aish became the fodder for all the jokes. What I meant was the Aish wanted the kind of validation that Bajaj/Anurag or Atharv/Arjun/Neev/Malini/Yug got for their roles. Which is why she keeps harping about Pakhi's love and care and what not 🤔 But the story has been written in a way that Pakhi has none of those tadapne waala love scenes to even think about.🤣
In Kis Des Mein - I don't know if anyone remembers but Preet gets married to Meher (And they were ADORABLE together😆) and Ashlesha becomes the vamp because of it. She literally destroys the lead couple but people understood her pain before that and how she reached there because she was dumped in a careless manner. And therefore, even though she became the vamp and Meet became endgame, people could relate to her, not condone what she did but at least there was a STORY there.
Pakhi is like a caricature in front of even a secondary character like Ashlesha.😳
About Patralekha, how I wish makers had done a better job at her character because honestly the time shouldn't be that big an issue. The most romantic love story Titanic (my favourite movie, and not because of love story) was based on literally a few days love story😆 So I never make fun of two days love😆because in fiction it can happen. Not that I'm comparing two love stories because those two were ready to die for each other. Now that I think about it. They were ready to die for few days love. How many days 🤔4?5?
I can see why they connected though. I'm not sure if they would have ended up with different partners later on when the newly found romance and shiddat faded😆or maybe they would have remained together because of all that they survived together.
But Jack died before that happened😆. For me it was Rose's story(mostly). Jack's story. Other character's story. Here I go. Me and my love for Titanic❤️❤️🤣
So I just took that love story as it is. Most of the times, if a love story doesn't look convincing to me, I just accept it as it is and focus on the whole story.
For me Virat's vada was more like a deal that he made with Patralekha so that she marries Samrat. I don't find Sai and Virat's marriage a deal as they themselves have said again and again.
On the other hand the vada was a deal for me.
I do wish they do a better job at Patralekha's character. Because that character has scope. But they are literally doing beizzati of their own dialogues by giving her same old beizzati dialogues🤣
I mean come on for how long
They are literally failing at her character. They could have done something better.
Just for an example, In hospital, she doesn't sleep the whole night for Virat and is ready to hold his hand the moment he's about to fall. It shows her care. But later when he asks about Sai, she says maine poori raat sewa ki and all which is fine but also wtf dialogues like uski tareef karne ki bajay that was so unnecessary. I mean tareef😳 comeon, the word makes it feel like she is some long distant relative who came for a night to take care and he didn't notice. She should have said something like meri sewa ki kadar. Would have sounded much better. If she thinks he is her own, to tareef nahi kadar expect karni chahiyeor they could have just shown her remaining silent showing her aching helpless heart when Virat didn't even notice and asks about Sai. But they made her spew nonsense dialogues for so long so that Virat's love for Sai could be highlighted. Later on when Sai comes to see him and she is blocking Sai's way. When Virat calls out to Sai, her resolve starts to break, that was nice to see. But they added the adamant behaviour which was so unnecessaryi liked that she stopped her initially but I was hoping for her hand to drop down automatically as her resolve crumbles completely with Virat's constant calls to Sai. That didn't happen. Because they had to show Sai pushing her away for Virat so here Patralekha's character was compromised to show their love. Most of the times, other characters suffer to make one character look better than everyone or to make a love story look stronger 🤷
I am being completely neutral here even though I won't mind if she just disappears completely🤣🤣
Makers can do a better job but they won'tshe does come out caricature-ish😆