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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: libran90

Yes, it was KHKT. And its Doctor Surgeon, btw😆

Rohit was a darling yaar. Sonakshi ka fall in love banta tha. Yahaan Raghav hai. Aur usne jo kiya hai uske baad, Pallavi kya, Sona and Rohit bhi bhaag jaaye.😆

I used to watch that show on and off, jab bhi time milta tha. It was really fun! 😆❤️

But then it got transformed into a typical ITV borefest

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: inlieu

Not just the marriage, even when they introduced Raghav in the first episode, he seemed to have a pretty clear idea of the intensity of love so when he senses he feels that way, he will know it immediately and won't shy from it. We have scene how open he is with his emotions, whether it's with his family or his men, the senior citizens he wants to help, his contempt for cheating women, etc.


We are yet to find out what happened with that girl who destroyed their lives, but I suspect that holds a key to his twisted nature. Pallavi not feeling sympathy will be abnormal, because that's just who she is at the core. I see her fighting against her feelings of revenge vs. sympathy (or other emotions) for Raghav and his family when she learns about their earlier trauma.


I don't know ... they might fall in love at around the same time but if this happens I expect Pallavi will withdraw because she will not just be afraid to commit but also hesitate to take such a bold step. Being Mandaar's widow is a safe spot for her. Raghav will surround her with his love because I don't expect him to ignore his feelings, but he may or may not express it. Depends whether Mandaar is on the scene by then or not. Either way, Pallavi will be able to sense his changed emotions when the time comes.


At this point, I don't really care who falls in love first, as long as it is logical. What I do think would be good is if they started off with companionship and not love. I want things to build gradually, through the mundane everyday stuff, not full-time drama please. There needs to be a balance.

I am as clueless as anyone else about love here. But I think that Pallavi has deeper psychological concerns than Raghav. Raghav is so fundamentally clear about his issue, but Pallavi and her trauma remain unclear. Just like Raghav and his thoughts about Pallavi aren't addressed, so are her issues. Also, I can see Raghav breaking through the bias, like he had after the Old age home episode. He quite easily appreciated Pallavi and her kindness and also accepted that he was wrong in his assessment of her.

Feeling something and acting on them at the same time, is not what I see Pallavi can do. She is more adept at being the DIL than the wife here. Raghav may revisit his notions about Pallavi and Pallavi may sympathize with Raghav. But when it comes to love, I again see Raghav taking the lead rather than Pallavi. Hence, I feel Raghav is easier compared to Pallavi. Raghav is twisted, Pallavi is complicated.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: libran90

Sorry, then we have to agree to disagree dear. I am pretty much aware what TRP didis can do to shows, and also how the FLs are shown as losing sense of pride over love. I agree with it.

Also, I have seen this maker's previous show, and I know the FL falling in love was very much justified, considering how good and decent the ML was. So going by that logic only and my fair share of ITV experience, I think it will be Raghav first. Raghav is more attuned to the sentiment of love, Raghav is the one with a twisted attraction for Pallavi. I can only see him falling and rising in love. I understand that they have shown Pallavi curious and intrigued by him, and I also know how ITV reduces a hate angle between leads to juvenile tropes, but I don't see Pallavi falling in love with Raghav first. And yes, as a viewer it would be plain sad to see her falling for him first. If it happens, then I hope I can watch it.

ITV is famous for showing regressive contents and to showing regressive storyline for FL. I have no faith on ITV creatives for strong FL. It is good to see you keeping the trust but mujhe abhi bhi lagti hai TRP k nam ka bali charega pallavi k storyline k.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Bee222

Jalo mat.. chill raho 😆 We know what we want and think and we can have discussions over it, but hona to vahi hai jo manzoor-e-makers hai 🤪

Mai bas ek simple sa love story dekhna chahti hu kya yeh khwaish gunah hai!! I still remember NBT days when megha used to secretly taroing mohan after taunting him pyar se. Uff those subtle expressions of attraction!! Sorry mai kuch zyada hi NBT karta hu!! 😂😂

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: libran90

I am as clueless as anyone else about love here. But I think that Pallavi has deeper psychological concerns than Raghav. Raghav is so fundamentally clear about his issue, but Pallavi and her trauma remain unclear. Just like Raghav and his thoughts about Pallavi aren't addressed, so are her issues. Also, I can see Raghav breaking through the bias, like he had after the Old age home episode. He quite easily appreciated Pallavi and her kindness and also accepted that he was wrong in his assessment of her.

Feeling something and acting on them at the same time, is not what I see Pallavi can do. She is more adept at being the DIL than the wife here. Raghav may revisit his notions about Pallavi and Pallavi may sympathize with Raghav. But when it comes to love, I again see Raghav taking the lead rather than Pallavi. Hence, I feel Raghav is easier compared to Pallavi. Raghav is twisted, Pallavi is complicated.

Yes, indeed when Raghav's misconceptions are cleared and his mental block removed, a part of him will want to trust Pallavi because I think deep down he always wanted to be right about her being different. That budding feeling will enable him to explore and observe her closely. He's file a lot of information away about her at the back of his mind, and the astute person that he is, if he pieces things together, I don't see it as being impossible for him to open his heart and mind to accepting her not just as his wife, but also potentially as a lover. He will also have to tackle her trust issues with him, all of which are his doing.


There's something else that comes to mind. Raghav is an admirer of beauty. It is evident in the way he dresses, his home decor (let's refer to RR mansion for now), his jewelry design, and just his overall taste. Once he realizes the gravity of his mistakes he will also berate himself for destroying the beautiful Pallavi who he knew before the D-fam party fiasco. I know she went through a lot as a widow, but she had her dignity to hold on to. He destroyed that, stripped her of her innocence, and took something away forever. He may try to make amends but what is lost will never come back. I don't think Pallavi will ever be the same again. Whether that's good or bad remains to be seen.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes, indeed when Raghav's misconceptions are cleared and his mental block removed, a part of him will want to trust Pallavi because I think deep down he always wanted to be right about her being different. That budding feeling will enable him to explore and observe her closely. He's file a lot of information away about her at the back of his mind, and the astute person that he is, if he pieces things together, I don't see it as being impossible for him to open his heart and mind to accepting her not just as his wife, but also potentially as a lover. He will also have to tackle her trust issues with him, all of which are his doing.


There's something else that comes to mind. Raghav is an admirer of beauty. It is evident in the way he dresses, his home decor (let's refer to RR mansion for now), his jewelry design, and just his overall taste. Once he realizes the gravity of his mistakes he will also berate himself for destroying the beautiful Pallavi who he knew before the D-fam party fiasco. I know she went through a lot as a widow, but she had her dignity to hold on to. He destroyed that, stripped her of her innocence, and took something away forever. He may try to make amends but what is lost will never come back. I don't think Pallavi will ever be the same again. Whether that's good or bad remains to be seen.

The thing is Raghav's ego is too big to accept that he is in love with pallavi and in the process he will become more rude and a jerk than what he is now. This man's ego is his biggest enemy. Pallavi has no such thing , Though it will take long time once pallavi starts to accept raghav she will slowly fall for him without any ego barring her but same is not for raghav. In my opinion Pallavi is reserved and repressed but raghav is twisted and complex.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: libran90

I agree with that. Attraction ke bhi layers hote hai right. They both have been attracted, which I agree with. But with Pallavi, I don't see her acting on it that soon than Raghav can. Pallavi is a woman who binds people together, and loves them no matter what. But uske apne darr bhi to honge na. Trauma sirf Raghav ne nahi saha, even Pallavi has. And she has full right to retract, ponder and hesitate in this case, just as much Raghav has. Raghav's issue is easier to tackle, with Pallavi being opposite of the woman who broke his family. Pallavi's trauma is different. Marriage is traumatic for her. There has to be a reason for not wanting to marry again. It will be easier for Pallavi to be the DIL than the wife in the Rao family. So that has to be addressed, and that can only happen when Raghav, who after he has overcome his own past, helps Pallavi out. We know Raghav ka trust issues hai, lekin I also think Pallavi has deeper psychological issues which she has buried within her kind, calm persona. Raghav is a good judge of character, so in close quarters he will observe Pallavi with his family, and may revisit his previous notions about her. But Pallavi, I think will take some time, and will prevent herself from acting on feelings, being the masochist she is.

By attraction I mean physical one for Pallavi, at first. Obviously she won't act on it, but it needs to be felt. RR is a handsome man, sharing room with her and lastly he is her husband. On top of that, she hasn't felt that attraction in a long time. On the other hand Raghav's attraction would be more emotional rather than physical. Raghav has tons of hot girls throwing themselves on him, but he craves for deeper emotional connect. Raghav's issues stems from his family and mistrust on women. The mistrust he has on women is just a guard that he has placed to protect himself from being cheated (again). In the Shivratri episodes, when he is drunk and finds unconscious Pallavi, he speaks highly regarding women. Once Pallavi passes that guard then only he can love her.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: meghumonu

The thing is Raghav's ego is too big to accept that he is in love with pallavi and in the process he will become more rude and a jerk than what he is now. This man's ego is his biggest enemy. Pallavi has no such thing , Though it will take long time once pallavi starts to accept raghav she will slowly fall for him without any ego barring her but same is not for raghav. In my opinion Pallavi is reserved and repressed but raghav is twisted and complex.

I think it's the opposite. Pallavi will not only take time to fall for him, but she'll take a long time to accept her feelings too. She'll hesitate a hundred times before giving him a chance, and also before giving herself a chance. There are so many trust issues to be sorted here.

Raghav on the other hand... yes he is egoistic but have you seen how he is with those he loves? Let alone amma and Keerti whom he can practically die for, but all these people like Farhad, Harish, Reddy.... he is extremely sweet and warm with them. No hint of ego whatsoever. That's Raghav — for all the world he's ruthless and a jerk, but for those he loves he's as caring as can be. Also, even though he has his reservations about love atm, he does know the feeling itself. He's biased against women in general, but when realises Pallavi is an exception, he will have no qualms in accepting his feelings for her. Whatever time he takes will be for the realisation, not the acceptance.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Shri_12

By attraction I mean physical one for Pallavi, at first. Obviously she won't act on it, but it needs to be felt. RR is a handsome man, sharing room with her and lastly he is her husband. On top of that, she hasn't felt that attraction in a long time. On the other hand Raghav's attraction would be more emotional rather than physical. Raghav has tons of hot girls throwing themselves on him, but he craves for deeper emotional connect. Raghav's issues stems from his family and mistrust on women. The mistrust he has on women is just a guard that he has placed to protect himself from being cheated (again). In the Shivratri episodes, when he is drunk and finds unconscious Pallavi, he speaks highly regarding women. Once Pallavi passes that guard then only he can love her.

What I understood about pallavi is she is emotional and she acts on her emotions. Afrer what raghav did to her in the truck incident. She still felt intrigued and attracted to him and she flowed with that attraction. Obviously Pallavi will try to deny her feelings for Raghav at first but her curiosity and attraction will get better if her and still she will follow her heart. Raghav on other hand once all MU will be cleared h will slowly undestand his feelings but then the overwhelming guilt of destroying and maligning an innocent girl's life and his ego will stop him from folliw his feelings and act on it.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Shri_12

By attraction I mean physical one for Pallavi, at first. Obviously she won't act on it, but it needs to be felt. RR is a handsome man, sharing room with her and lastly he is her husband. On top of that, she hasn't felt that attraction in a long time. On the other hand Raghav's attraction would be more emotional rather than physical. Raghav has tons of hot girls throwing themselves on him, but he craves for deeper emotional connect. Raghav's issues stems from his family and mistrust on women. The mistrust he has on women is just a guard that he has placed to protect himself from being cheated (again). In the Shivratri episodes, when he is drunk and finds unconscious Pallavi, he speaks highly regarding women. Once Pallavi passes that guard then only he can love her.

It's interesting you say that. Normally men are seen to fall for women's looks and women seen to fall for men's personalities. I agree that in Raghav and Pallavi's case it might be reversed and that would be quite interesting to watch. FLs on ITV are bound by behavioral expectations so having the hots for your husband isn't something they show a lot. I hope that would be an exception for this show. Bring on shirtless Raghav training and Pallavi checking him out please.

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