Hey everyone
from past two days these two are things are being talked about a lot, but to be honest these two words have really boarder meaning,
It’s just my perception which I want to share with all of you and it’s just a perception, kindly no bashing,
Extra marital affair
Yesterday so many were in view that ninad was giving Pakhi a thumbs up for go ahead with Virat, but exactly is Extra marital affair, these words itself carry lot of weightage, three lives and further associated ppl get affected with it, why does a man or woman needs to hve one. lot of emotions are attached to these words and whole bag of trust in a relationship
In my career and in my personal life I have come across many married friends and I just want to share that
when either of the spouse is busy and despite trying hard to get attention and some of their spouse and they fail they tend to find out love outside marriage,
When there is a constant trouble in marriage and both the partners are frustrated and at that point of time these ppl tend to find peace outside marriage, in most of the cases they find someone who understands and talk to them or best they divert their attention of the troubling affairs
my married friends often complain that their wife doesn’t have time coz they are always busy with children
these examples are of the ppl who are emotionally low and tend to find pleasure outside,
Then there is set of ppl who are chronicle cheaters, they cheat when they are in relationship and they cheat when they have a wife even though how happy they are in their marriage, for them it’s not emotional low moment for them it’s only S*X
That’s my understanding a very small part of Having Extra marital affairs
Based on that I don’t see neither ninad nor Virat crossing the line ever, yesterday Ninad just said he sees his vahini in Pakhi, the way she has handled and took care of the family members and not some ill intentions of go head and be with Virat,
Yes I condemn they giving extra liberty to Pakhi when it is Sai but that’s coz they are using her foe their benefits,
Whatever is the case Kaku knows one thing sai stands for the correct and she never lies, why so much of hate, one coz sai is from a middle class family and importantly why Sairat married, tell me something if they had accepted sai ir if sai was kaku’s choice wouldn’t the table have turned around and that time we all might be praise kaku.
There are lot of questions unanswered as to why CN ppl have given such a place to kaku, we all love Mohit for his constant support to sai, may be Ninad and Omkar has got that support from kaku, May be there was some life changing incidents where kaku earned that place, the same place sai has earned with regards to Mohit
So tomorrow if sai does something and Mohit blindly follows her should we say this a bhabhi devar has some relationship (EMA), we won’t why coz she is sai,
Yes kaku is mean, she dint cared foe her own daughter how can we compare her with Sai, but tell me something even after having only daughter she never differentiated between Mohit Virat and Samrat. Still I would say how ever funny these ppl are to stay in a joint family and loving all kids equally is good thing, I have seen families where they take benefits/cry and crib coz they only have daughters, any ways I am not going there it’s a different topic all together.
Ninad is man he could had divorced ashwani but he dint, however the marriage is he stick to it, he never cheated, and he will not expect his son to cheat his wife which he may not accept as Daughter in Law, but no one can deny and they themselves never deny that sai is indeed Virat’s wife, and that’s gonna be one the reasons in future timid they show shruti track they will choose sai and not Virat,
Coming to Sexual harassment
Please this itself has broader meaning,
When U touch someone with out her/his permission, when u impose on a person and try to make a relationship with that person forcefully, when that person is constantly touching u and making u uncomfortable
And today Pakhi dint do anything and when virat moved back she wasn’t trying to make him uncomfortable rather Virat held pakhi’s hand he was unconscious and hallucinating his wife, he himself was shocked, a man was fainting so she just made him lie down, there was no advances, Infact if I am not mistaken Virat himself denied help later on, how was there a sexual harassment plz explain,
yes time and again Virat is saying her explaining her that she needs to stop, but Pakhi is not stopping why is it only fault of Pakhi isn’t it too late and this is done by Virat himself, I am sure he must be regretting of giving Pakhi such liberty to intervene in his relationship, Pakhi kept on defaming sai, what has Virat done to stop her one or twice nothing, how ever mad u are at ur wife u dont let anyone say that she is a gold digger.
The choice of words impacts one plz use it carefully