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Originally posted by: libran90

Who knows what affects him. In 70 episodes, nothing affected him. Ab kya hi ho jayega. Nobody knows and no one cares, if he cares. I don't at least. Cause "cry-wolf" situation hai. Jab bhi humko lagta hai Raghav will react or do something when it comes to Pallavi. He does the opposite. So, I don't have high hopes from him anymore.

Jo bulana hai bula. I don't mind.😊

Lekin mujhko ek baat ka doubt hai. Kya Raghav ko aaina dekhna pasand hai. Cause, when Pallavi will mirror his indifference, coldness, and aloofness to him, would he be open to taking that?

Raghav ko aaine mein sirf apni shakal dekhne se matlab, baaqi kuch nahin.

@bold, well Sai did tell us that the audience would be confused what is going on. LOL

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Insaan hi hasraton ki taseer nahi hoti.. ab tak Anna ke life ka one point agenda tha.. ek hi hasrat .. unki amma, unki family.. ab jab wo mil gaye, to man shaant hua hai unka lekin hasratein shant nahi hogi... aaj tak ye chahiye tha to kal wo..

Pallavi ki acchai, uski innocence se kab tak bachega.. wo chhuyegi uske dil ko aaj nahi to kal..

Raghav ko aina me apni surat dekhna pasand hai.. seerat nahi, sachai to bilkul nahi.. he is very vein that way. Dekhte hain kab tak apni duniya ke badshah bane rehte hain.

@bold, love this! I was writing the same thing in my post. ❤️

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't think they have the finesse of Pakistani dramas, though, because over there they have this approach but it can be sizzling and oh so romantic, all the same.

Yes i have seen a couple pakistani dramas a while ago and so true 🤣 thry are good at it.

But raghvi bhu kuch kaam nahi i think . Kuch waqt doh experts hi jayenge 🤣 although . Humein isme expertise nahi chahiye . 🤣 we want them to move forward. 🤣

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't mind... love story can take its own time. Story rush kiya to sab barbaad. I want more gangster stuff, please.

I do to! But trps yaar 😭

Originally posted by: Diya2021

I think sometime in future we are going to see Pallavi’s version of marriage in Raghav which she mentioned today. Marriage is that sacred relationship where you lose yourself to love with passion. Today it’s a deal for him but once he falls in love, we are going to see the passionate lover. He will never withheld his emotions once he realises them.

Hope so

Originally posted by: libran90

Pity ka P bhi hota Raghav se, kisi ke liye bhi. Sach jankar kaunsa hoga. He will be a little unsettled, but completely dismissive of it. He doesn't care. That's it. He may soften a little, but not much. That will happen the more he spends time with her.

He will be possessive, but after he is in love. Till then it will just be transitional phases of love, as he begins to see what Pallavi really is. He has his own past baggage, so it could be that he initially begins by drawing comparison between this former flame and Pallavi. It could begin from Why wasn't she like Pallavi? moving to Why didn't Pallavi come into my life before? to Why can't I have Pallavi now? to I want Pallavi in my life to Pallavi is mine. This is how I see it with him. Raghav is too vain to think beyond himself actually, a selfish person. And that will come into play in love.

Agree 1000% with this. It would be totally weird if he didn't behave this way. Sure, love can make you do crazy things but knowing how crazy Raghav already is, there are some basic traits of his that would appear and hold fast.

Originally posted by: libran90

Agar ye hua bhi, to hazam karne ke ilawa choice hai kya. Mujhko pata nahi lagta hai, agar Pallavi ko pyaar hua, to buri tareeke se dil tutega ladki ka. But, we all collectively believe ki Raghav ko hi hoga.

I think it will happen at the same time but Pallavi might express it first. Who knows? I don't care at this point, as long as it appears logical and happens organically. I don't want Amma cooking up situations to force them together. Yuck.

Originally posted by: libran90

@bold: The thing you are looking for will happen much later. They both have a long way to go to come to that stage.

First, it will be tumultuous, at least for Raghav, and neither he will make it easy for Pallavi. Sabse pehle, he comes to know Pallavi is a DIL and widow, will shake up his thought process. Cause then he will see Pallavi from a different light. Realizing she is related as the DIL will shift the game. Cause daughter ke actions me and daughter-in-law ke actions me farq hota hai. Uske dimaag me dheere dheere (cause he is woefully slow) aayegi that this girl has given herself up for a family she isn't related by blood or adoption, but by a relation which is dead. What Raghav did for the family is bound by blood, which many people do, but what she did for Deshmukh family is of a different magnitude and is another level of awesomeness. Usiko samajhne me hil jaayega.

His possessiveness will emerge from this very fact, that Pallavi will not exhibit the same, devotion, dedication, and submission to him as she has for Deshmukhs. Raghav jis loyalty, wafadaari aur devotion ki expectation rakhta hai, woh Pallavi me hai, but usko chodke, baaki sab ke liye hoga. This is gonna irk him.

Family and Pallavi me farq hai. His family loves him in spite of his misdemeanors. They will remain dedicated and loyal to him and love him. Pallavi has no such obligation. Pallavi isn't family and she definitely isn't his wife. Raghav waise hi "invisible" expectations rakhta hai from Pallavi. Ab to biwi ban gayi hai, ab to aur bhi badega. Bahut khoon jalne wala hai Anna ka.😆

@bold, absolutely, and I am sure he will struggle to put a finger on this at least at first, because he never thought about a future with her as a proper married couple, he never thought about her being part of his inner circle or family. He's very particular about loyalty and dedication and because he is like that himself, he would expect that in his wife if it were a normal marriage. However, knowing that he doesn't really have the right to expect this will annoy him, because he will realize that the way the wedding happened gives him no leg to stand on. As you said, the worst thing would be that he would see Pallavi having exactly those qualities, that she is completely different from his generalization of women being untrustworthy, that it may seem within reach but there's an invisible barrier that will prevent him from being able to access any of her devotion and dedication. He will be the outside her inner circle for a long time.

I think this will also manifest in other ways, e.g. he may begin to trust her, but realize that she doesn't trust him when it comes to herself. Also, when she gets in trouble or has some issues, he isn't going to be the first person she goes to for help or guidance. She somehow used to do this before the wedding, or Raghav found ways to help her. But now, she won't think of him as her go-to person, she won't share her problems with him, and she may even turn down his unsolicited offers of help. That is going to hurt him and hope he understands what it feels like when the other person repeated refuses to trust you despite your best intentions towards them.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't mind... love story can take its own time. Story rush kiya to sab barbaad. I want more gangster stuff, please.

Love story looks like it will take its own time😵😆..nor they r in rush😆..

Once love story starts..it becomes bakwas😆..so it's good only they delay it..

When was the last time we got some romantic time🤔...lion track😆...then tiny bit pin scene😆😆

Originally posted by: samarp2

Love story looks like it will take its own time😵😆..nor they r in rush😆..

Once love story starts..it becomes bakwas😆..so it's good only they delay it..

When was the last time we got some romantic time🤔...lion track😆...then tiny bit pin scene😆😆

we are so desperate... even that safety pin scene created a storm here, but man it was beautiful 😆