Why all blame on Ragav? - Page 11

Originally posted by: libran90

The widow part is irrelevant in my opinion. They did not make a hue and cry about her being an orphan. Her being a widow won't be an issue. Her not accepting the wedding and her not turning out a widow (whenever Mandaar returns) would be more effective, in my opinion.

And what MU. They have enough of it. I mean Raghav has no interest in Pallavi or her life. It has been successfully made inconsequential in the eyes of Raghav.

I think regardless of whether Pallavi is a widow or not, orphan or not, it doesn’t matter to RR. It wouldn’t have mattered when he took revenge and tore up her character and currently, she’s just a means to an end. With Pallu, he has his family & without her, he doesn’t. Pallavi cares for Trashmukhs, fine, but right now she has nothing to gain or lose through her actions. RR is the one stuck tip-toeing the line

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

I am still to watch the episode so I'll Res and revisit.

But Raghav is definitely not in revenge mode from what I can say. He loves her already, that boi just needs some reflecting to do. He's given her all the rights over him already, and has declared he'll be there forever (saw it in posts today).

The widow part....I think its being reserved for another MU 😆

What posts? But yeah he let's her get away with almost anything now.. his collar is permanently in her hands now..and he looks amused if anything.. his response to her holding his collar yesterday was low key flirting, ofcourse Raghav style.. public place me behave karna nahi sikhaya tumhara ayi ne? 😆

Originally posted by: moksha89

I think regardless of whether Pallavi is a widow or not, orphan or not, it doesn’t matter to RR. It wouldn’t have mattered when he took revenge and tore up her character and currently, she’s just a means to an end. With Pallu, he has his family & without her, he doesn’t. Pallavi cares for Trashmukhs, fine, but right now she has nothing to gain or lose through her actions. RR is the one stuck tip-toeing the line

Exactly, those are just tags for him. He has some issue with Pallavi, the person. So whatever tags come with her, haven't bothered her.

@bold: true that.

Hahahah Raghav's character does not infuriate me at all. I just end up laughing at his audacity, which I like (the character). He know what he wants, but that's it. He does not think of consequences and I find everything he does right out of the diary of a little boy who just needs his amma. 😆

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

What posts? But yeah he let's her get away with almost anything now.. his collar is permanently in her hands now..and he looks amused if anything.. his response to her holding his collar yesterday was low key flirting, ofcourse Raghav style.. public place me behave karna nahi sikhaya tumhara ayi ne? 😆

Originally posted by: ShanviSia

Btw, congrats Ani for sizzlerz🥳

thanks sis 🤗❤️

Originally posted by: libran90

I for one cannot gauge Raghav. But what I have felt is that the "hate" is slowly taking a back seat. His mother and sister can come home via Pallavi, so he is ensuring by all means that happens, and also he is clear Pallavi did not orchestrate this. This is all his mother's doing. Now when I reassess, in the promo, when he said this marriage are chains of bondage for her, he meant, she cannot leave him ever. Cause if she does, his family will leave too, and he cannot let that happen. So, I don't know how much he wants to make the marriage work, but what I can say, is he will try to keep her surrounded with all the things that can make her happy, to keep his family happy. And Pallavi will rebuff those attempts, cause she doesn't want anything of him. If Pallavi insists that she isn't a suhaagan, nor his wife, sooner or later, it will become a matter of his ego from keeping his family happy, to gain acceptance as her husband. And in this ego battle, he would slowly learn facts which he was blind to, and that ego would give way to the hate being washed away. Then that would give way to desire and wanting Pallavi for himself. From here, his struggle will begin, cause the alliance is a deal for Pallavi, but it will turn into marriage for Raghav. In short, bediyan hi rahengi Pallavi ke liye, pehle reason uski family hogi, aur later uske apne feelings honge.

Coming to Pallavi, only one word comes to my mind - Useless. She is such a useless woman, I tell you. None of her words hold value cause she has achieved nothing with yapping. And she does not have the mettle to match Raghav in being crafty and nasty. So all she can do is juvenile shit. But honestly, I would like them to keep her dignified, by using her silence and indifference to all of Raghav's tricks, to keep him in line.

If you come to think about it, Raghav's not that difficult to gauge.. I dont know if falling in love will screw up his brain but so far what I feel that his unhinged behaviour, the contradictions and complications in his personality/behaviour is because he had no family as an anchor, no accoubtability .. Eversince he got the assurance from his amma that they will move into his house, he has calmed down and that is part of the reason that hate has taken a backseat.. At this point, Pallavi doesnt matter to him, nor does any of the hate or bitterness associated with her.. She is just a means of getting his family back and initially for his family's sake he will try to make it work.. but I guess gradually as he comes to know her better he will start liking her..and as the MU's clear up he will fall for her.. then the major blood donation revelation will happen at some point too.. Raghav's graph I can somewhat understand.. But I am not sure how Pallavi's charactet arc is gonna shape up post marriage.. I dint quite like her idea of how she thinks this marriage is gonna work.. the whole idea of society givinf rights to wives and then controlling their husbands.. its just poor writing..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

@bold red- for who?? Just outta curiosity😆

some new girl who has no connection to either of raghvi and their fams😳😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

Perhaps Pallavi thinks he knows already or she doesn't care because this is all part of a deal. He isn't even telling her what his majboori is and neither of them are talking about their personal investment and emotion in this marriage of convenience.

Raghav is neutral towards her. He may say he hates her to her face, but he doesn't really care either way. She's just a pawn for him right now. Regarding Keerti's incident and the Anjali MMS, he feels what he did the other day makes their hisaab baraabar, so he doesn't have a reason to fight with her. He's not the type to pick fights unnecessarily, at least not with her.

Yup. Agree with everything except the last line..😆

Its possible that BWA does the big dhamaka on the wedding day about the widow truth. Raghav obviously wont care.. he might even somewhat start admiring her, as opposed to being completely neutral as he is now..

Originally posted by: SRKian

some new girl who has no connection to either of raghvi and their fams😳😆

Are you talking about yourself? I have a feeling you are !!😆

Originally posted by: moksha89

Totally in line with both of your analyses of the promo and possibilities of RaghVi marriage .. honestly, can’t say it better myself.

@libran90 - you mentioned earlier that RR’s like “I’m forever yours” sounded sinister. I found it a bit bitter or double-edged in meaning. Almost like sarcasm .. which, along with Pallu’s yo-yo comment, makes me feel like both characters have no idea what in the world they want. They’re so naive and live in extremes that it’s no wonder their personal lives are so unbalanced.

You're so right here! These two characters have no idea what they actually want in their life or they haven't thought of it till now!😭

Raghav wants his Amma and sister in his house, fine. His Amma wants him to marry Pallavi, fine. He is trying every possible means to make her agree, and she finally caved in. Then, what after?😡

He really hasn't conceptualized marriage yet! He told Pallavi during the proposal scene, that marry me, main tumhara peecha chod dunga! How in the world will he leave her after getting married? Does he realise that the girl will live with him, in his house, in front of his face, possibly in his room the entire lifetime, once they get married? He really hasn't understood the gravity of the situation yet. Maybe it will hit him after the wedding or maybe not!😳

Pallavi on the other hand is equally clueless! Her life revolved around Deshmukh's and their sasta saree shop, but after her Baba threw her out, she is still busy taking saree orders! She desperately needs to come out of small world or may be take a break to the mountains or even Kolhapur maybe to actually know what she wants, but Raghav won't let it happen now!😔

Her giving in to the marriage is also sad, given that she could have easily went to Amma or Keerthi to tell them how Raghav had been coercing her into the marriage. Maybe Amma would have stopped Raghav then. But alas, she really wants to go all out for the Deshmukhs!🤪

This makes me realise how this show runs on a huge web of miscommunications and misunderstandings! Someone break the chain asap!