Marriage and the idea of revenge - Page 3

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

Other things..Amma taking care of Pallu..may be give her a oil massage or let her lie down in her lap..feed her when she comes back from work..

Between the duo, Pallavi acting like he doesnt exist. Say bye only to Amma and Keerthi and only keep them informed.

Pallavi take time to get ready and he has to wait. Have her meet in a group on saree designs with only men. Many men don't like a female leader. LOL

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Almost No man likes a female leader.

No matter how much the society have changed,The inner existence of men which makes them men are never gonna change.

They will always have that superior extremity feeling thinking the world actually has to put them before women in everything

I guess its a combination of natural instinct and the past conditioning by society. I don't live in India, visited once only. But where I am, it's the same, so this issue of men feeling superior to women is just not in India. Men here are still trying to adjust to the authority of a woman. A man naturally is alpha, he has a knack of keeping control and he is quite territorial. That's how men naturally are. Then, to top this, the society has always put men above women, for thousands of years. For us to expect that in less than a century, they will adjust completely may be an over expectation from our side. We need to move together as a unit, sometimes giving them control, sometimes taking the control. If you take away everything from a man, including his instinct to protect, care and nourish, our society may lose balance prematurely and ultimately collapse. In my personal opinion, a collapse is necessary so we can build a new society where we give credit to all genders but obviously this collapse cannot be sudden otherwise we will all suffocate in the dust that's left behind.

Having said that, the new generation (men upto around 35/40 years) are really adjusting and trying. I see a positive change. It is now the responsibility of women to not put their necks on the line and give it time and be sensitive to their needs as well because in the battle for women to progress, somewhere, men have been left behind in terms of their emotions, almost as if their emotions don't exist. It's a tough situation but if we work on it, not like a battle, but as a necessity, maybe then things will change.

Also, Indian mums need to stop treating their bois like some kind of Devta. It's annoying 😆

Originally posted by: tasnimrayian

Offtopic-

Almost No man likes a female leader.

No matter how much the society have changed,The inner existence of men which makes them men are never gonna change.

They will always have that superior extremity feeling thinking the world actually has to put them before women in everything

The Oscar for the sweetest revenge goes to......Pallavi! 😆

Amazing ideas folks, hope CVs read this post! 👏🤣

Hahaha I hope they do coz it’s not like we’ll get any dark content (how actual revenge looks like - I don’t think I can watch too...), so they might as well pick some ideas from here and especially the one for the washrooms. I find that the most difficult thing to adjust to, matlab MIL, husband issues, family issues all aside, washroom aside. 😂

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

The Oscar for the sweetest revenge goes to......Pallavi! 😆

Amazing ideas folks, hope CVs read this post! 👏🤣

Originally posted by: chullbulli

🤣true yaar usp is love and they should not show love so soon.. show is dead if they ACCEPT LOVE..as long as they don't confess. btw abhi tak confession na hone ke bahut saare options hai..

but ur options are really funny.. wud love to se all

my personal favvy wud be

remember raghav once dared pallavi to wear a flimsy nighty and said...you won't be ble to carry it off.. i want a drunk pallu wearing it and then trying to go out in front of staff and farish(without realising what she is wearing).. all the time unknowingly embarrasing raghav.

does not have to be a drunk Pallu.. Let her do it consciously.. Look extremely hot.. men will be men.. How will Raghav deal with this hotness in his room, in his bed..? How many cold showers will he have to take 🤣 punishment

Hahahah that will be pure evil! Seduce him and then leave him alone 😂 he’ll need an ice shower 😂😂😂😂😂

1. Originally posted by: RishuDarling

   
   

   does not have to be a drunk Pallu.. Let her do it consciously.. Look extremely hot.. men will be men.. How will Raghav deal with this hotness in his room, in his

   
   

   bed..? How many cold showers will he have to take 🤣 punishment

would be goo revenge right.. somethings are extremely tough to control at times.. fight fire with fire..

get him all worked up and leave him hanging..

he wants it, wont admit it, cant admit it but he is always gets what he wants

picture this.. he will leave the room looking for distraction.. he will call his boys.. in the mansion there will be now a man-cave..but his boys are too busy no time for him.. out of misery he returns back to the room.. trying to sleep with his back towards her. he will fall asleep and keep on waking up from little dreams he has of her..

shall we go a step further and make him talk in his dreams? leaving tough Pallavi with red cheeks? will she take her phone and get some blackmail material just in case she needs it?

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Hahahah that will be pure evil! Seduce him and then leave him alone 😂 he’ll need an ice shower 😂😂😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

I guess its a combination of natural instinct and the past conditioning by society. I don't live in India, visited once only. But where I am, it's the same, so this issue of men feeling superior to women is just not in India. Men here are still trying to adjust to the authority of a woman. A man naturally is alpha, he has a knack of keeping control and he is quite territorial. That's how men naturally are. Then, to top this, the society has always put men above women, for thousands of years. For us to expect that in less than a century, they will adjust completely may be an over expectation from our side. We need to move together as a unit, sometimes giving them control, sometimes taking the control. If you take away everything from a man, including his instinct to protect, care and nourish, our society may lose balance prematurely and ultimately collapse. In my personal opinion, a collapse is necessary so we can build a new society where we give credit to all genders but obviously this collapse cannot be sudden otherwise we will all suffocate in the dust that's left behind.

Having said that, the new generation (men upto around 35/40 years) are really adjusting and trying. I see a positive change. It is now the responsibility of women to not put their necks on the line and give it time and be sensitive to their needs as well because in the battle for women to progress, somewhere, men have been left behind in terms of their emotions, almost as if their emotions don't exist. It's a tough situation but if we work on it, not like a battle, but as a necessity, maybe then things will change.

Also, Indian mums need to stop treating their bois like some kind of Devta. It's annoying 😆

Love managed to change the perspective of alpha males too over the years. Recently, I have read a lot about Prince Philip, a complete alpha male, worked for Royal Navy, he loved and married a princess. 5 years into their marriage, princess father dies suddenly one day and she turns to be a queen for the rest of their lives. Philips leaves his lifestyle of being an alpha male, remained as a prince forever in the shadows of his queen. Its been noted that he always remained a step behind the queen purposefully, taking over the full control of the household and let her reign peacefully till his last breath as the longest serving consort.

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

1. By not sharing the same room

2. Share the room and not the bed

3. Share the bed and nothing else

4. Hide toothpaste, hide eyeliner

5. Fight for the bathroom

6. Drop stinkbombs (this will be funny 🤣)

7. Give each other the cold shoulder (this is not possible, both of them are visibly aware of their attraction but will pretend)

8. Hurl abuses at each other - Nothing new here, they enjoy doing this

9. Hit below the belt (he's done it, she may too) - emotionally destroy each other after discovering weak points

10. OR the ultimate one - She wears her classic white saree after they're married. It will definitely be a silent protest and a huge eye sore for RR.

I'm running out of revenge ideas....

Kirti and Pallavi scare raghav at night by dressing up as ghosts

I dont know how well they will handle their post marriage revenge drama, but I know I don't want it to be a juvenile, frivolous fight over bed, bathroom etc.. Its obvious they are not going to share a bed or maybe even a room but I would like them to be in the same room atleast coz it will add to the drama and we want it. lol But as far as revenge goes, I want her to initially stick to what she says in the promo '' paiso ke ghamand to todungi'' its befitting for a man who is blinded with arrogance of the power of his money. Remember he threw money on her face.. ?! Break that arrogance.. So here's what I want..at some point I hope she comes to know about the charity work he does using Ramaswamy's name.. She should go there and spend most of time there (which is gonna irk him and we want him to remain irritated 24*7), bond with the old men/woman there..cook their food, attend to the sick, and spend Raghav's money to renovate the place so that the people living there have fun plus quality life... The people there, from the staff to the old people bond with Pallavi and praise her saying that Ramaswamy only spend limitless money on this place but never actually took time out to take care of the way his wife did.. Raghav should hear this and burn.. Similarly at home also, I want scenes where Pallavi slowly makes a personal one on one bond with each and every staff of his house.. Raghav, shouts at them for one thing or the other and Pallavi comes to their rescue..help them clean up the mess if they split coffee or broke a vase that angers Raghav... In short, Pallavi becomes the the ''maalkin'' of the house in true sense and everyone loves her.. amma and Keerhti also praise her qualities.. All this is gonna make Raghav very pissed in the beginning but slowly I am sure he will also start appreciating her qualities.. She can also start working in Jayathi jewellery on Amma's insistence.. and do the same thing there..