Positive Changes you want to see in the show! - Page 2

Also I want less usage of word "Khana". Here most dialogues revolve around khana. Pls try finding different things😆

And in this serial, other character stands like clone n give same expression. Try give them lil diff scenario, not just standing n sitting in living room. Give them lil acting opportunity bhai 😆

A good post. Thanks. Something different ❤.

I want them all to not live together for sometime.

I think almost everyone is getting influenced by Kaku.

Sonali sometimes gives a different reaction, something natural and how a good person would react, but as soon as she sees Kaku, she changes her reaction and behavior.

She wants to be under good books of Kaku. If Sonali and Omi move out, Omi might have a chance since he is not under his vahini. They could live with Mohit and Karishma.

Let Omi show some care for his son which he couldn't due to the fear in front of his vahini.

I want Aai to stand up for herself, enough is enough. I have always wanted people fight their own battles. Even if Sai wanted to help anyone, I wanted her to motivate them, not fight on their behalf. Everyone have to learn to fight their own battles. Aai has to show her strength so that Ninad learns how to treat her.

Kaku is a hopeless woman, only if she is left alone with no branches, there is some scope of improvement that might arise due to loneliness.

Ninad is again a hopeless guy. He should get embarrassed by some of his army friends quite often to understand what is expected out of him.

Virat

Virat should stop carrying a few qualities of his elders. These activities are as a result of the house he was brought up in.

His good qualities are that from his mom, but the punishing mentality seems to have been gathered from what he has seen in the elders of the house for long.

Sai was a good influence on him in this way. She stood up for right, didn't turn blind eye to things that were wrong. His emotions had come in between all of this and made it worse.

Virat should not turn blind eye to the happenings in his house.

Learn not to act as a peace maker always.

He should learn to stand up for his loved ones always irrespective of whether he is upset with them or not. He acts in a very supportive way when he is happy and does nothing when he is upset with that person. It doesn't work that way.

If Virat needs anything, expecting reciprocation of his feelings, he has to learn to communicate.

Learn to control his anger and emotions to some extent. Be frank and open to express hurt too if needed.

Learn to remember his past mistakes, apologies made and keep a check on his actions.

Apologies are made for a reason and it should be shown in his actions, if he meant those.

Learn not to take decisions in haste. Learn not to think everything is his responsibility.

Almost all of Virat's actions that are as a result of influence by his family needs to be validated.

As you have said, it makes sense. I have always wanted Virat to not care about what Pakhi does. Once he had decided to move on his life, when he no longer thinks that he should stick to some waada that he gave under pressure, he shouldn't let her have control over him in anyway.

She wants to leave, let her leave. He need not be holding her back for a husband who is missing. He doesn't even know what his brother wants since Pakhi once told him that Samrat might have come to know of the truth.

Also, I am sorry, but Samrat is also at fault. I believe that just like how, him leaving his mom was wrong, him leaving Pakhi like this, was also wrong. He could have ended it and left. Not many would agree, but I am unhappy with him.

Pakhi

Pakhi needs to move on, what are her parents for? I don't understand, when they knew her obsession for Virat, what are they thinking now? That she is waiting for her husband or is in that house for Virat? Won't parents be worried and take all necessary actions?

As you said let Mohit concentrate on his career.

Let Sai and Virat part ways as in the show. Let them get back not out of emotions alone, as you say only when Virat is clear about his feelings, if he can tell Sai the truth.

Sai

If Sai returns, I want her to focus on her dreams. I want her to work towards getting independent. This incident should be a lesson for her that she shouldn't have trusted anyone and moved into this house. I no longer want her to succumb to any circumstances. I know that when she got married, it was hardly 2 days since she lost her Dad and so the usually strong and bold Sai, couldn't fight with her villagers to refuse to get married. Now, that is not the case, if she stays alone, work as much hard as she could to achieve her dreams.

Understand and accept that she no longer is a daughter of someone, must be tough given the fact that she lost her Dad when she is too young, had to get into a marriage, into a big joint family. I think she has learnt a few things but there are a few more things that she has to learn. She has anyway just begun the journey of her life, after she lost the only family she had. She has just come out of school, this is the crucial time, will learn a lot of things.

Understand that life is not going to be as sweet as how it used to be when she was with her Dad.

Understand that she cannot behave in a certain way, change her ways. Understand that people are and will not support any/all of her actions like how her Dad used to.

Understand that when she is part of someone's life, as anyone, need not be wife, everything should be kept informed, respect the one who has taken her responsibility, learn to be answerable to them, not in all ways but as a way of paying respect. I understand that the recipient should also deserve that respect, in this case Virat and Aai, do deserve that respect.

Learn to be apologetic. It is not enough if she realises or thinks to herself that she is making a mistake, has to apologise. Shouldn't let anger or ego or any emotion come in between.

In this track, I understand and support her that she acted apologetic, tried to explain and apologise but she didn't get a chance.

Learn that, she need not put up a hard or a steel front with everyone, should not stop her emotions, she has to work on her emotional quotient actually. Deal might be a reason for her to build wall, but sometimes she thinks that for her to stay strong or act determined, she can act rude or she can act as if she doesn't care. It won't be understood in the right way.

She will have to change her approach in trying to stay determined.

Pretending that she doesn't care is not how it should be done. Because, though she knows that it is a pretence, the other person need not and they can get hurt. She should take the recipient's emotions into consideration. Because, at the end, though her intentions might be good, the path that she chooses, only gives hurt and pain to the recipient.

Learn that her way of talking with her Dad or Usha Maushi should have to be restricted only to them and it need not be extended to anyone else. Not everyone will be able to understand her tone or her intentions. Once she and Virat gets comfortable and start trusting each other, he can move that way with Virat if he likes it.

Learn to control her anger and learn not to act impulsive.

Here you go.

Have just written and haven't checked what I wrote, will come back and add a few points or correct a few things😳.

Originally posted by: Hari73

First n foremost I want cvs to give lil akal to virat. Realise what is happening around. Being IPS officer, he couldn't find real truth of pulkit. I was laughing when he went to arrest pulkit without arrest warrant n insufficient proofs against him. It was really bad, how can cvs show him like that. Also why to show cry baby kind of. Poor actor finding really difficult to emote. I shd hv felt sympathy for him as it shd hv been hard for him to throw sai out of house. But I am irritated with this man. And he is not realising paki trying hard to make him hate sai. She is openly saying she still loves him n he is not clearing her as well that he don't love her. He is beating around the Bush. Today he shd hv shown clearly angry at sai. But why he is remembering holi ( does cvs wants to to show us virat was mahaan for playing holi with her) n crying..😆 Sometimes, in anger ppl would go harsh way. Here he is remembering holi n crying n throwing her out of the house as well. So confused chsracter.

I want to say, sai just go away from CN, n make your own life. Instead of going her village, she can rent small house n stay in same place n continue education.. Both mashi n she can do part time job n can make their living.

Betwn what is forum referring abt KD?

@bold- this cracked me up🤣 if CVs had akal, they wouldn't have butchered Virat's character like this. It feels so bad how they had to ruin him just so they can sit and copy paste

Oh let's not talk about DevKit track! This is one of the worst handled tracks on itv according to me. They have dragged it like anything! I don't want to talk about last two days ya! I'll be hurt again.

Yes, Sai should stay away from CN! They don't deserve her, but they do deserve the insult. Cant wait

KD is Kusum Dola, the original version of Ghum

Originally posted by: laksh

A good post. Thanks. Something different ❤.

I want them all to not live together for sometime.

I think almost everyone is getting influenced by Kaku.

Sonali sometimes gives a different reaction, something natural and how a good person would react, but as soon as she sees Kaku, she changes her reaction and behavior.

She wants to be under good books of Kaku. If Sonali and Omi move out, Omi might have a chance since he is not under his vahini. They could live with Mohit and Karishma.

Let Omi show some care for his son which he couldn't due to the fear in front of his vahini.

I want Aai to stand up for herself, enough is enough. I have always wanted people fight their own battle or even if Sai wanted to help anyone, I wanted her to motivate them, not fight on their behalf. Everyone have to learn to fight their own battles. Aai has to show her strength so that Ninad learns how to treat her.

Kaku is a hopeless woman, only if she is left alone with no branches, there is some scope of improvement that might arise due to loneliness.

Ninad is again a hopeless guy. He should get embarrassed by some of his army friends quite often to understand what is expected out of him.

Virat

Virat should stop carrying a few qualities of his elders. These activities are as a result of the house he was brought up in.

His good qualities are that from his mom, but the punishing mentality seems to have been gathered from what he has seen in the elders of the house for long.

Sai was a good influence on him in this way. She stood up for right, didn't turn blind eye to things that were wrong. His emotions had come in between all of this and made it worse.

Virat should not turn blind eye to the happenings in his house.

Learn not to act as a peace maker always.

He should learn to stand up for his loved ones always irrespective of whether he is upset with them or not. He acts in a very supportive way when he is happy and does nothing when he is upset with that person. It doesn't work that way.

If Virat needs anything, expecting reciprocation of his feelings, he has to learn to communicate.

Learn to control his anger and emotions to some extent. Be frank and open to express hurt too if needed.

Learn not to take decisions in haste. Learn not to think everything is his responsibility.

Almost all of Virat's actions that are as a result of influence by his family needs to be validated.

As you said, if makes sense. I have always wanted Virat to not care about what Pakhi does. Once he had decided to move on his life, when he no longer thinks that he should stick to some waada that he gave under pressure, he shouldn't let her have control over him in anyway.

She wants to leave, let her leave. He need not be holding her back for a husband who is missing. He doesn't even know what his brother wants since Pakhi once told him that Samrat might have come to know of the truth.

Also, I am sorry, but Samrat is also at fault. I believe that just like how, him leaving his mom was wrong, him leaving Pakhi like this was also wrong. He could have ended it and left. Not many would agree, but I am unhappy with him.

Pakhi

Pakhi needs to move on, what are her parents for? I don't understand, when they knew her obsession for Virat, what are they thinking now? That she is waiting for her husband or is in that house for Virat? Won't parents be worried and take all necessary actions?

As you said let Mohit concentrate on his career.

Let Sai and Virat part ways as in the show. Let them get back not out of emotions alone, as you say only when Virat is clear about his feelings, if he can tell Sai the truth.

Sai

If Sai returns, I want her to focus on her dreams. I want her to work towards getting independent. This incident should be a lesson for her that she shouldn't have trusted anyone and moved into this house. I no longer want her to succumb to any circumstances. I know that when she got married, it was hardly 2 days since she lost her Dad and so the usually strong and bold Sai, couldn't fight with her villagers to refuse to get married. Now, that is not the case, if she stays alone, work as much hard as she could to achieve her dreams.

Understand and accept that she no longer is a daughter of someone, must be tough given the fact that she lost her Dad when she is too young, had to get into a marriage, into a big joint family. I think she has learnt a few things but there are a few more things that she has to learn. She has anyway just begun the journey of her life, after she lost the only family she had. She has just come iut of school, this is the crucial time, will learn a lot of things.

Understand that life is not going to be as sweet as how it used to be when she was with her Dad.

Understand that she cannot behave in a certain way, change her ways. Understand that people are and will not support any/all of her actions like how her Dad used to.

Understand that when she is part of someone's life, as anyone, need not be wife, everything should be kept informed, respect the one who has taken her responsibility, learn to be answerable to them, not in all ways but as a way of paying respect. I understand that the recipient should also deserve that respect, in this case Virat and Aai, do deserve that respect.

Learn that, she need not put up a hard or a steel front with everyone, should not stop her emotions, she has to work on her emotional quotient actually. Deal might be a reason for her to build wall, but sometimes she thinks that for her to stay strong or act determined, she can act rude or she can act as if she doesn't care. It won't be understood in the right way.

She will have to change her approach in try to stay determined.

Pretending that she doesn't care is not how it should be done. Because, though she knows that it is a pretence, the other person need not and they can get hurt. She should take the recipient's emotions into consideration. Because, at the end, though her intentions might be good, her path chosen only gives hurt and pain to the recipient.

Learn that her way of talking with her Dad or Usha Maushi should have to be restricted only to them and it need not be extended to anyone else. Not everyone will be able to understand her tone or her intentions. Once she and Virat gets comfortable and start trusting each other, he can move that way with Virat if he likes it.

Learn to control her anger and learn not to act impulsive.

Here you go.

Have just written and haven't checked what I wrote, will come back and add a few points or correct a few things😳.

matlab aapne thaan liya hai ki jab jab mai long post daalti hu, aap usse bhi acha wala long post dalengi😆

I agree with everything you said! I will reply to this in a while but I want SaiRat to communicate! Not to just assume things or expect the other one to understand.

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

matlab aapne thaan liya hai ki jab jab mai long post daalti hu, aap usse bhi acha wala long post dalengi😆

I agree with everything you said! I will reply to this in a while but I want SaiRat to communicate! Not to just assume things or expect the other one to understand.

@bold 🙈🙈

Itna kuch tha bolne ke liye sabke baare mein 🤣🤣

I felt I can tell you khulke 😳

Yeah, they should communicate. But if they do, what will they have to show us 🤣.

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold 🙈🙈

Itna kuch tha bolne ke liye sabke baare mein 🤣🤣

I felt I can tell you khulke 😳

Yeah, they should communicate. But if they do, what will they have to show us 🤣.

Itne log bhi the na🤣

Yes, you can tell me khulke, that's why I want to reply properly on your points, khulke😉

Yes, what will they copy from?Today, I am so irritated because of the way Virat is butchered :(

I have only two request, bring back the team that wrote the stick drama. In the original, Rono acts as if he is going to hit Emon for not letting the family know where she was but in ghum, they changed the scene. I want those writers back.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I have only two request, bring back the team that wrote the stick drama. In the original, Rono acts as if he is going to hit Emon for not letting the family know where she was but in ghum, they changed the scene. I want those writers back.

I know, in short, bring back the writers who understands that Virat is not Rono😭

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

Itne log bhi the na🤣

Yes, you can tell me khulke, that's why I want to reply properly on your points, khulke😉

Yes, what will they copy from?Today, I am so irritated because of the way Virat is butchered :(

I don't know if it was butchered or not. He behaved enraged few times in the past too, this time he went overboard. It is what he is watching at home that he has followed, may be. 😒

Originally posted by: laksh

A good post. Thanks. Something different ❤.

Thank you!❤️

I want them all to not live together for sometime.

I think almost everyone is getting influenced by Kaku.

I just don't understand why should they agree to everything that kaku says. I used to feel like the whole property is on her name(but how much?😆). but even then, if it's ancestral property, all of the others can get their shares legally. If it's earned by her husband, then makes sense. But again, is it much more than what Omi is earning through business or what Ninad earned at army?

Sonali sometimes gives a different reaction, something natural and how a good person would react, but as soon as she sees Kaku, she changes her reaction and behavior.

She wants to be under good books of Kaku. If Sonali and Omi move out, Omi might have a chance since he is not under his vahini. They could live with Mohit and Karishma.

Let Omi show some care for his son which he couldn't due to the fear in front of his vahini.

I agree about Sonali. But why does she wants to be under Kaku's good books? Maybe so that she can boss around Ashwini? I did see that she is lazy to work so maybe this can make Kaku give more work to Ashwini. What a logic!👏

After kidnapping drama, I want Omi to go to jail. Then he can move out, support Mohit or do whatever he wants to! I mean itna bhi kya darna ki apne ek laute bete ke liye kuch na karsake???

I want Aai to stand up for herself, enough is enough. I have always wanted people fight their own battle or even if Sai wanted to help anyone, I wanted her to motivate them, not fight on their behalf. Everyone have to learn to fight their own battles. Aai has to show her strength so that Ninad learns how to treat her.

Yes, I mentioned about Sai because she is the only one who knows Ninad is a criminal. Aai can surely fight her battles but she needs some motivation to come out of this mess! I don't think Ninad deserves her! Worst husband and worst dad ever!

Kaku is a hopeless woman, only if she is left alone with no branches, there is some scope of improvement that might arise due to loneliness.

I know this can be the end game but I have seen people with such mindsets. See, agar woh apni beti ko uski bache se alag karsakti hai, woh kuch bhi karsakti hai. I don't think people like her will ever accept defeat, I have seen this happening only onscreen.

Ninad is again a hopeless guy. He should get embarrassed by some of his army friends quite often to understand what is expected out of him.

When Virat was in GC, Ashwini and Ninad had some conversation around their marriage. At that time, I felt kuch hosakta hai. But now, I want aai to divorce him. Let him realize what all she does for this idiot and his family without complaning! Phir jayega, vahini khana chahiye, vahini ye, vahini woh karke😈

Virat

Virat should stop carrying a few qualities of his elders. These activities are as a result of the house he was brought up in.

True! He should realize that just because they are elders, the path they followed can not always be correct. I really loved him during Shivani bua's track. he was stern with them.

His good qualities are that from his mom, but the punishing mentality seems to have been gathered from what he has seen in the elders of the house for long.

Yes, there needs to be a pushing force for people to realize things. When Sai was practicing dance, he said that this is our room. But he should know that not just in case of room, husband and wife are equal in every aspect. Just being a husband doesn't mean he is superior to his wife. he should learn that. I'd ask him to watch Dil Dhadakne Do😆

Sai was a good influence on him in this way. She stood up for right, didn't turn blind eye to things that were wrong. His emotions had come in between all of this and made it worse.

Yes, these two together can make such a great team. But when will they communicate?😭

Virat should not turn blind eye to the happenings in his house.

Learn not to act as a peace maker always.

There is a dialogue in another serial, it says, turning blind eye towards the wrong things doesn't mean shanthi, it means Sannata. Veeru should know this :)

He should learn to stand up for his loved ones always irrespective of whether he is upset with them or not. He acts in a very supportive way when he is happy and does nothing when he is upset with that person. It doesn't work that way.

Yes, that's where he can grow. I want to see that journey of him.

If Virat needs anything, expecting reciprocation of his feelings, he has to learn to communicate.

Learn to control his anger and emotions to some extent. Be frank and open to express hurt too if needed.

Learn not to take decisions in haste. Learn not to think everything is his responsibility.

Almost all of Virat's actions that are as a result of influence by his family needs to be validated.

The day they communicate, I will celebrate!!! He should first stop serving vaadas and jalebis. Then things will automatically fall into place. Na rahegi jalebi, ra rahegi miscommunication.

Yes, not everything/everyone's his responsibility!

@bold- this is something so common in most of the households. This needs to change, especially in joint families.

As you said, if makes sense. I have always wanted Virat to not care about what Pakhi does. Once he had decided to move on his life, when he no longer thinks that he should stick to some waada that he gave under pressure, he shouldn't let her have control over him in anyway.

She wants to leave, let her leave. He need not be holding her back for a husband who is missing. He doesn't even know what his brother wants since Pakhi once told him that Samrat might have come to know of the truth.

I don't understand why they had to bring it up that ; shayad Samrat ko hamara baare mei pata chal gaya hai', if they don't want to talk about it! I also don't understand how openly she says I love Virat, mai abhi bhi wahi pe khadi hu, tumne vaada kiya tha and all. Ok I have decided that I will not talk about Pakhi coz I have no time to decode her acting. But I want Virat to be guilty, not for Pakhi but for what he had done to Samrat!!

Also, I am sorry, but Samrat is also at fault. I believe that just like how, him leaving his mom was wrong, him leaving Pakhi like this, was also wrong. He could have ended it and left. Not many would agree, but I am unhappy with him.

No I understand. Not everyone is ready to face confrontations. We don't even know what happened with him(keeping KD aside for a while🤣), so I am not saying anything about him. But if you look at his childhood, we don't know how his paternal family was, he lost his father, he was treated as if he doesn't belong in this house(for sometime). So we don't know him exactly except that he is a fun loving guy and a good person. So keeping him aside till he returns

Pakhi

Pakhi needs to move on, what are her parents for? I don't understand, when they knew her obsession for Virat, what are they thinking now? That she is waiting for her husband or is in that house for Virat? Won't parents be worried and take all necessary actions?

Ask me about it. I remember that I wrote a long post, about her dad. When she said pyar pagalpan hai, he was like okay. Matlab kuch bhi? I have seen parents with single child(not all) not reprimanding their child out of love. So they can't accept it that they couldn't get what they desired for. Same goes to her. When her parents requested Bhavani to send Pakhi with them, she said she wants to take care of her sasu ma. So you can say they have accepted to be in her delusional world

As you said let Mohit concentrate on his career.

I want karishma to re-start acting too :)

Let Sai and Virat part ways as in the show. Let them get back not out of emotions alone, as you say only when Virat is clear about his feelings, if he can tell Sai the truth.

Yes, I hope they make proper use of this separation.

Sai

If Sai returns, I want her to focus on her dreams. I want her to work towards getting independent. This incident should be a lesson for her that she shouldn't have trusted anyone and moved into this house. I no longer want her to succumb to any circumstances. I know that when she got married, it was hardly 2 days since she lost her Dad and so the usually strong and bold Sai, couldn't fight with her villagers to refuse to get married. Now, that is not the case, if she stays alone, work as much hard as she could to achieve her dreams.

Understand and accept that she no longer is a daughter of someone, must be tough given the fact that she lost her Dad when she is too young, had to get into a marriage, into a big joint family. I think she has learnt a few things but there are a few more things that she has to learn. She has anyway just begun the journey of her life, after she lost the only family she had. She has just come out of school, this is the crucial time, will learn a lot of things.

Understand that life is not going to be as sweet as how it used to be when she was with her Dad.

Understand that she cannot behave in a certain way, change her ways. Understand that people are and will not support any/all of her actions like how her Dad used to.

Understand that when she is part of someone's life, as anyone, need not be wife, everything should be kept informed, respect the one who has taken her responsibility, learn to be answerable to them, not in all ways but as a way of paying respect. I understand that the recipient should also deserve that respect, in this case Virat and Aai, do deserve that respect.

Learn that, she need not put up a hard or a steel front with everyone, should not stop her emotions, she has to work on her emotional quotient actually. Deal might be a reason for her to build wall, but sometimes she thinks that for her to stay strong or act determined, she can act rude or she can act as if she doesn't care. It won't be understood in the right way.

She will have to change her approach in try to stay determined.

Pretending that she doesn't care is not how it should be done. Because, though she knows that it is a pretence, the other person need not and they can get hurt. She should take the recipient's emotions into consideration. Because, at the end, though her intentions might be good, the path that she chooses, only gives hurt and pain to the recipient.

Learn that her way of talking with her Dad or Usha Maushi should have to be restricted only to them and it need not be extended to anyone else. Not everyone will be able to understand her tone or her intentions. Once she and Virat gets comfortable and start trusting each other, he can move that way with Virat if he likes it.

Learn to control her anger and learn not to act impulsive.

Woah!! There's nothing more to add, you have said it all!👏

Here you go.

Have just written and haven't checked what I wrote, will come back and add a few points or correct a few things😳.

Here you go.

Have just replied and haven't checked what I replied, will not come back to add any further points neither to correct anything😆