Her Dream Man and His Dream Woman !!

THEY ARE MADE FOR EACH OTHER !!

this is what we say when we see two people complement each other and we think their presence have made their lives better in every way .

But can we say this for our Sairat?

Sai is brought up by a single parent also has no sibling.Her father and Usha mausi was her only family. She never hid anything from her father and was always true to him. Her father taught him to value the relations and stand strong for those you call your family .She doesn't know how to live in a joint family. she was a pampered kid thats why she has no idea about the restrictions one faces and compromises one happily makes while living in a joint family. and Her father is an ideal man in her eyes .and she deep inside wishes her life partner to be like her father that's why whenever she sees virat's soft side or protective side she compares him with her father but Is it right to compare? Or Is Virat actually like that person whom Sai tries to find in him?

Virat has been brought up in a joint family .He has been taught to follow the orders of the elders . He is a nice man and has good heart but For him prestige of his family matters alot . He has a soft ,caring nature but He has witnessed patriarchy getting normalised in his entire life hence this behaviour has inculcated in his personality too . He is considered as a responsible son of the family who has made his family proud by his hardwork so he always wanted a responsible , sorted , independent life partner that's why Pakhi was his first choice and Pakhi was perfect for him and we can see how well his choice goes with his family's. His family also chose Pakhi as one of their daughters in law that means Virat and his family always had the same vision when it comes to their ideal daughters in law .Imagine Virat's Life with Pakhi .They both had love for each other . That girl who has no problem with patriarchy and is ready to lose her whole worth/ identity for someone she is in love with .I mean Virat life would have been easier with her.

So basically no matter Sairat become better human beings together and create magic but Sai definitely deserves her ideal man who doesn't think letting his wife study and live in his house is a favour and Virat deserves his ideal woman who doesn't disobey elders, keeps peace in his family !!

Hello Amaya.

I read your post and I can see your point.

But the answer to your question lies in the title itself. Dream man and dream woman. Dreams are meant to be broken. Reality is different.

You are right. Sai would be happy with someone who is not influenced by the patriarchy of his house and Virat would be happy with someone who respects their elders.

And we say that in life we do everything to be happy. We make huge plans so that we can be happy. But there's another thing which is not talked about much. That is growth. A human being not only desires happiness but also growth in his/her life.

It's not only happiness but also growth which is required for a human being. Change is necessary and inevitable. You must know how much a caterpillar struggles to come out of its cocoon. This struggle is inconvenient, painful and can look unnecessary but it is necessary. The caterpiller turns into a beautiful butterfly due to this painful struggle. Sai and Virat are that painful yet necessary struggle of each other's lives. They are the inconvenience they need in their lives to grow.

It is not necessary for Virat to be exactly like her Aaba. But there's nothing wrong if she wants to see her Aaba's image in Virat. Many girls prefer that. The part of Virat which is like her Aaba's, gives her security but the part which is different gives her the required struggle.

Same for Virat. Sai is inherently like Virat in her value system. That part gives him security. That part of Sai which is outspoken gives him the required struggle.

All the things they are going through are painful but necessary struggle for their relationship. So it will not only be Sai and Virat individually who will grow but also their relationship which will transform into a beautiful colourful bond.

As far as Patralekha and Virat getting together is concerned or Sai being together with someone else who isn't like Virat is concerned, those relationships could be peaceful yet stagnant and not fulfilling.

Originally posted by: amaya01

THEY ARE MADE FOR EACH OTHER !!

this is what we say when we see two people complement each other and we think their presence have made their lives better in every way .

But can we say this for our Sairat?

Sai is brought up by a single parent also has no sibling.Her father and Usha mausi was her only family. She never hid anything from her father and was always true to him. Her father taught him to value the relations and stand strong for those you call your family .She doesn't know how to live in a joint family. she was a pampered kid thats why she has no idea about the restrictions one faces and compromises one happily makes while living in a joint family. and Her father is an ideal man in her eyes .and she deep inside wishes her life partner to be like her father that's why whenever she sees virat's soft side or protective side she compares him with her father but Is it right to compare? Or Is Virat actually like that person whom Sai tries to find in him?

Virat has been brought up in a joint family .He has been taught to follow the orders of the elders . He is a nice man and has good heart but For him prestige of his family matters alot . He has a soft ,caring nature but He has witnessed patriarchy getting normalised in his entire life hence this behaviour has inculcated in his personality too . He is considered as a responsible son of the family who has made his family proud by his hardwork so he always wanted a responsible , sorted , independent life partner that's why Pakhi was his first choice and Pakhi was perfect for him and we can see how well his choice goes with his family's. His family also chose Pakhi as one of their daughters in law that means Virat and his family always had the same vision when it comes to their ideal daughters in law .Imagine Virat's Life with Pakhi .They both had love for each other . That girl who has no problem with patriarchy and is ready to lose her whole worth/ identity for someone she is in love with .I mean Virat life would have been easier with her.

So basically no matter Sairat become better human beings together and create magic but Sai definitely deserves her ideal man who doesn't think letting his wife study and live in his house is a favour and Virat deserves his ideal woman who doesn't disobey elders, keeps peace in his family !!

@ BOld:

dilli door lagti hai abhi..😂.Virat ke ghar ke darwaze band karna...better human nahi banata😂 😂

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

Hello Amaya.

I read your post and I can see your point.

But the answer to your question lies in the title itself. Dream man and dream woman. Dreams are meant to be broken. Reality is different.

You are right. Sai would be happy with someone who is not influenced by the patriarchy of his house and Virat would be happy with someone who respects their elders.

And we say that in life we do everything to be happy. We make huge plans so that we can be happy. But there's another thing which is not talked about much. That is growth. A human being not only desires happiness but also growth in his/her life.

It's not only happiness but also growth which is required for a human being. Change is necessary and inevitable. You must know how much a caterpillar struggles to come out of its cocoon. This struggle is inconvenient, painful and can look unnecessary but it is necessary. The caterpiller turns into a beautiful butterfly due to this painful struggle. Sai and Virat are that painful yet necessary struggle of each other's lives. They are the inconvenience they need in their lives to grow.

It is not necessary for Virat to be exactly like her Aaba. But there's nothing wrong if she wants to see her Aaba's image in Virat. Many girls prefer that. The part of Virat which is like her Aaba's, gives her security but the part which is different gives her the required struggle.

Same for Virat. Sai is inherently like Virat in her value system. That part gives him security. That part of Sai which is outspoken gives him the required struggle.

All the things they are going through are painful but necessary struggle for their relationship. So it will not only be Sai and Virat individually who will grow but also their relationship which will transform into a beautiful colourful bond.

As far as Patralekha and Virat getting together is concerned or Sai being together with someone else who isn't like Virat is concerned, those relationships could be peaceful yet stagnant and not fulfilling.

Hello Dear.

Thanks for your beautiful reply !!

I agree !! Growth is definitely required but sometimes the path of growth becomes too rocky to walk and at the end leaves scars that can't be healed easily and would leave marks . Sairat definitely brings out best in each other , have same value system and look magical together but they are very rigid when it comes to their own stands and ends up hurting each other .Hope their relationship blooms with time !!

Originally posted by: India_TV

@ BOld:

dilli door lagti hai abhi..😂.Virat ke ghar ke darwaze band karna...better human nahi banata😂 😂

Hahaha !!

Isilye socha ab agar better human being banne ki Chahat nhi toh zabardasti Kyun karni 😎

Sometimes what we think we want is not what is actually right for us, and with time we do realise it. Like they say, all that glitters is not gold. Attraction towards another person is just like glitters, but as we come closer to that person we realize that reality is so much different.

The same thing is with Virat and Pakhi. When Virat first saw Pakhi, he felt like he got someone who has all that he ever wanted, and so he got attracted to her, without even knowing much about her. He wasn't in love with her, he was in love with the feeling of being in love. But with Sai, it is different. She is something which Virat never realised he needed. They are like two pieces of puzzle, each have something the other lacks, but still both are part of the same picture.

The best couple are those who have both similarities and dissimilarities. The dissimilarities make them grow, and similarities keep them together. And this is the exact reason why SaiRat are a brilliant couple. Yes, they are fighting now, but that still doesn't change the fact that they complete each other.

Originally posted by: amaya01

Hello Dear.

Thanks for your beautiful reply !!

I agree !! Growth is definitely required but sometimes the path of growth becomes too rocky to walk and at the end leaves scars that can't be healed easily and would leave marks . Sairat definitely brings out best in each other , have same value system and look magical together but they are very rigid when it comes to their own stands and ends up hurting each other .Hope their relationship blooms with time !!

I agree with you. But as it is a fictional show. They will lose some of their rigidity for each other with time😆. Even if they don't, they will learn to live together respecting each other's individuality. (Hmm. I just got an idea for an os🤔😆).anyways😆 I'm hoping for the same❤️❤️

Sai ka mujhe nhi pata

but virat ki ideal women pakhi nhi hain infact he gave up on her & fund no reason to fight 4 her coz he got pissed somewhere after learning d reason of pakhi's blocking his number , he will not return to pakhi at any cost . If pakhi would had married virat then her life would not be this easy her life would be tougher than sai & I doubt she could bear it . Pakhi did betrayed kaku"s trust when she willfully gave her consent to samrat alliance then kaku would never had accepted her as bride of virat.

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

Sometimes what we think we want is not what is actually right for us, and with time we do realise it. Like they say, all that glitters is not gold. Attraction towards another person is just like glitters, but as we come closer to that person we realize that reality is so much different.

The same thing is with Virat and Pakhi. When Virat first saw Pakhi, he felt like he got someone who has all that he ever wanted, and so he got attracted to her, without even knowing much about her. He wasn't in love with her, he was in love with the feeling of being in love. But with Sai, it is different. She is something which Virat never realised he needed. They are like two pieces of puzzle, each have something the other lacks, but still both are part of the same picture.

The best couple are those who have both similarities and dissimilarities. The dissimilarities make them grow, and similarities keep them together. And this is the exact reason why SaiRat are a brilliant couple. Yes, they are fighting now, but that still doesn't change the fact that they complete each other.

@Bold Sairat relationship couldn't have been defined in better words ❤️

Sai brought happiness in Virat's life. She taught him how to find small happiness instead of always be serious. He found that child in him. He is slowly understanding the meaning of true love.

Sai saw his father in Virat. One bad behavior can't erase all the good things he did for her.

They are not perfect for each other but that's what makes them perfect.

I don't believe in dream partner. There is always something negative about the other one we don't like but we end up accepting it.