Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 93

Originally posted by: PRIME1

Ye bon ko zaroor kuch hoga is ninja ke mission I guess.🤔

Nahi hoga kyunke phir public rage will increase on Ani Mano and unko toh whitewash karna hai na.

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Nahi hoga kyunke phir public rage will increase on Ani Mano and unko toh whitewash karna hai na.

but if they show mahaan mano and arc budding feelings kyunki mano ki death pe people would not be isnoired

agar high voltagae banaana hai bon would be involved in it or mano ka death sequence nahi dikhaayenge

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Nahi hoga kyunke phir public rage will increase on Ani Mano and unko toh whitewash karna hai na.

Good night everyone

Take care❤️🤗

Originally posted by: RUDY575

no logic ...here😎

How he knows that table...he is barrister not maths teacher...for god's sake

hope bon says soemthing to ani u hurt me by doing this itna dikha do we wont say anything to ani but just praise him

Originally posted by: faja

you have my heart dear..You just poured out whats in my heart so effortlessly, agree to every single statement

Foced to accept that here Bondita being called 'jeene ka vacha' means the literal meaning of purpose of his life which was directionless in her absence. Not the hyped and the romanticized meaning we attribute to it of how important she is to him. Anirudh the person always needed challenges or 'purpose' to move ahead and anchored in life be it being the gold medalist or being lover boy to childhood love or an aspiring feminist.Bondita is literally that mishal for him. Mini was right "pata nahi kab konsa fitoor chadta hai"..As long as his fitoor was in our favour we cheered..now its in the other gear. Bondita's existence make him feel his existence for a purpose and that actual holi dance with Bondita itself was for what even if on her insistence. The dream of him celebrating holi is actually for the audience (an assurance that rudhita might still have hope,stay here), but still it can be said that man become aadat se machboor..that habit if given up leaves a void for a while and eventually vaccum get filled by other.Ani once had only Bondita trusted him, hear him out and stood with him, now there is a new found comfort zone with Manorama . Here all the 'subtleties' show how it is going to be filled with the other.

Even as the story unfold, I try to reevaluate how I perceived the whole development of their rishta, and if the entire thing was misinterpreted by the shipper mind or not. RTM 21 still could not get a valid reasoning. What ever it may, even if accept everything we felt was dhoka of eyes, the 'exceution' of his new found love was the biggest blunder."The problem is not Ani falling for someone else, the problem is with the WAY Ani fell for someone else. " So damn true if they needed focus shift on Ani's feelings ..there were a hundred other ways. They butchered him brutally.

.And if Bondita's gaal laal was not blush so was Ani's ,his cheeks were painted by the colour of her dupatta not from his inner feelings. So if one portrayed wrong other equally wrong, if one stupid the other equally stupid.

I now feel Ani's love confession came because if it would not have happened, then it won't have been termed as a "sacrifice".

Ani in his senses can only choose the ideal scenario for him, for he believes himself as the personification of his principles. He underplay his emotions, mostly oblivious to his own or misinterpret his feelings to match with his ideology. Ani's so called sacrifice underlined his adherence to his priniciple , remember his bhashan on love and zemmidari , he chose his zemmidari which is 'ideal' for his belief..

Bondita showing the real meaning of zemmidari is my dream, the only way to wake him up from illusions

Faja am glad I could bring out what you wanted to say🤗❤️

...now there is a new found comfort zone with Manorama . Here all the 'subtleties' show how it is going to be filled with the other.

💔 I thought Bon's void in Ani's life could never be filled. But🥺

And if Bondita's gaal laal was not blush so was Ani's ,his cheeks were painted by the colour of her dupatta not from his inner feelings. So if one portrayed wrong other equally wrong, if one stupid the other equally stupid.

Exactly what I wanted to say. Both of them had the wrong misinterpretation of the red colour in their lives. However makers crafted the scene in a way that made Bon's red cheeks a result of childishness and Ani's red cheeks an attribute of love, real love as they say.

Ani in his senses can only choose the ideal scenario for him, for he believes himself as the personification of his principles. He underplay his emotions, mostly oblivious to his own or misinterpret his feelings to match with his ideology. Ani's so called sacrifice underlined his adherence to his priniciple , remember his bhashan on love and zemmidari , he chose his zemmidari which is 'ideal' for his belief..

That is the problem. He never tries to think from the perspective of the other person. Bon came first in her class because she had the strength in him; her personal life, her faith was free from any sorts of 'threat'. Did Ani ever tried to reason out what exactly caused Bon to suddenly do all of those things? She was focusing on her studies, what was the reason of her adhering to those ways? She never ever felt the need to do so previously. Why now then? Ani's lack of assurance. She never paid heed to society's words, but it was Ani who publicly declared their marriage a swang. Not to forget the same public declaration from Ani allowed those women to blame Bon for her faltering relationship, won't she go to any lengths to save it? By speaking about their relationship publicly he actually gave society the chance to interfere, to accuse Bon. Society's words started mattering to Bon because Ani created that space. Had Ani given her an assurance for once, had Bon succumbed to those ways? No matter what we say regarding society, we can hate it, we can love it but we cannot really ignore it. It starts bothering us at some point of our life, especially when we experience the low. Mini too once said, "Tumhare naam ka sindoor to Bondita ke maang mei hai na, duniya ke liye to wahi tumhari patni huyi." Mini felt insecure because it was an compromising situation. If society did not matter for Ani, why did he bring back Bon when it started tagging Bon as chodi huyi aurat? Because it mattered to him then. Because the society was causing pain to Bon, therefore it mattered. It is still causing pain to Bon, but now it does not seem to bother Ani. But then how come it is Bon's fault? Why is he punishing Bon for no fault of her? Because in his fitoor he can never really see the other side of the coin. He always chooses what seems to be ideal to him, thus facing the repercussions when the same 'ideal' starts hitting back with reality.

Sorry for the late reply. I take a lot of time to write, especially when writing such long bhashans😆

Originally posted by: Indira12

But was ARC this Faja?

I would have never felt disappointed by this, but it was the same Ani who said to GW about women succeeding in both their careers and personal lives. The same Ani who once felt proud of Indian women as housewives is now trivializing their job, directly or indirectly. This change is where it pains the most. The ARC I came to love was never this. And what's more frustrating is the fact that Ani and makers do not find anything wrong in it.😒

ARC was never this dear, So only we feel the pain

It was the characterization of ARC that primarily drew me here, that ARC is long gone.

The lines you quoted were the one irked me most yesterday.

Anirudh once was against kaka who was insistent on Bondita making prasad stating its her age to play, then made Bondita chose between rasoi or padai, she opted for both and Anirudh had to agree..But post HM he was seemingly ok with it and she was shown managing both effortlessly.Now that Anirudh is petrified by 'patni dharm' he dont want to address his inner turmoil , his fears or his weakness, the easy route is to over compensate study for Bondita ..The unconscious way of shifting the focus or blame by which he put the bigger elephant of her future in the room conveniently hiding so much in its shade.

He should have convinced her you have to give priority for one over the other at this age , because study from now on demands more effort and once she get equipped with age and time she can manage both in her ways. No that one is less than the other

Originally posted by: Janu.301017

Oh my god..e kesa episode..dekha mene...

E log har roz ek naya standard bana raha he...itni girrahi he...oh god..

Ani ka expressions while asking mano...you will leave me..?? How can I leave you and live...you be here and help me dealing with bonditha...type expression diya...

Tho hamara andaaz sahi nikla...mano is going to die...and in future be ready to see scenes where Ani opens his wallet/any book/diary...sees her photo and talks to her...see ae bonditha barrister bangayi he..hamara sapna pura hogaya...🤣

Ab after this...even they show rudhitha as couple also that essence will not be there...

Even I felt so awkward by Ani's expression and AE's reply and Ani's concern anticipating her suicide mission , What does that actually mean, is it his hesitance to ask her? or his feeling on letting go ? or his concern of what she actually planned for? will she leave ? WHAT WAS IT? I could not decipher those

Originally posted by: Indira12

But was ARC this Faja?

I would have never felt disappointed by this, but it was the same Ani who said to GW about women succeeding in both their careers and personal lives. The same Ani who once felt proud of Indian women as housewives is now trivializing their job, directly or indirectly. This change is where it pains the most. The ARC I came to love was never this. And what's more frustrating is the fact that Ani and makers do not find anything wrong in it.😒

he is so inspired by AE ..remember pistol chalan aata hai chai banana nahi type...His love of life so he wanna see a chalak of her in all other women including Bondita

Jokes apart

well if you see the same episode there is a contradicting statement by Anirudh towards the end ,

Bondita ko samchana hoga

"Ghar ke kam karna galat nahi bas uske liye padai chodna galat hai"

Now is it not same what Bondita said, or was she not doing it before.

So what is it that actually he want to achieve. he is just scared by the term 'patni dharm' so by overprioritizing studies he would for ever kill her budding emotions or the social inflictions on marriage and feelings on to her..you can only make her resilient by educating her..Over compensation wont pay you in long run. Again makers conveniently seem to have forgotten all those change of events and want to make this entire thing as her negligence to studies because she want to be adarsh Bahu who know to recite hymns, cooking and serving etc...

I agree how much ever they want him to scream like see me as human, they are not making him human to make mistake and admit and rectify it.Its his way the high way that the makers wanna show.

Originally posted by: faja

"Ghar ke kam karna galat nahi bas uske liye padai chodna galat hai"

Now is it not same what Bondita said, or was she not doing it before.

So what is it that actually he want to achieve. he is just scared by the term 'patni dharm' so by overprioritizing studies he would for ever kill her budding emotions or the social inflictions on marriage and feelings on to her..you can only make her resilient by educating her..Over compensation wont pay you in long run. Again makers conveniently seem to have forgotten all those change of events and want to make this entire thing as her negligence to studies because she want to be adarsh Bahu who know to recite hymns, cooking and serving etc...

I knew this would come up.

I might have believed it and ignored that naav speech but in the previous two episodes his sayings and actions speak about the latter case only. I would rather take it as a mere dialogue by the makers who seem to have no idea of what they are writing. They just change scenes and dialogues as per their convenience. When it comes to Bon, she is shown to be reading newspapers and getting all the answers right for her interview. But when it comes to Ani, Bon is shown to be not studying, failing to give answers so that Ani can be justified- they are changing the reasons as swiftly as possible. This dialogue too I will take it as one of the 'bade bade bhashan' Ani gives but on which he ultimately fails to work upon. There are so many loopholes in the episodes it becomes difficult to reason out.

to be honest i cant relate how makrs forget bon pain and whatever amount of emotional torture she went through after this periods and ever sicne manorama entered show, what do they think bon as a lead and her qualities has not fetched show trps

dont we remember bon of chodi hui aurat,hira mandi track and aftermath such a trp it brought and people loved it

ever since mano entered,makers forot to show bon pain,bon growth and bon goodness and qualities,from today and tomorrow episodes they are shwoing ani and mano as support system to each other, mano and ani sad on parting ways,mano did not tell ani she would die,ani did not ask mano what would i tell family if u went rather this i would clarify it is fake marriage,mano supporting ani and ani coming in his room and mano enjoying to be in hsi room

will he like such aimable bond of bon with someone when she is youthful

makers dont forget 200 epsidoes are success due to bondita personality ,anirudb personality and their soulful bond

i cant relate with coming episodes,ab kahi aisa na ho bon jo sabki qualities ki praise karti thi now she could not due to ani actions,hope bon says to ani by giving my dream to mano,u hurt me itna dikha do hum ani ke liye sorry feel karlenge use devta maanenge but pls

u would show mano charcater building up,her taking risk,ani realsing i cant let mano do this,ani ko oata chale ,he confesses love for her really voh lead hai yeh chate hai kyunki interview se yeh aaya

we cant appreciate a woman sacrifiece for country because of u and ani expressions and whateber u did with bon who needs to be inspiration and who is a person loved uncondtionally for her bravery,selfelss nature not manorama.

why can they be sad on leaving each other,hope yeh cringe ab kahtam ho