Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 12 - Page 36

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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

First time posting here.

No sane woman who is supposedly in love with a man could accept the vada done by him overcome by emotions. He said he would remain a celibate and she is happy ? Means she wants to see him remain all alone,through out his life. This is not love at all.

If Virat did not marry and Bhavani or Aswini happens to know the reason for his decision,how would they react? Did Pakhi realise what she is up to?

I don’t blame Virat completely. It is Pakhi who went ahead with her decision only to watch her man suffer before her eyes. She is mentally sick. I wonder how could she be analysed and shown concern for being so shallow and ill at heart!

It is not love. We can’t even place it under obsession. It is sheer villainy. She is wicked.

absolutely!!

why does the man always have to stand up for love!? If he wasn’t she could have told his family! She could have told samrat..

She always says I’m an independent mature woman, so if Virat refused to stand up for her then she should understand that there is nothing in that relationship!!

as I’ve mentioned multiple times she lacks self respect! Any human being with a pinch of self respect would move out of that Situation and away from the person...

she is selfish, self obsessed, self centered, obsessive and possessive.. in the real world she would need a psychiatrist as simple as that. You cannot blame everything and everyone for the incidents in your life! She needs to take credibility

Honestly, I sympathized with her till the Suhaag raat night when she was crying on the phone to Virat. All this is not Samrat's fault. Any sane woman would've asked for time to adjust to her husband.

I mistrusted her from that point. Virat gave a vaada, what about her legally binding vows with her husband??

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Honestly, I sympathized with her till the Suhaag raat night when she was crying on the phone to Virat. All this is not Samrat's fault. Any sane woman would've asked for time to adjust to her husband.

I mistrusted her from that point. Virat gave a vaada, what about her legally binding vows with her husband??

Honestly, I sympathized with her till the Suhaag raat night when she was crying on the phone to Virat. All this is not Samrat's fault. Any sane woman would've asked for time to adjust to her husband.

I mistrusted her from that point. Virat gave a vaada, what about her legally binding vows with her husband??

That’s a really good viewpoint. I had some sympathy with her until she agreed to Virat’s vaada.

In my mind she lost credibility when she

a) Virat said he was never going to tell his family that he loved her - so she should marry his bro.

She is supposed to be an independent, educated woman who is working. Any idiot would know how daily life would turn out with marrying one brother and lusting after the other 🙄

b) I’m not sure which bit is worse expecting someone you love to have an unhappy loveless life. OR accepting that someone who I have known for 2 days will honour such a vaada for a lifetime. Don’t have a clear answer on which bugs me more.

just my viewpoint.

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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

@green Virat knows this and that is why he is sticking to the promise of being her friend even after she acts wrong.

I agree . Virat is being patient because he holds himself responsible for the mess she is in . Even though he might not have feelings for her but he cares for as a friend and wants to be there for her as a friend until Samrat returns . She is very rude to him at times but he doesn’t take it to his heart for the above reasons

I agree and I too believe the same.

I also believe that Virat doesn't call her vahini because that might be like insulting her and their past relationship. Is it? Have you thought about it? I wouldn't blame him even if he thinks that way. It is a way to respect someone and their emotions.

I don’t believe in calling someone by the relationship name . The feelings are more important than formality . He believes and respects her as his brothers wife but before that she was his friend so nothing wrong if he continues to call her as Pakhi . Many of us have made fun of their friendship but I feel they decided to call them as friends instead of calling each other as ex . It was more like respecting their future BIL SIL relationship.

Right, I see what you are trying to say and it is true. Sometimes truth is bitter. I wonder, if we find the truth in fiction to be this bitter, how would we even tolerate them in real life. It is not like we aren't even now, they show it as much ugly as possible in the show.

I think the reason behind many disliking the friendship including Sai is Pakhi. Her behavior and her feelings which even as Sai had pointed out is not controlled.

The only reason Virat is able to be the way he is right now is that he has confidence in himself, forget confidence, he doesn't fear anything.

Uske man mein toh chor nahi hai toh woh zyaada kuch nahi sochega. But it definitely irks the audience because he is unknowingly hurting her.

@bold there was no Sai in picture when she decided this. Jealousy is making her do things, which she otherwise would not have done. She never planned to do these and is miserably failing to control her emotions when Sai is with Virat.

Pakhi never thought Virat would marry , Virat not only married Sai but he fell for his wife pretty soon . The jealousy , anger and helplessness makes her behave so badly . I know I am taking a risk in saying this but I believe if not for the above reasons she wouldn’t have behaved this way and she was a independent, self respecting women but her negative emotions have turned her into something else .

I believe the same and I had mentioned this in a post made about Pakhi recently. I strongly believe that if not for Sai, or say any girl is Virat's life, she wouldn't be behaving this way. You are also right in saying, he fell for his wife pretty soon and this disturbs her. I feel it is natural. If only she was not behaving this vile, I think many in the audience would also be able to see her pain.

Sometimes I feel bad when she puts her obsession over self respect . I liked the Tamil version Pakhi who found herself back and realized the true love of Samrat and moved on with him

Oh ok, I am not sure how things will turn out in Ghum.

Have changed your text to blue and have replied in green.

Sorry, I had fallen asleep, I was already awake that late in the night.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

First time posting here.

No sane woman who is supposedly in love with a man could accept the vada done by him overcome by emotions. He said he would remain a celibate and she is happy ? Means she wants to see him remain all alone,through out his life. This is not love at all.

We are not saying that she is right. Everyone is flawed and so was she when this all started. Her emotions were overpowering her from thinking right or straight. They were so high that she didn't think about his happiness. I have mentioned it in another post about Pakhi, 2 days back too.

Her feelings for him lacked certain elements that constitutes love. She had feelings for him, which cannot be denied. But she is selfish and thought only about herself.

If Virat did not marry and Bhavani or Aswini happens to know the reason for his decision,how would they react? Did Pakhi realise what she is up to?

I don’t blame Virat completely. It is Pakhi who went ahead with her decision only to watch her man suffer before her eyes.

No one is blaming Virat entirely. We support Virat even when Sai does something wrong, why are we going to blame him for Pakhi's misery. We only feel that he also has a hand in it. That cannot be denied.

She is mentally sick. I wonder how could she be analysed and shown concern for being so shallow and ill at heart!

People who are dark also have emotions. Let's take the case of Sai, she is so good but sometimes her actions and her behaviors takes away the focus for some from her goodness. The same way, Pakhi's actions are taking away the focus from her actual feelings.

No one is justifying her actions, but we are sharing our understanding of how she has turned into this today.

It is not love. We can’t even place it under obsession. It is sheer villainy. She is wicked.

Ofcourse she is and no one is denying it.

None of these can make us forget that she was always not like this. None of these should make us think that she would have been like this in the past too. Her feelings for Virat are so strong and wrongly placed which is making her do things which she would have otherwise not done.

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