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Posted: 5 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: jane_austen

Yeah...so it still doesn't make too much sense...coz she backed out first 🤔

I guess she is still waiting for verbal negation of deal from Virat.....so this sudden narrowing of boundaries between them is scaring her....so she is reminding herself of the deal again...

She wasn’t as talli when Virat confessed he likes her and he was following her everywhere and they literally kissed in the presence of everyone . His actions screamed he likes her .Before the Holi party , they had one intimate moment too where it was obvious there was something between them . She is the same girl who understood Pakhi was more than a friend to Virat before their marriage. With so many clues I wonder how come she is stuck at one place called deal .


If not anything she should stop talking about deal as it looks so weird where in one moment she is romancing him and next moment she wants to leave him .

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh


@bold rightly expressed her feelings Siya 👍🏼


She will continue to say deal even after separation...hv to see in Ghum when she realises her love

Also even if she realises her love, until she doesn't realise Virat has no feelings for Pakhi, she is going to call it a deal


Also, I do not expect Virat to explicitly tell her because I understand his hesitation too. But this time, he even went ahead and expressed it. After separation too, I won't be surprised if Virat doesn't say it explicitly and I am not expecting him to. I might expect only if Didi does something, otherwise it is okay if Sai tries to understand through his feelings and actions.


If all depends on the situation. Also, let there be a push and pull, it is quite attractive this way.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Lol Pakhi thought they're really kissing each other and Virat even didn't even try to clear the MU rather told to accept the fact. I totally Loved the burn 😆

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh


She will continue to say deal even after separation...hv to see in Ghum when she realises her love

Also even if she realises her love, until she doesn't realise Virat has no feelings for Pakhi, she is going to call it a deal


Also, I do not expect Virat to explicitly tell her because I understand his hesitation too. But this time, he even went ahead and expressed it. After separation too, I won't be surprised if Virat doesn't say it explicitly and I am not expecting him to. I might expect only if Didi does something, otherwise it is okay if Sai tries to understand through his feelings and actions.


If all depends on the situation. Also, let there be a push and pull, it is quite attractive this way.


Exactly!!!



See Sai feels there is something between her and virat for sure... her problem is heart vs mind



Virat knows that he cannot live without Sai but the problem is virats hesitation... he needed bhang to express his love...


Virat needs to be sober to realise its love... not pasand...


Like I said even though what virat did in holi was surprising to Sai she hasn’t registered it because her mind was diverted towards pulkit and devyani whether we like it or not... her priority at this point is Devi tai’s happiness and safety...


The other point would be her belief that virats loves pakhi... she always says he loves her even after Virat told her that I want you to come with me and pakhi to Ladakh... I will feel good if you come, this is another clear hint but post the entire fight when Sai confronted Virat she said that he hides his feelings for pakhi... why did she say that! Well because Virat doesn’t give it off to pakhi when pakhi buts in their relationship...


For Sai reminding her self constantly about the deal is a way for her mind to convince her heart to not fall for Virat...

both Virat and Sai are in this fight of heart vs. mind...

they never thought that the promise they made to each that they shouldn’t expect anything from each other and that the marriage is a deal would turn into a real one...



It’s a tussle between what the promise was vs. what has transpired and the attachment/ love that has blossomed between them...



that is why the separation is necessary for them to realise they cannot stay without each other... for them to understand that they are made for each other and our in love



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Posted: 5 years ago
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She wasn’t as talli when Virat confessed he likes her and he was following her everywhere and they literally kissed in the presence of everyone . His actions screamed he likes her .Before the Holi party , they had one intimate moment too where it was obvious there was something between them . She is the same girl who understood Pakhi was more than a friend to Virat before their marriage. With so many clues I wonder how come she is stuck at one place called deal .


If not anything she should stop talking about deal as it looks so weird where in one moment she is romancing him and next moment she wants to leave him .

I think she has a lot of mixed emotions....she is looking at his advances positively.....but when Pakhi invades their private space, she goes negative again. She is confused...

Of course it is true that the negative emotions is weighing her down in taking a positive step in their relationship ...

Edit : I'm confused about when Sai was in her senses and when she was talli...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Absolutely!!!



I just wrote my reply above but to put it simplify it mind vs heart for sure...


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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

She wasn’t as talli when Virat confessed he likes her and he was following her everywhere and they literally kissed in the presence of everyone . His actions screamed he likes her .Before the Holi party , they had one intimate moment too where it was obvious there was something between them . She is the same girl who understood Pakhi was more than a friend to Virat before their marriage. With so many clues I wonder how come she is stuck at one place called deal .


If not anything she should stop talking about deal as it looks so weird where in one moment she is romancing him and next moment she wants to leave him .


Bold : I agree. People say Virat is pendulum but nowadays it's Sai who's behaving like one. She was kinda sober not to see the advances Virat made at holi and also trying to be close to her. Atleast not love , she should try to respect the marriage and stop calling it a deal at the first place.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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makes sense actually. also she is a kind of the person who needs to be said in words when it comes to herself. i can actually understand. she literally has no one in the world, if she allows her to get attached to someone who said that their relationship is temporary, she is bound to get hurt. but even with all her resolve, virat’s care and concern for her and virat by just being himself, have not allowed her to stay detached. so i think even when she realises that she loves virat, she will never let virat know.

i think this is where they will face issues in future as well, virat would want her to understand his feelings through his actions and she would want him to verbalise just to be sure that she is not building castles in the air.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: raji02

makes sense actually. also she is a kind of the person who needs to be said in words when it comes to herself. i can actually understand. she literally has no one in the world, if she allows her to get attached to someone who said that their relationship is temporary, she is bound to get hurt. but even with all her resolve, virat’s care and concern for her and virat by just being himself, have not allowed her to stay detached. so i think even when she realises that she loves virat, she will never let virat know.

i think this is where they will face issues in future as well, virat would want her to understand his feelings through his actions and she would want him to verbalise just to be sure that she is not building castles in the air.


@bold yes, but this won't stop her from falling in love. Right now she is not in love. She is trying not.to get carried away with her emotions mainly so that she doesn't get attached to him.


@green yes, even if she realises her love, she is not going to say it until she understands or realises that Virat holds no feelings for Pakhi.


But this realisation need not be only through Virat's words, I believe, she will realise it on her own. He would have his own reasons not to verbalise certain things. I will be happy once she realises her love for him. That would eventually push her to understand his feelings too.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Andy3456


Bold : I agree. People say Virat is pendulum but nowadays it's Sai who's behaving like one. She was kinda sober not to see the advances Virat made at holi and also trying to be close to her. Atleast not love , she should try to respect the marriage and stop calling it a deal at the first place.

Agree . You said what’s in my mind . She can take her time to accept and fall in love but in one instance she cannot behave like a wife and next minute she is back to deal

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