Would you want Anokhi to take Shaurya's last name Post Marriage - Page 8

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Now that I totally respect. As you get older you stop taking risks you would in your younger days. Don't worry someone someday will make that effort 😊

awwh thank you!

yes ofc he should bc im phat (pretty hot and tempting) baahaha

I love that dialogue from k3g ( it was by kareena aka "poo" and my name is also Pooja)

My last name is a good name its Khalsa but for personal reasons i wanted to drop it...😳

Like i said we all have reasons n i told my husband we wont give our children a last name they will stick with either kaur or singh..

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

I make sure I am extra mean to a guy I like...just to not disappoint myself and the added advantage of pushing that person away....if that person stick around to handle that attitude he is the one 😉

bahaha

i should try this too.

Originally posted by: prs_725

So unfortunately, I think we still live in a society where a woman's directness comes off her being to "easy". There are many men who aren't like that and appreciate the woman making the first move, but I don't know where these men are ..

However, at the same time, its contradictory. Why would i want a man to make the first move if he has this subconscious thought that bc she asked me out, she's too "easy", i wouldn't. Sorry not sure if this makes sense.

Hence, since i dont know if they do or dont think this way, I sort of just give out hints and leave it up to them. Then overtime i can find out how his mentality is and if it sucks, its always a "see ya never wanna be ya" 🤣

So in all of that, i think it's self respect but also sometimes fear of rejection or of being judged. Mostly just self respect.

Originally posted by: prs_725

awwh thank you!

yes ofc he should bc im phat (pretty hot and tempting) baahaha

I love that dialogue from k3g ( it was by kareena aka "poo" and my name is also Pooja)

Originally posted by: ..KpopIsLife..

My last name is a good name its Khalsa but for personal reasons i wanted to drop it...😳

Like i said we all have reasons n i told my husband we wont give our children a last name they will stick with either kaur or singh..

I feel the same way so when i met my hubby i told him i want us to be serious not just a short time thing...👍🏼 as long as they are understanding and caring...😊

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

100%. I think we all are at that age where we want something serious but not marriage. So I don't go for casual dating and ask out or make the first move because I know I am not going for anything casual. And if he has that in mind I straight away say no. And guys don't look for serious relationship so I have stopped making the effort of even dropping hints as I know even if he is interested i am not interested in anything casual. It's a dichotomy actually. We don't know what we want. Commitment of Arrange marriage and relationship and romance of love🤣🤣🤣 One confused generation of women out there in their 20s

hahah yes!! its all so confusing. just like shaurya's state of mind (soon enough) 🤣

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Makes sense. I don't think name matters so much. You should have a good taste in first name. Imagine a poor child stuck with a bizarre first name like Goku or Zeus. One of my neighbor named her Son after the Greek God and people pronounced it as Juice in an accent 🤣🤣

Exactly the 1st name definitely matters.. like i cant say how much...

So i know someone their first name is Gaylord n last name Fires... just imagine saying it together is just too strange... i would always call him Mr. Fires i just couldnt say both at together otherwise i would lose it...🤪🤣

Originally posted by: ..KpopIsLife..

I feel the same way so when i met my hubby i told him i want us to be serious not just a short time thing...👍🏼 as long as they are understanding and caring...😊