Sai, the David vs the Ghar ke bade Goliaths

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Good evening Lovelies!๐ŸŒ…๐ŸŒ…

Did only I misread it as Mahaepisode? Or did all of us make the same mistake? It was supposed to be read as Maha-stupid-episode -- I mean what was the hype about. I thought it'd be at least 40 mins long ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿฅด๐Ÿ˜‘. But somehow I thoroughly enjoyed the episode but didn't get what was the need to call it "Maha"? It seemed like any other day's work in Chakram Niwas ... The only "maha" factor was Sai making Ninad and Bhavani bend to do some work...๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜œ

I haven't laughed while watching an episode of this show in recent days as much as I did today. And I was watching it on a 2.5 hour flight and couldn't stop chuckling๐Ÿ˜… -- the sofest I could laugh. At a couple of places, I actually let out a loud "Ha!" too ๐Ÿ˜‚. Thankfully daughter was fast asleep ๐Ÿ˜ƒ.

Sai, my dewdrop, turned into David from 'David and Goliath' ๐Ÿฆธ๐Ÿ‹๏ธ. It made me wonder how we always cite the example of 'David' who killed 'Goliath' without fearing the giant and that too singe handedly -- by just using 5 stones. He refused the weapons that he was offered and said the stones would be enough. An army of men trying to bring down Goliath could not believe this little boy but he said: My faith is enough.

Sai is my David here. Like David, she actually has no business challenging the 'Goliaths' she is facing. We will keep wondering why this small, visibly weak and detached girl would stand a chance against this vicious family in winning what she has set out to conquer but her reward will be in her belief that the right will win, always. It's simple. A lot of people say David won because God 'intervened' and made David win. But if you read the story closely, you will understand that when David said, "My faith is enough", he did not refer to faithfulness in God but the faith in his own perseverence.

Isn't it true that everyone in that Team B (for Bhavani) believes that Sai's victory totally depends on Virat?

"Ye akeli hoti toh koi darr nahi tha... par pareshaani hai ki Hamara Virat bhi iski taraf hai", says Ninad.

"Virat ko kuch keh kar koi fayda nahi hai, kyunki wo bhi iski hi boli bolega," says Sonali.

"Virat toh poori tarah se iska ho chuka hai," says Mallika-e-Maturity - Thank you for accepting the truth ๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™‹(Will come back to her later๐Ÿคฆ)

But the truth is that Sai doesn't need Virat's intervention just like David did not need God's intervention. If she needed Virat, she would have included him in her mission right from the beginning. Him being by her side is an additional boost, of course. But even if he weren't party to it, she would have gone ahead and done exactly what she was convinced about. David was able to bring down Goliath because he had the right training, experience, and knowledge-- his skills and abilities, he had learned on his own from facing life head (of his extensive experience conquering beasts that were far bigger and more ferocious than him) on and it had given him the unexpected edge in the conflict.

The Chavans don't know the strength that Sai has. They have not seen the mettle she is made of -- it is evident but they do not have the courage to acknowledge the nerve she displays is not from her badtameezi but her 'faith' in her sense of justice. It is Sai's faith that propels her to fight without the fear of losing. Faith in God is different from the competence and confidence to show God what you can do -- God may or may not do things directly for you but you can definitely win your battles if you do what God would like and expect of you: and most certainly, one of the common teachings in all faiths is to follow the principles of justice.

Sai's motivation is her persistence to deliver justice. Once she has set a goal, she will not waver from it -- she might commit a mistake in achieving it, but she will not let it go. Sai knows the weakest point of the Chavans is their false pride -- the reason why Devyani is in the present state in the first place. And she pressed the right nerve. And yes, they know "jo main bolti hoon wo karne ki himmat bhi rakhti hoon"... Bhavani's eye roll in the beginning thinking it was an empty threat and the enraged yet pale face when Sai actually began calling out to the neighbours was a sight to see and Ninad holding out a hand to her almost imploring her to stop, while handing over the saree to Devyani with a 'sorry' was the icing on the sundae cake (pun intended). Dil ko sach mein thandak mili ... like a glass of cold taak on a scorching summer afternoon.. aahaa...

Delusional Didi ke mann ki baatein (pun not intended๐Ÿ˜…) will start coming out of her mouth very soon. How long can one hold on to the good books of an old hag in the family? She has no true love for the old woman. It is for a motive that she can't stop displaying her susheelta. The more that she sees her goal getting distant, the more she will begin to reveal herself. I find it so amusing that no one from the Makad Sena can open their mouth and defend her against anyone talking about Patralekha's obsession with Virat. It is almost as if it is so visible but everyone is latching on to the other for an ulterior motive -- Sai ko Virat se door karo.

Ninad spoke of it again today: "Jayegi to ye Sai"... and she was unfazed -- may be because Virat's "Main bhi jaunga" is fresh in her mind or because she does not really consider it as her loss to be leaving that house. I think it's the second -- she still doesn't feel she would lose anything by leaving ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ.

I laughed so hard and watched this few seconds on repeat when Ashwini said: "Ghar chhodh aap dono kahan jayenge?" Almost as if, "Oh, you guys are finally leaving together? Is it for the good, Please say it is. Good luck, have fun!"๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ Ninad, obviously, understood the taunt! It has to be the best dialogue of the day and then her, "Sai kahan roke rukti hai".. oh the smirk Ashwini had throughout the drama๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜... I would really not care if Virat gets agitated seeing the tears of Pakaku for this 'beizzati'๐Ÿ˜’. Their beizzati hormones are always hot anyway --totally deserved it for the vile behaviour.

And wait, Bhavani calls her daughter "iss pagal ko" how many times? Not surprised but the audacity is of another level.๐Ÿค

So many of us discussed yesterday the motivation of Vahini's character and it is so evident that an aimless person can only have one aim -- go with the flow of the water, no matter what because there is no reason to not go with the flow. Her aim is her illusion and she, naturally, had no plan to begin with. She was not able to utter a word today -- not even her "Sai tumhari bakwaas" wala monotonous dialogue. I guess Devyani's immediate backing to Sai's statement was to shut her up but it seemed like she really didn't know what to say because "Mujhe fark nahi padta" is not a dialogue Vahini can say in this context. Her reaction to Devyani's taunt was funny and totally inexplicable.๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคซ๐Ÿค” Kuch samajh Aaye toh mujhe bhi samajhna ๐Ÿ˜‚

Of course, Sai's "Mere pati poori tarah se mere ho chuke hain toh aapko jalan kyun ho rahi hai... aapke mooh se aapke Pati ka naam toh kabhi nahi suna" was a whistle worthy dialogue...๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™ And kissi wala bhi ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

I loved the Soul Force Sisterhood in today's episode -- literally the first time when the four of them had their own moment in one frame๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜. It was such a heart melting scene when they put the saree over Devyani and made her feel the happiness that is awaiting her...

Ashwini, of course, the mother that she has been to Devyani would definitely feel the 'sunapan' as they say. It was such a poignant moment when Ashwini and Devyani shared that look in the mirror-- would Bhavani, eventually, ever realise the joys of human life and emotions that she has missed with her conceit and vanity?๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ This woman herself is so lonely in her vain hang ups...

I would like to say that the emotion Bhavani is feeling is actually genuine (from her pov) beyond doubt -- her contempt, her fear of loss of respect, her loss of power -- her rage is palpable. It is evident that 'image' comes first for Bhavani, over even the life of her own daughter. Bhavani is emotionally rigid and lacks the empathy for anyone else's feelings and is unaffected by situations that do not fit into her scope of "honour". The rigidity about the "unworthy spouse", the "disobeying child", the "idea of disrepute" is a common cause of estrangement in families -- some go to exterme lengths to 'preserve family respect'โ˜น๏ธ

The highlight of the zillat arena scene was the eyelock between Sai and Bhavani after she picked up the gifts-- Bhavani almost had tears in her eyes: tears of rage, indignation and almost surrender. It is almost as if Bhavani knows she is not going to win this one with Sai -- the anxiety is because the Freaking Five are aware that Sai's faith is ingrained in the principle of justice. Susheel bahu's 'vaada' is only a consolation and hope but somewhere, the outcome has been accepted sa inevitable.

Sai's "Ab aap log tasalli se soch lijiye aap ye shaadi kaise rukwayenge" was so cheeky but well placed... I loved how Shivani even picked up Sai's college bag as they left the scene to check out the gifts.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜

So, the girl gang joined hands to convince Sai "Virat tumse pyaar karta hai"... Koi "Veeru" ko bhi toh dikhane ki koshish karega ya nahi? Why is this one-sided push only? Waise, Sai's flashbacks were a teaser to remind everyone that there is one more character in the show๐Ÿ˜‚ I frankly didn't miss him. So hota toh the Five Little Monkeys would have never got the bump in their head ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…... But it is interesting that all the flashbacks she had of Virat were only of moments of 'care' about things that she likes -- just in the context of the sentence spoken by Devyani - the outing, the balloons, the alta rash scene, roses, the tea, the candy floss and the chaat dinner. She didn't have a tender expression while remembering it but a rather confused one -- because in her mind, she is in a dilemma. Why did she not remember his "jaane nahi doonga", "parivaar ka matlab zimmedari hota hai", "mujhse pyaar nahi karti ho?", "I am your family", the most recent "eklauti bahu and eklauta beta ghar se jayega..." or the moment when he actually pulled her back after she made him confess about the Aniket jasoosi? Those would have been 'romantic' things to remember but her state of mind is such a turmoil, as I elaborated yesterday and I don't want to repeat and send anyone to boredom on Sunday evening (Posting the link at the end again)

Is care the same as love? Especially, in the context of their relationship where care (khyaal rakhna) is a big part of the 'zimmedari' he has taken up. I would repeat what I said yesterday: Until her questions are answered by the horse's mouth, she will continue to see it only as "care and affection". By calling it 'love' and believing it to be, she knows she will hurt herself. Until he clears her "misunderstanding" by speaking the one half of the 'sach' that he had enough courage to go and tell Vahini, she is going to remain in this turmoil. She doesn't know if this is forever or not..

But, it is time that someone also makes Virat realise what Sai is going through -- why is she holding back. Both Ashwini and Sai know. But no one feels the need to speak to him -- or may be Ashwini will do that when she loses her calm after Sai's departure-- I am sure she will. Sai's care for Virat has not been shown as explicitly as Virat's because, ironically, between the two of them he is more expressive; also because he is the 'giver' out of the two and so in the higher position to be seen as the caring one but is Sai any less caring:

"taange tudwa kar jaaungi", "Aai ke bete ke liye alta lagaya", "Mere paas koi aur rasta nahi tha DIG sir ko phone karne ke alawa kyunki aapka phone bandh tha", "mere haath se khaana hai toh seedhe boliye, natak karne ki kya zaroorat hai?", "Aapne khaana kyun nahi khaya... unse kyun jhagda kiya?"

She doesn't show it overtly and she rejects his dosti offers -- but she deeply cares. He is the only one who is her own and she knows it. Only if he shows her the path that she can walk from hereon, she will gradually also begin walking it.

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The precap is so hilarious: So essentially, Vahini calls up her Dir ๐Ÿฅด(who is back to his old hair parition that covers the right side of his brain -- which means his left side should be more open and exposed to penetration of thoughts -- left brain is said to be analytical and methodical, just saying๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜‘) and asks him, "What if Pulkit is married?" and he says what she wants to hear, "Toh shaadi nahi hogi"...

And ting tong-- letter lands from: Sangeeta Deshpande๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚ Chavans ke pass CCTV toh Hoga Nahi to see that vahini dropped the letter there herself ๐Ÿคช

It means that not just Virat and Sai but even the Freaking Five, including the chatur chhote Kaka and Kaku and the ex-army man haven't thought of doing some basic recee on Pulkit before even coming up with a stupid plan to spoil the wedding party. This is so hilarious! ๐Ÿ˜‚ Thodi mehnat ki hoti toh Madhuri Deshpande ke naam se letter send karte... I know Sai would have jumped and said she's the sister, but well, would it have mattered because the misunderstanding script is anyway so botched up and unconvincing at least they could have used the character introduced... So essentially not just Harini but even Madhuri has left the writers baffled now.๐Ÿฅด๐Ÿฅด

Just giving the misunderstanding a pass as Ninad and Omkar have declared that Sai ghar se jaayegi... chalo let's see...

This week will decide whether it is time to withdraw the investment made in this sinking fund or hold on...๐Ÿ’†๐Ÿ’†

Points to ignore:

- Mama Mami haven't wanted to meet Harini. Can't digest this sautela vyavvhar...

- IPS and IPS ki wife hasn't found anything more about Pulkit (yes I know it's the same day but not even curious any more, are they?)

- Devyani hasn't been told her baby is alive. It might make her hysterical but is surprising her with the 8 year old a good idea?

- ACP went to work and got a haircut at work, he will be back in the evening with a makeover but he doesn't probe the sister's story even for curiosity sake? Will Devyani be in a condition to reach out if things indeed go wrong with Pulkit?

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Sunday kaisa jaa raha hai...? Just travelled cities today and settling in... So, if you are a late coffee drinker like me this evening, sending across some cuppas โ˜•โ˜•โ˜•โ˜•and of course chai pasand ho toh wo bhi mangwa lo๐Ÿต๐Ÿต๐Ÿต๐Ÿต

Baaki dher saara pyaar ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•aur hugs๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค— as always...

Today's song for Sai:

Aye parinde yoon abke udakar tu

Ja jalaa sooraj ko ja ke aasman pe tu

Aye parinde bhar aisi udaanein tu

Har nazar yeh tujhse poochhe aag itni kyun

Dhool udaa jaake manzilon pe yoon

Ke in hawaon se teri yaari hai

Udd ja Ab teri baari hai....

Love,โค๏ธJ

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Hiii Janki!!!


Lovely analysis!!! even though I missed virat the episode in itself was excellent in sai point of view!! Ayesha literally carried the episode on her shoulders and I agree with everything you have written!!!


What were the odds that we posted our topics at the same time ๐Ÿ˜† But nothing beats your analysis!! โค๏ธ

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Ahaaaan you are here finally โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

Was waiting for your review very badly today since it's our dewdrop day but I knew Sunday is a busy day at your end. Thankyou for taking time out of your shifting and writing this โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ


Wasn't Sai on fire today ??? Oh she was ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ. Her every dialogue was bomb. The way she shut up the minions ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Didnt watch the movie you mentioned but agree with you completely. Sai's strength comes from her sense of justice. She will never need someone to stand for her. Having virat on her side is an added bonus. As she righly said " confidence ki bachpanse koi kami nahi hai mujh mein aur uske liye mujhe kisi pe depend nahi karna padta ". She is not didi who latches on to others to save her everytime sai questions her๐Ÿ™„

When they did " Ninad kuch karo Dada kuch karo " I didn't knew they were asking him to pick those things ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. I thought he is really gonna do something. Coward bunch of hooligans๐Ÿคท.

For the nth time can I say I love Sai Joshi โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

The less I talk about didi the better it is !!! Sai was on point when she asked about her doing virat virat all the day. I doubt if didi even remembers Samrat name. Wish sai has asked that too!!!!

I missed the beizzati wala dialogue today. I mean didi ke pati ke baare mein pooch liya aur didi beizzat nahi hui ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

Aayi's " mai kaha kisiko rok paayi " was ๐Ÿ‘. I love her soft jibes!!

That scene of the minions picking those things was so aesthetically pleasing โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ. I can watch it on repeat mode. And I think from now everytime kaku mandali stops someone from having food and throws the plate Sai should make them clean that mess๐Ÿ”ฅ

Yes yes thankgod shivani took Sai's bag with her. I was like " sai take your bag and leave " all the time. Kya pata didi may do something with that too ๐Ÿ™„. And thankgod it's not the blue bag which didi is obsessed with ๐Ÿคฃ

That bedroom scene of the ladies โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ. Aayi is the unofficial mother of all these kids. She loves them to bits. And I can't help but get teary eyed for devyaniโค๏ธ.

How ironical that the mother is still against her happiness but someone who entered the house just few days ago ( not chakram time frame ) is ready to put everything of hers on pedestal for her ๐Ÿงฟ๐Ÿงฟ๐Ÿงฟ


The letter didi wrote ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. It took me back to my school days where we had this assignment " Write a letter to your friend" ๐Ÿคฃ. When I call them minions it's because they really live upto it. Ek paisa ka soch nahi hai kisike paas. And didi thinks to fool an IPS with that letter. Voh baat alag hai ki the trained IPS is all ready to get fooled by this first grade art project ๐Ÿ™„. These days I try with all my heart to forget the fact that he is an IPS. I know how irritating this must have been for you ๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘.


There's no point in expecting anything from this track. I really hope seperation happens soon so that the bhusa bhara bua dimag of IPS which is on vacation may return ๐Ÿ™„

Those flashbacks of sairat โค๏ธ. They deserve every happiness of the world. Let them find their HOME soon please makers.

And as I said yesterday virat needs to assure her of the path ahead. That she need not leave the house or should I say leave him and move out after the five year project . Aage ka rasta dhundla sa hai par agar saat chale toh mushkil se mushkil safar bhi aasan hojati hai โค๏ธ

Everyday I read your post I think " I have to meet her ". You leave me in awe everyday. I wish we get to meet someday in person!!!

Khoob saara pyaar aapko

Hope you adjust well in new city

โค๏ธ

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Wonderful analysis ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

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Awesome Janaki.

Sai rocked today. I feel Ayeshaโ€™s performance is whistleworthy. Not less not more. Just perfect.

It is not easy to let the viewers travel with her despite the absence of the male lead. Still she managed and Sai Joshiโ€™s magic worked.

The flash backs are delightful, I must say all the actors barring Pakhi ( the actress) did a commendable job,specially Kishori madam,her tears,her suppressed fury and her helplessness in succumbing before her young opponent..wonderful performance.

One of the main reasons why the Zillat arena drama still appeals to me is the way the charecters stick to their basic nature( except Pakhi). but it is ok..Still I would like to watch on the whole.

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Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Good evening Lovelies!๐ŸŒ…๐ŸŒ…

Did only I misread it as Mahaepisode? Or did all of us make the same mistake? It was supposed to be read as Maha-stupid-episode -- I mean what was the hype about. I thought it'd be at least 40 mins long ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿฅด๐Ÿ˜‘. But somehow I thoroughly enjoyed the episode but didn't get what was the need to call it "Maha"? It seemed like any other day's work in Chakram Niwas ... The only "maha" factor was Sai making Ninad and Bhavani bend to do some work...๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜œ

I haven't laughed while watching an episode of this show in recent days as much as I did today. And I was watching it on a 2.5 hour flight and couldn't stop chuckling๐Ÿ˜… -- the sofest I could laugh. At a couple of places, I actually let out a loud "Ha!" too ๐Ÿ˜‚. Thankfully daughter was fast asleep ๐Ÿ˜ƒ.

Sai, my dewdrop, turned into David from 'David and Goliath' ๐Ÿฆธ๐Ÿ‹๏ธ. It made me wonder how we always cite the example of 'David' who killed 'Goliath' without fearing the giant and that too singe handedly -- by just using 5 stones. He refused the weapons that he was offered and said the stones would be enough. An army of men trying to bring down Goliath could not believe this little boy but he said: My faith is enough.

Sai is my David here. Like David, she actually has no business challenging the 'Goliaths' she is facing. We will keep wondering why this small, visibly weak and detached girl would stand a chance against this vicious family in winning what she has set out to conquer but her reward will be in her belief that the right will win, always. It's simple. A lot of people say David won because God 'intervened' and made David win. But if you read the story closely, you will understand that when David said, "My faith is enough", he did not refer to faithfulness in God but the faith in his own perseverence.

Isn't it true that everyone in that Team B (for Bhavani) believes that Sai's victory totally depends on Virat?

"Ye akeli hoti toh koi darr nahi tha... par pareshaani hai ki Hamara Virat bhi iski taraf hai", says Ninad.

"Virat ko kuch keh kar koi fayda nahi hai, kyunki wo bhi iski hi boli bolega," says Sonali.

"Virat toh poori tarah se iska ho chuka hai," says Mallika-e-Maturity - Thank you for accepting the truth ๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™‹(Will come back to her later๐Ÿคฆ)

But the truth is that Sai doesn't need Virat's intervention just like David did not need God's intervention. If she needed Virat, she would have included him in her mission right from the beginning. Him being by her side is an additional boost, of course. But even if he weren't party to it, she would have gone ahead and done exactly what she was convinced about. David was able to bring down Goliath because he had the right training, experience, and knowledge-- his skills and abilities, he had learned on his own from facing life head (of his extensive experience conquering beasts that were far bigger and more ferocious than him) on and it had given him the unexpected edge in the conflict.

The Chavans don't know the strength that Sai has. They have not seen the mettle she is made of -- it is evident but they do not have the courage to acknowledge the nerve she displays is not from her badtameezi but her 'faith' in her sense of justice. It is Sai's faith that propels her to fight without the fear of losing. Faith in God is different from the competence and confidence to show God what you can do -- God may or may not do things directly for you but you can definitely win your battles if you do what God would like and expect of you: and most certainly, one of the common teachings in all faiths is to follow the principles of justice.

Sai's motivation is her persistence to deliver justice. Once she has set a goal, she will not waver from it -- she might commit a mistake in achieving it, but she will not let it go. Sai knows the weakest point of the Chavans is their false pride -- the reason why Devyani is in the present state in the first place. And she pressed the right nerve. And yes, they know "jo main bolti hoon wo karne ki himmat bhi rakhti hoon"... Bhavani's eye roll in the beginning thinking it was an empty threat and the enraged yet pale face when Sai actually began calling out to the neighbours was a sight to see and Ninad holding out a hand to her almost imploring her to stop, while handing over the saree to Devyani with a 'sorry' was the icing on the sundae cake (pun intended). Dil ko sach mein thandak mili ... like a glass of cold taak on a scorching summer afternoon.. aahaa...

Delusional Didi ke mann ki baatein (pun not intended๐Ÿ˜…) will start coming out of her mouth very soon. How long can one hold on to the good books of an old hag in the family? She has no true love for the old woman. It is for a motive that she can't stop displaying her susheelta. The more that she sees her goal getting distant, the more she will begin to reveal herself. I find it so amusing that no one from the Makad Sena can open their mouth and defend her against anyone talking about Patralekha's obsession with Virat. It is almost as if it is so visible but everyone is latching on to the other for an ulterior motive -- Sai ko Virat se door karo.

Ninad spoke of it again today: "Jayegi to ye Sai"... and she was unfazed -- may be because Virat's "Main bhi jaunga" is fresh in her mind or because she does not really consider it as her loss to be leaving that house. I think it's the second -- she still doesn't feel she would lose anything by leaving ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ.

I laughed so hard and watched this few seconds on repeat when Ashwini said: "Ghar chhodh aap dono kahan jayenge?" Almost as if, "Oh, you guys are finally leaving together? Is it for the good, Please say it is. Good luck, have fun!"๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ Ninad, obviously, understood the taunt! It has to be the best dialogue of the day and then her, "Sai kahan roke rukti hai".. oh the smirk Ashwini had throughout the drama๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜... I would really not care if Virat gets agitated seeing the tears of Pakaku for this 'beizzati'๐Ÿ˜’. Their beizzati hormones are always hot anyway --totally deserved it for the vile behaviour.

And wait, Bhavani calls her daughter "iss pagal ko" how many times? Not surprised but the audacity is of another level.๐Ÿค

So many of us discussed yesterday the motivation of Vahini's character and it is so evident that an aimless person can only have one aim -- go with the flow of the water, no matter what because there is no reason to not go with the flow. Her aim is her illusion and she, naturally, had no plan to begin with. She was not able to utter a word today -- not even her "Sai tumhari bakwaas" wala monotonous dialogue. I guess Devyani's immediate backing to Sai's statement was to shut her up but it seemed like she really didn't know what to say because "Mujhe fark nahi padta" is not a dialogue Vahini can say in this context. Her reaction to Devyani's taunt was funny and totally inexplicable.๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคซ๐Ÿค” Kuch samajh Aaye toh mujhe bhi samajhna ๐Ÿ˜‚

Of course, Sai's "Mere pati poori tarah se mere ho chuke hain toh aapko jalan kyun ho rahi hai... aapke mooh se aapke Pati ka naam toh kabhi nahi suna" was a whistle worthy dialogue...๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™ And kissi wala bhi ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

I loved the Soul Force Sisterhood in today's episode -- literally the first time when the four of them had their own moment in one frame๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜. It was such a heart melting scene when they put the saree over Devyani and made her feel the happiness that is awaiting her...

Ashwini, of course, the mother that she has been to Devyani would definitely feel the 'sunapan' as they say. It was such a poignant moment when Ashwini and Devyani shared that look in the mirror-- would Bhavani, eventually, ever realise the joys of human life and emotions that she has missed with her conceit and vanity?๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ This woman herself is so lonely in her vain hang ups...

I would like to say that the emotion Bhavani is feeling is actually genuine (from her pov) beyond doubt -- her contempt, her fear of loss of respect, her loss of power -- her rage is palpable. It is evident that 'image' comes first for Bhavani, over even the life of her own daughter. Bhavani is emotionally rigid and lacks the empathy for anyone else's feelings and is unaffected by situations that do not fit into her scope of "honour". The rigidity about the "unworthy spouse", the "disobeying child", the "idea of disrepute" is a common cause of estrangement in families -- some go to exterme lengths to 'preserve family respect'โ˜น๏ธ

The highlight of the zillat arena scene was the eyelock between Sai and Bhavani after she picked up the gifts-- Bhavani almost had tears in her eyes: tears of rage, indignation and almost surrender. It is almost as if Bhavani knows she is not going to win this one with Sai -- the anxiety is because the Freaking Five are aware that Sai's faith is ingrained in the principle of justice. Susheel bahu's 'vaada' is only a consolation and hope but somewhere, the outcome has been accepted sa inevitable.

Sai's "Ab aap log tasalli se soch lijiye aap ye shaadi kaise rukwayenge" was so cheeky but well placed... I loved how Shivani even picked up Sai's college bag as they left the scene to check out the gifts.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜

So, the girl gang joined hands to convince Sai "Virat tumse pyaar karta hai"... Koi "Veeru" ko bhi toh dikhane ki koshish karega ya nahi? Why is this one-sided push only? Waise, Sai's flashbacks were a teaser to remind everyone that there is one more character in the show๐Ÿ˜‚ I frankly didn't miss him. So hota toh the Five Little Monkeys would have never got the bump in their head ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…... But it is interesting that all the flashbacks she had of Virat were only of moments of 'care' about things that she likes -- just in the context of the sentence spoken by Devyani - the outing, the balloons, the alta rash scene, roses, the tea, the candy floss and the chaat dinner.

Exactly, it was just in the context of the sentence. I think her age is playing a part in this and the whole concept of love is very bew to her. She was quite impressed with Pulkit when he had bought things Devi once wanted and he also says "jab saccha pyaar hota hai toh insaan kuch nahi bhooltha". So I believe she has related that with whatever Virat has got or done for her.


She didn't have a tender expression while remembering it but a rather confused one -- because in her mind, she is in a dilemma. Why did she not remember his "jaane nahi doonga", "parivaar ka matlab zimmedari hota hai", "mujhse pyaar nahi karti ho?", "I am your family", the most recent "eklauti bahu and eklauta beta ghar se jayega..." or the moment when he actually pulled her back after she made him confess about the Aniket jasoosi? Those would have been 'romantic' things to remember

She is not there yet. She is in her teens too. To remember these that you have mentioned, she should first have confidence in their relationship. These are too deep and only when she realises her feelings for him, will she look at these aspects, be able to understand the depth of these words.


but her state of mind is such a turmoil, as I elaborated yesterday and I don't want to repeat and send anyone to boredom on Sunday evening (Posting the link at the end again)

Is care the same as love? Especially, in the context of their relationship where care (khyaal rakhna) is a big part of the 'zimmedari' he has taken up. I would repeat what I said yesterday: Until her questions are answered by the horse's mouth, she will continue to see it only as "care and affection". By calling it 'love' and believing it to be, she knows she will hurt herself. Until he clears her "misunderstanding" by speaking the one half of the 'sach' that he had enough courage to go and tell Vahini, she is going to remain in this turmoil. She doesn't know if this is forever or not..

But, it is time that someone also makes Virat realise what Sai is going through -- why is she holding back.

Though it doesn't make sense and need not be this way, looks like they have reserved it all to be used during the separation track.

We might get monologues of him. We get to see time and again that Sai thinks a lot, recalls incidents and his words.

We will probably get to see a lot of scenes of Aai and Virat. And because usko khaana khila bahut zaroori hai and he won't let his friend feed him, his Aai is going to come to his rescue. His "aap mujhe khaana khilana hi bhooli gayi ho" will be addressed then.



Both Ashwini and Sai know. But no one feels the need to speak to him -- or may be Ashwini will do that when she loses her calm after Sai's departure-- I am sure she will. Sai's care for Virat has not been shown as explicitly as Virat's because, ironically, between the two of them he is more expressive; also because he is the 'giver' out of the two and so in the higher position to be seen as the caring one but is Sai any less caring:

"taange tudwa kar jaaungi", "Aai ke bete ke liye alta lagaya", "Mere paas koi aur rasta nahi tha DIG sir ko phone karne ke alawa kyunki aapka phone bandh tha", "mere haath se khaana hai toh seedhe boliye, natak karne ki kya zaroorat hai?", "Aapne khaana kyun nahi khaya... unse kyun jhagda kiya?"

She doesn't show it overtly and she rejects his dosti offers -- but she deeply cares. He is the only one who is her own and she knows it. Only if he shows her the path that she can walk from hereon, she will gradually also begin walking it.

True, her care is not visible much so is conveniently ignored.

Love the way you have worded "only one who is her own". Just perfect way to describe.


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The precap is so hilarious: So essentially, Vahini calls up her Dir ๐Ÿฅด(who is back to his old hair parition that covers the right side of his brain -- which means his left side should be more open and exposed to penetration of thoughts -- left brain is said to be analytical and methodical, just saying๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜‘) and asks him, "What if Pulkit is married?" and he says what she wants to hear, "Toh shaadi nahi hogi"...

And ting tong-- letter lands from: Sangeeta Deshpande๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚ Chavans ke pass CCTV toh Hoga Nahi to see that vahini dropped the letter there herself ๐Ÿคช

It means that not just Virat and Sai but even the Freaking Five, including the chatur chhote Kaka and Kaku and the ex-army man haven't thought of doing some basic recee on Pulkit before even coming up with a stupid plan to spoil the wedding party. This is so hilarious! ๐Ÿ˜‚ Thodi mehnat ki hoti toh Madhuri Deshpande ke naam se letter send karte... I know Sai would have jumped and said she's the sister, but well, would it have mattered because the misunderstanding script is anyway so botched up and unconvincing at least they could have used the character introduced... So essentially not just Harini but even Madhuri has left the writers baffled now.๐Ÿฅด๐Ÿฅด

Just giving the misunderstanding a pass as Ninad and Omkar have declared that Sai ghar se jaayegi... chalo let's see...

This week will decide whether it is time to withdraw the investment made in this sinking fund or hold on...๐Ÿ’†๐Ÿ’†

Points to ignore:

- Mama Mami haven't wanted to meet Harini. Can't digest this sautela vyavvhar...

- IPS and IPS ki wife hasn't found anything more about Pulkit (yes I know it's the same day but not even curious any more, are they?)

- Devyani hasn't been told her baby is alive. It might make her hysterical but is surprising her with the 8 year old a good idea?

- ACP went to work and got a haircut at work, he will be back in the evening with a makeover but he doesn't probe the sister's story even for curiosity sake? Will Devyani be in a condition to reach out if things indeed go wrong with Pulkit?


As you have said, these are things we should ignore because it is absurd. Wouldn't they be curios to know about the child? Wouldn't Sai or Virat want to investigate about Pulkit before getting Devi married to him?

Sai accepting the gifts is so bizarre. She got irritated at Pulkit's house when she assumed he was married and then she blindly believes him from what he spoke to her in the temple.

Ofcourse it has got to do with the fact that she knows Kaku is capable of doing whatever Pulkit shared. She also knows that they give her those medicines and try to keep her locked or put her to sleep as claimed by Devi Tai once in the past. That was the reason she checked what medicines she was taking in first place.

Kaku's outrageous behavior, their threats to Pulkit when he visited their house confirms a few things.

But even then did she ever think that even if the family members have wronged him, if Pulkit doesn't have any other motto, if he is not trying to take revenge. She knows him through her interaction with him, as aai says "logon ki parakh" toh hai but when that wavered when she went to meet him at his house, on what basis is she sure about all this, just on her guts?

And Virat is supposed to be more intrigued by Pulkit and his sister's story. He doesn't want to dig into the past, what about the present and the future?

And then blame it all on Sai later and flee?

No rational thinking at all.


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Sunday kaisa jaa raha hai...? Just travelled cities today and settling in... So, if you are a late coffee drinker like me this evening, sending across some cuppas โ˜•โ˜•โ˜•โ˜•and of course chai pasand ho toh wo bhi mangwa lo๐Ÿต๐Ÿต๐Ÿต๐Ÿต

Baaki dher saara pyaar ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•aur hugs๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค— as always...

Today's song for Sai:

Aye parinde yoon abke udakar tu

Ja jalaa sooraj ko ja ke aasman pe tu

Aye parinde bhar aisi udaanein tu

Har nazar yeh tujhse poochhe aag itni kyun

Dhool udaa jaake manzilon pe yoon

Ke in hawaon se teri yaari hai

Udd ja Ab teri baari hai....

Love,โค๏ธJ

Link: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ghum-hai-kisikey-pyaar-meiin/5213155/ek-ladki-ki-tumhe-kya-sunau-daastaan


Beautiful analysis as always. Loved your write up.


I haven't watched the episode yet, just watched a few scenes. Have replied in blue font based on what I have watched.


The episode will get aired only after a couple of hours in Hotstar for me. My observation from when I watch them as clippings varies from when I watch it with no breaks. It lacks continuity when watched as clippings and I get to understand scenes better when I watch the whole episode. Hence, I prefer to write a post only after I watch the whole episode.

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Great writing as usual๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ

I didn't watch yesterday. I did end up watching today because today was Sai's episode.


Honestly, I felt a bit awkward at Kaaku picking up the gifts. Thing is, a person like Sai I didn't expect she would actually make her pick up! Then I saw Devyani's face and thought of all that Kaaku has subjected her to. A person who can be so evil to her own daughter doesn't deserve any respect.

From Sai's perspective, the anger just kept building up at the relentless targetting of Devyani.

I didn't miss Virat at CN today. Though I did wish they showed him being busy at work ๐Ÿฅบ on some important case or the other.


Vaise, Sai's taunt to Pakhi that she never heard her own husband's name as much as she hears Virat..teer nishane par lagi.


Remember we spoke about the writer who is a female. ..how could she write such regressive stuff? I think Sai is her sign off, her response to the domestic abuse, hypocrisy of society. Abuse happens, family maan maryada is very much prevalent even today.

And yes Sai will suffer for refusing to bow down, even if she loves Virat passionately. A wise aunt once said...girls are evolving at a much faster pace than boys these days. Boys are still stuck at the Raja Beta level...it will take time for society to strike a balance between them.

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Good evening Lovelies!๐ŸŒ…๐ŸŒ…

Did only I misread it as Mahaepisode? Or did all of us make the same mistake? It was supposed to be read as Maha-stupid-episode -- I mean what was the hype about. I thought it'd be at least 40 mins long ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿฅด๐Ÿ˜‘. But somehow I thoroughly enjoyed the episode but didn't get what was the need to call it "Maha"? It seemed like any other day's work in Chakram Niwas ... The only "maha" factor was Sai making Ninad and Bhavani bend to do some work...๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜œ


๐Ÿ˜ƒWelcome back..Janki.. hope you had nice flight.Ab aapka analysis mila toh mai jaake episode dekhungi..Makad sena ki aisi zillat dekhne ka mauka kaise chodun..

I haven't laughed while watching an episode of this show in recent days as much as I did today. And I was watching it on a 2.5 hour flight and couldn't stop chuckling๐Ÿ˜… -- the sofest I could laugh. At a couple of places, I actually let out a loud "Ha!" too ๐Ÿ˜‚. Thankfully daughter was fast asleep ๐Ÿ˜ƒ.

Sai, my dewdrop, turned into David from 'David and Goliath' ๐Ÿฆธ๐Ÿ‹๏ธ. It made me wonder how we always cite the example of 'David' who killed 'Goliath' without fearing the giant and that too singe handedly -- by just using 5 stones. He refused the weapons that he was offered and said the stones would be enough. An army of men trying to bring down Goliath could not believe this little boy but he said: My faith is enough.

Sai is my David here. Like David, she actually has no business challenging the 'Goliaths' she is facing. We will keep wondering why this small, visibly weak and detached girl would stand a chance against this vicious family in winning what she has set out to conquer but her reward will be in her belief that the right will win, always. It's simple. A lot of people say David won because God 'intervened' and made David win. But if you read the story closely, you will understand that when David said, "My faith is enough", he did not refer to faithfulness in God but the faith in his own perseverence.

Isn't it true that everyone in that Team B (for Bhavani) believes that Sai's victory totally depends on Virat?

"Ye akeli hoti toh koi darr nahi tha... par pareshaani hai ki Hamara Virat bhi iski taraf hai", says Ninad.

"Virat ko kuch keh kar koi fayda nahi hai, kyunki wo bhi iski hi boli bolega," says Sonali.

"Virat toh poori tarah se iska ho chuka hai," says Mallika-e-Maturity - Thank you for accepting the truth ๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™‹(Will come back to her later๐Ÿคฆ)

But the truth is that Sai doesn't need Virat's intervention just like David did not need God's intervention. If she needed Virat, she would have included him in her mission right from the beginning. Him being by her side is an additional boost, of course. But even if he weren't party to it, she would have gone ahead and done exactly what she was convinced about. David was able to bring down Goliath because he had the right training, experience, and knowledge-- his skills and abilities, he had learned on his own from facing life head (of his extensive experience conquering beasts that were far bigger and more ferocious than him) on and it had given him the unexpected edge in the conflict.

The Chavans don't know the strength that Sai has. They have not seen the mettle she is made of -- it is evident but they do not have the courage to acknowledge the nerve she displays is not from her badtameezi but her 'faith' in her sense of justice. It is Sai's faith that propels her to fight without the fear of losing. Faith in God is different from the competence and confidence to show God what you can do -- God may or may not do things directly for you but you can definitely win your battles if you do what God would like and expect of you: and most certainly, one of the common teachings in all faiths is to follow the principles of justice.

Sai's motivation is her persistence to deliver justice. Once she has set a goal, she will not waver from it -- she might commit a mistake in achieving it, but she will not let it go. Sai knows the weakest point of the Chavans is their false pride -- the reason why Devyani is in the present state in the first place. And she pressed the right nerve. And yes, they know "jo main bolti hoon wo karne ki himmat bhi rakhti hoon"... Bhavani's eye roll in the beginning thinking it was an empty threat and the enraged yet pale face when Sai actually began calling out to the neighbours was a sight to see and Ninad holding out a hand to her almost imploring her to stop, while handing over the saree to Devyani with a 'sorry' was the icing on the sundae cake (pun intended). Dil ko sach mein thandak mili ... like a glass of cold taak on a scorching summer afternoon.. aahaa...

True..thankyou for this reference, Sai as a character has immense self belief.

Delusional Didi ke mann ki baatein (pun not intended๐Ÿ˜…) will start coming out of her mouth very soon. How long can one hold on to the good books of an old hag in the family? She has no true love for the old woman. It is for a motive that she can't stop displaying her susheelta. The more that she sees her goal getting distant, the more she will begin to reveal herself. I find it so amusing that no one from the Makad Sena can open their mouth and defend her against anyone talking about Patralekha's obsession with Virat. It is almost as if it is so visible but everyone is latching on to the other for an ulterior motive -- Sai ko Virat se door karo.

I am tired of this actress, again she gave wrong expressions; you know it is one of my fav scenes b/w roopkotha and imon.In this scene roopkotha actually felt so much shame and guilt that she started crying silent tears..You would actually connect with Rupkotha here and Sai and Imon had exact same lines.She just not only fails to put right expression, I am toh now wondering..how she was chosen for this role??๐Ÿค”Because it was such a simple scene yet in originals it shows the inner conflict that Rupkotha goes through while choosing the right and wrong..!!!

Ninad spoke of it again today: "Jayegi to ye Sai"... and she was unfazed -- may be because Virat's "Main bhi jaunga" is fresh in her mind or because she does not really consider it as her loss to be leaving that house. I think it's the second -- she still doesn't feel she would lose anything by leaving ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ.

I laughed so hard and watched this few seconds on repeat when Ashwini said: "Ghar chhodh aap dono kahan jayenge?" Almost as if, "Oh, you guys are finally leaving together? Is it for the good, Please say it is. Good luck, have fun!"๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ Ninad, obviously, understood the taunt! It has to be the best dialogue of the day and then her, "Sai kahan roke rukti hai".. oh the smirk Ashwini had throughout the drama๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜... I would really not care if Virat gets agitated seeing the tears of Pakaku for this 'beizzati'๐Ÿ˜’. Their beizzati hormones are always hot anyway --totally deserved it for the vile behaviour.

And wait, Bhavani calls her daughter "iss pagal ko" how many times? Not surprised but the audacity is of another level.๐Ÿค

So many of us discussed yesterday the motivation of Vahini's character and it is so evident that an aimless person can only have one aim -- go with the flow of the water, no matter what because there is no reason to not go with the flow. Her aim is her illusion and she, naturally, had no plan to begin with. She was not able to utter a word today -- not even her "Sai tumhari bakwaas" wala monotonous dialogue. I guess Devyani's immediate backing to Sai's statement was to shut her up but it seemed like she really didn't know what to say because "Mujhe fark nahi padta" is not a dialogue Vahini can say in this context. Her reaction to Devyani's taunt was funny and totally inexplicable.๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคซ๐Ÿค” Kuch samajh Aaye toh mujhe bhi samajhna ๐Ÿ˜‚

Can anyone tell, who works with the actresses on her expression, like seriously.I tweeted to some people, I don't know if it will work or not

Of course, Sai's "Mere pati poori tarah se mere ho chuke hain toh aapko jalan kyun ho rahi hai... aapke mooh se aapke Pati ka naam toh kabhi nahi suna" was a whistle worthy dialogue...๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™ And kissi wala bhi ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

I loved the Soul Force Sisterhood in today's episode -- literally the first time when the four of them had their own moment in one frame๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜. It was such a heart melting scene when they put the saree over Devyani and made her feel the happiness that is awaiting her...

Ashwini, of course, the mother that she has been to Devyani would definitely feel the 'sunapan' as they say. It was such a poignant moment when Ashwini and Devyani shared that look in the mirror-- would Bhavani, eventually, ever realise the joys of human life and emotions that she has missed with her conceit and vanity?๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ This woman herself is so lonely in her vain hang ups...

I would like to say that the emotion Bhavani is feeling is actually genuine (from her pov) beyond doubt -- her contempt, her fear of loss of respect, her loss of power -- her rage is palpable. It is evident that 'image' comes first for Bhavani, over even the life of her own daughter. Bhavani is emotionally rigid and lacks the empathy for anyone else's feelings and is unaffected by situations that do not fit into her scope of "honour". The rigidity about the "unworthy spouse", the "disobeying child", the "idea of disrepute" is a common cause of estrangement in families -- some go to exterme lengths to 'preserve family respect'โ˜น๏ธ

The highlight of the zillat arena scene was the eyelock between Sai and Bhavani after she picked up the gifts-- Bhavani almost had tears in her eyes: tears of rage, indignation and almost surrender. It is almost as if Bhavani knows she is not going to win this one with Sai -- the anxiety is because the Freaking Five are aware that Sai's faith is ingrained in the principle of justice. Susheel bahu's 'vaada' is only a consolation and hope but somewhere, the outcome has been accepted sa inevitable.

Sai's "Ab aap log tasalli se soch lijiye aap ye shaadi kaise rukwayenge" was so cheeky but well placed... I loved how Shivani even picked up Sai's college bag as they left the scene to check out the gifts.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜

So, the girl gang joined hands to convince Sai "Virat tumse pyaar karta hai"... Koi "Veeru" ko bhi toh dikhane ki koshish karega ya nahi? Why is this one-sided push only? Waise, Sai's flashbacks were a teaser to remind everyone that there is one more character in the show๐Ÿ˜‚ I frankly didn't miss him. So hota toh the Five Little Monkeys would have never got the bump in their head ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…... But it is interesting that all the flashbacks she had of Virat were only of moments of 'care' about things that she likes -- just in the context of the sentence spoken by Devyani - the outing, the balloons, the alta rash scene, roses, the tea, the candy floss and the chaat dinner. She didn't have a tender expression while remembering it but a rather confused one -- because in her mind, she is in a dilemma. Why did she not remember his "jaane nahi doonga", "parivaar ka matlab zimmedari hota hai", "mujhse pyaar nahi karti ho?", "I am your family", the most recent "eklauti bahu and eklauta beta ghar se jayega..." or the moment when he actually pulled her back after she made him confess about the Aniket jasoosi? Those would have been 'romantic' things to remember but her state of mind is such a turmoil, as I elaborated yesterday and I don't want to repeat and send anyone to boredom on Sunday evening (Posting the link at the end again)

Is care the same as love? Especially, in the context of their relationship where care (khyaal rakhna) is a big part of the 'zimmedari' he has taken up. I would repeat what I said yesterday: Until her questions are answered by the horse's mouth, she will continue to see it only as "care and affection". By calling it 'love' and believing it to be, she knows she will hurt herself. Until he clears her "misunderstanding" by speaking the one half of the 'sach' that he had enough courage to go and tell Vahini, she is going to remain in this turmoil. She doesn't know if this is forever or not..

But, it is time that someone also makes Virat realise what Sai is going through -- why is she holding back. Both Ashwini and Sai know. But no one feels the need to speak to him -- or may be Ashwini will do that when she loses her calm after Sai's departure-- I am sure she will. Sai's care for Virat has not been shown as explicitly as Virat's because, ironically, between the two of them he is more expressive; also because he is the 'giver' out of the two and so in the higher position to be seen as the caring one but is Sai any less caring:

"taange tudwa kar jaaungi", "Aai ke bete ke liye alta lagaya", "Mere paas koi aur rasta nahi tha DIG sir ko phone karne ke alawa kyunki aapka phone bandh tha", "mere haath se khaana hai toh seedhe boliye, natak karne ki kya zaroorat hai?", "Aapne khaana kyun nahi khaya... unse kyun jhagda kiya?"

She doesn't show it overtly and she rejects his dosti offers -- but she deeply cares. He is the only one who is her own and she knows it. Only if he shows her the path that she can walk from hereon, she will gradually also begin walking it.

*****

The precap is so hilarious: So essentially, Vahini calls up her Dir ๐Ÿฅด(who is back to his old hair parition that covers the right side of his brain -- which means his left side should be more open and exposed to penetration of thoughts -- left brain is said to be analytical and methodical, just saying๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜‘) and asks him, "What if Pulkit is married?" and he says what she wants to hear, "Toh shaadi nahi hogi"...

And ting tong-- letter lands from: Sangeeta Deshpande๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚ Chavans ke pass CCTV toh Hoga Nahi to see that vahini dropped the letter there herself ๐Ÿคช

It means that not just Virat and Sai but even the Freaking Five, including the chatur chhote Kaka and Kaku and the ex-army man haven't thought of doing some basic recee on Pulkit before even coming up with a stupid plan to spoil the wedding party. This is so hilarious! ๐Ÿ˜‚ Thodi mehnat ki hoti toh Madhuri Deshpande ke naam se letter send karte... I know Sai would have jumped and said she's the sister, but well, would it have mattered because the misunderstanding script is anyway so botched up and unconvincing at least they could have used the character introduced... So essentially not just Harini but even Madhuri has left the writers baffled now.๐Ÿฅด๐Ÿฅด

Just giving the misunderstanding a pass as Ninad and Omkar have declared that Sai ghar se jaayegi... chalo let's see...

This week will decide whether it is time to withdraw the investment made in this sinking fund or hold on...๐Ÿ’†๐Ÿ’†

Points to ignore:

- Mama Mami haven't wanted to meet Harini. Can't digest this sautela vyavvhar...

- IPS and IPS ki wife hasn't found anything more about Pulkit (yes I know it's the same day but not even curious any more, are they?)

- Devyani hasn't been told her baby is alive. It might make her hysterical but is surprising her with the 8 year old a good idea?

- ACP went to work and got a haircut at work, he will be back in the evening with a makeover but he doesn't probe the sister's story even for curiosity sake? Will Devyani be in a condition to reach out if things indeed go wrong with Pulkit?

****

Sunday kaisa jaa raha hai...? Just travelled cities today and settling in... So, if you are a late coffee drinker like me this evening, sending across some cuppas โ˜•โ˜•โ˜•โ˜•and of course chai pasand ho toh wo bhi mangwa lo๐Ÿต๐Ÿต๐Ÿต๐Ÿต

Baaki dher saara pyaar ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•aur hugs๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค— as always...

Today's song for Sai:

Aye parinde yoon abke udakar tu

Ja jalaa sooraj ko ja ke aasman pe tu

Aye parinde bhar aisi udaanein tu

Har nazar yeh tujhse poochhe aag itni kyun

Dhool udaa jaake manzilon pe yoon

Ke in hawaon se teri yaari hai

Udd ja Ab teri baari hai....

Love,โค๏ธJ

Link: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ghum-hai-kisikey-pyaar-meiin/5213155/ek-ladki-ki-tumhe-kya-sunau-daastaan


Amazing as always..๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

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Good evening Lovelies!๐ŸŒ…๐ŸŒ…

Did only I misread it as Mahaepisode? Or did all of us make the same mistake? It was supposed to be read as Maha-stupid-episode -- I mean what was the hype about. I thought it'd be at least 40 mins long ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿฅด๐Ÿ˜‘. But somehow I thoroughly enjoyed the episode but didn't get what was the need to call it "Maha"? It seemed like any other day's work in Chakram Niwas ... The only "maha" factor was Sai making Ninad and Bhavani bend to do some work...๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜œ

I haven't laughed while watching an episode of this show in recent days as much as I did today. And I was watching it on a 2.5 hour flight and couldn't stop chuckling๐Ÿ˜… -- the sofest I could laugh. At a couple of places, I actually let out a loud "Ha!" too ๐Ÿ˜‚. Thankfully daughter was fast asleep ๐Ÿ˜ƒ.

Sai, my dewdrop, turned into David from 'David and Goliath' ๐Ÿฆธ๐Ÿ‹๏ธ. It made me wonder how we always cite the example of 'David' who killed 'Goliath' without fearing the giant and that too singe handedly -- by just using 5 stones. He refused the weapons that he was offered and said the stones would be enough. An army of men trying to bring down Goliath could not believe this little boy but he said: My faith is enough.

Sai is my David here. Like David, she actually has no business challenging the 'Goliaths' she is facing. We will keep wondering why this small, visibly weak and detached girl would stand a chance against this vicious family in winning what she has set out to conquer but her reward will be in her belief that the right will win, always. It's simple. A lot of people say David won because God 'intervened' and made David win. But if you read the story closely, you will understand that when David said, "My faith is enough", he did not refer to faithfulness in God but the faith in his own perseverence.

Isn't it true that everyone in that Team B (for Bhavani) believes that Sai's victory totally depends on Virat?

"Ye akeli hoti toh koi darr nahi tha... par pareshaani hai ki Hamara Virat bhi iski taraf hai", says Ninad.

"Virat ko kuch keh kar koi fayda nahi hai, kyunki wo bhi iski hi boli bolega," says Sonali.

"Virat toh poori tarah se iska ho chuka hai," says Mallika-e-Maturity - Thank you for accepting the truth ๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™‹(Will come back to her later๐Ÿคฆ)

But the truth is that Sai doesn't need Virat's intervention just like David did not need God's intervention. If she needed Virat, she would have included him in her mission right from the beginning. Him being by her side is an additional boost, of course. But even if he weren't party to it, she would have gone ahead and done exactly what she was convinced about. David was able to bring down Goliath because he had the right training, experience, and knowledge-- his skills and abilities, he had learned on his own from facing life head (of his extensive experience conquering beasts that were far bigger and more ferocious than him) on and it had given him the unexpected edge in the conflict.

The Chavans don't know the strength that Sai has. They have not seen the mettle she is made of -- it is evident but they do not have the courage to acknowledge the nerve she displays is not from her badtameezi but her 'faith' in her sense of justice. It is Sai's faith that propels her to fight without the fear of losing. Faith in God is different from the competence and confidence to show God what you can do -- God may or may not do things directly for you but you can definitely win your battles if you do what God would like and expect of you: and most certainly, one of the common teachings in all faiths is to follow the principles of justice.

Sai's motivation is her persistence to deliver justice. Once she has set a goal, she will not waver from it -- she might commit a mistake in achieving it, but she will not let it go. Sai knows the weakest point of the Chavans is their false pride -- the reason why Devyani is in the present state in the first place. And she pressed the right nerve. And yes, they know "jo main bolti hoon wo karne ki himmat bhi rakhti hoon"... Bhavani's eye roll in the beginning thinking it was an empty threat and the enraged yet pale face when Sai actually began calling out to the neighbours was a sight to see and Ninad holding out a hand to her almost imploring her to stop, while handing over the saree to Devyani with a 'sorry' was the icing on the sundae cake (pun intended). Dil ko sach mein thandak mili ... like a glass of cold taak on a scorching summer afternoon.. aahaa...

Delusional Didi ke mann ki baatein (pun not intended๐Ÿ˜…) will start coming out of her mouth very soon. How long can one hold on to the good books of an old hag in the family? She has no true love for the old woman. It is for a motive that she can't stop displaying her susheelta. The more that she sees her goal getting distant, the more she will begin to reveal herself. I find it so amusing that no one from the Makad Sena can open their mouth and defend her against anyone talking about Patralekha's obsession with Virat. It is almost as if it is so visible but everyone is latching on to the other for an ulterior motive -- Sai ko Virat se door karo.

Ninad spoke of it again today: "Jayegi to ye Sai"... and she was unfazed -- may be because Virat's "Main bhi jaunga" is fresh in her mind or because she does not really consider it as her loss to be leaving that house. I think it's the second -- she still doesn't feel she would lose anything by leaving ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ.

I laughed so hard and watched this few seconds on repeat when Ashwini said: "Ghar chhodh aap dono kahan jayenge?" Almost as if, "Oh, you guys are finally leaving together? Is it for the good, Please say it is. Good luck, have fun!"๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ Ninad, obviously, understood the taunt! It has to be the best dialogue of the day and then her, "Sai kahan roke rukti hai".. oh the smirk Ashwini had throughout the drama๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜... I would really not care if Virat gets agitated seeing the tears of Pakaku for this 'beizzati'๐Ÿ˜’. Their beizzati hormones are always hot anyway --totally deserved it for the vile behaviour.

And wait, Bhavani calls her daughter "iss pagal ko" how many times? Not surprised but the audacity is of another level.๐Ÿค

So many of us discussed yesterday the motivation of Vahini's character and it is so evident that an aimless person can only have one aim -- go with the flow of the water, no matter what because there is no reason to not go with the flow. Her aim is her illusion and she, naturally, had no plan to begin with. She was not able to utter a word today -- not even her "Sai tumhari bakwaas" wala monotonous dialogue. I guess Devyani's immediate backing to Sai's statement was to shut her up but it seemed like she really didn't know what to say because "Mujhe fark nahi padta" is not a dialogue Vahini can say in this context. Her reaction to Devyani's taunt was funny and totally inexplicable.๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคซ๐Ÿค” Kuch samajh Aaye toh mujhe bhi samajhna ๐Ÿ˜‚

Of course, Sai's "Mere pati poori tarah se mere ho chuke hain toh aapko jalan kyun ho rahi hai... aapke mooh se aapke Pati ka naam toh kabhi nahi suna" was a whistle worthy dialogue...๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™ And kissi wala bhi ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

I loved the Soul Force Sisterhood in today's episode -- literally the first time when the four of them had their own moment in one frame๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜. It was such a heart melting scene when they put the saree over Devyani and made her feel the happiness that is awaiting her...

Ashwini, of course, the mother that she has been to Devyani would definitely feel the 'sunapan' as they say. It was such a poignant moment when Ashwini and Devyani shared that look in the mirror-- would Bhavani, eventually, ever realise the joys of human life and emotions that she has missed with her conceit and vanity?๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ This woman herself is so lonely in her vain hang ups...

I would like to say that the emotion Bhavani is feeling is actually genuine (from her pov) beyond doubt -- her contempt, her fear of loss of respect, her loss of power -- her rage is palpable. It is evident that 'image' comes first for Bhavani, over even the life of her own daughter. Bhavani is emotionally rigid and lacks the empathy for anyone else's feelings and is unaffected by situations that do not fit into her scope of "honour". The rigidity about the "unworthy spouse", the "disobeying child", the "idea of disrepute" is a common cause of estrangement in families -- some go to exterme lengths to 'preserve family respect'โ˜น๏ธ

The highlight of the zillat arena scene was the eyelock between Sai and Bhavani after she picked up the gifts-- Bhavani almost had tears in her eyes: tears of rage, indignation and almost surrender. It is almost as if Bhavani knows she is not going to win this one with Sai -- the anxiety is because the Freaking Five are aware that Sai's faith is ingrained in the principle of justice. Susheel bahu's 'vaada' is only a consolation and hope but somewhere, the outcome has been accepted sa inevitable.

Sai's "Ab aap log tasalli se soch lijiye aap ye shaadi kaise rukwayenge" was so cheeky but well placed... I loved how Shivani even picked up Sai's college bag as they left the scene to check out the gifts.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜

So, the girl gang joined hands to convince Sai "Virat tumse pyaar karta hai"... Koi "Veeru" ko bhi toh dikhane ki koshish karega ya nahi? Why is this one-sided push only? Waise, Sai's flashbacks were a teaser to remind everyone that there is one more character in the show๐Ÿ˜‚ I frankly didn't miss him. So hota toh the Five Little Monkeys would have never got the bump in their head ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…... But it is interesting that all the flashbacks she had of Virat were only of moments of 'care' about things that she likes -- just in the context of the sentence spoken by Devyani - the outing, the balloons, the alta rash scene, roses, the tea, the candy floss and the chaat dinner. She didn't have a tender expression while remembering it but a rather confused one -- because in her mind, she is in a dilemma. Why did she not remember his "jaane nahi doonga", "parivaar ka matlab zimmedari hota hai", "mujhse pyaar nahi karti ho?", "I am your family", the most recent "eklauti bahu and eklauta beta ghar se jayega..." or the moment when he actually pulled her back after she made him confess about the Aniket jasoosi? Those would have been 'romantic' things to remember but her state of mind is such a turmoil, as I elaborated yesterday and I don't want to repeat and send anyone to boredom on Sunday evening (Posting the link at the end again)

Is care the same as love? Especially, in the context of their relationship where care (khyaal rakhna) is a big part of the 'zimmedari' he has taken up. I would repeat what I said yesterday: Until her questions are answered by the horse's mouth, she will continue to see it only as "care and affection". By calling it 'love' and believing it to be, she knows she will hurt herself. Until he clears her "misunderstanding" by speaking the one half of the 'sach' that he had enough courage to go and tell Vahini, she is going to remain in this turmoil. She doesn't know if this is forever or not..

But, it is time that someone also makes Virat realise what Sai is going through -- why is she holding back. Both Ashwini and Sai know. But no one feels the need to speak to him -- or may be Ashwini will do that when she loses her calm after Sai's departure-- I am sure she will. Sai's care for Virat has not been shown as explicitly as Virat's because, ironically, between the two of them he is more expressive; also because he is the 'giver' out of the two and so in the higher position to be seen as the caring one but is Sai any less caring:

"taange tudwa kar jaaungi", "Aai ke bete ke liye alta lagaya", "Mere paas koi aur rasta nahi tha DIG sir ko phone karne ke alawa kyunki aapka phone bandh tha", "mere haath se khaana hai toh seedhe boliye, natak karne ki kya zaroorat hai?", "Aapne khaana kyun nahi khaya... unse kyun jhagda kiya?"

She doesn't show it overtly and she rejects his dosti offers -- but she deeply cares. He is the only one who is her own and she knows it. Only if he shows her the path that she can walk from hereon, she will gradually also begin walking it.

*****

The precap is so hilarious: So essentially, Vahini calls up her Dir ๐Ÿฅด(who is back to his old hair parition that covers the right side of his brain -- which means his left side should be more open and exposed to penetration of thoughts -- left brain is said to be analytical and methodical, just saying๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜‘) and asks him, "What if Pulkit is married?" and he says what she wants to hear, "Toh shaadi nahi hogi"...

And ting tong-- letter lands from: Sangeeta Deshpande๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚ Chavans ke pass CCTV toh Hoga Nahi to see that vahini dropped the letter there herself ๐Ÿคช

It means that not just Virat and Sai but even the Freaking Five, including the chatur chhote Kaka and Kaku and the ex-army man haven't thought of doing some basic recee on Pulkit before even coming up with a stupid plan to spoil the wedding party. This is so hilarious! ๐Ÿ˜‚ Thodi mehnat ki hoti toh Madhuri Deshpande ke naam se letter send karte... I know Sai would have jumped and said she's the sister, but well, would it have mattered because the misunderstanding script is anyway so botched up and unconvincing at least they could have used the character introduced... So essentially not just Harini but even Madhuri has left the writers baffled now.๐Ÿฅด๐Ÿฅด

Just giving the misunderstanding a pass as Ninad and Omkar have declared that Sai ghar se jaayegi... chalo let's see...

This week will decide whether it is time to withdraw the investment made in this sinking fund or hold on...๐Ÿ’†๐Ÿ’†

Points to ignore:

- Mama Mami haven't wanted to meet Harini. Can't digest this sautela vyavvhar...

- IPS and IPS ki wife hasn't found anything more about Pulkit (yes I know it's the same day but not even curious any more, are they?)

- Devyani hasn't been told her baby is alive. It might make her hysterical but is surprising her with the 8 year old a good idea?

- ACP went to work and got a haircut at work, he will be back in the evening with a makeover but he doesn't probe the sister's story even for curiosity sake? Will Devyani be in a condition to reach out if things indeed go wrong with Pulkit?

****

Sunday kaisa jaa raha hai...? Just travelled cities today and settling in... So, if you are a late coffee drinker like me this evening, sending across some cuppas โ˜•โ˜•โ˜•โ˜•and of course chai pasand ho toh wo bhi mangwa lo๐Ÿต๐Ÿต๐Ÿต๐Ÿต

Baaki dher saara pyaar ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•aur hugs๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค— as always...

Today's song for Sai:

Aye parinde yoon abke udakar tu

Ja jalaa sooraj ko ja ke aasman pe tu

Aye parinde bhar aisi udaanein tu

Har nazar yeh tujhse poochhe aag itni kyun

Dhool udaa jaake manzilon pe yoon

Ke in hawaon se teri yaari hai

Udd ja Ab teri baari hai....

Love,โค๏ธJ

Link: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ghum-hai-kisikey-pyaar-meiin/5213155/ek-ladki-ki-tumhe-kya-sunau-daastaan


Really loved the comparison to the story of David and Goliath .

Didiโ€™s aap bi Devi tโ€™ai was hilarious. What did she expect? A kid to lie for her. And the teary eyed look she had when she saw her bade been shown the mirror. Wasnโ€™t she the same person who felt happy to see Deviโ€™s gifts and sad to see them thrown ? And whatโ€™s with the hand to Sai? I wish Sai could have said something then.

Also loved Saiโ€™s soft chodo after PPs blackmail dialogue. There is no sense of right or wrong with her. Sadly , she will again go Scott free for the letter act she does ๐Ÿ™„


@bold. Donโ€™t say that. Because the storyline is botched , we need your beautiful analysis during the separation that we have always been rooting for โค๏ธ


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Awesome Analysis janki loved it ,

I really enjoyed how sai take down this pakaku mandali ekdum mast a mast mode tha shivani bua aai and devi tai was really enjoying akhir this team A got to taste their own medicine , pakhi ki shappat humarey liyeh boon hoga bahoot jald , waiseh Sangeetha deshpandeh like seriously chavans bhi nah BG check karneh mein inko kujli kyom horahi hai but anyways it's good in a way zyada complications nahi hoga virat ko sach doondeneh mein few doc verification bas , but iam waiting for the day where he show his family mirror maza ayega ,

And yeah I wanna see sunny drilling the idea of bhai tum sai vahini seh pyaar karneh laga hai to him please

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