I agree with whatever you have mentioned.
But can you please explain why did he get upset at the mention of Samrat and Pakhi's wedding? He clearly seems to have moved on, moving towards Sai, expects her to acknowledge their relationship, wants her in his life, then is it normal to feel bad thinking about ex and her wedding?
There is so many possibilities. He might have felt bad for Samrat who is missing . From my perspective , he wasn’t feeling bad thinking about ex . He might be feeling awkward talking about Pakhi’s marriage.
It didn't look that way. It looked as if he didnt want to be reminded of that day. I might have agreed with awkward but his expressions didn't seem to show awkwardness. It was of hurt, was of pain. I think the creatives have not got the scene right, if the intention was not to show that Virat was in pain thinking about his ex. It has caused an uproar today.
Why is he trying to force something like friendship between two people who have a lot of issues with each other. Main issue being his friend who keeps finding chances to taunt and put down Sai. Will Virat be able to befriend a guy who keeps taunting him and putting him down time and again?
I agree about the friendship part . Did he force her or he suggested her to befriend Pakhi. There is a huge difference between the two .
When I said force, I meant to say he keeps trying to do it. Shouldn't he have left trying this long time ago? Even during the ladakh trip he was planning to do this and it ended up that way. It would be a forced friendship if at all they both agree to become friends for his sake. Thank goodness both are clear to not accept the other as a friend.
He has seen how Pakhi belittles Sai, taunts her and he has himself been a witness to it and has admitted to Pakhi too then how on the earth does he expect Sai to try and understand Pakhi?
She wasn't wrong when she said that if she wants to get them married, Pakhi will not want it. Is it not true? Did he not notice how and what Pakhi was talking in the living room? Pakhi's intentions were only to prove Sai wrong.
I could understand his pain always but today it was quite misleading. I am not saying he has any relationship with Pakhi, he is a gentleman, respects his relationship with Pakhi, his brother's wife and his friend. So I don't doubt his character but his behavior and expectations are beyond my comprehension especially in today's episode.
He didn’t expect much from Sai except friendship . Usually friendship is the first step people take to get comfortable with each other . Even when Sai refused he didn’t hold any grudges he accepted it and became normal .
When I said expectations, I meant him expecting Sai to understand Pakhi and to befriend her.
I can try to understand why he wants her to become his friend but probably the scene didn't come out the way that it should have. The dialogue and the jump from asking her to become Pakhi's friend to become his friend, didn't come out well.
I would like to give benefit of doubt to Sai about declining his friendship today. Though she would have anyway declined it, she might not have spoken that way if he had not tried to push her to understand Pakhi.
She brought the topic of their friendship after the trip got cancelled. She is assuming and accusing him to be hiding his feelings under the name of friendship. But she has not accused him of having an affair or any kind of relationship with Pakhi. She only believes as she had said that he has feelings for Pakhi which he has buried it deep within him.
Virat told it was not true during their last confrontation but then after she asked him about the conditions he put forth before marrying her and then asked him if the person he had promised to was Pakhi or not , Virat stayed silent. He remained silent because that was true (in the past) which we as audience know, but his silence can be misleading to her right?
Why did he not tell her that yes that is true and that was in the past but things have changed, he looks at Pakhi only as his brother's wife and as his friend and she is wrong in thinking that he has feelings for her.
Why did he not clarify it today too?
The only thing he said was you will regret one day to have thought like this about me.
I agree she would regret but that makes sense only if she believes or accuses or claims that inspite of him clarifying it to her.
She would anyway regret to have not understood but the whole situation is tricky and needs clarification from his side too so that she can try to understand what the truth is.
I am sorry to say that as much as Sai was wrong in telling she will leave after her studies (especially after the latest development and after how he had stood up for her against his family and said he would also leave the house if she is asked to leave), Virat was wrong in not clarifying about his relationship with Pakhi today and also to have asked her to befriend Pakhi.
It might not look like a big deal but it was very wrong on his part to expect her to understand Pakhi after how Pakhi has treated Sai always. It is not like he is not aware of it.
And about Sai, she shouldn't be taking steps behind after the recent developments. But I think she will stop it only if she gets a clarity about his relationship status.
She is trying to guard herself and also doesn't want to come in between him and Pakhi if at all there is any.
She had even promised to him in the temple right after their wedding when he told her that he can only fulfill his responsibility and cannot be her husband.
She likes him and gets attached to him and gets carried away when he acts caring and acts like a husband. But today she could notice how Virat was in pain and how it affects him even now while talking about Samrat's and Pakhi's wedding, so she decided to raise her guards.
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