Would you be ok with a husband like Virat? - Page 3

Yeh ek sawal kitne time discussion hoga yanha ?

Jab bhi Virat kuch galat karta hai would you marry a guy like virat ?

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Nope virat no way. I feel sai finds someone else and leaves CN and virat takes pratigya of celibacy and joins bhavani kaku gang and later pakhi replaces bhavani so that virat will blindly follow pakhi😛

No way!! I am not sure what I would have done if I had no where to go like Sai. Sai had to protect herself from the likes of Jagtap and Vithal, plus no one wanted her in GC for her own safety. I personally would request to let me stay in his house as his guru’s daughter till my admission happens and then move to hostel.

Well obviously a big No!! Well I wouldn't mind my husband having a Female bff because I myself have one Male bestie😆.

But if he behaves like Virat , the very next day he'll receive annulment papers of marriage. And obviously I would have some expectations from my side would be so a big no!!

But if the condition is like Sairat, a deal, I can consider. But I would be indifferent to anything, will clearly mention to his family to not to keep any expectations as a DIL, since I am not even wife of their son. Will walk out of the marriage after stipulated period of time, without any bondage.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

If it’s some sort of deal then why not. It is not traditional marriage but a deal that they would be living in one house under the protection of marriage tag but divorce later. I would have married if circumstances are extreme. It is not that a big deal considering how our society behaves with single woman with nowhere to go.

the problem is not in a marriage with the backdrop of the deal, I think the problem arises when you start expecting that person to do everything which is not part of the deal.

The unsaid expectations make problems...

actually is these two were to live alone, they probably would still be in control of the situation but abhi with all the C gang creating conflicts it’s hard to understand.

I don’t think Virat expected his family to react in such a way!!

Nah. I wouldn't mind the whole "ummeed mat rakhna" thing because if I were in Sai's situation, the last thing on my mind would be to expect any husbandly affections from a guy I barely know and who is also significantly older. But I wouldn't be able to deal with his confused nature. Also, what he did in the last couple of episodes is a complete no-no for me. And nope, I don't find it cute in the least that all this stemmed from 'jealousy'. It was more about him trying to assert his dominance and the fact that he is the more powerful one in the relationship and less about how he actually felt about Sai. I would not be okay with a man who subjected me to domestic violence, passive-aggressive behaviour and constantly wanted to make me an ideal girl, stripping me off my authenticity.

Virat has done a lot for Sai (college admissions, etc) but I seriously don't think that should excuse this highly toxic behaviour.

No. Never. Having soft corner is one thing... having soft corner for ex is another thing...In reality who want to be in a situation like Sai... How can one fall for a man like Virat in real...I don't think anyone would...It doesn't how handsome how helpful he is....I would never

I like all the interesting answers on this thread.

I agree with what most people said. I wouldn't marry a man like that. Deal or not, ultimately anybody would start having expectations from a spouse or partner. If that person was hung up on another person, I would feel insecure and inferior. That is disrespecting yourself. It's better to stay away from that trap.

The whole deal with Virat keeping a promise to love Pakhi forever is not only disrespectful for Sai but also Samrat who everybody has forgotten. 🙄

Bhagwan kare aap sabko acha pati or patni mile ,

Sai ki to mil chuka , aur ab kuch ho nhi sakta pure serial virat hi uska pati rahega phir chahe aap virat ji kitna bhi hate kar lo.

Frictional serial ko dekh kar koi pati ya patni dhundne nhi nikalta

Originally posted by: Svt611

the problem is not in a marriage with the backdrop of the deal, I think the problem arises when you start expecting that person to do everything which is not part of the deal.

The unsaid expectations make problems...

actually is these two were to live alone, they probably would still be in control of the situation but abhi with all the C gang creating conflicts it’s hard to understand.

I don’t think Virat expected his family to react in such a way!!

@ bold Exactly

If sai had to come in CN, she should be allowed to stay in ushamausi room and do her study... (just like a paying guest would).... as she has planed to return money she borrows until - makes sense.

She may help in household chores if she has spare time... not asked/forced to do so... as she is not a 'bahu' in CN son's view...

Here, viratsir has warned her not to expect anything and expecting her to be an ideal bahu of CN ????????