Originally posted by: sharafah
I will :) but seeing what everyone has written here looks like the episode is going to be heart breaking for me😔 yaar I do understand Ani but I am a rudhi fan and just the zimmedari word is too much for me to handle! I understand he things patni means the physical aspect of what the society deems as and he can never ever think like that but patni does not mean that! He has to realise that! I mean he was so vocal on alot of things but why is he fearing to just say to everyone around him that Bon is young and he not exploit her innocence like what traditionally they do in child marraiges because he has his view and principles! I expected him to say this word during Munshi track but also hoped he would not say that but he used it!! I felt 💔 but really they have to change Sampoo makeup! It is so gothic and it feels like the villain from fairytales just visited BB where there traditionally shown to have scary makeup
The episode is not bad, Shara. Actually, it is interesting if you exclude a few dialogues and Sampoo😛
Don't take every word Ani said literally, Shara. That man is going through so much. He is pained by what society is expecting of Bon. He is worried for her. He is a man of high morals. He is someone who respects women and holds them in the highest regard. For him to marry a child and to accept her as his wife is in itself a big deal. But he did that... For Bon. To save her. And since the day she came into his life he has been protecting her. He has been playing so many roles in her life. So, it is wrong to think he doesn't value her. He always thinks only about her future, her well-being, and her safety. Even today if you hear him carefully it will be clear that he is only worried for her. He feels responsible for putting her in that situation. Feels helpless as he for the first time doesn't know how to help/protect her. Till Bon grows up she will be his responsibility. That doesn't mean she will not be his wife. She will be for namesake but not any other way as Kaka wants. Today's monologue is only applicable to the current situation. Don't take it generically. He wants Bon to chose what she wants. He wants her to decide her future. He wants her to be ready both mentally and physically before she takes such decisions. According to him, it is her right. She already lost the right to chose her life partner. And he doesn't want her to lose her innocence too, to the customs and society.
Wife is just a word right now, what is important is the relationship two people share. And the relationship these two share is the most unique, mesmerizing, pure, and innocent of all. It is above all relations. So, don't worry. Even if he doesn't consider her his wife in the future, it will only be for Bon's sake to give her the choice to chose what she wants in life. He is a very selfless soul, right❤️.
