Pal Bhar Thahar Jao, Dil Ye Sambhal Jaye - Page 5

Good evening 🌆

You were right !!!! They missed a night and a morning in between and directly jumped to the drama. This would have been okay on a normal day but here when they are not in talking terms with each other it seems bizzare. A one minute scene of sai ignoring him again and sleeping with backs to each other would have set the pace.

And the drama 🤦🤦🤦. This is the only problem with sai from the beginning. She fails to picks battles. She could have easily avoided the argument. Kehte hai ek shaadi ke liye sau jhoot bhi maaf hai . If not lied atleast she should not have gone into the fight mode. But on the face of it , it more looked like she don't care for anybody in the house anymore. And she is just waiting for a oppurtunity to leave home. I left bad for aai today. She was so hopeful that sai would atleast share with her and somehow will dilute the issue .

There's no harm in asking the details when she is going alone and that too to a strangers house. Virat was all okay with her going there. His first question was kab tak aaogi which clearly said he had no issues......but only after she gave the details he was alarmed which was topped by Omi's comment of " ye banda theek nahi lag raha". He was concerned for her safety and I don't find any issue with it. It was not controlling behavior atleast for me. Any parent or spouse would have done that. Kamal sir hote toh voh bhi yahi karte !!!!!

There won't any abuse mostly tomorrow.that will be so out of virat's character. Or makers wanted to show that virat goes to extremes when it is concerned to sai🤷 . Virat I think will ask to let him tag along which she will deny . Sometimes I feel like ye virat ko gussa kyu nahi aata 😂😂😂😂 Had I done something like what sai has done today my mother would have thrown a vase at me😂😂😂😂

I will waitfor the scene continuation to comment on anything.

Aaj kaku ne dil jeet liya ek sec ke liye yaar 😂😂😂. The way she shut pakhi up 🤭🤭🤭

The chai was such a cute attempt by him to diffuse the heat between them. Ye banda chai pilane ko bhi thayar hogaya tha 😂😂😂. He keeps searching for oppurtunities to get close to her but still claims zimmedari 🤦. I am just happy that they didn't have the zehreela tea 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Sai Mohit scene was cute but the pain was clearly visible on ayesha face when she stood up twice during that convo. I think they should incorporate her injury in the show !!!! It's mostly a matter of tendays 🤷

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Well I felt virat will maintain distance because the reaction he gave during precap was like he kind of understood what sai was telly that day , and also from upcoming seg room scene where bhabhi try to feed him he said he didn't want and asked her to leave the room the some muted reaction seh laghrahi hai he got angry then he just left the room , well ab virat ka poora concentration sai peh hai how to convince her make her talk to him , her silence and cold behaviour towards is affecting him it's clearly seen , yaham both want other person to understand them inki problem ka ek hi solution hai just keep the ego aside and talk normally like mature adults clear the air and don't let any third party take advantage of the situation , waiseh I still feel sais ignorance is affecting him for sure but he will be definitely able to understand pakhis behaviour clearly now he will understand what sai was telling him and do maintain distance for sure

Sai should have played more diplomatically , yeah donom miya biwi nah jab gussa mode mein chali jaati hai apna dimaag istamaal karna bhool jaati hai

Originally posted by: linakusharberry

more than pakhi and kaku gang ab mujhe yeah editing issues irritating lagh rahi hai like entire episode spoil karega such issues , ek toh inki timeline ghadbad hai ab yeah bumpy ride bhi ,

Well I felt virat will maintain distance because the reaction he gave during precap was like he kind of understood what sai was telly that day , and also from upcoming seg room scene where bhabhi try to feed him he said he didn't want and asked her to leave the room the some muted reaction seh laghrahi hai he got angry then he just left the room , well ab virat ka poora concentration sai peh hai how to convince her make her talk to him , her silence and cold behaviour towards is affecting him it's clearly seen , yaham both want other person to understand them inki problem ka ek hi solution hai just keep the ego aside and talk normally like mature adults clear the air and don't let any third party take advantage of the situation , waiseh I still feel sais ignorance is affecting him for sure but he will be definitely able to understand pakhis behaviour clearly now he will understand what sai was telling him and do maintain distance for sure

Sai should have played more diplomatically , yeah donom miya biwi nah jab gussa mode mein chali jaati hai apna dimaag istamaal karna bhool jaati hai

@Bold:- It may not be editing problem, but could be cause she is not able to stand walk they have to adjust and make do. Abrupt hain but the message is put across that she is still upset.

Well Virat sir ko defend karte karte thak gaye, one last time i agree with you. It felt like he stood up in defense with full understanding of the statement which Baiko had made "She openly shows her affection Urf Pyaar for you". Distance ka pata nahi, decipher karle toh bhi bohot hain.

Also it is true that the only person on his mind is Sai and Vahini bringing food has to be before the precap and he is royally upset in the food session.

Janki mentioned i think, the girl is tired and she has given up hopes of any kind. That trip fiasco broke her but don't know whether the Navra has realized it.

Nice post Janki and I totally agree with the take on Sai and Virat. For Sai, atleast knowing the folks for now, would expect a better prep. What's with the precap..gosh, how conveniently PPs drama is forgotten. I wish I saw Kaku mad at her atleast for a day.

If at all there hand twisting or stopping etc, I wish it to be of IPKKND style or her carries her to their room...Wish list.

Originally posted by: Roch

@Bold:- It may not be editing problem, but could be cause she is not able to stand walk they have to adjust and make do. Abrupt hain but the message is put across that she is still upset.

Well Virat sir ko defend karte karte thak gaye, one last time i agree with you. It felt like he stood up in defense with full understanding of the statement which Baiko had made "She openly shows her affection Urf Pyaar for you". Distance ka pata nahi, decipher karle toh bhi bohot hain.

Also it is true that the only person on his mind is Sai and Vahini bringing food has to be before the precap and he is royally upset in the food session.

Janki mentioned i think, the girl is tired and she has given up hopes of any kind. That trip fiasco broke her but don't know whether the Navra has realized it.

Sai is really broken it looks like she don't wanna fight with virat on this issue anymore but ab virat is adamant to make her talk to him because he cannot take her silence

Miya biwi nah ekdum same to same hai like they expecting other person to get them they seriously need to communicate and clear the air , warna bhabhi kaku gang toh mauka dundh rahi hai inki beech issues laneh mein

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

Nice post Janki and I totally agree with the take on Sai and Virat. For Sai, atleast knowing the folks for now, would expect a better prep. What's with the precap..gosh, how conveniently PPs drama is forgotten. I wish I saw Kaku mad at her atleast for a day.

If at all there hand twisting or stopping etc, I wish it to be of IPKKND style or her carries her to their room...Wish list.

I also have a different take on virat and pakhi. Sometimes I feel virat intentionally lets sai do the talking. Like after the DIG fascio he supported sai even when she called out pakhi on face saying that she is eyeing someone's else husband . It was such a huge thing but still he shut off pakhi there citing it's her who started this. And when he went to pakhis home next day he repeated the same that it was pakhi's mistake.

When pakhi's intrusion goes beyond a point , I feel he leaves to sai to handle it . Rightly so because he is not into confrontations. I know this doesn't fit always but that one instance he wanted her to do the needful. Or maybe he wanted sai to claim those rights 🙄. I don't know if I am making sense or not 😂

Originally posted by: Ishradivani

I also have a different take on virat and pakhi. Sometimes I feel virat intentionally lets sai do the talking. Like after the DIG fascio he supported sai even when she called out pakhi on face saying that she is eyeing someone's else husband . It was such a huge thing but still he shut off pakhi there citing it's her who started this. And when he went to pakhis home next day he repeated the same that it was pakhi's mistake.

When pakhi's intrusion goes beyond a point , I feel he leaves to sai to handle it . Rightly so because he is not into confrontations. I know this doesn't fit always but that one instance he wanted her to do the needful. Or maybe he wanted sai to claim those rights 🙄. I don't know if I am making sense or not 😂

This has been on my mind... he actually lets them fight - that's again a typical male thing. They won't interfere unless they have to. So his "maine tumse aisi umeed kab ki" remark to Sai when she says she won't silently hear the insults from PP to his recent putting PP in place with all his observations actually verbalised -- "you are the one who instigates her and then you should have the courage to hear her retort." The issue is that his non-confrontational nature does not allow him to cut PP himself but he tells Sai to watch her words but Sai can't be a meethi choori so there are no filters and it comes across as him trying to stop Sai from talking back... also he refers to Sai and him as "hum". Not just in the chilli incident where it was a clear "we are sorry" but even during the Ladakh drama he said "hum tumhare saath aa rahe hain"... I am not sure if it is to have her claim those rights. In many ways, he has given Sai that place but because he verbalised and repeated his pre-conditions and has done nothing to convey that the T&Cs have been withdrawn without notice, it is a mess for anyone to understand. This man 🤔😳

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

This has been on my mind... he actually lets them fight - that's again a typical male thing. They won't interfere unless they have to. So his "maine tumse aisi umeed kab ki" remark to Sai when she says she won't silently hear the insults from PP to his recent putting PP in place with all his observations actually verbalised -- "you are the one who instigates her and then you should have the courage to hear her retort." The issue is that his non-confrontational nature does not allow him to cut PP himself but he tells Sai to watch her words but Sai can't be a meethi choori so there are no filters and it comes across as him trying to stop Sai from talking back... also he refers to Sai and him as "hum". Not just in the chilli incident where it was a clear "we are sorry" but even during the Ladakh drama he said "hum tumhare saath aa rahe hain"... I am not sure if it is to have her claim those rights. In many ways, he has given Sai that place but because he verbalised and repeated his pre-conditions and has done nothing to convey that the T&Cs have been withdrawn without notice, it is a mess for anyone to understand. This man 🤔😳

Sirf ek din ke liye apne ACP sir - Seedhi baat no bakwas kar sakte hain kya???????

Janta ye janna chahti hain, ki ye banda kab seedha bolna shuru karega. Chalo Vahini ko naa sahi apni Baiko ko bola, so atleast baki woh Sambhal le.

Kya ye khawish kabhi puri hogi 😲- Bas itni si hain aarzooooooo

Sai definitely was on fault today, but I think I understand her pov. She could have made excuses but she doesn't see the need. It wouldn't have mattered what she said, there would have been drama. If she said she is going to meet her friends, have special classes , etc, drama toh hota.

For others including Virat, she has a fu#k all attitude today. She thinks she is just living in someone's house and is informing them while going out. Their opinion is of none of her concern.

Only one whose opinion matters to her in the house after the Ladakh incident is Ashwini. She informed aai and replied to her questions and aai said okay. That's all she cares.

If you see, she is probably closer to Pulkit sir than other Chavans. She has opened up more to him than possibly even Shivani bua or aai. Yes there could have been many ways to discuss with Pulkit and all this was unnecessary drama, but we will go along with it.

I have no words for Virat yet, but why does he need others to tell him how to manao his wife. He is the only person after aai who is close to Sai. Instead of Sunny or Pakhi, ask usha maushi and she will be happy to help with that. Also Virat's lunch plan would have flopped anyways. How did he plan to take her out?

Just like how they show what Sai has flashbacks about, why can't they show Virat thinking about arguments with Sai.

I have a feeling of all the things Sai said only thing he has registered is that Sai misunderstand his feelings for Pakhi, but if that is resolved she is open to having Pati wale umeed with him. He wants to reach that stage fast and willing to take advice from anyone to achieve that.

Also Kaku shut up Pakhi and Sai coz Pakhi was making it about her anger on trip, where Kaku knows Sai is not wrong. Pakhi couldnt see the bigger picture which Kaku could. Otherwise Kaku would have let her continue.