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Originally posted by: yyyy

Let’s agree to disagree Lakshmi . I want to share my perceptive .

I still stick to want I said before there is nothing from Virat’s side and he is not having any kind of EMA with his bhabhi. IMO meeting someone at a common place like terrace and talking about respective partner is not EMA . Having soft corner for a friend or his brother’s wife is not EMA . Virat asked Sai not to interfere in their room when she was pushing towards Pakhi when he had declined not to extend their trip . What’s wrong in that . After their marriage , their equation has changed so what was said before holds not much value . He interfered their conversation not forcefully stop Sai when Sai and Pakhi were arguing because he wanted to make it to the airport and wanted to end the argument . For him this trip mattered because it was about his brother not about Pakhi or her loneliness . It’s not like Sai was on gunpoint that she couldn’t question Pakhi again .Regrading chilli grinding , Virat supported her hence Pakhi decided to grind Chilies and I don’t blame him if he tends out of humanity . Even Sai agreed he supported her . I still repeat , it’s not an EMA so Sai questioning his character is wrong .She can confront him about the trip but implying he is having an EMA is wrong . I won’t blame Virat for Pakhi’s or Bhavani’s deed . In last two episode, he has taken a stand for Sai and has called out their hypocrisy.

I don’t deny Virat confusing Sai but even Sai has done the same . I won’t turn blind eye to Virat’s flaws as he has disappointed Sai in few occasions and Sai is flawed too . If Sai feels it’s a deal marriage , why does it matter what kind of relationship he shares with Pakhi and she doesn’t have any right to question him because as per their deal everything was shared with her and she had promised not to interfere . If she claims he means nothing to her then why agree to go on a trip with him and push him towards Pakhi on Valentine’s Day and in their room when he had declined to go on sightseeing. If she doesn’t have any feelings for him then why send mixed signals by applying Alta as his wife , taking food for him , feeding him with her hands .

If Sai wants more from his relationship then she needs to communicate . She cannot bottle up everything and act as if she is not bothered and later blame him for not understanding her pain / discomfort when she sees him with Pakhi .

It is fine with me. I hold Virat more faulty than Bhavani and Pakhi because he allowed their advances or crossing the line by entering private space. Never did he ask Pakhi not to come at odd hours neither did he cut her short like he did with Sai.

For me Virat is the one responsible for all the mess. He certainly behaved like he did have something with Pakhi which an eighteen year old immature wife tolerated with maturity. She finally burst out and did the right thing. I hold my view intact.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Nitu let us agree to disagree.

It is fine with me. I hold Virat more faulty than Bhavani and Pakhi because he allowed their advances or crossing the line by entering private space. Never did he ask Pakhi not to come at odd hours neither did he cut her short like he did with Sai.

For me Virat is the one responsible for all the mess. He certainly behaved like he did have something with Pakhi which an eighteen year old immature wife tolerated with maturity. She finally burst out and did the right thing. I hold my view intact.

Exactly, why go through this elaborate plan? He could have been upfront with PP that Sai is coming. If she declines then PPs true nature has come out , then it’s upto them whether they go on the trip with or without Sai.

Obviously Sai would have loved to be asked on the trip . Dealwali or realwali. She wouldn’t have minded if they went without her. It would hurt her because she has soft corner for Virat but atleast this way she wouldn’t have been insulted by the family and Pakhi.

virat did defend. But why did it have to come to this at all. Everyone is flawed and in this trip situation virat holds more responsibility

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Virat is not bhagwan jiski har baar pattar ki lakeer hoti hain or uspe agree karna compulsory rule hain. I doubt pakhi or sai jump of d cliff of virat ask them , ulta ussi ko phek de.

Virat said in general terms not coz of pakhi in college valentine's day .

Forget virat , sai ko nhi pata hain pakhi ki kya feelings hai virat ke liye & virat giving her rose will increase it infact usse bahut clearly pata hai. She is blaming virat for dosti.

To isse encouragement nhi kehte hain. Sai ki jealousy taunts ke tareeke se nikalti hain.

Thank go virat saved himself from new drama that day by gifting everyone varna bhagwan hi usse bacha sakte hain taunting session se.

Aapko sach mein lagta hain sai trip pe nhi jana chahti thi , even off screen segment actors minusing Neil ash that sai was jealous & sad that Virat dint asked her , even Ayesha was standing there .

If sai is against anything u can't make her agree , ya Virat already knew she is just making excuses .

Sai started pointing out things coz virat proved her wrong that he is biased which she accused him ,she is seeing from past two days virat speaking on who is wrong .

On top of it virat came to apologise her.

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Main ne pehle bhi bola hai she never blamed virat for his 'dosti' towards pakhi. In fact sai said this 100 times ki 'virat sir mera kuch nay lagte, woh kiske saat kaha jaate hai usse muje koui farak nay padta' and also she told it to his face ki 'agar aap kabhi kosi ladki se flirt karenge tho muje bura nay lagega' during amey's track.

@bold pink

First of all sai doesn't feel that she has a right to question virat about his relationship with anyone. As virat calls her zimmedaari. And also she thinks that virat likes pakhi after seeing his 'over friendliness' towards pakhi.

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Sai doesn't give taane cuz she is jealous or anything. Cuz she herself didn't realize her feelings yet. That is was she was indifferent when virat and pakhi was going on the trip 'ALONE'. Taane is her swabaav. She used to do that from GC days. Taunting virat about pakhi. When sai was admitted in hospital when she attempted suicide also she said ' aap jaayiye naagpur aapki best friend pakhi aapki itnta zaar kar rai hoogi' that was taane but that was also the time when she used to hate virat, naagpur aaneke baadh she started liking virat. So she didn't say that out of jealousy. Am trying to say that her taane are her swabaav and als cuz pakhi doesn't behave well with her but she cares so much for virat and virat also does. It's not about jealousy or EMA or blaming. Sai ke tho saare taane sab keliye har baar nishane pe lagti hai it's not specifically virat and pakhi.

Upar waale comment mein i explained why she might have pointed out virat and pakhi's relationship so am not going to mention that again.

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Ji muje bilkul lagta hai ki sai jaana nay chahti. Don't go for those interviews those are always misleading. And neil and aish always gives their pov not virat and pakhi's, i don't think ayesha would jump in and say anything even if aish and neil was wrong about it. They always blame it on sai. so go by the show, where sai looked indifferent in each and every scene and sai even looked for bahanas when virat forced her to come along. Jo virat ne kudh bola, she accepted cuz virat said tum aaogi tho muje accha lage ga and don't worry about pakhi and family and all. That must have felt sweet to sai she said yes.

Jo koyi bhi karta its not about pattar ki lakeer or anything. When someone is asking sweetly saying muje accha lagega tum aaogi tho, baki sab main dekh loonga and also then we say yes. Main hoti tho main bhi yes bolti.

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

The things Virat has done for her

If he mentions Maine ye sab kiya aur pyar mein kiya

Kiye karaye ki value kam ho jaayegi

Sai needs.to do another course keval 1.47 hours mein jaaniye Virat sir ke Mann ki baat

But I don't think he needs to list out what all he has done for her...

Usse bas apne mann ki feelings bolne ke zaroorat hai..

Because Sai or anybody for that matter cannot read his mind..

1.47 hours ka telepathy ka koi course hai toh batao Sai ko enroll karwa dete hain

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

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Main ne pehle bhi bola hai she never blamed virat for his 'dosti' towards pakhi. In fact sai said this 100 times ki 'virat sir mera kuch nay lagte, woh kiske saat kaha jaate hai usse muje koui farak nay padta' and also she told it to his face ki 'agar aap kabhi kosi ladki se flirt karenge tho muje bura nay lagega' during amey's track.

@bold pink

First of all sai doesn't feel that she has a right to question virat about his relationship with anyone. As virat calls her zimmedaari. And also she thinks that virat likes pakhi after seeing his 'over friendliness' towards pakhi.

If she think she dont have right then stop guiding virat what should he give Pakhi on valentine's day. Usko koi haq nhi banta virat ko bolne ka pakhi ko rose dene ka.

@bold blue

Sai doesn't give taane cuz she is jealous or anything. Cuz she herself didn't realize her feelings yet. That is was she was indifferent when virat and pakhi was going on the trip 'ALONE'. Taane is her swabaav. She used to do that from GC days. Taunting virat about pakhi. When sai was admitted in hospital when she attempted suicide also she said ' aap jaayiye naagpur aapki best friend pakhi aapki itnta zaar kar rai hoogi' that was taane but that was also the time when she used to hate virat, naagpur aaneke baadh she started liking virat. So she didn't say that out of jealousy. Am trying to say that her taane are her swabaav and als cuz pakhi doesn't behave well with her but she cares so much for virat and virat also does. It's not about jealousy or EMA or blaming. Sai ke tho saare taane sab keliye har baar nishane pe lagti hai it's not specifically virat and pakhi.

Ji nhi taane strictly virat ke liye reserved hain, ye kismat sabki kaha. She don't taunt Usha tai , ashwami , devyani or even KJ. Not taunts r not her swabhaav.

Upar waale comment mein i explained why she might have pointed out virat and pakhi's relationship so am not going to mention that again.

@bold green

Ji muje bilkul lagta hai ki sai jaana nay chahti. Don't go for those interviews those are always misleading. And neil and aish always gives their pov not virat and pakhi's, i don't think ayesha would jump in and say anything even if aish and neil was wrong about it. They always blame it on sai. so go by the show, where sai looked indifferent in each and every scene and sai even looked for bahanas when virat forced her to come along. Jo virat ne kudh bola, she accepted cuz virat said tum aaogi tho muje accha lage ga and don't worry about pakhi and family and all. That must have felt sweet to sai she said yes.

Jo koyi bhi karta its not about pattar ki lakeer or anything. When someone is asking sweetly saying muje accha lagega tum aaogi tho, baki sab main dekh loonga and also then we say yes. Main hoti tho main bhi yes bolti.

Do u really think sai is not possessive of virat , she is very possessive for him & enjoys his undivided attention .

She was way pissed off when she saw virat putting Ice to pakhi & she taunted virat of d same during aniket track ..

Are u sure sai will able to tolerate if virat will go for ema or start flirting with other girls.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Do u really think sai is not possessive of virat , she is very possessive for him & enjoys his undivided attention .

She was way pissed off when she saw virat putting Ice to pakhi & she taunted virat of d same during aniket track ..

Are u sure sai will able to tolerate if virat will go for ema or start flirting with other girls.

As of now yes i do think she will tolerate it. As she is a practical girl who doesn't get carried away by the situations and emotions. Am saying this because there were many times when virat said or did something sweet she didn't get carried away she asked him questions like 'aapko ithni kishi q huyi when dsp sir praised me main aapki lagti hi kya hoon?' And that rose day/valentines day waala question and many more.

As she thinks that this relationship has no future she feels that jab ek din alag hona hi hai tho kaun kiskeliye kya feel karta hai kya farak padta hai. Am saying this cuz she keept on reminding herself and virat that its a deal waali shaadi.

Sai do have feelings for virat but as i said she is a practical girl she won't advance her actions as in blaming for EMA or haq jataana on virat unless virat gives her a break from 'zimmedaari' word and start saying u are more than a zimmedaari to me and something like that.

Here sai is clear about what she wants and her future. But virat isn't. He is not communicating things clearly with sai. He should tell her to forget about that 'deal' for her to really blame virat for EMA as a wife. Until then virat cant expect things from her as usse koyi sapna nay aayega.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

As of now yes i do think she will tolerate it. As she is a practical girl who doesn't get carried away by the situations and emotions. Am saying this because there were many times when virat said or did something sweet she didn't get carried away she asked him questions like 'aapko ithni kishi q huyi when dsp sir praised me main aapki lagti hi kya hoon?' And that rose day/valentines day waala question and many more.

As she thinks that this relationship has no future she feels that jab ek din alag hona hi hai tho kaun kiskeliye kya feel karta hai kya farak padta hai. Am saying this cuz she keept on reminding herself and virat that its a deal waali shaadi.

Sai do have feelings for virat but as i said she is a practical girl she won't advance her actions as in blaming for EMA or haq jataana on virat unless virat gives her a break from 'zimmedaari' word and start saying u are more than a zimmedaari to me and something like that.

Here sai is clear about what she wants and her future. But virat isn't. He is not communicating things clearly with sai. He should tell her to forget about that 'deal' for her to really blame virat for EMA as a wife. Until then virat cant expect things from her as usse koyi sapna nay aayega.

Aap jo bol rahe agar sai bilkul vaise hoti na to jo questions vo ab kar rahi hain vo bahut pehle hi kar chuki hoti or na hi virat ko pakhi ko rose dene ko kehti coz koi bhi practical person aisa nhi karega .

Ye sab bahut samay se chal raha hain koi naya shuru nhi hua jo usse ab yaad aaya bolne ka.

Originally posted by: Sakmen

But I don't think he needs to list out what all he has done for her...

Usse bas apne mann ki feelings bolne ke zaroorat hai..

Because Sai or anybody for that matter cannot read his mind..

1.47 hours ka telepathy ka koi course hai toh batao Sai ko enroll karwa dete hain

Then one more thing dil na added to that list

Virat paying fees for the course.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Aap jo bol rahe agar sai bilkul vaise hoti na to jo questions vo ab kar rahi hain vo bahut pehle hi kar chuki hoti or na hi virat ko pakhi ko rose dene ko kehti coz koi bhi practical person aisa nhi karega .

Ye sab bahut samay se chal raha hain koi naya shuru nhi hua jo usse ab yaad aaya bolne ka.

u are stuck at that rose dene waali baath when sai, virat and pakhi teeno were 5n with it and no one had any issues with that. and none made any scene out of it. 😆

i already explained why she might have said virat to do so in previous posts.

and about why she spoke to virat about pakhi and his realtion also she did not ask any question, she said she knows about his and pakhi's pyaar waala rishta.

when virat refused to accept what sai said about setting him as a prey to fulfil pakhi's wishes virat got angry so she said main jaanti hoon pakhi didi and aap dost se kayi badkar hai bas dosti ke aad mein chupte hai.

she is stating 'facts' there. she is neither blaming anyone or questioning. she is saying that she already knows it.

The story is so stagnant. I mean 100 episodes ho gaye still there's no progress between the leads. Feel toh dur ki baat, willingly hug bhi nahi huwa.