Patience guys - Page 2

Originally posted by: neeraja91

But Sai is not assuming. This history of a "relationship" and "love" has been there between PP and Virat. After Virat's pyaar-dosti slip up Sai will always bring up this fact until Virat clarifies in spasht shabd to both women about where he stands. Sai is making these statements - virat prefers to be served by you, or you should be happy I am giving you a chance to serve dinner etc to see Virats reaction. But he just stayed quiet and instead of asking pp to leave them alone he turns around and says "ab tum pp se iss tone mein kyun baat kar rahi ho"

In Amey's matter, Virat could have been more clear about why hes upset. Sai didn't understand that he was feeling protective. In any case Virat could not have arrested him until next day given that he was arguing with Sai all night after finding out about Amey and eventually Sai did not cancel her plan and subah subah usko ghar bulaya toh it wasn't really that Virat "respected her wishes" . Agar karta toh atleast he would have asked her what her plan was. He also understood what she was trying to do as he heard it on speaker. He finally figured out that all the sweet talking was to mislead Amey into believing that Sai had money. After Amey's "khulasa" I wish he had said something to indicate to Sai and to the family that he is proud of Sai's stance even if he didn't agree with her methods fully.

Virat has responsibilities towards Samrat but it didn't require an unecessarily long PP-Virat scene to be shown where he is looking guilty and upset about not "being there for PP" to chat with her, to help her. He is saying " tumne mujhe call kyun nahin kiya" which Pp can miscontrue as "i can call Virat everytime i need a favor just like his wife can". That whole scene was not required. Pehli baar CVs ne "creativity" aur "originality" ke naam pe yeh diya humein! 🙄

Yes that whole scene was not required at all. It wasn't the correct time to apologize to PP even if wanted to for not helping her with samrat thing. And he said "call kyu ni kia" now that woman has another unwanted license to do whatever she feels like!

Originally posted by: neeraja91

But Sai is not assuming. This history of a "relationship" and "love" has been there between PP and Virat. After Virat's pyaar-dosti slip up Sai will always bring up this fact until Virat clarifies in spasht shabd to both women about where he stands. Sai is making these statements - virat prefers to be served by you, or you should be happy I am giving you a chance to serve dinner etc to see Virats reaction. But he just stayed quiet and instead of asking pp to leave them alone he turns around and says "ab tum pp se iss tone mein kyun baat kar rahi ho"

In Amey's matter, Virat could have been more clear about why hes upset. Sai didn't understand that he was feeling protective. In any case Virat could not have arrested him until next day given that he was arguing with Sai all night after finding out about Amey and eventually Sai did not cancel her plan and subah subah usko ghar bulaya toh it wasn't really that Virat "respected her wishes" . Agar karta toh atleast he would have asked her what her plan was. He also understood what she was trying to do as he heard it on speaker. He finally figured out that all the sweet talking was to mislead Amey into believing that Sai had money. After Amey's "khulasa" I wish he had said something to indicate to Sai and to the family that he is proud of Sai's stance even if he didn't agree with her methods fully.

Virat has responsibilities towards Samrat but it didn't require an unecessarily long PP-Virat scene to be shown where he is looking guilty and upset about not "being there for PP" to chat with her, to help her. He is saying " tumne mujhe call kyun nahin kiya" which Pp can miscontrue as "i can call Virat everytime i need a favor just like his wife can". That whole scene was not required. Pehli baar CVs ne "creativity" aur "originality" ke naam pe yeh diya humein! 🙄

i agree,

virat should clear things up, i mean he knows that jab tak saaf saaf bolega nay tho sai ko samaj aayega nay. sai ko chodo, sarpika the maturity queen ko bhi samaj nay aaraha. he should clearly tell both woman what he wants. i know as of now he didn't realize his love for sai, but he can at least tell pakhi to not interfere in her and sai's matters. woh dono pati patni hai for god sake he needs to stop pakhi from talking ill about sai.

in that scene when pakhi was talking ill about sai saying woh ayisi hai woh waisi hai, i got angrier on virat ki woh yeh sab chup chap khade hoke sun raha hai, he is not even stopping her from insulting his wife like that. i know us waqt dono mein jagda hua but woh unki aapas ki baat hai. why let pakhi interfere in all this. he should have politely asked her leave saying thanks for her care and the food she brought.

when he can stop shivani from interfering in their matter saying 'yeh sai aur mere beech ki baath hai' then why cant he do the same with pakhi? even shivani was going through a bad phase in her life so when he can talk to shivani like that then why not pakhi? unless he still has some soft corner for her..🤪

i know he is not interested in pakhi anymore but all the importance and sweet talks he gives her, these are giving her wings to fly to his room at any time of the day and poke her nose in their matters and aage jaake yehi sab baatein encourages her to cross her limits. real life mein couple fights ke beech mein agar unke kudh ke bacche or parents bhi bolne ki koshish karne na tho unhe bhi chup kardiya jaata hai, yeha best friend ko virat ithna importance deke sarr pe chada raha hai.. he should first sit down and think ki woh chahta kya hai.. apni bhabi se nazdeekiya or apni biwi ka pyaar.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

i agree,

virat should clear things up, i mean he knows that jab tak saaf saaf bolega nay tho sai ko samaj aayega nay. sai ko chodo, sarpika the maturity queen ko bhi samaj nay aaraha. he should clearly tell both woman what he wants. i know as of now he didn't realize his love for sai, but he can at least tell pakhi to not interfere in her and sai's matters. woh dono pati patni hai for god sake he needs to stop pakhi from talking ill about sai.

in that scene when pakhi was talking ill about sai saying woh ayisi hai woh waisi hai, i got angrier on virat ki woh yeh sach chup chap khade hoke sun raha hai, he is not even stopping her from insulting his wife like that. i know us waqt dono mein jagda hua but woh unki aapas ki baat hai. why let pakhi interfere in all this. he should have politely asked her leave saying thanks for her care and the food she brought.

when he can stop shivani from interfering in their matter saying 'yeh sai aur mere beech ki baath hai' then why cant he do the same with pakhi? even shivani was going through a bad phase in her like so when he can talk to shivani like that then why not pakhi? unless he still has some soft corner for her..🤪

i know he is not interested in pakhi anymore but all the importance and sweet talks he gives her, these are giving her wings to fly to his room at any time of the day and poke her nose in their matters and aage jaake yehi sab baatein encourages her to cross her limits. real like mein couple fights ke beech mein agar unke kudh ke bacche or parents bhi bolne ki koshish karne na tho unhe bhi chup kardiya jaata hai, yeha best friend ko virat ithna importance deke sarr pe chada raha hai.. he should first sit down and think ki woh chahta kya hai.. apni bhabi se nazdeekiya or apni biwi ka pyaar.

Originally posted by: yyyy

His concern about samrat is understandable, but I still feel it was not the right time to say all that.. I mean he just had a fight with sai and was going through his own turmoil. after he refused PP for food, she was just about to leave when he started this sorry chapter, which was completely not required at that time.. and it's easy to be misconstrued. Even I didn't understand what was he wanting at that time? Agar jaa rahi thi toh jaane deta... ye samrat vali baat to baad me bhi ho sakti thi

Agreed sai's plan was not needed at all. It was pretty stupid. She should have discussed it. But she is crazy and impulsive. And her only reason was to show the family how Shivani fell prey to this guy and it wasn't her fault. She is idealistic and had a point to prove to the family! But after figuring out shes making some potentially risky plan Virat didnt ask her what she was thinking. Infact its good they met at home. If they met elsewhere and Amey was more dangerous, he could have kidnapped her. Infact in that scene , what would they have done if Amey had suspected something amiss and drove off with Sai. So if Sai was being crazy and stupid, Virat as a police officer and husband should have atleast asked her what her plan was. He told her to call it off but when she refused stubbornly atleast then he should have asked shivani what the plan was. Virat was as clueless about Sai's plan as the family the next day. And as he was yelling at her, it'd been nice if he actually said something more to convey his worry about her safety more explicitly. Like "agar voh Amey ne kuch kardiya toh..., tumhaari safety meri zimmedari hai Sai". But all he said was "kisi bhi aadmi se aise baat karo, mujhe pasand nahi" CVs should pay attention to these little things. His anger at Sai was not unwarranted but he was not clear about his reason. It seemed more about talking back to elders than her safety that angered him.

And i think techincally Virat can't arrest someone in the middle of the night without an investigation or official complaint unless maybe its for murder/rape or he picked up someone directly from the crime scene! So if Sai didn't make plans also Virat could have only arrested amey the next day.

All i wanted Virat to do in that PP scene was politely ask her to leave just like he did with shivani. Especially after she gave that speech about feeling bad, asking Virat what he got out of marrying Sai etc etc. He should have thanked her for her concern, Thanked her for bringing food, apologized for disturbing everyone because they heard this husband wife argument and asked her to leave! Sai only spoke to PP because Virat said nothing in response to PPs uncalled for interference.

Prolonging a conversation with PP, giving her all this "concern" and looking guilty and apologizing to her for not being able to spend anytime with her is definitely mixed signals to both women. His intention may have been only to help with Samrats issue but its not hidden from him that PP still harbors feelings for him. She is his sister in law. He needs to define some clear boundaries. She is not his wife. And he knows Sai is aware of the reality behind this "friendship". She keeps bringing it up because it obviously bothers her to have her husband and his ex lover in the same house. She keeps bringing it up to gauge Virats reaction and so far she is not seeing him define any boundaries with his ex lover and current SIL. When she confronted him in the past, he turned around and said- why do you care, this shaadi is a deal. You shouldn't care who i speak to. And so she's now caught on to that. She is fighting her feelings and she also has self respect. She cant say "you're my husband and so i dont like your closeness with your ex lover in front of my eyes".

Originally posted by: yyyy

Agree, he needs to ask her not to interfere in his personal problems . He has already shut Pakhi in front of everyone when she was badmouthing Sai for supporting Shivani .

And thats exactly what he should have done again. He could have been super polite but asked her to leave this be because it was s personal matter. Spouses fighting in their bedroom. She had no business being there.

Originally posted by: neeraja91

Agreed sai's plan was not needed at all. It was pretty stupid. She should have discussed it. But she is crazy and impulsive. And her only reason was to show the family how Shivani fell prey to this guy and it wasn't her fault. She is idealistic and had a point to prove to the family! But after figuring out shes making some potentially risky plan Virat didnt ask her what she was thinking. Infact its good they met at home. If they met elsewhere and Amey was more dangerous, he could have kidnapped her. Infact in that scene , what would they have done if Amey had suspected something amiss and drove off with Sai. So if Sai was being crazy and stupid, Virat as a police officer and husband should have atleast asked her what her plan was. He told her to call it off but when she refused stubbornly atleast then he should have asked shivani what the plan was. Virat was as clueless about Sai's plan as the family the next day. And as he was yelling at her, it'd been nice if he actually said something more to convey his worry about her safety more explicitly. Like "agar voh Amey ne kuch kardiya toh..., tumhaari safety meri zimmedari hai Sai". But all he said was "kisi bhi aadmi se aise baat karo, mujhe pasand nahi" CVs should pay attention to these little things. His anger at Sai was not unwarranted but he was not clear about his reason. It seemed more about talking back to elders than her safety that angered him.

And i think techincally Virat can't arrest someone in the middle of the night without an investigation or official complaint unless maybe its for murder/rape or he picked up someone directly from the crime scene! So if Sai didn't make plans also Virat could have only arrested amey the next day.

All i wanted Virat to do in that PP scene was politely ask her to leave just like he did with shivani. Especially after she gave that speech about feeling bad, asking Virat what he got out of marrying Sai etc etc. He should have thanked her for her concern, Thanked her for bringing food, apologized for disturbing everyone because they heard this husband wife argument and asked her to leave! Sai only spoke to PP because Virat said nothing in response to PPs uncalled for interference.

Prolonging a conversation with PP, giving her all this "concern" and looking guilty and apologizing to her for not being able to spend anytime with her is definitely mixed signals to both women. His intention may have been only to help with Samrats issue but its not hidden from him that PP still harbors feelings for him. She is his sister in law. He needs to define some clear boundaries. She is not his wife. And he knows Sai is aware of the reality behind this "friendship". She keeps bringing it up because it obviously bothers her to have her husband and his ex lover in the same house. She keeps bringing it up to gauge Virats reaction and so far she is not seeing him define any boundaries with his ex lover and current SIL. When she confronted him in the past, he turned around and said- why do you care, this shaadi is a deal. You shouldn't care who i speak to. And so she's now caught on to that. She is fighting her feelings and she also has self respect. She cant say "you're my husband and so i dont like your closeness with your ex lover in front of my eyes".

Agreed! Exactly what I wanted to say!

He's giving mixed signals to the ladies as well as the audience. If he doesn't have any feelings left for PP and just sees her as a SIL then he needs to make it clear to her..

And Sai is absolutely correct in doing what she did by walking out.

And in tomorrow's episode he better have a good answer to what Despokhi said at tge end of yesterday's episode, otherwise my chappals are ready.. and Virat will have difficult time redeeming himself in front of me if he stays quiet and doesn't have a befitting response..

matlab woh aurat kuch bhi bole ja rahi hai, pehle kaise the ab kya se kya ho gye nonsense. Koi usse batao mathematically Sai has spent more time with him.. and probably knows more shades of his personality than SARVGYANI MALLIKA E MATUREGARH.

Originally posted by: Sakmen

His concern about samrat is understandable, but I still feel it was not the right time to say all that.. I mean he just had a fight with sai and was going through his own turmoil. after he refused PP for food, she was just about to leave when he started this sorry chapter, which was completely not required at that time.. and it's easy to be misconstrued. Even I didn't understand what was he wanting at that time? Agar jaa rahi thi toh jaane deta... ye samrat vali baat to baad me bhi ho sakti thi

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Agreed! Exactly what I wanted to say!

He's giving mixed signals to the ladies as well as the audience. If he doesn't have any feelings left for PP and just sees her as a SIL then he needs to make it clear to her..

And Sai is absolutely correct in doing what she did by walking out.

And in tomorrow's episode he better have a good answer to what Despokhi said at tge end of yesterday's episode, otherwise my chappals are ready.. and Virat will have difficult time redeeming himself in front of me if he stays quiet and doesn't have a befitting response..

matlab woh aurat kuch bhi bole ja rahi hai, pehle kaise the ab kya se kya ho gye nonsense. Koi usse batao mathematically Sai has spent more time with him.. and probably knows more shades of his personality than SARVGYANI MALLIKA E MATUREGARH.

He should have stopped Pakhi in the same stern manner as he had done for Shivani..Shivani is much elder to him....

There were no mixed signals according to me...He kept quite when Pakhi kept on talking nonsense about Sai...But as soon as Sai said, he interfered and asked her to note her tone...What signal is this???

No one knows what he is thinking...but the signals are clear that Sai, U have to mind your tone!!!

There is a HUGE lag between his sochni and karni....Aise kaam kaise chalega Mr. IPS, !!! 😂 😂 😂

Originally posted by: yyyy

Hii I always like to read your pov regarding character because you always balance out from both characters. Try to understand both characters and don't try to put down one character to show other character better 👏

This is not always about who is right or wrong or black and white but realistic things.

Just one person right doesn't make other person wrong it is just about perspective

Even on Twitter few id's who always give mast description about character without being biased and understand both the character

I really love to read this kind of pov.