Did Virat save or ruin Sai's life? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Sairat

I agree with you on several points , but the question was" has Virat ruined Sai's life by marrying her?"

I am not blaming him for marrying Sai, but unconsciously when he supports his Kaku and Baba, knowing there vengeful nature, when he does not clears his situation with Pakhi(Sarplekha) either he is with her or he has left her due to lack of this clarification Sarplekha is so vengeful against her , if not Virat what is the reason Sarplekha is after Sai? When he is failing to do so, the ultimate result is Sai's disrespect and torture.

Yesterday toh when he was harping about Ehsaan, if I was in Sai's place : I would have told him, if her father would not have died saving him, none of the ehsaans were required, so ultimately the biggest ehsaan was from Sai's side; which she did not mention(point to be noted), instead she thanked him for sar pe chat and badon ka aashirwaad.

Coming to finances, we are talking about Indian Parents, they start saving for our education before we are even born. Now, if Kamal ji knew her daughter wants to be a doctor since childhood,I am sure he was not planning his early retirement since that time, as mentioned in show; So he would have prepared accordingly finance wises, that even without his VRS money/scholarship she would be able to complete education.So monetary wise, Sai should be independent; it's a whole different deal ITV is not showing that clearly.

But in any situation, with the current track going Sai's life is getting ruined.

Virat has saved sai' s life by marrying her.

Virat nahi hota toh vitthal ya jagtap use harm kar sakte the, virat sirf financial help karta to unke rishte par sawal uth sakte the jisse sai ka hi character assassination hota samaj mein. Sai clearly depressed thi us waqt agar us waqt virat chala jata chhod kar to khud sai hi dobara suicide attempt kar sakti thi. Remember when she woke up in hospital usne puchha bhi tha ki virat sir kyu nahi aaye use dekhne hospital..she needed mental and emotional support that time jo virat ne diya

Finances ke bare mei. To cvs ne kuch clearly bataya hi nahi hai shuru se but i will repeat my point ki bhale hi crores bhi sai ko mil jaye aaba aur scholarship se lekin waqt par na mil paye to kya kaam ke...kaise bharti college ki fees admission ke time.

Ehsaan wala dialogue bilkul sahi nahi tha...virat ko nahi kehna chahiye th...infact i was hoping ab sai bolegi mere aaba ne aapki jaan bachayi and all that but agar sochne jaye to its a never ending cycle virat bhi bol sakta tha phir jawab mein ki agar kamal sir mere orders follow karte to ye sab hota hi nahi.

Well...some people will support sai some will support virat..so this is not going to end....let it be.

End mein i would like to quote neil bhatt. He said in interview that three lead characters are all flawed. They are not perfect

So they will behave in certain way which may seem wrong to others but they are right at their own place.

And for any argument between couple one person cant be blamed....same goes for life. Both are adults both decided to get married knowing their situation so virat cant be blamed of ruining sai's life.

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Virat is having too much expectation from Sai. She is merely 18 years and here he is setting a boundary to accept being submissive towards Chawan gang abuses & torture. Just not Sai, he's even doing harm to Patraleka, by giving a daily fodder of his interest in their two days yoga love. Ml has more darker shades of grey & immaturity whereas on every event he keeps pouncing on keeps Sai being immature. He's into wrong profession would have been brilliant in his IQ but zero in EQ

Ruin

I don't understand ITV concept of marrying someone to help them

Sai is so young - he could've been her guardian/friend and helped her instead of this.

Ruin the way he is shouting on her the way his family is torturing that poor girl ruined her life 😭

He could have kept her in hostel 😡

His closeness to Pakhi, having her trying to feed him food with her hands, him defending pakhi over his wife ...Virat is in an emotional extramarital affair with Pakhi

EMA are usually sexual in nature but not always

He is emotionally cheating on Sai with Pakhi

Definition of emotional infidelity

Basically, emotional affairs occur when one partner is channeling physical or emotional energy, time and attention into someone other than the person they are in a committed relationship with to the point that their partner feels neglected

I don't see any of these happening with Virat and Pakhi then how is it emotional infidelity? Virat attention has always been on Sai and he is hurt because he doesn't feel appreciated and his wife doesn't spend time with him.

Pakhi tried feeding him but did he eat? Pakhi tried to have an EMA with him did he give in? They are staying in the same house so there will be incidents where they will have to interact and that cannot be called an affair.

I wouldn’t use such a harsh word called “ ruin”. He did what he thought was best at that point of time. It had its advantage and disadvantages.

in a fit of anger and confusion, he did use harsh and unwanted words. I am not excusing him but he is just human. In real life , do you think we have all smooth sailing life.

ITV drama exaggerates a lot and also Virat just probably wants to Sai to ignore the taunts and move on with her studies but he doesn’t understand the gravity of the situation as he is conditioned differently.

i wouldn’t say he saved her life too. She would have found a way to live her life but I believe he gave her a sense of belonging and companionship during a hard time.

Just my thoughts. This can’t be put into a definite section ruin or save.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

I wouldn’t use such a harsh word called “ ruin”. He did what he thought was best at that point of time. It had its advantage and disadvantages.

in a fit of anger and confusion, he did use harsh and unwanted words. I am not excusing him but he is just human. In real life , do you think we have all smooth sailing life.

ITV drama exaggerates a lot and also Virat just probably wants to Sai to ignore the taunts and move on with her studies but he doesn’t understand the gravity of the situation as he is conditioned differently.

i wouldn’t say he saved her life too. She would have found a way to live her life but I believe he gave her a sense of belonging and companionship during a hard time.

Just my thoughts. This can’t be put into a definite section ruin or save.

even Sai said in one of the r episodes. If not for Virat she was not in the right mind space to pursue medical studies and would have just tried to do something else. So in some ways it helped her

I voted for ruin because other options were not at all matched as per my pov..but he didn't ruin her life but made it difficult . He brought to her into a house full of toxic crual mentality people where she has to struggle whole time to survive. She is passing through a lots of stress which is extremely bad for her age girl who might lose her confidence even if this continues. Virat helps her but the support she should get from him ,she isn't getting much.