Don't u think Sai is actually very adamant? Reality check? - Page 8

Originally posted by: lonelyyyy

You know guys I think here pakhi is wrong

Because of pakhi ka itna meetha aur banawati behavior k karan sai ko dikkat ho rhi h

Kaku jo itna bolti h sai ko wo sb pakhi k karan h

Pakhi is so cunning that no one is able to understand her moves against sai

Wo meetha bol bol kr kaku aur sb ko provoke krti against sai

No need of her to repeatedly remind sai that sshe is from big house and her so called sanska.

actually, kaku and gang's behavior and everything was the same even before pakhi entered the chavan niwas.

they need to mend their ways before expecting people to respect them.

woh umar ke bhade hai but harkatein aur soch se kaafi chote hai.

kaku apni beti tak ko respect nat deti hai bahu ko kya degi?

if anyone can teach her and her gang a lesson then that it sai joshi.

cuz baaki loge umar ke lihaaz karke kuch kehte nay hai even though they know that kaku and gang are wrong.

sai sach bolne ki himmat rakhti hai, she just needs to stop shouting and use her atrangi ways to handle situations. cuz oonchi aawaaz uske pati parmeshwar ko pasand nay hai

Originally posted by: kashishrocks

I guess its going to an other level. Today, Sai admitted herself that when they talk they only argue so its better not to talk. I was just giving an example of them as a couple. Sometimes even men are like that but here thats not the case. Also, one major point says that if the inlaws are expecting her to do some work of house, she should do bcoz even she is living in that house and eating. When all others are working its normal that the jealousy will rise if one is not doing any work. Viraat already told him that she can work how much she can, not more than that

Are you even listening to yourself, if I eat food and water, i should work as well.She is working , but she is studying as well, she cannot be a full time Dil and no one told her she has to be.

And from where you are bringing this weird rules, then if she has to do that only, she should live at hostel or seperate flat as in that case she can focus on her studies as well , as she needs to do a basic work for herself.

Secondly, usha mausi does her side of work, i remember the episode, where she told usha mausi abt aaba pension.

Third, Because Virat married her he expects to do things for him based on yesterdays episode.Why? She did not begged him to marry her also, her father never asked to marry her, he asked him to take care of her.I dont think he is taking care of her by marrying her, she would have been thousand times better, without marrying that jerk ( Virat).

Virat is a whole new level of nut case, I am not sure how he passed the interviews for IPS.He sees his mother, getting abused and instead of rectifying the situation , he pacifies the situation.He sees his wife getting tortured, he speaks in a meek voice about why Sai is right and then shouts on her, asks her to apologize without hearing her side of story.I have noticed, "banda humesha chalti train par hi chadta hai" , he does not even care to listen to the things which happened before he came into the picture.In every damn interview, they talk about him being patient: every damn moment his neck is on line he gives utpatang vaadas or shouts.

To be very honest the four lives are in pickle because of his stupid vaadas right now.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

actually, kaku and gang's behavior and everything was the same even before pakhi entered the chavan niwas.

Yeah pakhi is not at fault for the way kaku and gang all behave with sai. They were doing all this to sai before pakhi became totally against sai just because pakhi ko garmi laggi that sai is calling pakhi out for constantly barging into virat-sai room and into their conversations without knocking and at odd times at night.

Plus bhavani is only using pakhi because she wants to ensure samrat's money stays in chavan house and so that pakhi can keep stirring things up between sai-virat. Kaku has been treating ashwini for years the way sai is being treated only now. So in actual it is kaku who has made pakhi into this full throttled vamp in a way.

Originally posted by: sammy17

It's actually funny thought that the family are claiming sai does no work...... lol it's still fresh in my mind when sai with so much love made them all a big breakfast, and not only did ninad make a face and refuse to eat the food she made, kaku decided to praise pakhi's bread and butter just to put sai down 🤣🤣🤣 Matlab kuch bhi.

Patralekha ki haathon se zeher bhi khaa lenge khushi khushi😆

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

I don't appreciate Sai's behaviour with virat

Yes u r right real world people will not tolerate sai's attitude if she will behave impulsively as she has to learn to control her anger .

Virat is only wrong at one place where he doesn't see the fight instigators and advises Sai to be polite to them. However, Sai's behavior with Virat is becoming more rude by the day. He tries hard to side with her, he does, we can't deny that! But we don't see Sai trying to come to even little agreement. When he asked if she would go to river with him, she could have plainly said "no", but what she said and the way she said was rude "aap ne ye kaise soch liya ki main aap ke sath bahar jaungi" ; he retaliated multiple times saying "tum ho kaun, tum apne aap ko samajati kya ho" in later fights. When Virat went to get Candy floss and baloons for Sai without informing her, she created havoc in the house thinking he neglected her even after promising her. Then how does she expect Virat's already crazy family to be calm when she doesn't explain where and why she is going without explaing? Even though his family is mean to her its not always easy for people to accept their own family's faults, however, Sai keeps praising her Abba and very informal with Virat's baba (we know Ninad is a jerk, but he is Virat's father), so such things won't work. Just for Virat's sake she will have to meet him somewhere in the middle even if it means she will have to skip battles like the one she fought for Shivani. She could retaliate upon her insults, but could have let law deal with Amay. Also, expecting Virat to be polite to constant impoliteness of her is not practical. No one, I mean no one could do this. He is "quiet" in nature, but not dead to not react to such rudeness towards him all the time.

Forget their relation as a husband and a wife, but they share a room, do we accept such things from our roommates? When he said "you shouldn't talk to Amay or any other man like that because I don't like it", she could have retaliated with "Virat sir I am acting, not actually fullfilling my friendship, in fact I don't even have such friendships, if you know what I mean"! Such relatable reactions and dialogues would make the show more interesting without brainless and headache inducing drama.

Certain thing of ITV dramas you can't logic with, like

Damsel in distress always needing help of ML, suddenly becomes the savior in every incident that happens.

She becomes, lawyer when required, performers surgeries despite not being a doctor, fight with the biggest mafias all alone, puts Karamchand and CID to shame when she decides to crime patrol.

Some how she cooks the best, she is the prettiest and the most wanted girl in town because multiple males are after her.

She can come back from death, well that happens to male leads too.

Many more, but one thing for sure, if you want to watch an ITV show you have to put your brains in retainers and then watch till you can bare it! 🤣

Originally posted by: methebest

Virat is only wrong at one place where he doesn't see the fight instigators and advises Sai to be polite to them. However, Sai's behavior with Virat is becoming more rude by the day. He tries hard to side with her, he does, we can't deny that! But we don't see Sai trying to come to even little agreement. When he asked if she would go to river with him, she could have plainly said "no", but what she said and the way she said was rude "aap ne ye kaise soch liya ki main aap ke sath bahar jaungi" ; he retaliated multiple times saying "tum ho kaun, tum apne aap ko samajati kya ho" in later fights. When Virat went to get Candy floss and baloons for Sai without informing her, she created havoc in the house thinking he neglected her even after promising her. Then how does she expect Virat's already crazy family to be calm when she doesn't explain where and why she is going without explaing? Even though his family is mean to her its not always easy for people to accept their own family's faults, however, Sai keeps praising her Abba and very informal with Virat's baba (we know Ninad is a jerk, but he is Virat's father), so such things won't work. Just for Virat's sake she will have to meet him somewhere in the middle even if it means she will have to skip battles like the one she fought for Shivani. She could retaliate upon her insults, but could have let law deal with Amay. Also, expecting Virat to be polite to constant impoliteness of her is not practical. No one, I mean no one could do this. He is "quiet" in nature, but not dead to not react to such rudeness towards him all the time.

Forget their relation as a husband and a wife, but they share a room, do we accept such things from our roommates? When he said "you shouldn't talk to Amay or any other man like that because I don't like it", she could have retaliated with "Virat sir I am acting, not actually fullfilling my friendship, in fact I don't even have such friendships, if you know what I mean"! Such relatable reactions and dialogues would make the show more interesting without brainless and headache inducing drama.

Certain thing of ITV dramas you can't logic with, like

Damsel in distress always needing help of ML, suddenly becomes the savior in every incident that happens.

She becomes, lawyer when required, performers surgeries despite not being a doctor, fight with the biggest mafias all alone, puts Karamchand and CID to shame when she decides to crime patrol.

Some how she cooks the best, she is the prettiest and the most wanted girl in town because multiple males are after her.

She can come back from death, well that happens to male leads too.

Many more, but one thing for sure, if you want to watch an ITV show you have to put your brains in retainers and then watch till you can bare it! 🤣

Finally someone actually pointed her extreme foolishness. Actually she is behaving as if she is the caretaker of Shivani. I mean all others like viraat are just not capable to handle. I mean she is 18 but behaves as if she is the caretaker (in a wrong way) of the whole family by taking decisions on her own. When Viraat spoke something against his mom, she immediately took a stand that he is insulting his mother. And she keeps on disrespecting the whole family and when Viraat says he is wrong. I know the family is no good but it looks like she is in a dangal ever ready to reply each one of them without getting tired.

Originally posted by: Sairat

Are you even listening to yourself, if I eat food and water, i should work as well.She is working , but she is studying as well, she cannot be a full time Dil and no one told her she has to be.

And from where you are bringing this weird rules, then if she has to do that only, she should live at hostel or seperate flat as in that case she can focus on her studies as well , as she needs to do a basic work for herself.

Secondly, usha mausi does her side of work, i remember the episode, where she told usha mausi abt aaba pension.

Third, Because Virat married her he expects to do things for him based on yesterdays episode.Why? She did not begged him to marry her also, her father never asked to marry her, he asked him to take care of her.I dont think he is taking care of her by marrying her, she would have been thousand times better, without marrying that jerk ( Virat).

Virat is a whole new level of nut case, I am not sure how he passed the interviews for IPS.He sees his mother, getting abused and instead of rectifying the situation , he pacifies the situation.He sees his wife getting tortured, he speaks in a meek voice about why Sai is right and then shouts on her, asks her to apologize without hearing her side of story.I have noticed, "banda humesha chalti train par hi chadta hai" , he does not even care to listen to the things which happened before he came into the picture.In every damn interview, they talk about him being patient: every damn moment his neck is on line he gives utpatang vaadas or shouts.

To be very honest the four lives are in pickle because of his stupid vaadas right now.

Yours is a third kind of opinion bcoz u dont even like Viraat. And yes ofcourse, we cannot always get but we have to give something in return. No one will give readymade food to any daughter in law, this only works in parents house. Anyways, i am sure u will not even agree to this. So i wont type a long reply. But, I respect ur opinion.

Originally posted by: kashishrocks

Its not about being a doormat or not. Its also not about being in the good books of everyone, its unnecessarily becoming bad in everyone's eyes. I mean she intend to forget what other people did good with her and starts nagging on them. She clearly knows Viraat has done good for her but if he doesnt agree with her, than she turns her eyes on him also. He tries to make her understand but she doesn't calm at all. Keeps on arguing. Is it correct? Someday if her MIL will scold her more than once, she will go against her also She doesnt have stability at all. How can she just keep on going? when the other person is purely her wellwisher.

Sai is young and immature. She doesn't have the knowledge about the outside world and was pushed into marriage. It would be hard for a girl who has only lived with her father and her mother-like servant to adjust to a joint family, especially when they don't accept her as a DIL but makes her do the household chores. Do you think it's right?

When a girl gets married, it's not only the DIL who has to adjust. Even the family has to adjust. Sai is impulsive and hot-headed, but a person changes with time.

Originally posted by: Sairat

Are you even listening to yourself, if I eat food and water, i should work as well.She is working , but she is studying as well, she cannot be a full time Dil and no one told her she has to be.

And from where you are bringing this weird rules, then if she has to do that only, she should live at hostel or seperate flat as in that case she can focus on her studies as well , as she needs to do a basic work for herself.

Secondly, usha mausi does her side of work, i remember the episode, where she told usha mausi abt aaba pension.

Third, Because Virat married her he expects to do things for him based on yesterdays episode.Why? She did not begged him to marry her also, her father never asked to marry her, he asked him to take care of her.I dont think he is taking care of her by marrying her, she would have been thousand times better, without marrying that jerk ( Virat).

Virat is a whole new level of nut case, I am not sure how he passed the interviews for IPS.He sees his mother, getting abused and instead of rectifying the situation , he pacifies the situation.He sees his wife getting tortured, he speaks in a meek voice about why Sai is right and then shouts on her, asks her to apologize without hearing her side of story.I have noticed, "banda humesha chalti train par hi chadta hai" , he does not even care to listen to the things which happened before he came into the picture.In every damn interview, they talk about him being patient: every damn moment his neck is on line he gives utpatang vaadas or shouts.

To be very honest the four lives are in pickle because of his stupid vaadas right now.

Agar sai ( coward ) act of suicide ( cowardness ) na attempt karti , To be very honest if sai had guts & really had a spine to run away from d marriage which she herself advice virat for , then I m sure aaj ka din aapko dekhne ko nhi milta . Virat to ja chuka tha sai ( coward ) ne suicide attempt kiya tha, tabhi usse vapas aana pada . Abhi bhi sai need a spine to leave virat pata nhi what she is waiting for .

Pakhi ki tareef to shayad aap sun bhi na paye.

As aurat kabhi galat nhi Hoti.🤢

Par sai or pakhi don't have spine & r zabardasti ki bechari to virat to kya bhagwan bhi kuch nhi kar sakta .

It's very clearly written in geeta apni liye har action ka responsible vo insaan khud hota na ki koi aur.

If u point finger towards virat then other fingers will point toward sai & pakhi itself.

Virat is only culprit of samrat not zabardasti ki bechari sai or pakhi.

Originally posted by: kavitha_r

Sai is young and immature. She doesn't have the knowledge about the outside world and was pushed into marriage. It would be hard for a girl who has only lived with her father and her mother-like servant to adjust to a joint family, especially when they don't accept her as a DIL but makes her do the household chores. Do you think it's right?

When a girl gets married, it's not only the DIL who has to adjust. Even the family has to adjust. Sai is impulsive and hot-headed, but a person changes with time.

Agreed! But she not at all comes to an agreement with anyone. I dont think she is so small to not understand this. The way she flirted with Amay doesnt prove her so naive. The girl like her cannot flirt and fool a player like Amay. This showd that she is not so childish but only behaves like that.