Okay look, Jagtap by no means was thinking to keep sai as a devi in his house. As much as it hurts to say this, if she had really married Jagtap, she would have probably been raped and abused in that family and soon, thrown away from there after Jagtap finds another girl to ‘have’. I think we all know what jagtap means by he wants to ‘have’ sai. He wasn’t thinking to keep her as a wife, just a sex toy (is this language to extreme for India forum?).
while I agree that the chavans aren’t some saints but they are 10000000000% better than Jagtap and his family and if I had to choose just between them, I will without hesitating choose sai to be the dil of the chavans. They might be regressive but if one of their sons dare to rape a girl, I know the won’t quietly sit back and accept the son back.