Main Ruk Nahi Paaunga (Done!) - Page 2

Originally posted by: njain16385

always Save draft in gmail. Paste it here.

Yes but I actually posted and didn't realise that it was truncated. I had already discarded the draft but the rough one was still on the clipboard thankfully toh had to add the last few things all over again 🙄

As always 👏👏👏

And loved the connection between Main abhi Ruk Nahi paaunga' and 'tum Ruk Sakte ho Virat".

The Main abhi Ruk Nahi paaunga was ek panth do kaaj.

As usual rocking post Janki

Ab Virat ke dil aur dimag mein bas baiko hai

Awesome post by you, Janki! 🤗

Kya likha hai aapne...am totally floored...I too felt the anguish when I saw everyone in the family gheraod n launched an attack on Virat n Sai..but our Virat Sir stood like a rock n shielded Sai in every manner he could...I felt the same thing on their graha pravesh where Virat Sir expects atleast his baba would understand his decision of marrying Sai but he gets disappointment in return....Sai speaks atleast two to three sentences then but today she was totally quiet just watching the family members changing colours like chameleons.."peedhi ka antar" is what our mature Sunny boy termed it that day over Virat Sir's dejection on no one understanding him especially his baba....it's not peedhi ka antar but a mental block which Virat Sir's baba is displaying...a school of thought where students are taught about farz n everything but are restricted by boundaries of matriarchal control...

No worries Virat Sir, aapne shastra to utha hi liye hain but bas prayog nahin kiya because you love ur people par zaroorat padne par aap rukoge nahin...but aaj agar aapki baiko ko aapne roka nahin hota to yudh aarambh aur khatam dono ho jaate..

Since you have written it all. Just adding few cherries on the cake

1) Incomplete : My darling Sai, I know under the maturity jaap, you wanted to show you have grown up with the document checklist. But we as humans all falter at times....its OK.The man beside you will always guide you, mentor you, hold you, support you to make you complete.

2) Missing You: Yes you got that right Virat, she was missing you. You got to use your detective brain to find how much you mean to her, she does drop hints here and there.

3) Mesmerized : What Dada? I thought you were a good goalkeeper. But our girl just hit out a goal and you are standing like statue. Buck, up! you may lose your heart to her all you will realize it very late. I know that.

4) Rummy : TMK , I thought you are a smart player. But what is this you allow your trump cards( family members bhadas) to be shown in full display . Then how you expect to win this game of Rummy. Save some moves for later if you wish to win....but No you won't listen. Then be ready tolose the game.

5) Duty: Ninad you forgot, for your son duty comes first. And to protect Sai has been his duty right from day one he became ACP. He had been giving you warning bells. Dare anyone try to separate him from his duty( Sai). He will not spare anyone.

awesome post as always.i too felt that its not abt DIL going outside to study .😕They just want to satisfy their egos and superiority over sai by breaking such a brilliant girls dream😡.my blood is boiling after watching 2days precap😡.How can anyone throw somebodys marklist.it is the result of many sleepless night and hardwork.And education is saraswathi according to your belif right.u throw ur godess away today.Do u have that much knowledge or commensense.Bhavani i am assuming u r a jungli with no education infact a nirakshar pig🐷(i wont call this sorry excuse of a human being woman or aurath)

But there is a wise saying ...A barking dogs seldom bits ,which is going to happen tommorow.you guys will be like barking dogs whinning over lost battle,when virat despite your objections will take his baiko for admissions

bloody filthy hypocrites u overestimated the power you morons have over virat.I just wanted to see their sour faces ,tommorow and do a happy jig

Edited on Pg 1 😃

Just thinking eho can stay in a family like Chavan. There is no peace at home. All the time drama

Drama starts from morning Tea, breakfast, lunch n dinner

Take permission to dtep out of house

TaKe permission to celebrate

TaKe permission to even take wife out .even to have breakfast and lunch out 🤨🙄😖😡😠🙊

I really feel sad for SaiRat. How can they stay in such peace less place..

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Great post again❤️

Thank you 🤗 I just loved that Greek mythology post you made the other day. I remembered later that had even mentioned it in the original post that vanished

Waise, you mentioned some blood sucking colleague? Toxic Didi hai ya toxic bhaiyya?😆

It’s grey here and cloudy, and hot and humid, and I‘m having a hot chocolate to calm my splitting headache - It’s despicable and I am miserable because of this weather.😔

Oh dear! Even winter can cause migraines. Don't ask. I have the same issues. Hope you are better now 🤗

When the minions were cornering Virat, I was reminded of Lord Krishna’s counsel to Arjuna when he was despondent and refused to fight, and perform his duty as a warrior. Virat was facing the same dilemma today; on one path were those people who he has perhaps venerated his entire life, his “idols’’ and on the other path, a person to whom he is bound by duty, responsibility (and encompassing both, and more important, by marriage). And he did not disappoint me today, the way he raised his voice shows me that the process of being disillusioned with that family has already begun.

Oh wow! 👏 Yes, it's going to be such a dharam Sankat for him. It's going to be painful for sure. The only solace would possibly be that he stood for the right. That is what happens in most wars anyway, doesn't it? I do believe that Virat is someone who wasn't entirely enchanted by his family and knew the issues at the surface level, evidently from the initial episodes but being at the receiving end always gives one a clearer perspective. His disillusion began right from the moment of the gruh pravesh -- that was a shameful one.

Like you mentioned, Ninad wants to live ‘vicariously’ through Virat. We’ve been told that his fellow comrade took a bullet for him - there was guilt and shame and the sense of a broken dream when he recounted that anecdote to Virat while he was going to GC on his first posting. And he gave Virat a memorabilia that day - a bullet, if I remember correctly- that token was not given just for the sake of it, in a way he was passing away the responsibility/duty to Virat to redeem his own broken dream. For him, Virat’s achievements would have healed the old scars that still hurt his conscience. What Ninad does not realise is that, everyone is here to fulfill THEIR OWN purpose of existence. Virat’s inner self and every fibre of his being, has, after reflection, denial, and acceptance, already determined what his duty is. And this duty overpowers any other duty that has been imposed on him - because this one is performed without any expectations in return.

Yes, you are right it was a bullet. The one that would have killed him. And he told Virat not to allow the same slip up to happen. But I guess even Virat couldn't stop such a tragedy. What matters is the conduct after it happened. Of course, Virat has chosen his purpose. And he will also receive a reward for being honest and committed to that purpose. He will have Sai as his reward and he knows it. The difference between living vicariously and wanting to live vicariously is very slim. When you live vicariously through someone -- in this case Virat through Sai, you do it unconsciously without 'wanting' it. It just happens at the soul level that you share the happiness, sorrows, aspirations, victories of this one person as your own. But when you 'want' to live vicariously, you invariably end up pushing your expectations on to the other person, which is not actually living vicariously unless you can go with the nature and accept what comes -- like Ashwini. She also wants to live vicariously through Sai but she has no expectation. She is ready to live one moment at a time, basking unconditionally in Sai's achievements and wishing that her son finds a loving companion in Sai.

While Ninad’s behaviour is comprehensible (I am not saying logical! I just mean that I understand how he is functioning), I cannot understand the character of Omi at all. Is it because his son is an artist that he is going so harsh on Virat so that he will obtain the validation of the leader of minions or there is some deferred dream here as well.

Yes Omi and Sonali ( they are one and alike) are trying their best to use opportunities to make their unworthy son look like a deserving candidate to be counted as a Chavan son in the first place. If you see the reference is always to "dono bete" - Samrat and Virat. I think by emphasising on how Virat has failed the family's expectations they are driving home the point for their own vested interests. Sonali also does her best in pushing karishma on the other side of the coveted line that defines Susheel bahus. But unfortunately the younger couple Mohit and Karishma are too moronic to take the opportunities in the right way.

I think Pakhi has already understood how important money is for Bhavani and she will be using this weakness to her own advantage, time and again. Since she knows now that she has one over the minions gangs, watch her grow her wings.

I noticed the gleam in her eyes when she went to Bhavani to talk about Sai's admission on the pretext of the letter. She KNEW Bhavani would order Virat -- something that PP can't do on her own anymore because she is aware that the line of respect has been breached and there is awkwardness between Virat and her. But the moment Bhavani spoke about Sai's admission in a contemptuous way, I noticed a smile in PP's eyes. Still, she's too caricature-ish for me. I would rather have a villain, who I can sympathise with at some level. What is her motivation to turn vamp? Her own figment of imagination of what love should have been?

Tsk Tsk why are you disappointed in Chavan saheb, he was ready on time, it's his biwi that took so much time, uper se he did not know that he would lose so much time staring, so spare him. It happens to the best of us.😆 (Vaise, planning kamal ki thi, ek din mein breakfast date and lunch date, bas he forgot how kanjoos his family is, for they feed on taunts only)

Actually, I agree. Chavan saheb was so excited that he was ready before the Baiko and pacing up and down until he froze 😂 Waise, do you think Sai ignored his mesmerised look on purpose or was she too excited about going to get her admissions done that she didn't notice? But my disappointment in Chavan saheb was that he DID NOT anticipate the drama about revealing their actual plan: Lunch (As jali bhuni PP said when he mentioned that they were not going to picnic 🤣). People in that house HATE anyone trying to eat food. Itna toh usko pata Hona Chahiye tha. Ab Nadi wali baat nahi batayi toh breakfast and lunch batana zaroori tha kya?😆 oh but credit where it's due: I LOVED how he was walking out of that drama with Sai TWICE and not wanting to indulge in them at that point.

You said it, the reason for their objections is so shallow, it's a matter of ego for the minions and jealousy for Toxic did (uski sui to lunch p atki thi🤡🤣). They aren't able to digest the fact that their son is grown up, married and does not need to take their permission to go out.

It left me unhappy that they are so unimaginative about their actual reason for the opposition. This is like zabran kadi maarni hai. If you ask, it's not even as much of a dharam Sankat as it would have been if it had really been about Ghar ki parampara