How should Virat deal with Patralekha? - Page 2

I agree that somewhere his romantic feelings still remain but it's much too sick for him to voice it to himself. Because his entire conversation with Sai was kind of stilted ...he wanted to talk about Paakhi and ultimately shoved it in between. Bahut jyaada Yaarana lagta hai.

Overall I think he will aahe bharo a bit more and it’ll take time for the Pakhi mask to slip and fall and for him to finally assimilate these lessons. So in the interim usko agar advice hi chahiye toh I can help with how he should deal with Patralekha situation 😂😂

1a. Start addressing her as Patralekha. Bonus points if he tags a vahini at the end of it. Patralekha Vahini

1b. Create an account on naukari.com for our independent, intelligent, talented vahini so she can put her career first

2. Call up Brigadier Sood and ask him if he needs help from Best ACP Virat Chavan to find his brother Samrat. If truly being sane Sood rejects offer, then offer Sai ke brain and services.

3. Donate all Yoga clothes to Sunny

4. Watch Dil toh Pagal hai and not Kuch Kuch Hota Hai to learn lessons of extreme friend zoning. Phir dosti kabhi khatam nahi hogi! As they say, meri nazar se tum dekho toh yaar nazar woh aaye

First these 4(sorry 5) will do, monthly performance review ke baad next steps.

Originally posted by: aptl123

First of all... virat shouldn’t have gone to pakhi’s house

This is exactly what she wants...

if virat has decided to go then he should have taken Sai with her... you know like husband-wife doing everything together

Sai should not apologize to pakhi

Virat should have told pakhi... sorry I made that stupid vaada but things have changed and sai is my wife... you can be my friend

But sai is my top priority.... i apologize on behalf of my wife... if you think my wife’s words have hurt you.... but you need to understand her point of view too... me and sai are newly married and we need some privacy... I don’t think you should come to our (sai and virat) bedroom at odd hours... if you need to talk we can talk during day time.., and when sai and I are having arguments, I don’t think you should interfere at all... it is not good for our relationship... we have to sort out things on our own... and you can’t defame sai in front of my family... you respect sai and sai will respect you... You think about it... and decide what you want to do... come back with us or stay here...

Something like this

Why would virat say all those things about sai when he doesn't even consider her as his wife? If virat considered sai as his wife and took his marriage as a marriage and not farz then he would easily be able to put pakhi in line but when he doesn't want to consider sai as his wife or actually respect the fact he is married, why would he tell pakhi to respect the fact he and sai are married and that she can't interfere between them when he has told pakhi that his marriage to sai is not real.

I have been stalking this forum for the last few days and have fallen in love with all the posts here, which have pushed me to write my own thoughts on this forum after years. [Janaki, Pepper, and Sherlocked, I love reading your brilliant dissection of characters and scenes].

I like to see things from both sides, so this post is for Patralekha, who is evolving into the chief antagonist of this drama.

[We often want characters to behave according to our moral compass, but then they have a mind of their own and their own red lines]

A couple of years ago, I saw a Chinese drama where the male lead tells the second female lead that when you meet THE ONE, no one else matches up. He refused to move on despite being separated from the female lead for years. That is what happened in the case of Patralekha – though the Chinesecouple’s story was not a two-day love story. You can feel a connection with someone in a trice, and with someone, you might never even if he/she is the best man/woman in the world.

When I think about her character, it is not yoga camp that I revisit. It is the first meeting between her and Virat. She sat on the steps and watched Virat in awe, seeing him tell the nakshatra of his family members. The man had an aura and came across as an honest, family man. It was a great first impression, and when she met him again at the camp, she could not stop herself but fall for him. And, it was for the first time in her life that she had met a man with whom she could see a future together. [Can we make such a conclusion in two-day time? Well, a short meeting is often the beginning of long conversations.]

Virat and Patralekha’s story is of two complete strangers who were attracted to each other but were not meant to be. We cannot tell whether they would have worked as a couple or not, because they never got that chance. “WHAT IF?” will always be there, especially in the mind of Patralekha.

It takes time, sometimes even years, to move on from the person who you believe is THE ONE. Both Virat and Patralekha never got that time. In the case of Virat, he met Sai soon after meeting Patralekha, and with her, he probably felt a connection. He was not attracted to Sai, but he could not ignore her or stop himself from admiring her. She didn’t see him as perfection personified or expected him to behave in a Chavan-family-son proper way. Also, the mission to save her saved him from the pain of watching the so-called love of his life entering his house as his cousin's wife.

Returning to Patralekha, she did not get a chance to interact with Samrat. Her fault, yes, but then, she did not get the much-needed time to accept the new reality. And, why is she holding on to Virat and his promise? For her, he is THE ONE. No one and nothing else matters.

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Originally posted by: bones123

Overall I think he will aahe bharo a bit more and it’ll take time for the Pakhi mask to slip and fall and for him to finally assimilate these lessons. So in the interim usko agar advice hi chahiye toh I can help with how he should deal with Patralekha situation 😂😂

1a. Start addressing her as Patralekha. Bonus points if he tags a vahini at the end of it. Patralekha Vahini

1b. Create an account on naukari.com for our independent, intelligent, talented vahini so she can put her career first

2. Call up Brigadier Sood and ask him if he needs help from Best ACP Virat Chavan to find his brother Samrat. If truly being sane Sood rejects offer, then offer Sai ke brain and services.

3. Donate all Yoga clothes to Sunny

4. Watch Dil toh Pagal hai and not Kuch Kuch Hota Hai to learn lessons of extreme friend zoning. Phir dosti kabhi khatam nahi hogi! As they say, meri nazar se tum dekho toh yaar nazar woh aaye

First these 4(sorry 5) will do, monthly performance review ke baad next steps.

all of these is are a must - but question is if virat WANTS to friend zone her?????????

He is still showing her hopes... of EMA he planted initially with all those aahe wala look and emotional glares. to beloved brothers wife... a cheater............... I can NOT stand this kind of ML ......... immoral / coward.

Originally posted by: bones123

Overall I think he will aahe bharo a bit more and it’ll take time for the Pakhi mask to slip and fall and for him to finally assimilate these lessons. So in the interim usko agar advice hi chahiye toh I can help with how he should deal with Patralekha situation 😂😂

1a. Start addressing her as Patralekha. Bonus points if he tags a vahini at the end of it. Patralekha Vahini

1b. Create an account on naukari.com for our independent, intelligent, talented vahini so she can put her career first

2. Call up Brigadier Sood and ask him if he needs help from Best ACP Virat Chavan to find his brother Samrat. If truly being sane Sood rejects offer, then offer Sai ke brain and services.

3. Donate all Yoga clothes to Sunny

4. Watch Dil toh Pagal hai and not Kuch Kuch Hota Hai to learn lessons of extreme friend zoning. Phir dosti kabhi khatam nahi hogi! As they say, meri nazar se tum dekho toh yaar nazar woh aaye

First these 4(sorry 5) will do, monthly performance review ke baad next steps.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Aai ga! Sai's navardeva has a lot of detoxification to do. But yes, Point 1a should be the best detox to begin with for self and vahini as well.

We could send this prescription to the aspiring doctor.

Originally posted by: I-Am-SherLOCKED

Mujhe nahin pata usko aisa kyun lagta hai that Chavan khandaan ki bahu and career aur Chavan Niwas and yoga/ western clothes are mutually exclusive 🤣

Persian fur coat doesn't make a fashion statment with yoga trackpants na? Also, where is the time to do yoga if Makad gang wants tea to be served by the elite khoon wali bahu. baaki khana is cooked by junglee mulgee.

You make a valid point but I think differently. I don't think his feelings have gone. The romantic feelings are still there but saying "koi humare pyaar ke beech nahin aa sakta" is going to piss off a lot of viewers and on top of that, he's also going to feel such hatred towards himself for harbouring inappropriate thoughts about his Vahini. And yes, when PP made those comments, his expression was of disgust but she smartly covered it up by saying TUMHARE LIYE BURA LAG RAHA HAI VIRAT. Even if he didn't like what she said to Sai, he's going to let it slide because he's going to think it was coming from a place of concern for him.

I still don't think he has romantic feelings for her. As Keshni has termed it, they are "leftover feelings" of what it could have been but couldn't be... But also, over the last couple of episodes, he seems like he was moving away from that too but then her leaving the house was a jolt to his freshly-broken heart.

Nope. UPSC topper and do minute main jhoot pakadne wala policewala has selective observation skills. Pakhi herself has told him that she feels nothing for Samrat but still he makes such a huge deal about her "stress" because of him being missing. He won't even see Pakhi's zid as zid because she's Rani Patralekha of Maturegarh after all. Voh thodi aise petty tactics ko resort karegi? Never!!

That's what I had posted a few days ago. Has he really not caught her actual emotions or is he letting it slide because of his guilt/clouded vision when it comes to her? He does know that she cares about Samrat as much as one would care about a thorn on a rose stem. And he did look taken aback when she said that on the terrace. So, I guess he is in denial but he knows it is inevitable. He might have withdrawal symptoms too but Sai's words are also hitting him. I hope Sai challenges him some day about his topper claim.

I think after PP comes back, he's going to reinforce the nature of their platonic friendship which is obviously going to drive her nuts.

I don't think PP understands "platonic". It is dangerous to offer platonic to the obsessed. She won't get the point. Because to him, it has been platonic since he learnt that his true love's real name was Patralekha

Originally posted by: Taiyo

I have been stalking this forum for the last few days and have fallen in love with all the posts here, which have pushed me to write my own thoughts on this forum after years. [Janaki, Pepper, and Sherlocked, I love reading your brilliant dissection of characters and scenes].

I like to see things from both sides, so this post is for Patralekha, who is evolving into the chief antagonist of this drama.

[We often want characters to behave according to our moral compass, but then they have a mind of their own and their own red lines]

A couple of years ago, I saw a Chinese drama where the male lead tells the second female lead that when you meet THE ONE, no one else matches up. He refused to move on despite being separated from the female lead for years. That is what happened in the case of Patralekha – though the Chinesecouple’s story was not a two-day love story. You can feel a connection with someone in a trice, and with someone, you might never even if he/she is the best man/woman in the world.

When I think about her character, it is not yoga camp that I revisit. It is the first meeting between her and Virat. She sat on the steps and watched Virat in awe, seeing him tell the nakshatra of his family members. The man had an aura and came across as an honest, family man. It was a great first impression, and when she met him again at the camp, she could not stop herself but fall for him. And, it was for the first time in her life that she had met a man with whom she could see a future together. [Can we make such a conclusion in two-day time? Well, a short meeting is often the beginning of long conversations.]

Virat and Patralekha’s story is of two complete strangers who were attracted to each other but were not meant to be. We cannot tell whether they would have worked as a couple or not, because they never got that chance. “WHAT IF?” will always be there, especially in the mind of Patralekha.

It takes time, sometimes even years, to move on from the person who you believe is THE ONE. Both Virat and Patralekha never got that time. In the case of Virat, he met Sai soon after meeting Patralekha, and with her, he probably felt a connection. He was not attracted to Sai, but he could not ignore her or stop himself from admiring her. She didn’t see him as perfection personified or expected him to behave in a Chavan-family-son proper way. Also, the mission to save her saved him from the pain of watching the so-called love of his life entering his house as his cousin's wife.

Returning to Patralekha, she did not get a chance to interact with Samrat. Her fault, yes, but then, she did not get the much-needed time to accept the new reality. And, why is she holding on to Virat and his promise? For her, he is THE ONE. No one and nothing else matters.

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hi 🤗 Thank you so much for letting us all know that we were able to pull you out of hibernation. It feels great to hear that!

And a lovely post! Yes, I do agree about "The One". Very relevant. Also, when you are completely closed to the idea of moving on because you are latching on to the concept of "the one", it is even more difficult. In case of PP, most reasons fail because she made a "conscious" choice to marry another man but just because her blocked true love appeared unexpectedly, she was reminded that he was "the one". It is her dishonesty that is disturbing.

@bold: I have said this before many times in my posts too. For Virat, it was easy to face reality because of Sai. Her company did help him distract himself from the ache of the heartbreak. And yes, perhaps the only one who does not expect him to behave like the custodian of this heavy Shahannav Kuli Maratha shaan

Originally posted by: Taiyo

I have been stalking this forum for the last few days and have fallen in love with all the posts here, which have pushed me to write my own thoughts on this forum after years. [Janaki, Pepper, and Sherlocked, I love reading your brilliant dissection of characters and scenes].

I like to see things from both sides, so this post is for Patralekha, who is evolving into the chief antagonist of this drama.

[We often want characters to behave according to our moral compass, but then they have a mind of their own and their own red lines]

A couple of years ago, I saw a Chinese drama where the male lead tells the second female lead that when you meet THE ONE, no one else matches up. He refused to move on despite being separated from the female lead for years. That is what happened in the case of Patralekha – though the Chinesecouple’s story was not a two-day love story. You can feel a connection with someone in a trice, and with someone, you might never even if he/she is the best man/woman in the world.

When I think about her character, it is not yoga camp that I revisit. It is the first meeting between her and Virat. She sat on the steps and watched Virat in awe, seeing him tell the nakshatra of his family members. The man had an aura and came across as an honest, family man. It was a great first impression, and when she met him again at the camp, she could not stop herself but fall for him. And, it was for the first time in her life that she had met a man with whom she could see a future together. [Can we make such a conclusion in two-day time? Well, a short meeting is often the beginning of long conversations.]

Virat and Patralekha’s story is of two complete strangers who were attracted to each other but were not meant to be. We cannot tell whether they would have worked as a couple or not, because they never got that chance. “WHAT IF?” will always be there, especially in the mind of Patralekha.

It takes time, sometimes even years, to move on from the person who you believe is THE ONE. Both Virat and Patralekha never got that time. In the case of Virat, he met Sai soon after meeting Patralekha, and with her, he probably felt a connection. He was not attracted to Sai, but he could not ignore her or stop himself from admiring her. She didn’t see him as perfection personified or expected him to behave in a Chavan-family-son proper way. Also, the mission to save her saved him from the pain of watching the so-called love of his life entering his house as his cousin's wife.

Returning to Patralekha, she did not get a chance to interact with Samrat. Her fault, yes, but then, she did not get the much-needed time to accept the new reality. And, why is she holding on to Virat and his promise? For her, he is THE ONE. No one and nothing else matters.

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Looking at Paakhi's behavior, I guess that ViKhi's marriage wouldn't have worked out as Paakhi would always come in the way of his career.

There wont be any change in Virat's dealing with Pakhi if she's returning with him. But we all know Pakhi is stubborn and will wait for Sai's apology to satisfy her ego. 😆Now this would be a great opportunity for Virat to understand what matters more for Pakhi. How he should deal with Pakhi from that point after she returns will entirely depend on what he learns from this experience. I think at this moment he's is in a tough situation. Sai was right in giving it back to Pakhi and Virat was appropriate in defending Sai. Now either of them going to Pakhi's house would be like feeling sorry for being yourself and standing up for the person whom you believed was fair in the verbal exchange that happened on the previous night. Since going to Pakhi's house to bring her back has become an inevitable thing Virat will be the first 'sipahi' to leave on this mission and Sai will follow him.