How should Virat deal with Patralekha?

So we are all going to have Chavan khandaan ka actual beta go to fetch Chavan khandaan ki "mani huyi bahu" i.e. Mrs Patralekha Samrat Salunkhe nee Mohite-Patil, tomorrow because:

a) Chavan Khandaan ki bahu ghar kaise chhodh sakti hai?; b) Chavan khandaan me se kisi na kisi ko toh aana hi tha manane (exactly the way she wants and who she wants to come); c) hamari dosti aise hi khatam nahi ho sakti, na kisi wajah se na kisi ki wajah se.

Chalo, we also know that PP is not going to miss this "play hard to get" opportunity. At least, finally, crying over yoga wala love, she donned her track-suit and recalled her love for yoga the moment she stepped out of Chakram niwas. Waise, wahan bhi thoda yoga kar leti toh wouldn't it have helped her control her thoughts? A person who is so much into yoga does not know the benefits of it? 🤔 Kamaal hai...

Of course she's not returning with Virat, we know. She knows that the family (and presumes that Virat too) will force Sai to come and beg at her feet to return home and she cannot wait for that moment. The punchline - kisi ke saath khaana banane ka competition nahi kar sakti - was bait for Sai and Sai fell for it (Sai, aur shaant? Ho hi nahi sakti na). As much as I am peeved with Virat, I also see the gradual change in the emotion he is feeling for PP -- it is not yearning but more of responsibility of bringing her back out of his guilt to Samrat or family (not really PP). I would like to believe that since her "matlabi ehsaan faramosh biwi" comment for Sai, something has snapped inside Virat, which is not absolutely evident but he is giving the feels.

But we know Virat is terrible at managing family emotions and this is PP of all people. Some part of the 'dor' she was referring to is still tugging him (not romantically, but guilt-wise)

The question I want to ask:

How should Virat deal with PP now? (We have been discussing and analysing his awareness but its pretty much in the open now) We know he will still not push her away but should he (would he) give in to her accelerated blackmail tactics now, given that PP is also leaving no stone unturned to demean Sai in front of him?

Actually, is it not true that PP has given him the answer herself, unwittingly. The other day when she brought the exotic tea and biscuits for breakfast for Virat, along with her free advice session of how he should deal with Sai's badtameezi, she was in fact telling him the way out of this obsession of hers.

"Tum uski har zidd poori kar dete ho, isiliye wo zidd karti hai... Tum uski zidd poori karna chhodh do, wo zidd karna chhodh degi.."

Virat noted that advice, but did he assimilate the lesson?

What do you all think?

Honestly, I don't believe virat should keep her waiting

If he wants to wait for her than he can but he should push PP to think about his husband

She never thought about him

Even though she doesn't love him, he is her husband

Virat should keep reminding her that

And just tell her that he thought she is mature but actually she is not

Pakhi said so many mean thing to sai like 'virat has got selfish wife and all that ' , Sai doesn't mind and left the house

But if PP can leave the house on small argument than she is not mature at all

Virat should say this to her

Virat should not speak to Pakhi in front of Sai. He should take her outside to talk to her. He should tell her that in whichever way she married Samrat, he is her husband & should focus on finding him.

Viratv is a kind of person, who hears from every corner of the house. But only reacts to whom he wishes too.

Last nite when Sai, said you should worry about your husband. And Virat supporting her indicates, a line has been drawn now. Virat just treats PP as a best friend with a platonic relationship. He doesn't even touch her as she is his brothers wife.

Till date PP was in good books, but the moment she says " bhul jao Sai KO". See the angry glare in his eyes. Yes, the boy is in love though not realized yet. But his farz( Sai here) will be his utmost priority. combined with love. He will go to any extent to protect her, be it against his family or best friend.

Now how to get away

He should himself say don't enter my room at night we can meet elsewhere.

He can focus on his job, while Sai in her studies, not giving much time and unwanted attention to PP

Slowly, she will realize her on own place.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

So we are all going to have Chavan khandaan ka actual beta go to fetch Chavan khandaan ki "mani huyi bahu" i.e. Mrs Patralekha Samrat Salunkhe nee Mohite-Patil, tomorrow because:

a) Chavan Khandaan ki bahu ghar kaise chhodh sakti hai?; b) Chavan khandaan me se kisi na kisi ko toh aana hi tha manane (exactly the way she wants and who she wants to come); c) hamari dosti aise hi khatam nahi ho sakti, na kisi wajah se na kisi ki wajah se.

Chalo, we also know that PP is not going to miss this "play hard to get" opportunity. At least, finally, crying over yoga wala love, she donned her track-suit and recalled her love for yoga the moment she stepped out of Chakram niwas. Waise, wahan bhi thoda yoga kar leti toh wouldn't it have helped her control her thoughts? A person who is so much into yoga does not know the benefits of it? 🤔 Kamaal hai...

Of course she's not returning with Virat, we know. She knows that the family (and presumes that Virat too) will force Sai to come and beg at her feet to return home and she cannot wait for that moment. The punchline - kisi ke saath khaana banane ka competition nahi kar sakti - was bait for Sai and Sai fell for it (Sai, aur shaant? Ho hi nahi sakti na). As much as I am peeved with Virat, I also see the gradual change in the emotion he is feeling for PP -- it is not yearning but more of responsibility of bringing her back out of his guilt to Samrat or family (not really PP). I would like to believe that since her "matlabi ehsaan faramosh biwi" comment for Sai, something has snapped inside Virat, which is not absolutely evident but he is giving the feels.

But we know Virat is terrible at managing family emotions and this is PP of all people. Some part of the 'dor' she was referring to is still tugging him (not romantically, but guilt-wise)

The question I want to ask:

How should Virat deal with PP now? (We have been discussing and analysing his awareness but its pretty much in the open now) We know he will still not push her away but should he (would he) give in to her accelerated blackmail tactics now, given that PP is also leaving no stone unturned to demean Sai in front of him?

Actually, is it not true that PP has given him the answer herself, unwittingly. The other day when she brought the exotic tea and biscuits for breakfast for Virat, along with her free advice session of how he should deal with Sai's badtameezi, she was in fact telling him the way out of this obsession of hers.

"Tum uski har zidd poori kar dete ho, isiliye wo zidd karti hai... Tum uski zidd poori karna chhodh do, wo zidd karna chhodh degi.."

Virat noted that advice, but did he assimilate the lesson?

What do you all think?

@ janakiraghav you penn down the nuances so beautifully. Sometimes after reading the posts on this forum (esp. yours) I rewatch the episode.😊

@ Bold Couldn't resist (after you comment on my post❤️❤️) but had to copy my response to other post regarding his comment (Mai tumhe vapas launga)

He was thinking about Pakhi more as family member than his 2 day wala loveship (as he values his parivaar like anything). Also ' Hamari dosti kisiki..' sentence reflected more of his duty (out of vadaa), Pakhi's need of support and not his own feelings for her. I did not even see him that disturbed when Pakhi left at personal level, it was more from Parivaar, Vadaa and Pakhi's emotional need level (Pakhi bahot dukhi hogi). His comment 'Hamari dosti..' also came from guilt Pakhi gave him and assurance Pakhi needed.

@Red I feel the advice will not work when it comes to Sai as well as Pakhi.

For Sai because she is actually not doing any Zidd. Every act of hers (e.g.Name change) comes from a strong value system and her loyalty towards her loved ones. She will fight for it no matter what.

For Pakhi because the obssessive, self-indulgent person that she is, can go nasty if not catered to and remain unignorable. Between Humane and evil, evil wins (in short term) not due to evilness but due to humanness of the oppponent.

See the vaada is broken long ago, there's no samajdari in clinging on to it by both pakhi and virat.

Though virat is guilty of breaking it and blames himself for the state pakhi is in , he should realise that his intentions are being deciphered in a wrong way by pakhi .

He is still putting up with his vaada of being a best friend for her till date. Only the part of celibacy vaada is broken and there's none to blame for that. If not for kamal sir virat would not have alive in the first place today.

I would compare Sayi and Pakhi to a candle and cigar.

Sayi even though she is getting burnt little by little everyday she leaves no stone unturned in fulfilling her part of wifey duties though they were clearly are not the part of the deal. Voh chavan niwas ke aangan mein khushiyan bhikerne ke liye khud ko jala rahi hai just like how candles spreads light while burning itself.

Pakhi is just like a cigar jo khud ke saat saat pakadne wale ko bhi jalati hai . Voh khud ke saat virat ko bhi le doob rahi hai. Virat is being thrown into a constant battle all thanks to her actions. Still virat is trying to mend ways with her and bring happiness in her life . That is why he keeps reminding her of samrat.

But it's high time virat realise that kabhi kabhi haat chodne mein hi samajdari hai(throwing cigar away before it burns you ) .

Pakhi ko bhi samajna hoga ki haarne se koi chota nahi hota hai. She needs to rise up with new spirits and look life from a newer perspective. Remember har kar jeetne wale ko hi bajigar kehte hai!!!!!!!!

P.S - not sure if I made sense but I hope you get what I am trying to say . And also sorry for the bewacoof comparison🤣

Originally posted by: Ishradivani

See the vaada is broken long ago, there's no samajdari in clinging on to it by both pakhi and virat.

Though virat is guilty of breaking it and blames himself for the state pakhi is in , he should realise that his intentions are being deciphered in a wrong way by pakhi .

He is still putting up with his vaada of being a best friend for her till date. Only the part of celibacy vaada is broken and there's none to blame for that. If not for kamal sir virat would not have alive in the first place today.

I would compare Sayi and Pakhi to a candle and cigar.

Sayi even though she is getting burnt little by little everyday she leaves no stone unturned in fulfilling her part of wifey duties though they were clearly are not the part of the deal. Voh chavan niwas ke aangan mein khushiyan bhikerne ke liye khud ko jala rahi hai just like how candles spreads light while burning itself.

Pakhi is just like a cigar jo khud ke saat saat pakadne wale ko bhi jalati hai . Voh khud ke saat virat ko bhi le doob rahi hai. Virat is being thrown into a constant battle all thanks to her actions. Still virat is trying to mend ways with her and bring happiness in her life . That is why he keeps reminding her of samrat.

But it's high time virat realise that kabhi kabhi haat chodne mein hi samajdari hai(throwing cigar away before it burns you ) .

Pakhi ko bhi samajna hoga ki haarne se koi chota nahi hota hai. She needs to rise up with new spirits and look life from a newer perspective. Remember har kar jeetne wale ko hi bajigar kehte hai!!!!!!!!

P.S - not sure if I made sense but I hope you get what I am trying to say. And also sorry for the bewacoof comparison🤣

No, it isn't a bewkoof comparison. What you posted was right. But for Bhavini, Ninad, Sonali, & her husband, it's the other way round i.e Pakhi is a candle & Sayi is a cigarette.

Actually, he did refuse to put up with Paakhi's demand on his time, the night before.

She wanted to talk to him but he was more keen on sorting out his fight with Sai. Again, when paakhi picked a fight, he told her, she started it.

Of course he did not do it consciously to keep her out, he probably thought she would understand, being as mature as she is!

She reacted very badly and walked out. Now he feels guilty. If he doesn't understand at this point that she's being unreasonable, when will he realise?

He could try another tack but fully aware that he is trying to genuinely help her. He could launch a search for Samrat using his contacts. She wouldn't be able to protest at this because after all she is a dukhiyari naari without her husband.

First of all... virat shouldn’t have gone to pakhi’s house

This is exactly what she wants...

if virat has decided to go then he should have taken Sai with her... you know like husband-wife doing everything together

Sai should not apologize to pakhi

Virat should have told pakhi... sorry I made that stupid vaada but things have changed and sai is my wife... you can be my friend

But sai is my top priority.... i apologize on behalf of my wife... if you think my wife’s words have hurt you.... but you need to understand her point of view too... me and sai are newly married and we need some privacy... I don’t think you should come to our (sai and virat) bedroom at odd hours... if you need to talk we can talk during day time.., and when sai and I are having arguments, I don’t think you should interfere at all... it is not good for our relationship... we have to sort out things on our own... and you can’t defame sai in front of my family... you respect sai and sai will respect you... You think about it... and decide what you want to do... come back with us or stay here...

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Originally posted by: jankiraghav

So we are all going to have Chavan khandaan ka actual beta go to fetch Chavan khandaan ki "mani huyi bahu" i.e. Mrs Patralekha Samrat Salunkhe nee Mohite-Patil, tomorrow because:

a) Chavan Khandaan ki bahu ghar kaise chhodh sakti hai?; b) Chavan khandaan me se kisi na kisi ko toh aana hi tha manane (exactly the way she wants and who she wants to come); c) hamari dosti aise hi khatam nahi ho sakti, na kisi wajah se na kisi ki wajah se.

Chalo, we also know that PP is not going to miss this "play hard to get" opportunity. At least, finally, crying over yoga wala love, she donned her track-suit and recalled her love for yoga the moment she stepped out of Chakram niwas. Waise, wahan bhi thoda yoga kar leti toh wouldn't it have helped her control her thoughts? A person who is so much into yoga does not know the benefits of it? 🤔 Kamaal hai...

Mujhe nahin pata usko aisa kyun lagta hai that Chavan khandaan ki bahu and career aur Chavan Niwas and yoga/ western clothes are mutually exclusive 🤣

Of course she's not returning with Virat, we know. She knows that the family (and presumes that Virat too) will force Sai to come and beg at her feet to return home and she cannot wait for that moment. The punchline - kisi ke saath khaana banane ka competition nahi kar sakti - was bait for Sai and Sai fell for it (Sai, aur shaant? Ho hi nahi sakti na). As much as I am peeved with Virat, I also see the gradual change in the emotion he is feeling for PP -- it is not yearning but more of responsibility of bringing her back out of his guilt to Samrat or family (not really PP). I would like to believe that since her "matlabi ehsaan faramosh biwi" comment for Sai, something has snapped inside Virat, which is not absolutely evident but he is giving the feels.

You make a valid point but I think differently. I don't think his feelings have gone. The romantic feelings are still there but saying "koi humare pyaar ke beech nahin aa sakta" is going to piss off a lot of viewers and on top of that, he's also going to feel such hatred towards himself for harbouring inappropriate thoughts about his Vahini. And yes, when PP made those comments, his expression was of disgust but she smartly covered it up by saying TUMHARE LIYE BURA LAG RAHA HAI VIRAT. Even if he didn't like what she said to Sai, he's going to let it slide because he's going to think it was coming from a place of concern for him.

But we know Virat is terrible at managing family emotions and this is PP of all people. Some part of the 'dor' she was referring to is still tugging him (not romantically, but guilt-wise)

The question I want to ask:

How should Virat deal with PP now? (We have been discussing and analysing his awareness but its pretty much in the open now) We know he will still not push her away but should he (would he) give in to her accelerated blackmail tactics now, given that PP is also leaving no stone unturned to demean Sai in front of him?

Actually, is it not true that PP has given him the answer herself, unwittingly. The other day when she brought the exotic tea and biscuits for breakfast for Virat, along with her free advice session of how he should deal with Sai's badtameezi, she was in fact telling him the way out of this obsession of hers.

"Tum uski har zidd poori kar dete ho, isiliye wo zidd karti hai... Tum uski zidd poori karna chhodh do, wo zidd karna chhodh degi.."

Virat noted that advice, but did he assimilate the lesson?

Nope. UPSC topper and do minute main jhoot pakadne wala policewala has selective observation skills. Pakhi herself has told him that she feels nothing for Samrat but still he makes such a huge deal about her "stress" because of him being missing. He won't even see Pakhi's zid as zid because she's Rani Patralekha of Maturegarh after all. Voh thodi aise petty tactics ko resort karegi? Never!!

What do you all think?

I think after PP comes back, he's going to reinforce the nature of their platonic friendship which is obviously going to drive her nuts.