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Posted: 5 years ago
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Be it reception day (to convince Bhavani) or today ( to tell Sai she will have to stay back), Pakhi notices it and hates it. It conveys a deep understanding that Virat-Sai share. Also, Virat not using it frequently makes it more impactful (Virat- I have final word here and Sai knows she has to follow it (as it is important).

Loved that Sai against everyone's assumption (of no point in talking to her) stayed back underscoring the respect, importance Virat has for Sai (to utter disillusion for others)

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Hey I watching ghum hai kisi ke pyar mey episodes and after watching few episodes. I was thinking that pakhi will be the last one to suffer more bec she has been stucked into 2 boats.

I don't understand sai behavior with pakhi. Agreed she is married with virat.. both hubby wifey ...bluhh.. but where does this jealousy factor came when nothing s there between till now.


Then virat is the reason for both gals miseries bec with sai he has to full fill his responsibilities and with pakhi promise bond..


Who does this in 2020? Ha ha ha I know people going to hate me for this but I am stating the fact. Real life mey aisa nhi hota yar..


Anyways I like pakhi but sai bhi achi hai practical hai but behavioral issues hai..



Bye bye 👋

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: imkt

Hey I watching ghum hai kisi ke pyar mey episodes and after watching few episodes. I was thinking that pakhi will be the last one to suffer more bec she has been stucked into 2 boats.

I don't understand sai behavior with pakhi. Agreed she is married with virat.. both hubby wifey ...bluhh.. but where does this jealousy factor came when nothing s there between till now.


Then virat is the reason for both gals miseries bec with sai he has to full fill his responsibilities and with pakhi promise bond..


Who does this in 2020? Ha ha ha I know people going to hate me for this but I am stating the fact. Real life mey aisa nhi hota yar..


Anyways I like pakhi but sai bhi achi hai practical hai but behavioral issues hai..



Bye bye 👋

Why would anyone hate you?

What you see as Jealousy in Sai, I see it as Sai trying to set boundaries and reminding Pahki to behave like a married woman. It seems that Pahki has forgotten the basis of the promise Virat gave her. She is meant to move on with his brother, be a wife to him none of which she is interested in. Virat does not know or quite understand Pahki's intention or her personality as yet. The day he know she's not interested in his brother or when he truly understand who she is will be the day that promise will become null and void. Better yet it may just be the day when he realises what love really is.


Whatever the dynamics between Sai and Virat, Pahki has no right to behave like Wednesday all the time. Apart from that I have no issues with the character because it is well written and portrayed

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Be it reception day (to convince Bhavani) or today ( to tell Sai she will have to stay back), Pakhi notices it and hates it. It conveys a deep understanding that Virat-Sai share. Also, Virat not using it frequently makes it more impactful (Virat- I have final word here and Sai knows she has to follow it (as it is important).

Loved that Sai against everyone's assumption (of no point in talking to her) stayed back underscoring the respect, importance Virat has for Sai (to utter disillusion for others)

That's where Pahki's jealousy is stemming from. She know as much as she has that promise and Virat has feelings for her, still she has no bond with him and will never have. A matter of fact she does not know anything about Virat and to make matters worse she cannot call him her own. Poor girl, it must be quite difficult for her. I think she's behaving like a typical side-chick. She really want Virat to dance to her tunes

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Posted: 5 years ago
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The vaada our boy gave to PP definitely had t &c which included she marrying samrat and giving izzat to his family and his brother.

But time and again pakhi has proved contrary to this with her acts

As they say "taali ek haat se nahi bajti"

Shouldn't both of them keep the promise??????

Since pakhi only clung on to the celibate for life part leaving rest to the grave she definitely broke the promise so I see no reason why virat should feel guilty ( but he still does)

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Be it reception day (to convince Bhavani) or today ( to tell Sai she will have to stay back), Pakhi notices it and hates it. It conveys a deep understanding that Virat-Sai share. Also, Virat not using it frequently makes it more impactful (Virat- I have final word here and Sai knows she has to follow it (as it is important).

Loved that Sai against everyone's assumption (of no point in talking to her) stayed back underscoring the respect, importance Virat has for Sai (to utter disillusion for others)

those head nods are ❤️❤️❤️

The way Neil emotes the tiniest of the emotions makes the thing all more beautiful

The nods also talk about the deep understanding they both have

They don't need much to talk ........ They understand each other even with signs

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I see jealousy in pakhi - sai is more of irritated because of pakhi's continuous interruptions in her room/life

- sai also said - go in pakhi's room if you have to talk... let me sleep.


No one will take those emotional glares, manipulations and interruptions every minute...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: imkt

Hey I watching ghum hai kisi ke pyar mey episodes and after watching few episodes. I was thinking that pakhi will be the last one to suffer more bec she has been stucked into 2 boats.

I don't understand sai behavior with pakhi. Agreed she is married with virat.. both hubby wifey ...bluhh.. but where does this jealousy factor came when nothing s there between till now.


I don't think sai is jealous of pakhi and virat's relation. Pakhi is no saint in this situation.

Agreed that she and virat had a past and he promised her some things and he couldn't keep them due to some situations but that doesn't mean she gets to vent it all on sai for no fault of hers.

Just because she doesn't talk loud doesn't mean she talk scenes when she opens her mouth.

And anyway obviously anyone will get angry if a 3rd person will keep coming in their room all the time without knocking and keep interfering in their talks pakhi doesn't even allow sai and virat to talk and keep picking on them....and it was her own decision to marry Samrat no one forced her....


Anyways I like pakhi but sai bhi achi hai practical hai but behavioral issues hai...

Behaviour issue nai she speaks the way it is instead of thinking what others will think it's a quality not many can keep now a days...she is proud and will not take any nonsense


They are just my points to yours...😊

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: imkt

Hey I watching ghum hai kisi ke pyar mey episodes and after watching few episodes. I was thinking that pakhi will be the last one to suffer more bec she has been stucked into 2 boats.

I don't understand sai behavior with pakhi. Agreed she is married with virat.. both hubby wifey ...bluhh.. but where does this jealousy factor came when nothing s there between till now.


Then virat is the reason for both gals miseries bec with sai he has to full fill his responsibilities and with pakhi promise bond..


Who does this in 2020? Ha ha ha I know people going to hate me for this but I am stating the fact. Real life mey aisa nhi hota yar..


Anyways I like pakhi but sai bhi achi hai practical hai but behavioral issues hai..



Bye bye 👋


This is fiction.


I suggest you go through some of the previous post where we discussed the characters in detail.

Many forum members have deeply analysed the reason why Sai is behaving the way she is; her abandonment issues were pointed out, the fact that he has given her a 'family' was pointed out, her insecurities were pointed out, her trauma was pointed out.


But most importantly, she is setting boundaries, boundaries that are healthy in my opinion. Sai has no problems, and she's iterated it a thousand times already, with Virat and Pakhi being "friends". But Pakhi is intruding in HER private space, which is unacceptable and cannot be justified for me. She goes to the room of a newly married couple, even if under a deal, whenever she wants; on their first night, then when they are fighting, yesterday she went without knocking.

For me, this is toxic.

She's called Sai a schemer who's trapped Virat, badtameez, matlabi in front of her. Still, Sai never judged her character, nor did she demean her in front of anyone. Her tone may be loud, and whatever she says is uncomfortable, but its mostly the truth.


I could go on and on this topic, but we've discussed it in detail in other posts. You might want to check them.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..


This is fiction.


I suggest you go through some of the previous post where we discussed the characters in detail.

Many forum members have deeply analysed the reason why Sai is behaving the way she is; her abandonment issues were pointed out, the fact that he has given her a 'family' was pointed out, her insecurities were pointed out, her trauma was pointed out.


But most importantly, she is setting boundaries, boundaries that are healthy in my opinion. Sai has no problems, and she's iterated it a thousand times already, with Virat and Pakhi being "friends". But Pakhi is intruding in HER private space, which is unacceptable and cannot be justified for me. She goes to the room of a newly married couple, even if under a deal, whenever she wants; on their first night, then when they are fighting, yesterday she went without knocking.

For me, this is toxic.

She's called Sai a schemer who's trapped Virat, badtameez, matlabi in front of her. Still, Sai never judged her character, nor did she demean her in front of anyone. Her tone may be loud, and whatever she says is uncomfortable, but its mostly the truth.


I could go on and on this topic, but we've discussed it in detail in other posts. You might want to check them.


Seconded. Sai is not acting like a crazy, insecure wife. She has no problem with Pakhi and Virat's "friendship". She just doesn't want to get involved in their rona dhona. Plus, Pakhi makes it seems that Virat and Sai should have NO equation at all, which is not possible. They do have a friendly vibe if not friends yet and Virat-Pakhi being friends shouldn't mean Sai-Virat should not be, just because they have a dealwali shaadi.

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