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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: amritat


The problem I think stems from previous generation. Chacha and Chachi's negative attitude also stems from the fact that they are cornered...n this is what Aryan has inherited.


It is possible, Dadi preferred Vansh's father over Rudra like he does with Vansh.

I think dadi's favorism towards vansh is also because of his tragic past. She sympathises him and appreciates how despite these emotional issues he is still strong and is taking care of the family selflessly.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Muskie

I agree with you about dadi not saying anything/scolding for trying to marry forcibly. But she did gave chances to everyone or we can say she was lenient with everyone. Riddhu during painting burning fiasco, welcomed Kabir home, was OK with RidhBir wedding, ignored ishani's nastiness MOST of the times.....


Dadi is always lenient with Vansh and by extension, his wife. Unke liye yeh dono kabhi kuch galat kar hi nahi sakta. With others, she is sometimes lenient...other times, not so much.


See, I am not saying Vansh doesnt deserve this love or that he n Aryan are the same.


Vansh is ten times the man Aryan is, and so deserves this support.


But keeping aside their capabilities for a while, when two of your grandsons are playing a match and you cheer for only one...it is unfair. When you have two grandsons but you prefer only one to do auspicious things like aarti, dahan, sthapna, then it is unfair. Everyone should be given a chance. That was my point.


Otherwise, Aryan is an a**hole. Dadi should smack the hell out of him when he is wrong.

Edited by amritat - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

In real life I myself have faced discrimination from my paternal family. I'm 1st grandchild of my paternal family from my grandparents sons side. But I always have seen my dadi loves grandchildren from her daughters side. Ya i felt bad sometimes but never took seriously this matter ...ab toh koi feelings e nahi hotai ye sab k liye.πŸ˜†

I've always been loved by everyone from paternal as well as material sideπŸ˜‰ and everyone were like dekh iski tarah banne ki koshish kar to my siblings/cousins but I always used to make them understand that every individual is different and you can't expect them to be same.

But there's one thing I'm sure of is that all my siblings/cousins loves me and respects me and we do share a very good rapport- AlhamdulillahπŸ‘πŸΌ

Edited by Muskie - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Roudy1

I think dadi's favorism towards vansh is also because of his tragic past. She sympathises him and appreciates how despite these emotional issues he is still strong and is taking care of the family selflessly.


Yes. And also his nature.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

You should not think dadi is all times supporter of vansh πŸ˜† she can go against vansh anytime like keeping kabir in VR mansion despite knowing he is the biggest enemy of vansh


That was bcoz Anupriya was leaving with him...n she loves her.


She would have kept mum if Vansh had told her what all Kabir has done.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: PassionStar

Wahi use sirf apni mom se hi pyaar mila hai. Baaki sab use taunt krte rehte hain.

He has done many things which are not acceptable but instead of making him do the right thing they ignore him. For this we can't blame Vansh, he has earned that respect and love from dadi. Aryan effort hi nahi krta ki use family importance de.


Nobody is blaming Vansh. It is not Vansh's fault that Dadi loves him more or his cousin is a brat.


In such situations, it is the elders who create the mess. They need to be a little more diplomatic in their expression. And yes, Aryan is at fault too.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Muskie

Exactly aur Aryan ko dadi k support ki kya zarurat jab wo cheating karke jeetne ki koshish karsakta haiπŸ˜†

On side note Manasvi is......

Right he doesn't need support. Par kahin na kahin ye baat pinch zarur krti hai ki brother/sister ko zyada pyaar kyu mil raha hai, ya vo ladla/ladli kyu h

Manasvi is a great actor. He is portraying Aryan's character very wellπŸ‘πŸΌ

Edited by PassionStar - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

Maybe rudra never proved him capable to take responsibility. Who knows rudra is by born black ship.


Rudra does not seem like a black sheep. More like less competent that his brother.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: amritat


Dadi is always lenient with Vansh and by extension, his wife. Unke liye yeh dono kabhi kuch galat kar hi nahi sakta. With others, she is sometimes lenient...other times, not so much.


See, I am not saying Vansh doesnt deserve this love or that he n Aryan are the same.


Vansh is ten times the man Aryan is, and so deserves this support.


But keeping aside their capabilities for a while, when two of your grandsons are playing a match and you cheer for only one...it is unfair. When you have two grandsons but you prefer only one to do auspicious things like aarti, dahan, sthapna, then it is unfair. Everyone should be given a chance. That was my point.


Otherwise, Aryan is an a**hole. Dadi should smack the hell out of him when he is wrong.

yes I agree with you hereπŸ˜† irrespective of their capabilities, they should be treated equally. Equality to chodo sometimes aryan is treated as of he doesn't exist anymore (maybe because he's not a main character)
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Posted: 5 years ago

There's a show on star plus which my nani watches where leads are treated with utmost partiality and all of their mistakes/blunders are ignored. Itni chod hoti thi woh show dekhte time. Amrita ki tarah hi feel hota tha k why don't they treat everyone the same wayπŸ˜†

Nani mujhe zabardast dikhati thi- aakar dekh beta N.... Kaise apne ghar ko sambhal rahi haiπŸ€ͺ

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