IMMj Episodes Discussion Thread #38 - Page 16

Originally posted by: amritat

Oh shit...again they have made Rrahul move his head like Bol Na Halke Halke...Yeh banda phirse raita phelayega.

For once can they watch the khamoshiya /janam janam sequence

Originally posted by: amritat

😆

I generally dislike this blind love and support of the righteous patriarch/matriarch of the family towards the lead pair in ITV.

Even Baa of Kyunki had similar attitude towards Tulsi-Mihir.

Does not vansh deserve to get this open support from dadi? 😕 he does everything for this family, for this family members then what's wrong if dadi supports vansh more than anyone from family members. Dadi just supports vansh openly & dearly but never goes against anyone of family members for sake of vansh. We can't ever say that dadi's love for vansh is reason of rudru's going against vansh. If rudru was capable to take responsibility of family then why family chose vansh's father as head of Singhania business!

Originally posted by: Muskie

aryan and Ishani are quite similar, jab zarurat se ziyada mil jaata hai toh kadr nahi hoti

If aryan or his family has been neglected, vansh's life too has been compromised due to handling the business, and it's not that vansh didn't gave him any chance, he did and he used to mess up.

Regarding the bappa or the Raavan episodes, his intentions were wrong so maybe that was a sign from God😆

Point is Aryan, Ishani, Kabir k intensions humesha wrong/illogical hote hai that's why they never get what they want(coz they are not happy with what they have)

My point is not that at all.

Vansh's life is far more complicated than Aryan's. Aryan ne apni life mein kabhi koi suffering dekhi hi nahi. So, that's not my point.

My point is, Dadi has a blind trust and blatant partiality over Vansh (and perhaps towards her elder son as well). Be it business or family, marriage or Ravan dahan, Ganapati sthapna or basketball match, she always cheers for Vansh and Vansh alone.

Think about this. Vansh forced a girl to marry him. Did Dadi scold Vansh about it? Only once she tried to tell him about consent but the moment, Siya said Bhaiyan ko pyaar hain...she forgot about consent n blessed him.

During engagement, Riddhima questioned Anupriya - Aapko iss baat se hairani hain ki main iss rishte ke liye raazi ho gayi...iss baat se nahi ki aapke bete ne mujhse zabardarsti shaadi karne ka faisla le liya...

Dadi was present. She heard it. But she never questioned Vansh about it once.

Originally posted by: Muskie

areyyyy maine itna bada kuch likha tha😡😡 ghatia internet🤬

Pata nahi kya likha tha, bhool gayi

Aryan has always been a pathetic person maybe because of chachi, while vansh has been loving/caring about him irrespective of his behaviour, if dadi is being partial/loving towards vansh he earned for it. Have you seen any of the siblings caring for her or even going to her room???

Aryan has own parents so dadi's love can't change him much ever😆 Aryan has got bad upbringing by his cunning parents ...here Aryan's parents are alive so even if dadi tries to change his attitude showering her love it's not ever possible because on children more than parents nobody has right.

Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

Does not vansh deserve to get this open support from dadi? 😕 he does everything for this family, for this family members then what's wrong if dadi supports vansh more than anyone from family members. Dadi just supports vansh openly & dearly but never goes against anyone of family members for sake of vansh. We can't ever say that dadi's love for vansh is reason of rudru's going against vansh. If rudru was capable to take responsibility of family then why family chose vansh's father as head of Singhania business!

Supporting one does not mean going against another.

Vansh is a good son, so he deserves this love he gets.

I am not against Vansh getting support. I am against the indifference Dadi has towards others.

Originally posted by: amritat

My point is not that at all.

Vansh's life is far more complicated than Aryan's. Aryan ne apni life mein kabhi koi suffering dekhi hi nahi. So, that's not my point.

My point is, Dadi has a blind trust and blatant partiality over Vansh (and perhaps towards her elder son as well). Be it business or family, marriage or Ravan dahan, Ganapati sthapna or basketball match, she always cheers for Vansh and Vansh alone.

Think about this. Vansh forced a girl to marry him. Did Dadi scold Vansh about it? Only once she tried to tell him about consent but the moment, Siya said Bhaiyan ko pyaar hain...she forgot about consent n blessed him.

During engagement, Riddhima questioned Anupriya - Aapko iss baat se hairani hain ki main iss rishte ke liye raazi ho gayi...iss baat se nahi ki aapke bete ne mujhse zabardarsti shaadi karne ka faisla le liya...

Dadi was present. She heard it. But she never questioned Vansh about it once.

This type topsy-turvy act is done by dadi many times because she is also not perfect. You are questioning on dadi's blind love toward vansh but is she really fully supporting vansh everywhere! No...dadi kept kabir in VR mansion despite knowing kabir is biggest enemy of vansh. ..in this case how you will describe dadi's act in matter of her blind love toward vansh?

Does anyone have link to the precap ?

Originally posted by: amritat

Supporting one does not mean going against another.

Vansh is a good son, so he deserves this love he gets.

I am not against Vansh getting support. I am against the indifference Dadi has towards others.

Dadi's character is revolving toward vansh according to story ...hence we can't get her detail relationship with others. If dadi's relationship with all members was shown in detail then dadi would be kept in montage also 😆 yaha dadi serf vansh k liye & very much riansh shipper.

Originally posted by: amritat

My point is not that at all.

Vansh's life is far more complicated than Aryan's. Aryan ne apni life mein kabhi koi suffering dekhi hi nahi. So, that's not my point.

My point is, Dadi has a blind trust and blatant partiality over Vansh (and perhaps towards her elder son as well). Be it business or family, marriage or Ravan dahan, Ganapati sthapna or basketball match, she always cheers for Vansh and Vansh alone.

Think about this. Vansh forced a girl to marry him. Did Dadi scold Vansh about it? Only once she tried to tell him about consent but the moment, Siya said Bhaiyan ko pyaar hain...she forgot about consent n blessed him.

During engagement, Riddhima questioned Anupriya - Aapko iss baat se hairani hain ki main iss rishte ke liye raazi ho gayi...iss baat se nahi ki aapke bete ne mujhse zabardarsti shaadi karne ka faisla le liya...

Dadi was present. She heard it. But she never questioned Vansh about it once.

She hasn't seen riddhu protesting/complaining about the forced marriage. She got herself ready to marry him after a long (good) speech so maybe she thought it's not a big deal. She doesn't say anything about ishani's bratty behaviour and Aryans disgusting behaviour too.

Bold- yes because he earned it, do you think all the family members except siya and angrey deserves the SAME love.

Originally posted by: amritat

Exactly.

Whatever motive Aryan had...Dadi was not aware. These might be small things but in the larger picture, they do affect relationships in the long run.

I have seen this in my family too. Not all children are same. Some kids' psyche gets affected and they grow up to hate their siblings or cousins bcoz of partiality shown by elders.

I agree with you.

Some children are emotionally not strong. They need in some way or the other assurance from the family in the form of love and attention which makes them feel valued.

All the time neglecting or favouring one child may develop hatred in the heart of other child. Although parents might just be concerned about him/her and for betterment only they compare them or favour the other child. Children will not go behind finding the reason for their parents reaction but inside they feel lonely and depressed and that creates a feeling that nobody loves her/him.