Originally posted by: mirun
Sanam could have told to Aari that his mannerism is intimidating since they have many one on one conversation . When Aari was asking about valarpu nobody allowed him to continue and Bala was irritating him saying spraying and other stuff . Basically he didnāt allow the conversation to extend . Aari needed some outlet and he was expressing his thoughts to Sanam and Anitha . Sanam had choice to either tell him his mistakes without inviting Bala or walked away saying that she doesnāt agree. The problem is when she invited Bala . Bala will make people go crazy and no one questions him . So it was Sanamās fault for create the eco system for argument. Once Bala enters conversation he will throw heads and tails without any proof .
I get it as Aari wants closure about valarupu thing but he is not gonna get closure as Sam doesn't even think that she made a mistake. She thinks that Aari said that she is not fit to be mother for her immaturity while Aari meant something else. This conversation is gonna heat up also Sam asked sorry, if I hurt you only after Bala ask her to say sorry. Sam and Aari have lots of personal baggage as both kind of started going personal for sometime. Its not gonna stop. Same with Bala too. This rivalry gonna continue as respect can't be asked and it should be given. I don't think that Sam and Bala have as such respect for Aari. Aari should move on and just see Bala as competitor as there is no solution to it. Otherwise, wait for Kamal as Anita said to solve this issue.
For Sanam, it is all game. Aari and Sanam don't seem to have that bond. They are just talking for mere game. Aari should try build some bond with ppl.