Tujhse Hai Raabta Daily Discussion Thread #23 - Page 72

Originally posted by: Aslesha99

If Kallu quietly takes any bullshit this time I am telling you😡

She is no punching bag for Malhar to take his anger out on.

She should not take any nonsense this time round and stand up for herself.

Disrespecting women like this not acceptable.

abhi tak usne ayisa kuch kiya nay hai.

and karega bhi nay.

maximum that he can do is verbally and emotionally showing anger on kalyani that's it.

usme bhi woh kudh bhi hurt hoga.

as for romance and all, abhi show mein mohool hi ayisa nay hai.

we didn't know about swara's death but ahir's death happened just before few days and moksh's search is going on. and also ahir's death case is open.

even if malhar's intentions behind the wedding were genuine he wouldn't directly get romantic with kalyani or jump into bed with her. so i didn't expect any happy moments after this wedding.

precap was shocking to me as well but ayisa kuch hone nay wala hai asal mein.

zyaada se syaada deshmuks ke saamne insult karna, biwi hone ke wajah se zyaada ghar ka kaam karwana kitchen mein etc hoga bas.

season 1 was different abhi kalyani DM hai and ek matured aurat hai moreover she is the love of his life, pillu ki maa.

he wont abuse her like vivek did to swara. bas gusse mein hai woh abhi. that's it.

Originally posted by: Kalma007

There isn't just the physical way to hurt people... you can massively mess up someone just as bad by playing mind games with them.

Malhar basically did that in their first marriage, he effed up her mind with his punishments for the stupidest things (and those idiotic things haven't left her mind even now) , wouldn't let her live a moment in peace,etc... now he's ready to do it all over again for something she had no part in.

I kinda wish Avni had gotten her wish of becoming the Rane bahu.

But we have not seen what he is going to do and judging by precap I don’t think it’s a good idea let’s just wait watch episode then say something.

Originally posted by: janecastle

I had stopped watching this show because of the leap. But today I saw the precap for wednesday. I must say it is really sad that the show has come back to the point from where it all started. Somebody should file a complaint against the makers for promoting domestic violence. Malhar is behaving worse than an animal. Can't believe I used to like this guy once. Now he is just a monster. Really felt bad for Kalyani. What exactly is her fault if her chacha did bad with Swara. She was not even close with her chacha that Malhar has to take revenge from her. This is plain rubbish. If they don't have any story left then just end the show instead of showing crap like this.

Sometimes precap are misleading

And if you want to say something than wait for episode see it

Originally posted by: Aslesha99

If Kallu quietly takes any bullshit this time I am telling you😡

She is no punching bag for Malhar to take his anger out on.

She should not take any nonsense this time round and stand up for herself.

Disrespecting women like this not acceptable.

Honestly Malhar should have married Avni if this was the reason to marry Kallu because a pure soul like Kallu deserves much better.

There is nothing romantic in such toxic and abusive behaviour.

Totally agree. I'm sick of everyone using Kallu as a doormat to wipe their shoes on. Enough is enough.

In what universe and era do the writers of THR live? Chemistry won't make fans stay if the writing is BS and shows such awful dynamics between man/woman.

So far they've: made Kalyani look completely stupid and unprofessional as a DM and Anu still can't function without Kallu's encouragement and hasn't managed to become anything/independent economically whereas Malhar and Sarthak are shown as being the bestest in their respective profession.

Sarthak being protective of his kids is louded and a good thing, but Anu is bad for mourning Kalyani when she thought her daughter had died.

Malhar has seen first hand how much AS &Co care for Kallu and still wants to use her for revenge.... and of course Kalyani will forgive him and Sarthak for how they're treating her, because the only ones allowed to get angry and hold grudges are them or AS.

Originally posted by: Priyapriyu

I would just say if you haven’t seen after leap than don’t judge it by precap

Sometimes precap are misleading

And if you want to say something than wait for episode see it

I read the written update for tuesday's episode too. It is pretty clear that Malhar is taking revenge for his sister's death. Even if there is something more, nothing can justify a husband torturing a wife like this. All this happened once in the show and makers did redeem the character to an extend. Now they are rehashing the same torture track.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

i admit that it is disturbing for the fans to see malhar like this in the precap.

but people need to understand his situation more than focusing only on his actions and judging him.

he slowly and eventually lost his whole family, each member of the family died either directly or indirectly cuz of deshmuks. and kaka and malhar himself their lives have also has become like this cuz of deshmuk women.

in short, his whole life and rane kandhan has been ruined.

swara's death was horrible, hum bahut si choti choti galtiya nikhal sakte hai trying to justify ki galti ranes ki bhi hai and all but deep down we all know who the real culprits are.

when it come to hurting kalyani malhar may hurt her verbally not phycially.

ek conclusion pe ane se pehle and blame karne se pehle we need to think na ki sach mein ayisa ho bhi sakta hai ya nay.

malhar being a male lead and who loves kalyani to the core can never abuse her like vivek did to swara.

bas precap ke bases pe we need to stop judging him.

pehle watch tomorrow's episode and how the last scene went by, u will get an idea.

To kya Malhar ke poore khandan ko Kalyani ne maara? Jissne maara usse target kaare na? Abhi AS, Vivek and Pallo so zyada mujhe Malhar se nafrat ho rahi hain.

I hope jab badla lete lete Malhar ka mann bharjaye to Kallu khud usse divorce dede.

what's up kalyani yet with sister lu malhar dc would you do all this he lu kalyani

dc take revenge malhar on kalyani what he did ia his do not understand much

here,

sarthak's behaviour towards kalyani is wrong. questiong her character always is wrong as he was a father figure to her in season 1.

no one said anu's grief for losing kalyani was wrong, but she not thinking and taking care of her own biological child and her death is wrong.

anupriya playing with sarthak's emotions by saying mukku is his daughter is wrong.

and as for kalyani i agree with how to phrased it saying 'people use her like a doormat' but have we ever thought why? because she let others do it. kya zaroorth hai avni ki bakwaas sunne ki and sarthak ki bakwaas sunne ki?

she has become a part2 of anupriya that's all, ab jab woh kudh ki izzat nay karti tho loge uski izzat kyun karenge?

its the same problem with both anupriya and kalyani

what malhar did in season 1 to an 18 year old girl was wrong

as per the precap malhar just said so, but guys wait till the episodes are released and see what really happens.

coming to a conclusion before that will be wrong.

as per his actions, I would say how else people expect a heartbroken person to react who lost his sister cuz of domestic violence by deshmuks? in that situation the kalyani standing in front of him was a Deshmukh woman to him not the love of his life. he still didn't hurt her, he hurt himself in that scene as well. watch tomorrow's episode last scene.

yes, hurting kalyani won't hurt deshmuks he is not doing that to hurt AS or pallavi or goda or vivek. according to him he was talking to a deshmuk woman at that time.

woh kalyani ko kuch nay karega, domestic violence tho dhoor ki baat hai. so girls relax.

Originally posted by: Kalma007

To kya Malhar ke poore khandan ko Kalyani ne maara? Jissne maara usse target kaare na? Abhi AS, Vivek and Pallo so zyada mujhe Malhar se nafrat ho rahi hain.

I hope jab badla lete lete Malhar ka mann bharjaye to Kallu khud usse divorce dede.

read my previous comment, mainly last few sentences.