Bigg Boss 14: Daily Discussion Thread - 5th November, 2020 - Page 82

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

Theres nothing to get offended for, it's just a show. But why should anyone have to ignore? If I want to share my opinion then what's the harm? I'm not attacking anyone personally. This is what happened in season 11 also, every time a Hina fan came here they were given the same answer. But it's a discussion thread, discuss karo na

Yaar, you're simply not getting my point. Nobody is stopping you from posting your opinion, public forum hai discussion ke liye toh apne opinions toh rakhegein hi hai, no harm in that. Say, you don't agree with someone's opinion, you can argue on that, aap discuss kar sakte ho but when you say something like "aap ko Rubina hi dikhti hai", tab woh personal remark hi ho jaata hai, we're here to judge contestants, not each other.

What I am trying to say is - It's s up to SP na, agar she feels like ki usko sirf Rubina hi discuss karni hai toh yeh uski marzi, nobody should control or judge her on that. Facts par argue karo, kisi ki personal preference par nahi.

And, I was a Hina fan in BB11 toh I know how it feels. That's why I said ki ignore karo.

Originally posted by: WhosTheFool

But you are invested enough in Rubina to go ahead and question the opposite person's quantity and quality of posts?

Please feel free to join the discussion. If you have a differing view point counter it. But please limit this to the contestant and not the poster. I don't think the poster's choice or viewpoint should be a part of the judgement.

Of course I'm only watching for rubina. And what quantity and quality are you on about? You have some misunderstanding but I was not targeting any member okay. Saying ruby ruby ruby bohot hota hain in this forum is not commenting on the poster is it? 🤔 abhi bhi mein khethi hoon that ruby ruby bohot hota hain. My view.

Originally posted by: canuck-umz

I like Shardul for his wit, humour, and kindness. It has nothing to do with sympathy. I actually had a conversation with some of the members in yesterday's DDT that actors need to get off their butts and look for employment elsewhere rather than waiting for acting gigs and this was in regards to Shardul/Eijaz's discussion about finances. People are sympathizing with him but a lot of people are actually liking him as a human being too.

I like him as a human being too but not sure if that has been reinforced due to us feeling sympathetic due to his financial condition and certainly in SM that’s the case. I haven’t seen unseen and these episodes barely have any content to invest or see anyone’s personality man 😆

On another general note, I completely agree with you, actors have to start being flexible just like people who do everyday jobs are. I had hired a personal driver who used to take me personally up and down to work (my office is super far like 1 hour + commute) now due to covid his work was impacted, he started working with Amazon temporarily. Yes he gets paid a lot lesser but I applaud his hard work, actors have a certain ego that it’s beneath them to do xyz.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

Yeah and so what? I feel its thay way, DDT is not a person that it will be offended. I was quoting you but I could have quoted anyone, dont take it personally baba.

I never said people shouldnt write about x y z -_-

Just said that ruby ruby ruby bohot ho raha hain. If its being interpreted as dont talk about ruby then thats a misconception.

If tomorrow someone says ruby is being praised a lot on this forum, toh kya does that mean I want people to stop praising her? No nah. I was just stating what I felt. Itna toh banta hain.

I didn't take that quote personally - I just responded to you saying that I don't make up the DDT collectively - so can't help with that. People will post their thoughts - it's each to their own.

But you did question my view when you asked if mujhe sirf Ruby hi dikhti hain kya? That I do take exception to, because that's implying that I'm always criticising her or excessively criticising her. Which - no offence intended - is none of anyone's business, because that is a judgement of my view. As long as I'm doing so within the rules - I'm free to speak my mind to any extent. As is everyone else.

In the same vein - people can and will often be of the view that a contestant gets excessively praised and hailed - even when, in their view, it's undeserved - but them saying the same thing to a fan or a supporter, would likewise not be on.

Originally posted by: AceofSpades77

Well said on both discussions.

Im rooting for Shardul too and want to see more of him. He has plenty of potential to be in the top 5. Just because hes not argumentative doesnt mean hes not BB matetial so yea I agree with what you said.

Exactly!

If anything, Big Boss needs more players like him.

They actually need to stop cutting off his screentime, and show his entertainment tadka sessions on main episode if they want to see their crappy show to improve!

Originally posted by: Kinginthenorth9

Sure you can. I already said that you are more than welcome to discuss about the contestants and give your povs on them. It’s a free forum after all.

But you weren’t commenting on the contestants now were you? You were specifically questioning another forum member’s pov and that is against the rules of this forum.

You specifically asked SP why she’s always criticizing Ruby which is against the rules of this forum. It’s her choice who she’s critical about just like it’s your choice who you dislike but you can’t question another person’s opinions.

Omg...why are you attacking her? If she is wrong then there is report button . Press that mods will do rest. Other than that group attacking over a member....

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

But what's the harm if I stated my view? I'm not telling you guys to stop discussing rubina or anything. Just said what I felt that a lot of people will be doing wrong in the show but ruby will be bashed even if shes there for 1 sec and thats just me stating my POV. Yall are free to ignore me too if you want.

Well your view was not about the contestant, but rather the reaction she generates. Instead of discussing Rubina and her actions you sorta went ahead and questioned people's reaction to her.

You might be right on your side, but since you quoted SP and went ahead in berrating her for her post, also brought up the quality of posts over here, then I think there is no harm in others also expressing their view point on this reaction of yours.

Originally posted by: TrickyMind

BB - aap ko teeno ko bola tha triangle ko pakadna hai par aap ne hath phasaya tha andar . hamain laga sanchalak ko samaj mai aayega (par sanchalak dumb hai hum bhul gaye the 😆) isliye humne intervene nahi kiya.. aap mai se kisi ko chot lag sakti hai.. hatheli se pakadd k rakhiye triangle

Sanchalak jas - sorry BB

Originally posted by: nehaaa.14

Yaar, you're simply not getting my point. Nobody is stopping you from posting your opinion, public forum hai discussion ke liye toh apne opinions toh rakhegein hi hai, no harm in that. Say, you don't agree with someone's opinion, you can argue on that, aap discuss kar sakte ho but when you say something like "aap ko Rubina hi dikhti hai", tab woh personal remark hi ho jaata hai, we're here to judge contestants, not each other.

What I am trying to say is - It's s up to SP na, agar she feels like ki usko sirf Rubina hi discuss karni hai toh yeh uski marzi, nobody should control or judge her on that. Facts par argue karo, kisi ki personal preference par nahi.

And, I was a Hina fan in BB11 toh I know how it feels. That's why I said ki ignore karo.

But it's true na, if from a whole hour epsiode, you are going to discuss over ruby who was maybe shown for mere five mins then muje toh aesa he lage ga na and I do apologise if I made a 'personal remark', will discuss only now not get personal even by accident.

Anyone is free to discuss Ruby. Good but I am also free to point it out if I want to.

I know you were a hina fan, you were in the Twitter group also na 😊

Originally posted by: akniti

Omg...why are you attacking her? If she is wrong then there is report button . Press that mods will do rest. Other than that group attacking over a member....

Are you kidding me?

How did you get him attacking a member out of that post? 🤣