Prayansh/Kunal-Aneri AT #2 Jo Kal Tak Dard Deta Tha - Page 115

Originally posted by: Sonia.KN

On one point I don't agree She neither loved Archit nor ll ever. Only its Rey.She spent years with Rey when She was not mature,but with Archit sure.So She never got any such chance with Rey or can say He never gave Her a chance to believe Him.

Thing is She has a firm belief in Archit with whom She can share everything.Rey is that unfortunate one who doesn't have any such one

Or can say people around Him... neither them or not let anyone to show such trust in Him.

He is such a helpless fellow who can't bare His heart out to someone.When He did to Prani she was not in senses.

Why He is so attached to His daughter ? Coz He finds His reflection in Her.Only She is the one with whom He does heart to heart conversations. But She is so young that can't understand everything n not good for Her.

That's exactly what I think. 👏

Originally posted by: Sonia.KN

On one point I don't agree She neither loved Archit nor ll ever. Only its Rey.She spent years with Rey when She was not mature,but with Archit sure.So She never got any such chance with Rey or can say He never gave Her a chance to believe Him.

Thing is She has a firm belief in Archit with whom She can share everything.Rey is that unfortunate one who doesn't have any such one

Or can say people around Him... neither them or not let anyone to show such trust in Him.

He is such a helpless fellow who can't bare His heart out to someone.When He did to Prani she was not in senses.

Why He is so attached to His daughter ? Coz He finds His reflection in Her.Only She is the one with whom He does heart to heart conversations. But She is so young that can't understand everything n not good for Her.

@bold: I stated things from Rey's perspective. I was not talking about pranati's stand here. Since you always say that you watch it from Rey's eyes. I did it for the first time.

Apart from that, I honestly agreed that Rey doesn't have anyone in his life to open his heart. We need someone need not be life partner always but mom, dad, best friend, brother, sister, cousin, grand father, grandma, uncle or aunt or God/almighty or whatever relationship.. it doesn't matter. What matters the most is having someone to share our things. No normal human being with conscience can survive without any such person in this life to take a step forward or move on.

But this is not the case with criminals and plotters and those who enjoys happiness in destroying other's lives.

Rey is really unfortunate in this matter. One thing we got is it's pranati for him with whom he can share his every thing always. He lied to many girls or people in his life even with pranati too but most of the time she caught him red handed and he was always honest with her right from not ready for marriage, abortion, custody, Dadi's intentions,etc., He is the one who showed the real face of kuranas to pranati and what they are capable of. He knowingly or unknowingly made her see the dirty things for her good but it only worsened the things between them. He did that with am intention of saving her but it only made pranati ready for the battle with them.

Originally posted by: jey3ram

@bold: I stated things from Rey's perspective. I was not talking about pranati's stand here. Since you always say that you watch it from Rey's eyes. I did it for the first time.

Apart from that, I honestly agreed that Rey doesn't have anyone in his life to open his heart. We need someone need not be life partner always but mom, dad, best friend, brother, sister, cousin, grand father, grandma, uncle or aunt or God/almighty or whatever relationship.. it doesn't matter. What matters the most is having someone to share our things. No normal human being with conscience can survive without any such person in this life to take a step forward or move on.

But this is not the case with criminals and plotters and those who enjoys happiness in destroying other's lives.

Rey is really unfortunate in this matter. One thing we got is it's pranati for him with whom he can share his every thing always. He lied to many girls or people in his life even with pranati too but most of the time she caught him red handed and he was always honest with her right from not ready for marriage, abortion, custody, Dadi's intentions,etc., He is the one who showed the real face of kuranas to pranati and what they are capable of. He knowingly or unknowingly made her see the dirty things for her good but it only worsened the things between them. He did that with am intention of saving her but it only made pranati ready for the battle with them.

Originally posted by: jey3ram

@bold: I stated things from Rey's perspective. I was not talking about pranati's stand here. Since you always say that you watch it from Rey's eyes. I did it for the first time.

Apart from that, I honestly agreed that Rey doesn't have anyone in his life to open his heart. We need someone need not be life partner always but mom, dad, best friend, brother, sister, cousin, grand father, grandma, uncle or aunt or God/almighty or whatever relationship.. it doesn't matter. What matters the most is having someone to share our things. No normal human being with conscience can survive without any such person in this life to take a step forward or move on.

But this is not the case with criminals and plotters and those who enjoys happiness in destroying other's lives.

Rey is really unfortunate in this matter. One thing we got is it's pranati for him with whom he can share his every thing always. He lied to many girls or people in his life even with pranati too but most of the time she caught him red handed and he was always honest with her right from not ready for marriage, abortion, custody, Dadi's intentions,etc., He is the one who showed the real face of kuranas to pranati and what they are capable of. He knowingly or unknowingly made her see the dirty things for her good but it only worsened the things between them. He did that with am intention of saving her but it only made pranati ready for the battle with them.

Well said 👏

Originally posted by: ReadLo

When I talk about denial, I'm talking about the fact that Rey thinks he can manipulate Dadi and hope to win. That's where I'm talking about denial.

I'm not talking about his feelings for Prani, because he's already accepted it, and he's accepted it for a long time. His jealousy was already a revelation in itself.

Yes Rey protects Prani from Dadi, he tried to make her run away, he told her to run away. He knows very well that nobody in his family lets strangers live in peace and even among themselves they are toxic.

For me Rey and Prani's relationship is very special.

1: They knew each other during their immaturity phase. Prani was a dreamer (first love) and Rey was a rebel (running from one girl to another).

2: A child came into the equation, for a woman it's always difficult to make a choice, but for a man it's very easy and there Prani faced the reality of her situation, love can't save everything!

3: Archit is not in the middle, but for both of them he is a person to be taken into consideration. Prani doesn't want him to become the father of a child that is not his own and for Rey he has to accept the fact that a man can raise his daughter (the child he didn't want at first) to be raised by another man.

4: A child is in the middle of their "I love you, neither do I". Characters, feelings, resentments, old wounds go that nothing could really be serene between them.

You know the reason I watch PB is because for once the characters in PB are "human", you don't feel like you're seeing one cliche after another (although there were).

Prani is strong, she does what is right.

Rey, although a prisoner, he can escape from his reality from time to time.

To come back to the denial I was talking about.

Several times Rey tried to manipulate Dadi so that she couldn't lose patience before the 10 days he gave her. But each time he lost out. So he thinks "naively" that he can manipulate a dragon who holds all the cards in his hands... That's the denial he's going through now, just hearing him think "I told Dadi that, but my heart doesn't accept it...". In the end it is also cowardly not to be able to say things openly .

Okk... Got it 👍

You feel that his endless denial of accepting that he can manipulate Dadi to get pranati stay with them is idiotic. I agree 💯

@brown: 3rd point answers Rey's questions of how to move away from pranati's way. He couldn't trust Archit for pranati and jugnu. Somehow he feels pranati as precious and he wants best for her. But he also doubts whether Archit stand for pranati all the time and since jugnu was not Archit's child, he finds it difficult to accept Archit for jugnu's sake and he was not ready to sacrifice his place in jugnu's life or say make way for Archit in Jugnu's life for pranati's sake. This is what normal people in real life does. Just because they're coparents that doesn't mean they can be good life partners. Children accept their parents and their life partners and lead a normal life.

But Reyansh is not ready to do this and he not even once think about this. He somewhere pushing pranati to give up on Archit for jugnu completely though he knows it's wrong.

Originally posted by: ReadLo

I don't agree that Prani can't live in this family. She can, she has the strength for it. But in a couple there has to be a balance, if the wife is hurt, the husband has to protect her and if the husband is hurt, the wife has to protect him.

As I said in my job, Rey has to face the truth. I agree with him that he wants Prani to go away to protect her, so he is altruistic, but it is also cowardice.

So you tell him to leave, because you don't want to fight for your own happiness. Yes, you've lost your mother, but you don't know the whole truth, and if you know the truth, you're too lazy to put things right.

Even if she has the strength for it, how long will she be able to bear the brunt of the entire circus alone? It is human for her to break at some point, not to forget the amount of stress and other harships that she has to & can go through cuz she's strong enough.

I believe that this is where the balance between partners sharing burdens comes in and I 100% agree with that! She is doing it right now for Jugnu. But, in the future if she chooses to stick by as a mother or as Rey's partner (considering they fall in love and all), it still won't be healthy unless and until Rey takes his stand. Even after he does, that circus and its burden is not something Prayanshu have to bear, it will never be healthy for their family or the individual relationships between the three.

That family circus shouldn't be any of their burden to bear. Not just Rey or Jugs or Prani, none of the members should have to bear it for the sake of money, business and deals. The entire house is a toxic mess, it is a chain of toxicity, passed on to every new generation and every member in different ways.

Originally posted by: ReadLo

As the family loves cinema, she will give them some.

I want something major to go down! That family deserves it!

Originally posted by: jey3ram

They should be coparents not life partners.

Every word in this post ❤️

PB should try exploring this whole co-parents track before they move into life partners. End game considering it's ITV and title Pavitra Bhaya would be life partners. But this co-parenting (other than this 6 months joint custody) with Rey & Prani leading separate lives can be explored!

Originally posted by: ReadLo

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Originally posted by: Natashapaul

Every word in this post ❤️

PB should try exploring this whole co-parents track before they move into life partners. End game considering it's ITV and title Pavitra Bhaya would be life partners. But this co-parenting (other than this 6 months joint custody) with Rey & Prani leading separate lives can be explored!

Exactly, this is what defines the title 'pavitra bhagya'

Pure love of parents individually with their child. After the court drama, pranati and Reyansh started this co-parenting successfully by indulging in teaching jugnu in her studies and playing games with her. Spending their quality time with jugnu alone giving space to the other and admired the bonding without any jealousy or spoiling the child's mind to get the custody. Usually parents with toxic relationship does this thing.

They make sure the kid hate the other parent completely.but both pranati and Reyansh are not like that, they acted like a matured person except one time where Reyansh spit some venom about pranati out of jealousy in front of jugnu.

I admire pranati in this, she was ok with jugnu choosing reyansh though she wants her badly. She is really a good parent in that sense. I saw my own parents fill my ear with bad things about other when they are not in good terms. so, I understand what it means to be co-parenting.