I like that about Riddhima

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Its a bit late post, i wanted to write it three days before but now I got the time and I wanted to share this with all, so here I am...šŸ¤—


I remeber ridhima's dialogue "mera dil aur kismat dono kabir se jude hain"...

And her constant monologue that after compeleting this mission, i will go back to my world, to be with my kabir...

And she did teej pooja to be successful in her task, indirectly praying for kabir's success.


While watching the show, I became so involved for those 20 minutes that i actually hate such scenes where riddhima became all so lovey dovey while thinking of kabir,😔 it makes me bitter🤢 (i know its not healthy). And i would literally shout at the tv that please Riddhima stop thinking about that inspector, pls look at that hottieā˜ŗļø standing beside you, but all in vain, she never listens to me.šŸ˜’.


But then it made me think that if it had been a real life situation, riddhima or any girl would have the same feelings and thoughts. The girl who was forced to marry a rude and supposedly criminal person, would not want to stay and make that relation work. If she had a chance she would take that in an instant to free herself from his prison, where she is not allowed to call anyone, where everyone keeps an eye on her.


Of course thats obvious no girl would sacrifice herself for her lover, would never allow harself to marry someone whom she doesnt like. But thats the only flaw I can find in Riddhima..


And another thing that many are saying that how she behave so rudely and can be such hypocrite sometimes, lecturing vansh on relations, trust and honesty whereas she herself is keeping secrets from him and trying to collect evidences against him. But thats HER job, thats why she sacrificed so much, she had to be a perfect figure infront of him and she also does all this just to instigate him so that he will slip and that can be used against him..

So after this and much much more thinkingšŸ¤“ i realised that yes Riddhima is not wrong, just my love for Rianshā¤ļø and vanshā˜ŗļø are making me biased,


So yeah, thats allšŸ¤—.


P.S. sorry for this rant, i wasnt able to get this out of my head so had to make this post. But please give your views on this.. 🄳

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Yeah ridhimaa is not wrong but his teacher/coach has taught her wrong things ridhima has done all for sacrifice and to make her love win from all the battles she isn't a hypocrite but blindfolded in love she just can't see the real picture.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Yess ur point is valid

We are thinking as viewer but the character situation

Are different

That's what wrong we do when we start comparing with our thoughts

....

In life I m talking about practicality when problems come u cant even think what to do


I agree


No where none is wrong every single character is justified ...

I watched episode yesterday only but I didn't get angry on her

When u r playing a game

Saam daam dand bhed u use

Either u do mistake or choose correct path that doesn't matter


Everything to change needs time and patience

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Very well-said.


Off late, a lot of people are becoming too critical of Riddhima, but the truth is...she has NO reason to not trust Kabir so far.


Except sending her for a dangerous mission (which Riddhima is justifying in her head as patriotism), Kabir has been nothing but nice with her. He even asked her to quit a few times, but she held on.


On the other hand, Vansh is not exactly being the "good husband" with her. He didnt molest her yet, but he is always after her.

She is not allowed to use phones, she cant have friends, she is not allowed to ask questions, she is not allowed to roam everywhere in her own house. Because of all these reasons, she is feeling suffocated with Vansh, even though, he is actually being a gentleman with her in many ways.


I am a Riansh shipper but my fandom is purely because Vansh is hot. šŸ˜† I am basically in love with Rrahul Sudhir's personality and Vansh's dark s*xiness.


But if we take off our Riansh spectacles for once, then we'd realize that any other untrained girl in Riddhima's place would dislike a man like Vansh. As a husband, the guy is scary.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: amritat

Very well-said.


Off late, a lot of people are becoming too critical of Riddhima, but the truth is...she has NO reason to not trust Kabir so far.


Except sending her for a dangerous mission (which Riddhima is justifying in her head as patriotism), Kabir has been nothing but nice with her. He even asked her to quit a few times, but she held on.


On the other hand, Vansh is not exactly being the "good husband" with her. He didnt molest her yet, but he is always after her.

She is not allowed to use phones, she cant have friends, she is not allowed to ask questions, she is not allowed to roam everywhere in her own house. Because of all these reasons, she is feeling suffocated with Vansh, even though, he is actually being a gentleman with her in many ways.


I am a Riansh shipper but my fandom is purely because Vansh is hot. šŸ˜† I am basically in love with Rrahul Sudhir's personality and Vansh's dark s*xiness.


But if we take off our Riansh spectacles for once, then we'd realize that any other untrained girl in Riddhima's place would dislike a man like Vansh. As a husband, the guy is scary.

yes you are right I'm not against vansh but some of his behaviour like wanting to marry her without her wish, aiming a gun at her on the wedding night, throwing a knife at her, forcefully giving her water, taunting her, dhamkaoing her. I know riddhu ki harkate aisi hoti hai but stillšŸ˜†

Besides she does love Kabir a lot and he seems to be a good guy TO HER, who works for the country and fights against criminals risking his own life and all.....

Pehle se hi Kabir k vansh k khilaf itna kuch boldiya and vasnh ki harkate šŸ˜†

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: LeviOsAa

yes you are right I'm not against vansh but some of his behaviour like wanting to marry her without her wish, aiming a gun at her on the wedding night, throwing a knife at her, forcefully giving her water, taunting her, dhamkaoing her. I know riddhu ki harkate aisi hoti hai but stillšŸ˜†

Besides she does love Kabir a lot and he seems to be a good guy TO HER, who works for the country and fights against criminals risking his own life and all.....

Pehle se hi Kabir k vansh k khilaf itna kuch boldiya and vasnh ki harkate šŸ˜†


Exactly my point.


If we analyze Vansh's behaviour towards Riddhima keeping aside the dupatta scenes and sweetheart moments, it isnt really very "normal".


Like you said, pointing a gun, throwing a knife, not allowing her to even have a phone or contact her friends, etc. This is not how a normal husband behaves. Even when he wants to do something as simple as gifting her a ring, he does it with force.


If his behaviour is justified because he is a criminal, then Riddhima is right in her place to dislike him.


On the other hand, Kabir's overall behaviour is normal, friendly, nice. He may have hidden agenda but his outer demeanour is kind.


Now, in the upcoming episodes, we will get to know Vansh more and more, and maybe Kabir's negative side will come out too. Then Riddhima might start seeing things with a new perspective.


But right now, her opinions on Vansh is exactly how a woman would feel in her place. We are seeing Vansh as smitten viewers, we can hear his thoughts and monologues, that is why we know Vansh is not as bad as he makes himself to be. But Riddhima does not know what we know as viewers.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Joshrocks28

Yeah ridhimaa is not wrong but his teacher/coach has taught her wrong things ridhima has done all for sacrifice and to make her love win from all the battles she isn't a hypocrite but blindfolded in love she just can't see the real picture.

Yeah, totally, if they are showing her as a headstrong woman, a brave one they should at least let her question Kabir. Her infinite love for Kabir is what's making her do all this..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: MagpieArshu

Yess ur point is valid

We are thinking as viewer but the character situation

Are different

That's what wrong we do when we start comparing with our thoughts

....

In life I m talking about practicality when problems come u cant even think what to do


I agree


No where none is wrong every single character is justified ...

I watched episode yesterday only but I didn't get angry on her

When u r playing a game

Saam daam dand bhed u use

Either u do mistake or choose correct path that doesn't matter


Everything to change needs time and patience

You explained my thoughts even better than me.....

and it's right every character is true and convey reality..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: amritat

Very well-said.


Off late, a lot of people are becoming too critical of Riddhima, but the truth is...she has NO reason to not trust Kabir so far.


Except sending her for a dangerous mission (which Riddhima is justifying in her head as patriotism), Kabir has been nothing but nice with her. He even asked her to quit a few times, but she held on.


On the other hand, Vansh is not exactly being the "good husband" with her. He didnt molest her yet, but he is always after her.

She is not allowed to use phones, she cant have friends, she is not allowed to ask questions, she is not allowed to roam everywhere in her own house. Because of all these reasons, she is feeling suffocated with Vansh, even though, he is actually being a gentleman with her in many ways.


I am a Riansh shipper but my fandom is purely because Vansh is hot. šŸ˜† I am basically in love with Rrahul Sudhir's personality and Vansh's dark s*xiness.


But if we take off our Riansh spectacles for once, then we'd realize that any other untrained girl in Riddhima's place would dislike a man like Vansh. As a husband, the guy is scary.

We all like Rahul because he is very rugged,and hot😳 of course... but his character is mysterious, deathly calm, a big plotter and keeps restrictions on his family.

In real world we would not look for these qualities in a man..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: amritat


Exactly my point.


If we analyze Vansh's behaviour towards Riddhima keeping aside the dupatta scenes and sweetheart moments, it isnt really very "normal".


Like you said, pointing a gun, throwing a knife, not allowing her to even have a phone or contact her friends, etc. This is not how a normal husband behaves. Even when he wants to do something as simple as gifting her a ring, he does it with force.


If his behaviour is justified because he is a criminal, then Riddhima is right in her place to dislike him.


On the other hand, Kabir's overall behaviour is normal, friendly, nice. He may have hidden agenda but his outer demeanour is kind.


Now, in the upcoming episodes, we will get to know Vansh more and more, and maybe Kabir's negative side will come out too. Then Riddhima might start seeing things with a new perspective.


But right now, her opinions on Vansh is exactly how a woman would feel in her place. We are seeing Vansh as smitten viewers, we can hear his thoughts and monologues, that is why we know Vansh is not as bad as he makes himself to be. But Riddhima does not know what we know as viewers.

Exactly.

For once we should stop assuming and think according to the current track. I know Ridhu is acting half-madšŸ˜† but let's admit it any normal girl would do that. She just wants to complete her mission, escape from that jail and reunite with her lover as soon as possible. She is not a trained spy.... Mistakes would happen.

Aur abhi toh sirf 35 episodes hi hue hain.... So chillax and have patience...šŸ¤—

Eventually everything will unfold.

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