Swara Was Too much - Page 2

Originally posted by: Bana

I hope Maasi & Hakim fall for each other - I wld much rather watch their story now.

Well Nayan mataka between maasi and hakim would be interesting...I wish this would happen ...I am not very interested in Nia Swara Kabir and Rishi story line ...I mean yes it has more drama but I was into this show for no drama please ( pun intended ) 😆😆

Originally posted by: ShinyMishka

The Swara we saw in her intro wouldn't have been competition for Niya. She would've straight blown Niya out of the water. Here is a confident, mature, professional woman. She is assured in her decisions and feelings. She doesn't have weird hangups over commitment or codependency issues with her irritable parent (who you also have to strive to impress). She is sophisticated and also has a fun-loving, chill side. She genuinely likes Kabir and wants to be with him. He's not just convenient or a habit for her. What plus points has Niya got in the face of that, other than Kabir's obsession for her? Even then, Kabir respected her rejections. How many times has Niya refused him, but he didn't sour his attitude towards her. Now look at Niya. First time she's rejected and she starts spiralling and doing petty behaviors. Imagine if Kabir had done this kind of reaction, he would be labeled creepy and toxic, but it's alright for Niya because she is FL and her feelings are more important than everyone else's. To make Niya look good they have to degrade Swara into a possesive vamp that points fingers at the poor, innocent FL's character. Swara went too far, but from her point of view Niya does seem like a cunning girl. Niya never apologized to Swara, although she was the one she framed. She accepted Rishi's mentorship even when it became apparent she had sabotaged the competition (even if unintentionally). Now she is "in love" with Kabir knowing full well that he's in a relationship. Swara is aware of Niya and Kabir's history. It seems suspicious that after so long Niya suddenly discovers feelings overnight for Kabir when she's no longer the central object of his attentions. What would that look like but a girl playing with guys' feelings to get what she wants while disrespecting other women? Niya has disrespected Swara constantly, from the very beginning. She tried playing the "woman power" card to get Swara's contract, but when that didn't work, she immediately flipped out on her. She made insinuations about Swara being manipulative or a seductress that was trapping Kabir in her web, because god forbid the notion that Kabir could actually like her. Remember when Niya started questioning Guneet's character just because she rejected her dad? Niya needs to learn how to respect other women before playing victim. I agree that this is all very unnecessary. Swara has flat out told Kabir several times that he's free to walk away if he still has feelings for Niya. Now they have ruined Kabir-Swara as well as Kabir-Niya. Kabir and Swara won't work if she is the designated vamp, and if Kabir-Niya isn't end game then all of this nonsense was for nothing. Kabir is the one losing in every scenario. Kyun itni nafrat for Kabir? Pehle uska wardrobe downgrade kiya, career koi progression nahin kar raha hai, best friend khodiya, ab ik girlfriend tak nahin enjoy karne dete yeh log. Isse accha toh akele lockdown mein tha. 😒

You are right. I don't what happened pre-lock down but I saw Niya passing comments on Guneet's character. And she should know how it feels when someone passes a comment on your character. But I highly doubt the writers will take this to that direction. But as I said earlier just because Niya made mistakes doesn't mean Swara has the right to say those words. She didn't only call Niya characterless she also called Rishi characterless. Rishi the same guy she was dying to be a mentee of. And now he doesn't select her for the mentorship program so suddenly he is characterless.

Niya is not the FL, Guneet is the FL .

The show has degraded/changed so much that people are getting the impression that Niya is the FL.

I don’t think this show has typical ML and FL

The shows title implies 3 leads

Mere - Niya

Dad- Amber

Dulhan-Guneet

the problem is all 3 can’t be the lead at the same time

The show is competing against itself by showing all 3 leads with major story lines

As I mentioned in another topic show needs to focus on one story at a time.

I think they should have faded Niya in the background (ie bringing in Rishi at this point was a mistake). Have her and Anjali work on their company in the background ...keep her story light

the focus right now should have been on Amber and Guneet with the spotlight on Guneet. I say this because we haven’t had her perspective in the show till the radio gig. The radio gig was silly, seemed forced and just executed poorly. Rather they should have had Guneet have a heart to heart with a friend, counsellor or maybe have her writing it down. Simple, not over the top crap like the radio segment

After getting Guneets perspective, move onto Amber and have him thinking and analyzing what has gone down, and where some faults may lie.

Then move onto Guneet and Amber story

I never liked Swara in the first place. I knew her entry was to complicate things. I felt that when she rejected Nia-Kajal and took on We Net, right away I knew she was business minded which is fine but she is now being petty. Does she know how Nia ended up telling Kabir. She acts as if Nia was sly in telling him but she said it in the moment.

I feel Kabir had all that lovey dovey talk with Nia that he NEVER had before. Nia, who never thought of Kabir like that, would need time to understand her feelings. It's not an overnight thing. Kabir talked to Nia about it in the evening and then by the next day morning he was with Swara. I feel that was kind of wrong on his part. Some people know right away that they are in love and others it takes time.

When Swara said that Kajal and Nia were losers and that Nia is characterless, she crossed a line. She also continued to cross the line. RB chose Nia for a valid reason that she went forward head on and Kabir was mad at Swara about the email and didn't do the presentation. If we are talking about professionalism, that was not on the part of Karbir. Swara calling Kabir baby and being touchy and feely and then hugging him when he is in the middle of a conversation like he was her property is NOT professional conduct. Nia sending the email was also not professional.

Swara also had to start her business somewhere. She is saying that Kabir should have said that the mentoring project with We Net will not be completed with those losers!!! Nia always did good work. No one ever refuted that.

Swara was jealous right away when Nia and RB showed up in the office with Nia and when everyone realized that RB was Nia's tenant. She was accusing of Nia of hiding things and then lying about them. I also don't understand if Swara is an investor of We Net then how is she an employee there. Investors invest money and are not employees.

Now she is jealous that Nia was selected for the mentorship. I don't think RB made the decision based on the email alone. As he said...I didn't like Swara when she entered the show and I don't like her now...

The reply above 👏 take a bow.

Also correct me if I am wrong but everyone expected Nia to reciprocate Kabir's feelings when she never had that. Leaving aside lockdown and the sudden "we dated in past", it was always like Kabir liked/lover her and she never. Didn't Nia tell him again and again he's like a friend back then? She even informed about Randeep. I think when she expected Kabir to be by her during the whole Shree thing was more like hoping a friend will support her like her other female friend (forgot name) did. Of course that was wrong. I really liked Kabir how he was like a friend also a good boss who berated her when she couldn't complete USA project and how she keeps her dad above her work.

And now story is haywire and Nia Kabir somehow patched up during lockdown, ok cool. And this guy hooks up with Swara and at the same time gives Nia lovey dovey look and says if we were together...and Nia realized her feelings. Of course what happened next was unfortunate. But she had never let him hang in there, she was clear with her rejection just like she was clear with her feelings now. Kabir is like "you treat me like puppy and only after me as I dated" dude, you were after her. And you ran to other woman and ready to drop her if Nia said yes. It's your who's pathetic.

And the scene during swara nia catfight, he was like "swara stop" as she continued to s*ut shame nia. I think it's not the first time she insinuated something between Rishi and Nia and he probably didn't say anything before. And in front of Nia swara was clearly "sorry not sorry you are a sl*t huh" and does that walk which is supposed to be power walk to show who's the boss, and Kabir walks after his gf as he looks at nia, again. Before accusing nia this guy needs to be clear with his feelings. Last night also he brings that piano and plays it as they share look. After he tells her horrible things and his gf shames her in front of a hotel full of people.🤪

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

The reply above 👏 take a bow.

Also correct me if I am wrong but everyone expected Nia to reciprocate Kabir's feelings when she never had that. Leaving aside lockdown and the sudden "we dated in past", it was always like Kabir liked/lover her and she never. Didn't Nia tell him again and again he's like a friend back then? She even informed about Randeep. I think when she expected Kabir to be by her during the whole Shree thing was more like hoping a friend will support her like her other female friend (forgot name) did. Of course that was wrong. I really liked Kabir how he was like a friend also a good boss who berated her when she couldn't complete USA project and how she keeps her dad above her work.

And now story is haywire and Nia Kabir somehow patched up during lockdown, ok cool. And this guy hooks up with Swara and at the same time gives Nia lovey dovey look and says if we were together...and Nia realized her feelings. Of course what happened next was unfortunate. But she had never let him hang in there, she was clear with her rejection just like she was clear with her feelings now. Kabir is like "you treat me like puppy and only after me as I dated" dude, you were after her. And you ran to other woman and ready to drop her if Nia said yes. It's your who's pathetic.

And the scene during swara nia catfight, he was like "swara stop" as she continued to s*ut shame nia. I think it's not the first time she insinuated something between Rishi and Nia and he probably didn't say anything before. And in front of Nia swara was clearly "sorry not sorry you are a sl*t huh" and does that walk which is supposed to be power walk to show who's the boss, and Kabir walks after his gf as he looks at nia, again. Before accusing nia this guy needs to be clear with his feelings. Last night also he brings that piano and plays it as they share look. After he tells her horrible things and his gf shames her in front of a hotel full of people.🤪

+1 for kabir's part. I dont knw in which dimension he is living. Ek baju swara bahot acchi hain. I want to give our relationship a chance. Dusri baju Niya ko dekhke batti gul. Whats this behaviour kabir? Do din main do baar niya ko propose kiya aur next day morning all lovey dovey with swara. I thought he is the smartest among all of them. Yes he has all right to move on aftr Niya's endless rejections but itna jaldi kaise that is out of my understanding.

Mostly skipping the show these days as it is getting too cliched n boring.

Exactly. If now it's shown that Nia nd Kabir r together it would be completely unfair and nonsense. Swara doesn't deserves this as she had not once bt twice has told Kabir to move out of her life if he has doubts bt he told that he is giving this relationship a chance only after thinking well n will not back out. If makers wanna show Kabir n Nia why this whole unwanted drama? Do it straightway. Same was done wid Randeep. It was always shown that Nia had secret feelings 4 him even went ahead to show that she didn't wanted to b friends wid him as she is sacred they won't b able to remain just friends. Even when Randeep proposed her and left angrily she was worried abt him bt was hesitant bcoz of Amber. Tbh I used 2 assume that MDKD is serving something different but gradually they can't stay away 4m showing wahi poorni ghisi piti tracks. I always luved how the age old thinking that a girl n guy cannot b friends was broken. Bt guess was expecting 2 much from ITV. Makers had 2 ruin their friendship nd luv has 2 come in between.

I'm so fed up with Nia and her story, I mostly skip her parts now. One of the most annoying characters I've ever seen on a TV show. Keeps making mistakes, takes no responsibility for them and others end up accommodating her in the end anyway. In real life, everyone would have ditched her by now. Only Randeep made her bearable.

Originally posted by: ShinyMishka

The Swara we saw in her intro wouldn't have been competition for Niya. She would've straight blown Niya out of the water. Here is a confident, mature, professional woman. She is assured in her decisions and feelings. She doesn't have weird hangups over commitment or codependency issues with her irritable parent (who you also have to strive to impress). She is sophisticated and also has a fun-loving, chill side. She genuinely likes Kabir and wants to be with him. He's not just convenient or a habit for her. What plus points has Niya got in the face of that, other than Kabir's obsession for her? Even then, Kabir respected her rejections. How many times has Niya refused him, but he didn't sour his attitude towards her. Now look at Niya. First time she's rejected and she starts spiralling and doing petty behaviors. Imagine if Kabir had done this kind of reaction, he would be labeled creepy and toxic, but it's alright for Niya because she is FL and her feelings are more important than everyone else's. To make Niya look good they have to degrade Swara into a possesive vamp that points fingers at the poor, innocent FL's character. Swara went too far, but from her point of view Niya does seem like a cunning girl. Niya never apologized to Swara, although she was the one she framed. She accepted Rishi's mentorship even when it became apparent she had sabotaged the competition (even if unintentionally). Now she is "in love" with Kabir knowing full well that he's in a relationship. Swara is aware of Niya and Kabir's history. It seems suspicious that after so long Niya suddenly discovers feelings overnight for Kabir when she's no longer the central object of his attentions. What would that look like but a girl playing with guys' feelings to get what she wants while disrespecting other women? Niya has disrespected Swara constantly, from the very beginning. She tried playing the "woman power" card to get Swara's contract, but when that didn't work, she immediately flipped out on her. She made insinuations about Swara being manipulative or a seductress that was trapping Kabir in her web, because god forbid the notion that Kabir could actually like her. Remember when Niya started questioning Guneet's character just because she rejected her dad? Niya needs to learn how to respect other women before playing victim. I agree that this is all very unnecessary. Swara has flat out told Kabir several times that he's free to walk away if he still has feelings for Niya. Now they have ruined Kabir-Swara as well as Kabir-Niya. Kabir and Swara won't work if she is the designated vamp, and if Kabir-Niya isn't end game then all of this nonsense was for nothing. Kabir is the one losing in every scenario. Kyun itni nafrat for Kabir? Pehle uska wardrobe downgrade kiya, career koi progression nahin kar raha hai, best friend khodiya, ab ik girlfriend tak nahin enjoy karne dete yeh log. Isse accha toh akele lockdown mein tha. 😒

Well said, I absolutely agree!