Gappa Tappa corner thread 11 - general discussions - Page 80

Originally posted by: Dhanusg

Yes i agree about parenting part. Its a huge responsibility. Its hardest job on earth and everyone is capable but some either dont wanna do it or just very lazy.

I feel being born as a woman one should make use of that opportunity if you can conceive. Men just cant have that its fact though people talk abt equality. Instead of equality one should celebrate the uniqueness.

Though i feel our generation n forthcoming generations are very impatient , materialistic n lot of “ me ness “ n probably less willing to compromise.

Its whole lot of work to be a parent but each n everyone is capable its just that some are butt lazy.
you can hire help wt kids or daycare if its not possible to work part time . n let me tell u most Families dont hv parents or in laws to take care of kids.
You may spend a lot of money but its worth it. Nothing compares to a hug or having your child in your arms. Feeling is Beyond comparison n every individual deserves to have that Heavenly feeling.

I have so many frds who r so lost in their own vanity and me ness that they hv divorced opted not to hv kids , not cool at all. This is not modernness or being progressive.

Actually I would like add one point. For everyone it's not about me Ness. I don't know how to put this properly in words.. but ani kai hava season 2 episode has mentioned this point when saket doesn't want a child.

Currently World is dealing with many issues apart from pandemic we have so many environmental/climate change issues. In such situations where our survival is difficult idk how much it's fair to bring a child into this world when we have so much uncertainty around. Many young couples who are socially aware, mostly opting out for adoption some are happy with their pets. Yes the joy and feeling of having your own child is different but our generation is twisted. This may sound like another excuse to many but this is real with people who have environmental anxiety,many would not want to go with that constant stress of bringing up a child in such environment.

Originally posted by: HydroxyGroup

Actually I would like add one point. For everyone it's not about me Ness. I don't know how to put this properly in words.. but ani kai hava season 2 episode has mentioned this point when saket doesn't want a child.

Currently World is dealing with many issues apart from pandemic we have so many environmental/climate change issues. In such situations where our survival is difficult idk how much it's fair to bring a child into this world when we have so much uncertainty around. Many young couples who are socially aware, mostly opting out for adoption some are happy with their pets. Yes the joy and feeling of having your own child is different but our generation is twisted. This may sound like another excuse to many but this is real with people who have environmental anxiety,many would not want to go with that constant stress of bringing up a child in such environment.

I fully agree with your post that some couples these days have different views on parenting and that does not necessarily make them weird.

Originally posted by: kamalsh56

My guess is, rather than most Marathi actors having affairs, they could be "creating " rumors of affairs to promote a particular film (as is usual in most film industries). After the film completes it's life cycle they are linked to some one else when a new film is ready for release. And this is precisely why one gets the feeling that all actors are having a merry time (or are gay). There could be a few who would actually be having affairs but that might not be a universal statement.

As an example of media trying to sensationalize things, Pooja Sawant (yes, that same Pooja Sawant 😉) was rumored to have gone to Goa with Vaibhav Tatvawadi for holidays. She clarified that she and Vaibhav indeed went to Goa together but along with both their families as they are family friends. Media did not report that they went with their families. So even media is complicit in creating these rumors to sensationilse.

Originally posted by: kamalsh56

I fully agree with your post that some couples these days have different views on parenting and that does not necessarily make them weird.

This also. Priorities are different.

Originally posted by: HydroxyGroup

Actually I would like add one point. For everyone it's not about me Ness. I don't know how to put this properly in words.. but ani kai hava season 2 episode has mentioned this point when saket doesn't want a child.

Currently World is dealing with many issues apart from pandemic we have so many environmental/climate change issues. In such situations where our survival is difficult idk how much it's fair to bring a child into this world when we have so much uncertainty around. Many young couples who are socially aware, mostly opting out for adoption some are happy with their pets. Yes the joy and feeling of having your own child is different but our generation is twisted. This may sound like another excuse to many but this is real with people who have environmental anxiety,many would not want to go with that constant stress of bringing up a child in such environment.

I agree with your view , but i was stressing abt me ness . Dance until we die didnt pay attn to details in my post. I had specifically mentioned abt those who cant conceive or dont want to adopt is different story. Its abt women who i see Are quite capable of having it All but due to their me ness or rather selfish attitude n vanity dont want it. All animals are designed to procreate so as to continue chain of life. Whether you choose to do that or not is your choice i agree depending on circumstances but not hving a child bcos of yur vanity or want to travel doesnt Really fly.

Every era had their own difficulties n if our parents had decided not to bring us into this world we would have missed living on this beautiful earth and having good and bad experieNces. No one had perfect life or will have perfect life.
What you make of it really matters.

I was emphasizing about biggest joys of life that every individual deserves to experience that unconditional love of your child. You become a better person, more sacrificing , less robotic / machine like More loving trust me.

I love muktabarve and i want her to have this beautiful joy Wthr its biological or adopted Or surrogacy. Motherhood is the best feeling in the world and universal.
She seems so sorted n yes like @ilu mentioned sakshi tanwar did awesome by adopting. Ex susmita sen. Would you call all these single Celeb people Crazy no it just adds more meaning / purpose to your life.

Who knows our future citizens will one day invent/ discover things that will make earth more sustainable,

Europe has gone thru low birth rate n employers r doin everything for women to have kids.future seems to be annihilating for mankind.

Originally posted by: Dhanusg

I agree with your view , but i was stressing abt me ness . Dance until we die didnt pay attn to details in my post. I had specifically mentioned abt those who cant conceive or dont want to adopt is different story. Its abt women who i see Are quite capable of having it All but due to their me ness or rather selfish attitude n vanity dont want it. All animals are designed to procreate so as to continue chain of life. Whether you choose to do that or not is your choice i agree depending on circumstances but not hving a child bcos of yur vanity or want to travel doesnt Really fly.

Every era had their own difficulties n if our parents had decided not to bring us into this world we would have missed living on this beautiful earth and having good and bad experieNces. No one had perfect life or will have perfect life.
What you make of it really matters.

I was emphasizing about biggest joys of life that every individual deserves to experience that unconditional love of your child. You become a better person, more sacrificing , less robotic / machine like More loving trust me.

I love muktabarve and i want her to have this beautiful joy Wthr its biological or adopted Or surrogacy. Motherhood is the best feeling in the world and universal.
She seems so sorted n yes like @ilu mentioned sakshi tanwar did awesome by adopting. Ex susmita sen. Would you call all these single Celeb people Crazy no it just adds more meaning / purpose to your life.

Who knows our future citizens will one day invent/ discover things that will make earth more sustainable,

Europe has gone thru low birth rate n employers r doin everything for women to have kids.future seems to be annihilating for mankind.

Again, why are we judging people for not wanting children? Why to call them vain or selfish?

It is their life.

Humans being are born to procreate? That's just negating people who are infertile or impotent. That makes their birth without purpose?

Whether it's Sushmita or Jennifer Aniston or Tabu, I could care less if they're mothers or not, they are wonderful women doing great work in their field which is already ageist and misogynistic.

I love their work irrespective of their personal choices in life.

Everyone's idea of happiness or dream is different. That doesn't make you or me the judge right?

To quote Meg from Little Women,

. “Just because my dreams are different than yours, it doesn't mean they're unimportant.”

Originally posted by: DanceUntilWeDie

Again, why are we judging people for not wanting children? Why to call them vain or selfish?

It is their life.

Humans being are born to procreate? That's just negating people who are infertile or impotent. That makes their birth without purpose?

Whether it's Sushmita or Jennifer Aniston or Tabu, I could care less if they're mothers or not, they are wonderful women doing great work in their field which is already ageist and misogynistic.

I love their work irrespective of their personal choices in life.

Everyone's idea of happiness or dream is different. That doesn't make you or me the judge right?

To quote Meg from Little Women,

. “Just because my dreams are different than yours, it doesn't mean they're unimportant.”

I think you are just missing the point. Maybe your interprEtation is different from i want to suggest in my post. Again u are talking abt people who cant conceive i just said that its a different story . Its about people who can n still choose not to based on their vanity Or just want to party. Trust me there are many. Its not negating people for not conceiving cos its not in their hands. We have to make efforts towards bringing future generation into this world despite all negativity n badness it has to offer.

i am so excited when i see these kids doing well N cant wait to see what they have to offer to this world .

when i see these kids for well child visits In my clinic and their thoughts And talk of changing the world you get so hopeful and happy . We want more of scientists artists entertainers philosophers economist mathematicians environmentalist to comeintonthis world. Robbing that chance to come in to this world is not right. Biggest joys of life are in simplest things which is unfortunately forgotten by us all is my point.

But if people stop procreating due to their selfish nature The future sure is bleak.

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Shocking news...Actress mayuri deshmukh (khulta kali khulena, teesre baadshah hum chi heroine)..Her husband committed suicide today.

Don't know the reason. Both were married in 2016.

Kaay challay yaar....

Originally posted by: Dhanusg

I think you are just missing the point. Maybe your interprEtation is different from i want to suggest in my post. Again u are talking abt people who cant conceive i just said that its a different story . Its about people who can n still choose not to based on their vanity Or just want to party. Trust me there are many. Its not negating people for not conceiving cos its not in their hands. We have to make efforts towards bringing future generation into this world despite all negativity n badness it has to offer.

i am so excited when i see these kids doing well N cant wait to see what they have to offer to this world .

when i see these kids for well child visits In my clinic and their thoughts And talk of changing the world you get so hopeful and happy . We want more of scientists artists entertainers philosophers economist mathematicians environmentalist to comeintonthis world. Robbing that chance to come in to this world is not right. Biggest joys of life are in simplest things which is unfortunately forgotten by us all is my point.

But if people stop procreating due to their selfish nature The future sure is bleak.

@who said people should stop procreating? I didn't.

@underlined we all want a better world. I am surely making an effort and I think most people are, on some level. Even a small act of kindness takes you ahead in life sometimes. Forget professionally, even on a human level, it's a big thing.

So it won't matter if you're not the best in your field, as long as you're a good person who's healthy, happy and financially in a good place.

Also, aren't we putting way too much pressure on young kids to change a world they didn't even contribute in ruining? Think.

Someone mentioned people adopting pets, which I find beautiful. I'd love to read more on these, dog parents as well cat parents. Or any other pet. Our Gappa Tappa forum has any cat parents?