Dilruba (HUM) Hania, Mohib, Shehroz, Syed, Asad, Nabeel - Page 19

Originally posted by: Sammi266

I agree with you to a large extent. I do find it distasteful how she used them for gifts but I also think they were absolute fools. If I remember correctly, in her mind she hasn't done anything wrong because she never claimed to love them or promised them anything. She always diverted conversations that started to become too intense, which none of the guys ever questioned. She isn't innocent by any means, because when she saw them getting serious, she probably should have cut them off.

I kind of find her behaviour with Razi more problematic, ignoring the fall-out that will happen if/when he finds out about Sabih. For better or for worse, they're married to each other now, and she can't treat him the same way she treats her boyfriends and give him the same coy non-answers.

well to be realistic thats how men are you know, jahan larki ne flirt kiya wahin phisal gaye

Originally posted by: Sammi266

I agree with you to a large extent. I do find it distasteful how she used them for gifts but I also think they were absolute fools. If I remember correctly, in her mind she hasn't done anything wrong because she never claimed to love them or promised them anything. She always diverted conversations that started to become too intense, which none of the guys ever questioned. She isn't innocent by any means, because when she saw them getting serious, she probably should have cut them off.

I kind of find her behaviour with Razi more problematic, ignoring the fall-out that will happen if/when he finds out about Sabih. For better or for worse, they're married to each other now, and she can't treat him the same way she treats her boyfriends and give him the same coy non-answers.

I agree that Both these boys were fools But dont you think that these boys have one extra point than sanam. As they were sincere with her. Whatever they were saying or claiming at least they were loyal to her but she was just playing with there feelings to get expensive gifts.

Now as boys got their due retribution of their fool deeds now its time for sanam to payback.

heard this drama is based on a real story where a photographer ruins her married life

Originally posted by: _NINA_

I agree that Both these boys were fools But dont you think that these boys have one extra point than sanam. As they were sincere with her. Whatever they were saying or claiming at least they were loyal to her but she was just playing with there feelings to get expensive gifts.

Now as boys got their due retribution of their fool deeds now its time for sanam to payback.

why though?

why is anyone due for any retribution for anything? the men were in their wishful thinking make believe world where they didn't understand the cues and signs that "she's not that into you".. if they decide to be heartbroken and ruin their lives then its their fault...

the men were after her and she just did some stringing along (for some personal benefit) which may be unethical but men in shows have done way way way worse and no one bats an eye.. both men thought just because she flirted a little they were entitled to marry her..

even if she was dating them exclusively, she's not obligated to marry them...

Sanam hasn't done anything to deserve a payback .. she didn't even want to marry this guy, her family forced when she wasn't ready to...

Originally posted by: -FreeLancer-

The whole concept of "ladki ki naa main bhi haan hai" is what was going on in the head of the boys/ men who were/ are behind her. Even if Sanam started showing evident non-interest or diverted the topic..they just brushed it aside. Though with Sabih I felt like she let it go a bit too far..:X

yeah the men were in their make believe world.. a lot of times she was brushing them aside but they were after her..imagine the gender reversal tho! the story will be very different

Originally posted by: Doodh_Ki_Dhuli

why though?

why is anyone due for any retribution for anything? the men were in their wishful thinking make believe world where they didn't understand the cues and signs that "she's not that into you".. if they decide to be heartbroken and ruin their lives then its their fault...

the men were after her and she just did some stringing along (for some personal benefit) which may be unethical but men in shows have done way way way worse and no one bats an eye.. both men thought just because she flirted a little they were entitled to marry her.

even if she was dating them exclusively, she's not obligated to marry them...

Sanam hasn't done anything to deserve a payback .. she didn't even want to marry this guy, her family forced when she wasn't ready to...

The problem is she never said or gave such sign that she is not interested in them. Why she gave wrong indications when she is not into them. Why don't she just backed off. Just forget those boys, she is not even loyal and real with own her husband.

Don't you think that the general mass think like that.

In my pov that would be cheating if anyone dates someone and promise her/him to spend their whole life togather and than back off.

I totally respect your pov but according to my prospective sanam is also wrong and she will face the consequences of her deeds.

WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH HUM TV. THE CONSTANT KUCH RANG HOTAY HAIN KHAAS WAS SO ANNOYING! DID THE MASTER PAINT COMPANY THINK PEOPLE WILL RUN OUT TO BUY IT AFTER BEING ANNOYED AS HELL!!!!!!

We've criticised all the other guys here, but I think Razi is kind of a ridiculous character too.

He comes from England and sees this girl one time and is head over heels in love with her and puts up with her awful family and makes his poor mother have to be nice to them. Then suddenly changes his mind and completely forgets her and now is so madly in love with Sanam all of a sudden.

Poor Erum, I hope it works out with her and her fiance, and she doesn't have to marry Sabih, although I hope with Razi and Sanam's wedding imploding soon, the relationship between the families will be bad enough that their father forgets about that.

The one good thing about this drama is that it moves fast. I think the Sanam/Razi romance is headed to it's end. I assume that means Jibran is showing up soon.

Originally posted by: -shabz-

WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH HUM TV. THE CONSTANT KUCH RANG HOTAY HAIN KHAAS WAS SO ANNOYING! DID THE MASTER PAINT COMPANY THINK PEOPLE WILL RUN OUT TO BUY IT AFTER BEING ANNOYED AS HELL!!!!!!

I originally stopped watching online because of that!!!

But since then they've fixed it on the episode on their youtube channel.

Shehroz Sabzwari's character's mum annoys me so much.. why do these male characters feel so entitled.. every drama they show these male characters and their fam rejecting prospective girls right left and centre..

but they are entitled to marry the first girl they are attracted to.. UGH i hate patriarchy specially in desi society so much...